The Dance of Power…Frustrating the DRAMA!

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The Dance of Power… Frustrating the DRAMA! Presented by: Josh Smith, LMSW, BCD Co-Owner of The DBT Center of Michigan Owner of The DBT Center of Western Kentucky [email protected]

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The Dance of Power…Frustrating the DRAMA!. Presented by: Josh Smith, LMSW, BCD Co-Owner of The DBT Center of Michigan Owner of The DBT Center of Western Kentucky [email protected]. Normal Personality vs. Disordered Personality. Primary Characteristics of Normal Personality - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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The Dance of Power…Frustrating the DRAMA!

Presented by:Josh Smith, LMSW, BCD

Co-Owner of The DBT Center of MichiganOwner of The DBT Center of Western

[email protected]

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Normal Personality vs. Disordered Personality

Primary Characteristics of Normal Personality

Problem solving process:1)Problem is defined “operationally” (all the things

that lead to this happening)2)Possible solutions are thought about3)Solution(s) selected• Implement solution•Results are evaluated•Adjustments are made

Process called: Problem SolvingGoal of process: Create solutions and adaptations

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Normal Personality vs. Disordered Personality

Primary Characteristics of Disordered Personality

Problem Solving Process1)Problem is defined “personally”2)Agreement and disagreement is generated3)Responses and behaviors are justified 4)Problem remains unaddressed, enhanced or multiple problems occur

5)Identity is validated and gains additional agreement

Process called: DRAMAGoals of process: Validate position (identity)

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Rescuer

Persecutor

Victim

The Drama Triangle

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Primary Traits of DRAMA

A)Overt (what they want others see) purpose:– To show you that my behaviors are

justifiable, reasonable and understandable

B) Covert (what I want to see in myself) purpose:– To validate or verify my own

position/identity rather than reach a workable outcome

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Primary Traits of DRAMA, cont.

C) We enter into the drama triangle through one of the positions and will “switch” to get back to or end up in our “home” (covert) position

D) This creates stimulation in order to substantiate their identity (existential position)

E) This produces new problems or to intensify current problems

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Primary Traits of DRAMA, cont.

F) To resist being exposed to intervention or exposed to change

G) Designed to propagate itself and to get others to participate in the DRAMA

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The severity of a personality disorder is identified by the intensity of the

DRAMA3 degrees of drama

1st degree: Socially acceptable– Traits

2nd degree: Socially unacceptable– Breaks social rules– Hides, sneaks, denies or rationalizes– No self-observational capacity

3rd degree: Life-Threatening– Breaks survival rules

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Cluster B Personality Disorders

“The Immature Type”

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Antisocial Personality Disorder

• Published in DSM-II (replaced “psychopath”)• 1% -3% of general population• 3% - 30% of clinical population (obviously

higher in forensic settings)• Violates agreements which violates society• Do not keep commitments/agreements• Functional trait: EXPLOITATION**A pervasive pattern of disregard for and

violation of the rights of others**

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More stats on APD•94% have a history of trouble with employment and jobs•85% have history of some violence•72% have multiple moving violations•67% have severe marital problems•47% have a significant arrest record

Psychotherapy outcomes: Only helps when they are able to be made to feel guilty

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Drama Pattern of APD• Drama entry point: RESCUER or VICTIM

• Drama switch: RESCUER to PERSECUTOR VICTIM to PERSECUTOR

• Home position: PERSECUTORExample: “I’m smart. I didn’t sign the bottom line. He should of known better. He made the mistake and he got what he deserved.”

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The Drama Triangle

Rescuer

Persecutor

Victim

Deception of trustworthiness (RESCUER) or neediness (VICTIM)

Opens the door for exploitation and take advantage of (PERSECUTOR)

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Borderline Personality Disorder

• .4% - 5.5% of general population• 10% of outpatient clients• 20% of inpatient clients• 9 – 11% will die by completed suicide• A disorder of the emotion regulation

system• Functional trait: INTENSE

changeability/instability in moods***A pervasive pattern of instability of mood, affect, impulsivity, interpersonal

relationships and self-image***

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Drama pattern of BPD

•Drama entry point: VICTIM or RESCUER

•Drama switch: VICTIM to PERSECUTOR RESCUER to PERSECUTOR

•Home position: VICTIMEx: “I hurt myself because you didn’t return my phone call.”

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The Drama Triangle

Rescuer

Persecutor

Victim

Feeling attacked and victimized of self (VICTIM) or others (RESCUER)

Have the right to get even with or back at (PERSECUTOR)

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Histrionic Personality Disorder

• Most common Cluster B disorder• 1.6% - 3.9% of general population• 10% - 15% of clinical population• No long-term studies• Functional trait: EXPRESSIVENESS

***A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking”

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Drama Pattern of HPD

•Drama entry point: VICTIM

•Drama switch: VICTIM to PERSECUTOR PERSECUTOR to VICTIM

•Home position: VICTIMEx: “Are you kidding me!?!?” “WOW! I don’t believe it!” “I just can’t do that. It’s too much.”

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The Drama Triangle

Rescuer

Persecutor

VictimImmature/Childlike neediness (VICTIM)

Over-the-top/Excessive demands (PERSECUTOR)

Whiny complaints (VICTIM)

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder

• Least common of the Cluster B PDs • .4% - 5.5% of the general population• 2% - 16% of clinical population• “Arrogant, haughty behaviors” are the most

reliable diagnostic criteria• Deficient in equality and empathy• Norway twin study found 77% of traits

appear to biological• Functional trait: Self-Exaggeration

***A pervasive pattern of grandiosity in behavior or fantasy***

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Drama Pattern of NPD

• Drama entry point: RESCUER

• Drama switch: RESCUER to PERSECUTOR

• Home position: PERSECUTOREx: “I’m everything and untouchable;

you’re nothing.”

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The Drama Triangle

Rescuer

Persecutor

Victim

Being important and held in high regards (RESCUER)

Others are less than and belittled (PERSECUTOR)

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Wrap-Up

•Review•Q & A

Contact Information:Josh Smith

[email protected]

www.dbtcentermi.org