The Relationship Continuum - Don't throw away your 30+ love
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THE Relationship CONTINUUM
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What is love?
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Do you ever question your love for someone if your chemistry or intensity is not what you have previously experienced?
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Compare new or potential partners to past relationships?
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Is it right to evaluate your past relationships and feelings against new ones?
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Is love at 30+ different?
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Relationship/love continuum
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My theory
30 -39*
40+16 -29
*Best time to choose a life
partner
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You change.
life
experiences
obligations
familywork
expectations
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16 – 25 years
26 – 29 years
30 – 39 years
40+years
Relationship/Love Continuum Framework
Know what you don’t want
Primary instincts Know what you do want
Change in mindset and approach to life
& relationships
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16 – 25 years
Relationship/Love Continuum Framework
Focus on
physical
do you stimulate
me?• Exploration• Sexuality• Curiosity• Visceral
• In the moment• Experiencing
firsts
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16 – 25 years
26 – 29 years
Focus on
physical
do you stimulate
me?
Focus on individua
l
What can you do for
me?
Relationship/Love Continuum Framework
• Exploration• Sexuality• Curiosity• Visceral
• In the moment• Experiencing
firsts
• Self-exploration
• Evaluation• Expectations• Intrigue• Common
interests
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16 – 25 years
26 – 29 years
30 – 39 years
40+years
Relationship/Love Continuum Framework
Focus on the couple
Are we good
together?
• Pragmatic• Respect
• Partnership• Day to day
living• Common goals• Shared beliefs
and values• Long-term compatibility
Focus on
physical
do you stimulate
me?
Focus on individua
l
What can you do for
me?• Exploration• Sexuality• Curiosity• Visceral
• In the moment• Experiencing
firsts
• Self-exploration
• Evaluation• Expectations• Intrigue• Common
interests
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Summary• Be smart – don’t throw away your 30+ love thinking it
should be and feel the same as your first love or your 16-29 year old relationships
• Love at 30+ is a different love because● You are different● You have different expectations● You are looking for something long-term
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The End
Hopefully the beginning to a
better love mindset