To my Husband….

Your 40th Birthday Gift

Presentation

I tried to think of several gifts to buy you….

But, once again I got stumped.

Here’s some of the brainstorming I did….

Watch: Already got you one for a wedding gift Clothes: You feel too fat to wear them Weekend away: It’s been done in the past already Lowes/Home Depot cards: I know you could use them, but kind of blah for a 40th b-day gift.

I started to get frustrated because when it comes to you….

I want it to be perfect.

So, I tried not to think about it…hoping the idea would come to me.

It did.And life was good.

I was certain about it…feeling confident.

But, then I had doubts.

So, I slept on it….

For several nights.

Between the doubt and concern…I just couldn’t make up my mind.

So…..I began to decision making process.

I began by writing down the pros and cons….

Pros and Cons

Pros Cons

On second thought…I don’t want to give it away, so I’ll hold off until later

for that.

Next, in order for me to make a decision, I prayed to God….for days.

I then went to the bible for answers….

Finally, I made the decision.

So, now I have a very special gift to give to you and I hope you truly love it.

I hope you know how much I love you and how much I appreciate you

You mean the world to me and I KNOW I am blessed to have you.

I want you to have a very special birthday and remember it always.

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http://www.paradisus.com/

May 18-May26th 2013In celebration for my husband’s 40th birthday

&our 1 year anniversary

Brace yourself for what your about to view may blow your mind.

Beautiful doesn’t describe this place does it? Now you see why it was hard for me to pass this opportunity up.

My decision making processPROS & CONS

PROS• Quality time together• You only have to use 5 vacation days• Our 1 year anniversary• Your big 40• Rejuvination and relaxation from everything• Good sex• We loved Mexico• More affordable than our honeymoon• Good opportunity before possible family• Good opportunity before our focus on the house

CONS• Save our money towards house & other

important things

As you can see, the pros out weighed the cons.

• What does God say about making decisions?Turn to page 403 (see highlighted)Turn to page 622 (see highlighted)Turn to page 680 (see highlighted)Turn to page 724 (see highlighted)

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I wish I could promise you I won’t ask to do anything for the rest of the year, but I don’t want to break my promise to you. What I can promise is to compromise and

make the best logical decisions based off our finances and our goals.

Baby, I love you so much. I wanted to find a priceless gift; something that can help bring us closer . I feel I made the best possible decision for us and I hope we have the time of our lives! I appreciate everything you do. I am blessed beyond words to have you as my husband. I couldn’t think of a better gift to express that. I wish you a very

happy birthday and never forget your wife adores and loves you. I hope you enjoy tonight and looking forward to an amazing birthday/anniversary gift in May. I love you!