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TALKING WITH TEENS
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CONVERSATION CARDS
Are you a parent of a teen? Do you have teens in your life that look to you for support and guidance? These cards are focused on strengthening healthy relationships and connections between youth and adults.
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TALKING WITH TEENS
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BUILD TRUST TO INSPIRE ONGOING CONVERSATIONS.
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If you could have any super power what would it be? Why?
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If you had that super power for one day, what would you do?
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START TALKING
What are some things you love about your school?
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What are some things you would change?
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What is your favorite tradition?
What makes you like it the most?
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What traditions would you like to pass on to others?
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What does a good role model look like?
Is it different for teens and adults?
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What makes it hard to be a good role model?
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What are the things you like talking about?
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How do you choose who to talk to about certain things?
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TALKING WITH TEENS
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TALK ABOUT PEER AND DATING RELATIONSHIPS.
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START TALKING
How are relationships different in real life than in the media?
(Books, movies or music?)
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How are break-ups different in real life than in the media?
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Describe your perfect relationship. How would you treat each other?
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What are the things that you won’t put up with?
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Is being in a relationship important to you? Your friends? Why?
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What is fun about starting to date?
What are you not sure about?
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What do you or your friends like about being in a relationship?
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What do you or your friends not like about being in a relationship?
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What makes a relationship healthy and happy?
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What makes a relationship stop being healthy?
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TALKING WITH TEENS
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TALK ABOUT TAKING ACTION, RESPECT AND GETTING HELP.
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What do you like about our community?
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What could you do to make it better?
What could adults do?
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What kinds of things do you see happen that make you feel uncomfortable?
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What do people do when these things happen?
What could you do?
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What does bullying look like at school?
In our community?
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How do others help stop bullying?
What could you do to help stop it?
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What does abuse look like?
How do you know if someone is being abused?
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How would you help a friend if you found out they were in an abusive situation?
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What does the word respect really mean?
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How do people show each other respect?
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TALKING WITH TEENS
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TALK ABOUT TEXTING, SOCIAL NETWORKING AND TECHNOLOGY.
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How do people act different online than in person?
What makes it different?
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How do you wish people would treat each other online?
What would that look like?
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I’ve heard the term cyber bullying, what does this mean?
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What does it have in common with real life bullying?
What’s the difference?
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Do your friends share their passwords? (Facebook, email, phone etc.)
Do you think it’s ok to do this?
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What if they are sharing with family? A dating partner?
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How do you decide who to share your passwords with?
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What would happen if you didn’t want to share?
What would you do?
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What are the unspoken rules about texting?
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How do you feel when someone texts you a lot, or doesn’t text you back?
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A FEW TIPS TO REMEMBER:
• Don’t expect to have all of the answers,
it is ok not to know, figure it out together!
• Inspire conversation by opening up
about your own experiences.
• The more you are willing to share,
the more they will be willing to share
with you.
• Listen and support your teen.
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