The Art of Self-Coaching, Stanford GSB, Spring 2015

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The art of Photo by Seth Anderson [link ] self - coaching Ed Batista Spring 2015

Transcript of The Art of Self-Coaching, Stanford GSB, Spring 2015

The art of

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self-coachingEd Batista

Spring 2015

Questions?

Who am I?

Coaching/self-coaching

Course concepts

Class sessions

Workload & grading

Final thoughts

Agenda

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Questions?

I’ll answer as we go

Interrupt me at any time

Who am I?Instructor

LeadLabs & Leadership Fellows

Touchy Feely

Class of 2000

Executive coach & HBR contributor

www.edbatista.com

Why coachingmatters to me…

Started as a client

Changed my view of leadership

Impact on my students & clients

Why self-coachingdoes, too

1%

6 to 16 months

Help my students & clients help themselves

Coaching

Not advising or mentoring

Not diagnostic

Coachee owns the agenda

Coachee has the answers

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Guiding our own growth & development

Not a solitary experience, but self-directed

Coaching partners are essential

This course will be highly interactive

Self-coaching

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Where are weChange

Emotion

Happiness

Resilience

Vulnerability

Unhappiness

Success

going?

How will we

Work closely with 2 partners

Professional & Personal

Small group discussions

Substantial reading

Short lectures

get there?

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Course concepts

Class 1Beginnings

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Class 1

Learning community & basic coaching skills

Christopher Peterson on positive psychology

Edgar Schein on coaching

My work on coaching, group safety &

Judy Willis & David Rock

Beginnings

Class 2Change

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Class 3Emotion

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Class 4Happiness

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Class 4Happiness

Sonja Lyubomirsky on happiness strategies

Christopher Peterson on values & strengths

Class 5Resilience

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Class 6Vulnerability

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Class 7Unhappiness

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Class 7Unhappiness

Oliver Burkeman on stoicism & Buddhism

Pema Chödrön on failure & acceptance

David Foster Wallace on life & work

Class 8Success

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Class 8Success

Sonja Lyubomirsky on happiness myths

Peter Drucker on self-management

Class 9Endings

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Class sessions

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Class sessions

Check-in with Partner #1

Short lecture

Small group discussion

Coaching conversation

Check out with Partner #2

Preview of next class

Workload

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Workload

Show up (Mandatory attendance)

Show up prepared (Intensive discussions)

Substantial reading

8 weekly assignments

Final paper

Grading

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Grading

Attendance 30%

Weekly assignments 40%

Final paper 30%

Pass/fail allowed

3.45 mean GPA

Final thoughts

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Act

Reflect

Conceptualize

ApplyWhat will I do

the next time?

What do these results imply?

What conclusions can I draw?

What happened?

What resulted

from my actions?

Experientiallearning

Act

Reflect

Conceptualize

ApplyWhat will I do

the next time?

What do these results imply?

What conclusions can I draw?

What happened?

What resulted

from my actions?

Experientiallearning

Why enroll?

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Why enroll?

A course all about you

Focused on your development

Practice coaching & being coached

A bridge to the real world

Why NOT enroll?

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Why not enroll?

10am is too early on Fridays

Only First Years do the reading

Tired of all this California hippy shit

Waiting to be told The Answer

Thank you!

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