TEEN AGE Relation Ship with parents

• >1 Mill. Children run from home each year.

• 40-60% parents experience their defiance & oppositional behavior with shades of hostility

• When you try too hard to control you loose.

• Parenting styles have an influence on the development of child’s relationship skills.

• Home module is also expressed outside home.

• Conflicts are normal part of any relationship.

• Adolescents who are securely attached to their parents seem to form successful adult relationships.

To bring Harmony• Emphasis upon

• Listening• Assertive communication• Discussing +ve & -ve feelings• Mutual empathy exercise.• Unconditional +ve support• Give them quality time• Bring enough space to grow while applying

limits

To ParentsParental Role-----Police role

Talk to childrenLet them express freely

There is time for every thing There is mood for every thing

Create the mood that can conduct

• Do not react Fast• Do not be Judjemental• Talk to good aspect first & bad

aspects gradually later

• Differentiate issues from non issues

• All can make mistakes. A perfect man is to be aware of your weaknesses

• Do not catch the red handed.• Don’t do any thing which you don’t

approve of

Parents need to be better informed• About the dynamics of adolescent

peer group &• The demand and expectations

teenagers face in peer relationships.

• Parents need to include adolescents in decision-making & rule setting that affects their lives