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1. INTRODUCTION
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Use your 'Fitnah' to win the heart of your husband.
“All women have the “ornaments” that Allah
blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah
subhanuhu wa ta'ala has bestowed you with to
win the heart of your husband.
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When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting.
“Imagine your husband coming home to a
clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a
dinner prepared with care, children clean and
sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would
this do to his love for you? Now imagine what
the opposite does to him.
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Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them.
“The Qur'an and Sunnah describe the women
in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as
the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their
singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk
for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to
'enlarge' them, and sing to your husband.
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Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house.
“From the early years, little girls have adorned
themselves with earrings and bracelets and
worn pretty dresses - as described in the
Qur'an. As a wife, continue to use the jewelry
that you have and the pretty dresses for your
husband.
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Joke and play games with your husband.
“A man's secret: they seek women who are
lighthearted and have a sense of humor. As
Rasulullah (saw) told Jabir to marry someone
who would make him laugh and he would
make her laugh.
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Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does. Then thank him again.
“This is one of the most important techniques,
as the opposite is a characteristic of the
women of hellfire.
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An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it with a simple 'I'm sorry' even if it is not your fault.
“When you fight back, you are only adding fuel
to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument
will end when you just say sincerely, "Look, I'm
sorry. Let's be friends."
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Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah.
“Rasulullah (saw) taught us that any woman
who dies in a state where her husband is
pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So…
please him.
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Listen and Obey!
“Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is
the Ameer of the household. Give him that right
and respect.
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Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful.
“All good things are from Allah. Never forget to
ask Allah subhanuhu wa ta'ala for the blessing
of having a successful marriage that begins in
this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy of
Allah subhanuhu wa ta'ala - into Jannah.
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LAST WORD
The referred narrative implies that the right of the
husband over his wife far exceeds the right of any
other human being over another human being.
And Allah subhanuhu ta'ala knows best.
“Rasulullah (saw) said:
If I were to command anyone to make
prostration before another I would command
women to prostrate themselves before their
husbands, because of the special right over
them given to husbands by Allah.
[Sunan Abu Dawud, 11:2135]