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The nature of bondage is suchthat a person in bondage isunaware of it. He is oblivi-ous of how and when he got
into it.A person who finds himself inshackles finds it difficult to abandonthoughts of being in bondage.
He is afraid to discard it for he fearslosing his own identity and the self.He, therefore, finds bondage conven-ient and safe. Such a person is unableto attain freedom and remains deprivedof the bliss to which he is entitled tosince birth.
Bondage is a mental disposition andbaggage that we carry throughout ourlives because of our deep identificationwith the external world.We can spendour entire life in it. Bondage happenswhen we intimately identify ourselveswith the body-mind complexand its attributes, with whichwe grow up. Our mind is aninstrument of experiencingthe world ‘out there’.However, it’s ableto process
and present only a fractional reality andnot the whole.It also creates certain at-tributes that are otherwise absent in theexternal reality;for instance,colours andsounds are qualities created by the mindand are not out there in the externalworld.There exists only pressure wavesand electromagnetic spectrum and thisis what creates and projects the worldthat we perceive.
The external reality comprises nu-merous mental constructs and we in-tensely identify with them along withpleasure and pain and carry them as bag-gage throughout our lives.
As bondage is a state, so is freedom.Our efforts are always towards realisingthis freedom.To attain liberation,a shiftof understanding is required that comesthrough right knowledge of whatbondage is.To know light, one should
know darkness; toknow liberty, one
should knowslavery. A per-son who un-
derstands thesewell, invariably
understands light andliberty, too.
Right knowledge of what consti-tutes bondage is vital and once bondageis truly known, it just drops and free-dom emerges.Nature of bondage is thatit simply drops once its compositionaltruth is known and understood.
Unsatiated desires, limiting beliefsand traits of jealousy, hate, prejudices,biases,and possessiveness are merely cre-ated by the mind and are absent in phys-ical reality.They result from incompleteprocessing of reality by a mind that proj-ects only partial truths.These attributesare then vented out through a regulardisplay of abnormal behaviours by trans-forming into a compulsive need to pre-vail, control and subjugate others ormanifests as an extreme display of pos-sessiveness in relationships, an intenseneed to acquire,achieve and own moreand more.We remain ignorant of thefact that they are created by our mindand have little or no significance.
With the right understanding of themind, its functions and limitations, wegain awareness of its true nature.Thisenables us to precisely know whatbondage is;how it arose and helps us tolet go the limiting attributes of the mind.While doing so, we are being good toourselves more than to others.As we letgo,we grant freedom to none but our-selves and create an inner space for joyand bliss.This is true liberation. ■
T H E S P E A K I N G T R E EN E W D E L H I , M A R C H 3 0 , 2 0 1 4
I’m a reflection of the community— Tupac Shakur
Since Swami Kriyananda’s pass-ing away in April 2013, you andDevi are functioning as spiritualdirectors of Ananda worldwide.What kind of challenges do youface in fulfilling the mission? ■ Jyotish: I do see us as taking the workforward.There is one significant differ-ence — Swami Kriyananda was ab-solutely unique in that he was a directdisciple of Yogananda and he was by andlarge a generation older than those ofus who came and helped establish Anan-da. He was looked upon as a spiritualfather by most of us. Devi and I grewup with a larger group of his spiritualchildren;we are probably looked uponby our peers more as siblings rather thanas parents.
It is almost as if when Swami start-ed, he had to do it alone, whereas wehave a larger group of people — lead-ers in different communities around theworld, maybe 70-100 people directlytrained by Swamiji. So we don’t carrythe same responsibility of having to doall of this on our own.We are able todelegate work to many more peoplesince the community has grown.■ Devi:Also,Swamiji would say whensomeone asked Yogananda, is there ablueprint for communities to follow,hereplied that the blueprint is in the ether— at a subtle level — and people haveto tune into it.When Swamiji met Yo-gananda in his youth,he was very mo-tivated and what Swamiji did was todraw the blueprint out of the ether.Andwe worked under him as many othersdid for 25-30 years and so we know histhinking in so many different areas.Thelast year before he passed away,he tookup a lot of initiatives.I don’t want to saywe are running the old pattern as it willnever be like that — the community inPune and the one in Assisi, Italy, are alldifferent in some ways.We have one fullcommunity in India at Pune and cen-tres in Gurgaon, Delhi, Noida, Banga-lore and Chennai. More are expectedin Kolkata and other places.
Apart from Ananda Village in Cal-ifornia near Nevada City, we havecommunities at Seattle,Washington,and Portland, Oregon. The ashram at Los Angeles will soon evolve intoa community.
Isn’t LA the headquarters of theSelf-realisation Fellowship (SRF)
established by Yogananda? Doyou work in sync with them?■ Jyotish: We are separate but wouldlike to have more cooperation with themas we propagate the same teachings.■ Devi:Swami Kriyananda was a mem-ber of SRF but he was a creative indi-vidual and it was hard for us to keep upwith him even when he was 70 or 80years old.
He became a thorn in their side;you see they were more classical in theirapproach, whereas Swamiji was moreadaptive and inclusive.We have lot ofonline members, people who are resi-dent in various communities and aroundone thousand residents in various com-munities.Those who draw from ourteachings and participate in our satsangsnumber perhaps 10,000.And we haveonline classes and satsangs.
As a spiritual team and long-time couple, do you find itdifficult to share this kind of responsibility?■ Jyotish: Our work overlaps a greatdeal but it is very organic;we teach to-gether, work together (and of courselive together). I probably do a lot moreorganising and Devi does more in termsof working individually with peopleand counselling them but we do both.
Devi, you hold retreats forwomen. How are those differentfrom other retreats? ■ Devi:We do the usual chanting,med-itating and learning of postures,but wealso thought why not focus on women’sissues such as family,children,marriageand career. However, the feedback wegot was that more than focusing on
women’s issues they just enjoyed beingwith other women; they felt so com-fortable. I think women enjoy sharinga lot more than men do. Men like toask questions and then they’re done.Women like to talk.Women feel morecomfortable admitting mistakes andseeking solutions.Women are more in-trospective. Men often find it difficultto look at problematic issues.
We have one son and I too had tobalance raising a son and doing my workin the community. I think women areable to process things at a different lev-el.When men get together,they say,‘Hi,how are you?’And that’s it! With women,it is different.
What does marriage mean to thetwo of you? You are a couple, youhave a son, and you are now
Nayaswamis, celibate, still sharinga home, living in the community.Was progression difficult?■ Jyotish: For some individuals it iseasier to make the transition to celi-bate life; for others, it is more difficult.So, in the Nayaswami order, we havea branch called Tyagis who are stillmarried, living a conventional familylife but living in a deeply spiritual way.They see that what they do is in serv-ice of God; that they consciously de-fine their life together as being livedfor a higher purpose, raising their chil-dren,not indoctrinating them but gen-tly guiding them on the spiritual path.A Nayaswami is done with family re-sponsibility — but if you have a childthat needs caring for, then you are notyet ready to be a Nayaswami.■ Devi:We always had a fulfilling mar-riage but when we became Nayaswamis,we told ourselves we were taking a spir-itual step and the decision has led to ourexpressing a higher spiritual love.Searchfor God and service to others is part ofthat and all the little aspects of daily lifethat tend to irritate, don’t affect us anymore — they’re not important!
So, you find your souls workingtogether in a very selfless and harmo-nious way. Swamiji created a beauti-ful wedding ceremony and the verylast lines I find so poetic and beauti-ful:“And through our perfect love, findthe perfect love of God.”
Obviously,the sexual aspect is some-thing you decide to give up as a natu-ral progression.We became Nayaswamisin 2009 so we were not young — I was63 and Jyotish was 66. I was reading abook about Anandamayi Ma. She wassuch a radiant being. She married at ayoung age, but her husband was spiri-tual and they never had physical rela-tions throughout their marriage.Whensomeone asked her why did she and herhusband not enjoy even the allowedpleasures of married life, she replied,“Ihave always done everything necessaryfor human beings — eating, sleeping,washing and I suppose that aspect of lifejust isn’t necessary.” Even Yogananda’sparents would come together only oncea year to conceive a child.■ Jyotish: People have to respect theirown limitations and then grow organ-ically to the point where they can feelit in their heart in taking a step. Some-times couples come to us and we say,“Wait a bit, you are kind of young!” ■
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Nayaswamis JYOTISH and DEVI NOVAK, spiritual directors of Ananda worldwide, converse with NARAYANI GANESH at Ananda Village, California, on living an organic life in a community
Troops & WeaponsA conqueror headquartered in
Nasruddin’s city was looking forways to put an end to a rebellion that
had started in one of the nearbytowns he ruled.The people have risen
against the governor, one of hisofficials explained.“They say theyhave had enough of his oppressiverule.”“We should send troops andweapons to quell disorder,” added a
military general. Nasruddin, who wasin court at the time, remarked to theconqueror,“Actually, all of that is notnecessary. In fact, I know a way you
can end the revolt with just onespecial weapon.”“What?” asked the
conqueror with great curiosity.Nasruddin replied,“One person whowill replace the oppressive governor.”
Black Or GreyOne day, a barber was trimming themayor’s beard at the village palace.
After he finished, he remarked,“Yourbeard is starting to turn grey.”
The mayor, enraged to hear this,ordered that the barber be put in jail
for one year. He then turned to acourt attendant and asked,“Do you
see any grey in my beard?”“Almost none at all,” the manreplied.“What do you mean
‘almost’,” the mayor yelled.“Guards,take this man to jail — and keephim there for two years!” He thenturned to another attendant and
asked the same question.“Sir, yourbeard is exquisite, and is completelyblack,” the man replied.“You liar!”the mayor shouted.“Guards — givethis man 10 lashes on the back, and
put him in jail for three years.”Finally, he turned to Nasruddin and
said,“Mullah, what colour is mybeard?”“Your Excellency,”
Nasruddin replied,“I’m colour blind,and cannot answer that question.”
Fallen OffOne day, as Nasruddin rode hisdonkey, he spotted a ripe peach
hanging over the wall of someone’sorchard. He positioned his donkey
underneath it, stood up and reachedfor the peach with his other hand.Ashe did this, however, a noise startledhis donkey and caused it to run off,leaving Nasruddin hanging from thetree. Seconds later, the guard spotted
Nasruddin and yelled,“Thief!”“What are you talking about?” said
Nasruddin.“I am not stealing.Can’t you tell by the way I’m hanging here that I have simply
fallen off my donkey?”— rodneyohebsion.com
MULLAH NASRUDDIN
A Blissful Partnership
Tune IntoYour Breath
Awareness of our breath re-turns us to our body and tothe rhythms of the universe.
Our typical state of affairs is to belost in our thoughts — ruminatingabout plans for the future,replayingpast events, and judging the valueand worthiness of ourselves andothers. We chase after or seek topossess people or things that wehave judged to be pleasant and wetry to stay away from or shed thatwhich we have judged to be un-pleasant. We spend so much timeplaying the tapes and movies aboutwho we are, what we want, andhow we will acquire things, peopleor status that we become accus-tomed to our mind’s ability to oc-cupy and entertain us....
As we tune into our breathing,the overwhelming nature of our dif-ferent stories lessen because we seethe narratives for what they are —stories.We sense that we have moreto us than the trauma that we havesuffered, the negative ideas we haveabout ourselves, the difficult eventsthat are weighing in on us, the fearswe have about the future, and thecritical things that people have saidto us.All of these elements are nolonger solid truths...but are passingwaves of thoughts. ■
— Andrew Bein,The Zen Of Helping
Dropping excess baggage helps in finding bliss, writes DHRUVA BHARGAVA
I Want To Break Free
Simple Living, High Thinking■ When Swami Kriyananda (Donald Walters),a direct dis-ciple of Paramhansa Yogananda broke away from the Self-realisation Fellowship established by his guru to propagatehis teachings, it was for a noble mission: to fulfil the yogi’svision of creating small communities of brotherhood,prac-tising the philosophy of a hallowed lineage of masters be-ginning from Mahavtar Babaji,his disciple Lahiri Mahasayaand his chela,Yogananda.And Jesus Christ.Ananda Village
was born in 1969, built up with devotion and love by aband of loyal followers at the foothills of the Sierra Neva-da mountains near Nevada City,California.In 2009,Swami-ji created a new order, the Nayaswamis, saying it would be“A new model based on positive aspects of renunciation— rather than the traditional world-negating approach. Itis intended for people from all walks of life,married or sin-gle, who are committed to finding God, and is open topeople of every religious affiliation.”
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DEVI AND JYOTISH NOVAK IN THE KITCHEN AT THEIR HOME IN ANANDA VILLAGE, CALIFORNIA
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