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HAPPIEST LIMITED

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BRIAN JOHNSON – PHILOSOPHERS NOTES

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STEPHEN KARPMAN

“DREADED DRAMA TRIANGLE”

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DAMSEL IN DISTRESS

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COMTEMPORARY DRAMA TRIANGLE

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“Happily ever after” goes wrong

Drama persists

It’s toxic

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PROBLEM

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ANTIDOTE

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*The Empowerment Dynamic

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TED*

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MY LEARNINGS

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VIKTOR FRANKL

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing;

the last of the human freedoms —

to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.”

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CONTRAST

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SLIDE WITH DONNA’S POINTS

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SEE / EXPE

RIENCE

EVERYONE A

S A C

REATOR

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WHAT

IS M

Y

CONTRIB

UTION?

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WHAT

IS T

HE RIS

K FOR YO

U TO

LET

GO OF

THE N

EED TO

RESCUE?

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MANTRAS (GROWTH MINDSET)

What is the challenger causing me to learn?

What do I need to next to grow and develop

What do I need to do next to choose my response?

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CHOOSE CHOIC

E

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KABOOM!

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