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    \g e~g e hkdl |ep f~ki sm`dj`dl smes |g mevg ebm`gvgc sm`r( nws gvgdfw~smg~ e|ep f~ki enedckd`dl sm`r c~gei$ \mes |g bed rep `r smes gebmedc gvg~pkdg kdg kf kw~ sgei mer nggd cgc`besgc sk sm`r q~kogbs edc |gmevg |k~jgc me~c( sklgsmg~ sk b~gesg sm`r skkh$ \g mkqg smes sm`r skkh|`hh ng |`sm`d gerp ~gebm fk~ smg ~gecg~ edc smes `s |`hh ng e bkds~`nws`dlfebsk~ sk iej`dl bmedlgr edc `iq~kvgigdsr( |m`bm e~g rs`hh rkdgbgrre~p `d smg h`vgr edc rw~~kwdc`dlr kf iedp qgkqhg skcep$

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    \mes `r QBQ; 55

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    \mes `r QBQ; 52

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    \mes `r QBQ;

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    \mes `r smg bgds~eh `cge kf QBQ;

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    \mk `r QBQ c`~gbsgc es;

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    \mes `r QBQ; 57

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    F`~rs Bmeqsg~ 56

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    \mes e~g smg knogbs`vgr kf QBQ;

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    \mes `r QBQ; 52Y er l~kwqr kf qgkqhg `dfk~iehhp nkwdc sklgsmg~ np rme~gc g}qg~s`rgedc e qerr`kd fk~ e ok`ds gdsg~q~`rg$ Smg bkiiwd`s`gr kf q~ebs`bg |m`bmrmeqgc ehh kf smg ge~h`grs eqq~kebmgr sk QBQ fwdbs`kdgc ngs|ggd 507Yi`lms ng eqqh`gc sk `iq~kvg smg uweh`sp kf smg rg~v`bgr sk qgkqhg |`smfwdbs`kdeh c`vg~r`sp Z>1Y$ Smg qgkqhg rghgbs smgirghvgr `dskabkiiwd`s`gr kf q~ebs`bg ngbewrg kf smg`~ `dsg~grs `d bkdrs~wbs`dl edcg}bmedl`dl jdk|hgclg |`sm ksmg~ qgkqhg |mk rme~g smg reig

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    \mes `r QBQ; 50

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    F`~rs Bmeqsg~ >1

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    ) Sk `dc`v`cweh`rg smg rwqqk~s l`vgd( ie`dse`d`dl m`lmg}qgbses`kdr kd qg~rkdeh cgvghkqigds$

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    Ehsmkwlm smg k~`l`d edc cgvghkqigds kf QBQ mer nggd nkwdc sksmg f`ghc kf fwdbs`kdeh c`vg~r`sp( smg ikcgh bed g}s~eqkhesg sk ehh kf smge~ger kf smg Rkb`eh Rg~v`bgr ngdgf`sr -gcwbes`kd( smg |k~jqhebg( mgehsm)edc iedp ik~g qgkqhg |mk e~g `dvkhvgc `d smkrg rg~v`bgr$ @d febs( `s bedng wrgc `d e he~lg ve~`gsp kf r`swes`kdr Z22YZ23Y( ehsmkwlm smg deig `rc`ffg~gds cgqgdc`dl kd smg f`ghc |mg~g `s `r wrgc$ @d sm`r |ep smg qm~ergQg~rkd Bgds~gc Qhedd`dl `r ik~g bkiikdhp fkwdc `d smg ngdgf`srg~v`bgr fk~ qgkqhg |`sm fwdbs`kdeh c`vg~r`sp -qmpr`beh( `dsghhgbsweh k~

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    Rghgbsgc `drs~wigdsr edc rqgb`eh eceqses`kdr Z2=YZ20Y$

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    bergr( rwbm er Bedece( smg~g e~g errkb`es`kdr smes mevg nggd b~gesgc npsmg I`d`rs~p kf Mgehsm( `d k~cg~ sk rwqqk~s smg jdk|hgclg edc smgcgvghkqigds kf e dgs|k~j k~ l~kwq |mk rw~~kwdc smg qgkqhg `d dggc kfrwqqk~s Z7>Y$

    F~ki smg gdv`~kdigds bhkrgrs sk e qg~rkd( ed g}eiqhg smesrsedcr kws er kdg kf smg ikrs kwsrsedc`dl f`~ir `d smg f`ghc kf QBQ `rMghgd Redcg~rkd Errkb`esgr Z72Y |mk mevg e hkdl s~eogbsk~p edc e versg}qg~`gdbg `d smg cgvghkqigds edc smg wdcg~sej`dl kf qg~rkdeh qhedrfk~ qgkqhg |mk e~g es ~`rj kf rkb`eh g}bhwr`kd$ Kdg kf smg`~ serjr `r skgdbkw~elg l~kwqr kf qgkqhg sk( `d e c`~gbs edc qg~rkdeh |ep( kffg~fwhf`hh`dl qg~rkdeh qhedr fk~ qgkqhg `d dggc kf rwqqk~s( ehsmkwlm kfbkw~rg( sm`r |k~j `r ik~g v`enhg |mgd fevkw~enhg bkdc`s`kdr kbbw~( rwbm

    er smg g}`rsgdbg kf vkhwdsgg~ qkh`b`gr fk~ smg`~ `ds~kcwbs`kd$Cgrq`sg smg q~grgdbg kf QBQ ng`dl fkwdc `d rkig kf smg

    bkwds~`gr qkh`b`gr( smg smgk~p `r dks eh|epr s`gc |`sm smg q~ebs`beh edcsmg~gfk~g( q~kfkwdc bmedlgr dggc sk ng iecg `d smg |ep smes sm`r |k~j`r be~~`gc kws$ Smg febs smes eve`henhg ~grkw~bgr bed ng bkwdsgc kd edc eqg~rkd bgds~gc rs~wbsw~g g}`rsr( ckgr dks iged smes `s `r s~wg |mgd qws`dsk q~ebs`bg Z73Y$

    Smg bkwds~`gr smes mevg e hkdl s~ec`s`kd `d QBQ( kffg~ e qk`ds kf~gfg~gdbg fk~ smg cgvghkqigds kf lkvg~digdseh qkh`b`gr `d smkrgbkwds~`gr |mg~g smgp rs`hh mevg dks `dbk~qk~esgc qg~rkd bgds~gc qkh`b`gr$Nge~`dl `d i`dc smes smg f`~rs bmehhgdlg `r sk bkdbgds~esg kd cgvghkq`dlrs~esgl`gr( smes bed ng ~geh`rs`behhp rmeqgc `dsk rkb`eh ~geh`sp$

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    F`~rs Bmeqsg~ >6

    qg~rkdr uweh`sp kf h`fg$ Fk~ sm`r( QBQ cgbgds~eh`zgr smg `drs`sws`kdehqk|g~( c`~gbs`dl `s sk|e~cr smg qgkqhg smes nghkdl sk smg igds`kdgcrw~~kwdc`dlr edc rg~v`bgr$ Smg giqmes`b v`g|( smg~gfk~g( `s smes smghenkw~ edc smg gffk~sr kf smg c`ffg~gds q~kfgrr`kdehr( fei`h`gr edc qgkqhg`d smg bkiiwd`sp( er |ghh er smg ~ghes`kdrm`qr smes smgp q~kv`cgngs|ggd smgi: e~g `d f~kds kf smg ik~g s~ec`s`kdeh |epr( |mg~g smgqk|g~r kf cgb`r`kd ck dks ngl`d |`sm smg qgkqhg `dvkhvgc `d smgqhedd`dl q~kbgrr( nws rkhghp |`sm smg g}qg~sr$ Fk~ g}eiqhg( |g `iel`dg Owedr berg( e qg~rkd |mk dggcr rwqqk~s edc |mk ~gbg`vgr essgds`kdf~ki smg c`ffg~gds rg~v`bgr$ Smg q~kfgrr`kdeh smes |k~jr |`sm Owed ie~jrkws smg ebs`v`s`gr sk ebm`gvg( smg fei`hp bmkkrgr m`r bhksmgr smes mg mer sk|ge~ edc m`r be~g~ rmk|r m`i smg fkkc smes mg mer sk ges \`sm QBQ `s`r enkws smkrg qgkqhg ikrs hkvgc np Owed( sklgsmg~ |`sm smg c`ffg~gds

    q~kfgrr`kdehr iggs`dl( rk smes kd e nerg kf m`r q~gfg~gdbgr( `dsg~grsr edcdgbgrr`s`gr( smgp bed mghq m`i sk cgb`cg |mes spqg kf ebs`v`s`gr mg |`hhessgdc( |mes fkkc mg |`hh ges edc |mes bhksmgr mg |`hh |ge~( eikdlrsksmg~ sm`dlr$

    @d sm`r |ep e rsgq kbbw~r f~ki e ikcgh kf Rg~v`bg Bgds~gc Qhedd`dl ske ikcgh kf Qg~rkd Bgds~gc Qhedd`dl$ Sm`r eh~gecp igedr smes `s `r dkssmg qg~rkd |mk bkdfk~ir sk smg rg~v`bgr( nws ik~g rk smg rg~v`bgr( e~gqheddgc np smg qg~rkd$ \g bed hkkj es sm`r `d e ik~g l~eqm`b |ep?

    @hhwrs~es`kd >? Smg `ielg kd smg hgfs ~gq~grgdsr e qg~rkd bgds~gc ikcgh edcsmg `ielg kd smg ~`lms ~gq~grgdsr e rg~v`bg bgds~gc ikcgh$

    Smg c`ffg~gdbg ngs|ggd nksm fk~ir kf qhedd`dl `r smes smgpbgds~g kd c`ffg~gds `dsg~grsr edc qm`hkrkqm`gr$ Smg fkhhk|`dl senhgrmk|r smg c`ffg~gdbgr ngs|ggd nksm |epr sk qhed$

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    \mes `r QBQ; >=

    @s k~led`rgr ebs`kdr `d smgbkiiwd`sp sk `dbhwcg wrg~r(fei`hp edc smg c`~gbs |k~jg~r$

    @s k~led`rgr iggs`dlr fk~ smgq~kfgrr`kdehr$

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    C`ff`bwhs`gr e~g rme~gc$ C`rsedbgr e~g b~gesgc$

    Smg bkiiwd`sp bed ng|ghbki`dl$

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    @s dglks`esgr ebbgqsedbg sk nw`hcrkb`eh ~ghes`kdrm`qr$ @s q~ksgbsr edc l~kwqr sklgsmg~qgkqhg |`sm henghr$

    Smg rg~v`bgr bed eceqs smgirghvgredc ~grqkdc sk qgkqhg$

    Smg rg~v`bgr ck dks ~grqkdc sk smg`dc`v`cweh dggcr$

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    Smg rg~v`bgr ie`dse`d smg `dsg~grskf smg q~kfgrr`kdehr$

    Nwclgsr bed ng rs~wbsw~gc sk l`vgrwqqk~s sk smg `dc`v`cweh qg~rkd$

    Nwclgsr e~g rs~wbsw~gc sk ie`dse`dsmg rg~v`bgr$

    Dg| `d`s`es`vgr e~g |k~sm `s gvgd`f smgp mevg e riehh ngl`dd`dl$

    Dg| `d`s`es`vgr e~g kdhp |k~sm `s `fsmgp bed ng `ds~kcwbgc kd e he~lgrbehg$

    Smg ikcgh kf QBQ fwdceigdsehhp c`ffg~r f~ki smg s~ec`s`kdehqhedd`dl `d e |ep smes e mkh`rs`b edc lhkneh v`g| `r b~gesgc fk~ smgqg~rkd( smkrg |mk mevg e c~gei edc |eds sk ebm`gvg ed ehsg~des`vgfwsw~g |`sm rwbbgrr$ Smg s~ec`s`kdeh igsmkc kf qhedd`dl mer rg~vgcik~g sk eceqs qgkqhg `dsk smg rg~v`bgr Z5

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    qe~s`b`qedsr edc smg qgkqhg |mk iejg smg cgb`r`kdr Z77Y$ Smg fkhhk|`dlsenhg rmk|r smgrg rwnrseds`eh bmedlgr vg~p bhge~hp?

    Senhg >? C`ffg~gdbgr ngs|ggd s~ec`s`kdeh qhedd`dl edc qg~rkd bgds~gcqhedd`dl Z50Y Z7

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    Smg rwqqk~s l~kwq

    QBQ kffg~r qgkqhg q~ebs`beh rs~esgl`gr$ Ed `iqk~seds serj `r skgrsenh`rm e dgs|k~j kf rwqqk~s fk~ e qg~rkd |mk ~guw`~gr k~ dggcr skiejg e h`fg qhed$ Smg l~kwq |mk `r smg bhkrgrs sk smg qg~rkd `r behhgc smgb`~bhg kf rwqqk~s( edc `s `r ed grrgds`eh edc vg~p `iqk~seds bkdbgqs kfQBQ$ @d febs( smg qg~rkd bgds~gc q~kbgrr grsenh`rmgr `srghf kd smg ner`r kf|mg~g e b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s bed l~ecwehhp nw`hc e h`fgrsphg smes |`hh ngres`rfebsk~p edc r`ld`f`beds fk~ smg bgds~eh qg~rkd Z>>Y$ Fk~ sm`r( `s `rdgbgrre~p sk hge~d sm~kwlm smg ebs`kd edc rme~g ngs|ggd smg c`ffg~gdsqe~s`b`qedsr |mk fk~i smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s$ @s `r enkws f`dc`dl b~ges`vgrkhws`kdr( kf ~grkhv`dl q~knhgir edc |k~j`dl `d e wd`sgc |ep sk b~gesge bmedlg kf h`fg fk~ qgkqhg `d smg bkiiwd`sp edc `d k~led`res`kdr Z5

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    \mes `r QBQ; 25

    \mk `r `d smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s;

    Smg qgkqhg |mk qe~s`b`qesg `d smg l~kwq e~g smkrg |mk e~g smgbhkrgrs sk smg bgds~eh qg~rkd edc smkrg |mk smg bgds~eh qg~rkd ikrs|edsr sk ng smg~g( np smes |g ~gfg~ sk smg fei`hp( f~`gdcr( q~kfgrr`kdehr(bkiiwd`sp iging~r edc ehh kf smg qgkqhg |mk smg bgds~eh qg~rkd h`jgredc vehwgr$ Er s`ig qerrgr( smgp bed `dbhwcg dg| qe~s`b`qedsr sk smg

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    Smg fei`hp mer ed grrgds`eh ~khg `d smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s( er kfsgdsmg`~ iging~r e~g smkrg |mk e~g ikrs fei`h`e~ sk smg bgds~eh qg~rkd$Smg`~ ~khg `r v`seh fk~ smg rwbbgrr kf QBQ Z61Y$ @f `d ecc`s`kd( QBQ `rrse~sgc f~ki ed ge~hp elg( smg fwhh qe~s`b`qes`kd kf smg fei`hp `r gvgdik~g `iqk~seds$ @s `r enkws |k~j`dl fk~ edc |`sm smg fei`hp sk c`~gbs

    smg`~ bm`hc sk|e~cr e res`rfebsk~p h`fg$ \mgd smg qhedr bkds`dwg sk ngeqqh`gc sk qgkqhg kf e pkwdl elg( `s `r wrwehhp bgds~gc kd smg fei`hp$

    \mes `r smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~sr cws`gr;

    Smg q~`db`qhg ebs`v`sp kf smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s `r sk be~~p kwsqg~`kc`beh iggs`dlr -cgqgdc`dl kd berg sk berg edc smg s`ig smgp mevgnggd |k~j`dl) edc f~ki sm`r( sk s~edrhesg smg iggs`dlr ~grwhsr edcbkdbhwr`kdr edc eqqhp smgi sk cep sk cep rwqqk~s$

    Es smg rse~s `s bed ngl`d |`sm kdg( s|k k~ sm~gg iggs`dlr eikdsm( efsg~|e~cr smg iggs`dlr bed ng mghc gvg~p sm~gg ikdsmr( r`}ikdsmr( kdbg e pge~ k~ hgrr f~guwgdshp$ Smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~sr feb`h`sesk~`r smg qg~rkd |mk owclgr( nergc kd smg dggcr edc `d bkdsg}s( mk| kfsgd`r ikrs ecguwesg fk~ smgrg iggs`dlr$ Es smg ngl`dd`dl( smgrg iggs`dlr

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    rmkwhc ng ik~g dwig~kwr edc rmkwhc ehrk hers hkdlg~$ Er smg l~kwqbkds`dwgr ebuw`~`dl g}qg~`gdbg( smg cw~es`kd kf smg iggs`dlr bed ng~gcwbgc edc smg ~grwhsr edc bkdbhwr`kdr ngbkig ger`g~ sk s~edrhesg edcger`g~ sk eqqhp `d smg`~ cep sk cep h`vgr$

    Er |g bkiigdsgc ngfk~g( `d rkig bergr rwbm er `d Gdlhedc(lkvg~digdseh qkh`b`gr g}`rs |m`bm q~kiksg iggs`dlr sk ng be~~`gc kws|mgd e rwnrseds`eh bmedlg e~`rgr `d smg qg~rkdr h`fg( fk~ g}eiqhg(qerr`dl f~ki kdg hgvgh kf gcwbes`kd sk edksmg~$ Smgrg iggs`dlr e~gq~kiksgc np smg lkvg~digds( e~g qe~s`b`qesgc `d np kdg kf `sr iging~r(edc bed ng bkiqhgigdse~p -dks g}bhwc`dl)( sk jggq smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~sbhkrg~ sk smg bgds~eh qg~rkd( |mkrg iggs`dlr e~g kfsgd mghc es c`ffg~gds`dsg~vehr$

    @d smg iggs`dlr ehh kf smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~sr qe~s`b`qedsr iwrs ngq~grgds edc |mes smgp ck `r sk iejg e h`fg qhed nergc kd smg `dsg~grsr(c~geir edc q~gfg~gdbgr kf smg bgds~eh qg~rkd$ Vg~p wrgfwh skkhr g}`rs skiejg e qg~rkd bgds~gc H`fg Qhed( |mkrg rs~esgl`gr e~g |~`ssgd nghk|$ @dsmg iggs`dlr( |m`bm |g mevg rqkjgd enkws( `s `r dgbgrre~p smes gebmqe~s`b`qeds mer smg`~ ~grqkdr`n`h`s`gr bhge~$ Nghk| |g |`hh cgrb~`ng smgb`~bhg kf rwqqk~sr cws`gr `d smg iggs`dlr Z5=Y?

    Sk iejg rw~g smg bgds~eh qg~rkd c~`vgr smg`~ k|d q~kbgrr$ Smg~ge~g e hks kf rs~esgl`gr smes g}`rs sk jggq smg bgds~eh qg~rkdqe~s`b`qes`dl( gvgd fk~ smkrg |mk mevg rgvg~g c`ff`bwhs`gr$ Smgqe~s`b`qes`kd smes smg bgds~eh qg~rkd mer `d smg iggs`dlr k~ `dsmg`~ H`fg Qhed( bed ~grwhs `d iedp |epr$ @d rkig bergr( `s bedq~kvg vehwenhg `f smg bgds~eh qg~rkd `r dks q~grgds `d smg iggs`dl(fk~ g}eiqhg( `f smgp bkdcwbs smgirghvgr `d e |ep |m`bm q~gvgdsrsmg l~kwq f~ki |k~j`dl$ @d smgrg g}bgqs`kdeh bergr( `s |kwhc ngbkdr`cg~gc e q~`k~`sp knogbs`vg sk lgs smg bgds~eh qg~rkd sk

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    Sk h`rsgd kqgdhp sk ehh smg qe~s`b`qedsr$

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    \mes `r QBQ; 22

    spqg kf qhedd`dl |`sm ~grqgbs edc c`ld`sp sk|e~cr smg bgds~eh qg~rkdedc sk|e~cr smg ~grs kf smg qe~s`b`qedsr$

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    l~kwq `r sk h`rsgd sk smg bgds~eh qg~rkd( edc wq wds`h dk| |g mevgnggd wrgc sk sehj`dl fk~ smgi$ Fk~ g}eiqhg( `iel`dg e iggs`dl |mg~gsmg feb`h`sesk~ erjr smg bgds~eh qg~rkd? \mes ck pkw h`jg; Edc e fei`hpiging~ k~ q~kfgrr`kdeh rqgejr fk~ smgi edc repr? smes mg k~ rmg h`jgr skcedbg( h`jgr sk ges( h`jgr sk lk kws fk~ e |ehj Smg febs `r smes rqgej`dlfk~ m`i+mg~ `r dks ehhk|`dl smgi sk qe~s`b`qesg( edc |mes |g mevg ckdgwds`h dk| ~gkbbw~r edc ed grrgds`eh vehwg kf QBQ `r i`rrgc: smes smgqg~rkd fgghr vehwgc$ Kd kbber`kdr smkrg |mk rw~~kwdc smg qg~rkd( gvgd

    smkrg |mk jdk| edc hkvg smgi smg ikrs( bed lgs smg`~ q~gfg~gdbgr`dbk~~gbs Z2>Y( |m`bm `r |mp( `s `r `iqk~seds smes bgds~eh qg~rkd `r smg kdg|mk cgb`cgr fk~ smgirghvgr edc cgb`cgr |mes smg`~ h`jgr edc smg`~`dsg~grsr e~g$

    \mgd smg qg~rkd mer dks pgs cgvghkqgc smg en`h`s`gr |m`bmqg~i`s smgi sk g}q~grr smg`~ q~gfg~gdbgr -en`h`s`gr sk bkiiwd`besg( skbmkkrg) smgd( `d smg igerw~g kf |mes `r qkrr`nhg( e |ep rmkwhc ng|k~jgc kws sk erbg~se`d mk| smg qg~rkd bed f`dc smgirghvgr `d e

    qkr`s`kd smes s~whp ehhk|r smgi sk sejg bkds~kh kf smg`~ k|d h`fg$Iged|m`hg `dsg~grsr edc q~gfg~gdbgr bed ng g}qhk~gc sm~kwlm edgvehwes`kd rprsgi Z2>Y$ \g |`hh ng q~kv`c`dl ecc`s`kdeh `dfk~ies`kdkd sm`r( hesg~$

    Ehrk( h`fg qhedr smes e~g kwsh`dgc `d smg iggs`dlr ck dks `d febslwe~edsgg smes sm`r bed ng hesg~ s~edrhesgc `dsk ~geh`sp$ E ~ghes`vghpf~guwgds q~knhgi `d smg q~ebs`bg kf QBQ `r smes iedp qhedr ~gie`d erig~g g}g~b`rgr kd qeqg~$ Rswc`gr g}`rs smes |e~d kf iedp kf smgrg bergr

    |mg~g `dc`v`cweh qhedr |g~g kwsh`dgc( nws |g~g dks smgd s~edrfg~~gc sksmg ce`hp q~kl~eiig Z65YZ73Y$

    Sm`r `r |mp( sm~kwlmkws smg gds`~g q~kbgrr smes smg bkdrsedbpedc ~ghes`kdrm`q kf smg l~kwq iwrs ng bkds`dwgc edc smgp iwrs mevg ers~kdl bkii`sigds sk|e~cr smg esse`digds kf e bkiikd q~kogbs$ @s `rv`seh sk ie`dse`d e m`lm hgvgh kf bkii`sigds sm~kwlmkws( edc fk~ gebmqg~rkd sk be~~p kws smg`~ eds`b`qesgc cws`gr fk~ smg fwsw~g kf smg q~kbgrredc fk~ smg qg~rkd Z66Y$ Bkhhenk~es`kd( er |ghh er bkii`sigds( `r ehrk

    ~guw`~gc sk ~grkhvg q~knhgir( er iwbm `d smg iggs`dlr er kwsr`cg kfsmgi$ E b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s iep bkig eb~krr iedp ne~~`g~r edcc`ff`bwhs`gr er smgp bkds`dwg ecvedb`dl$ @s `r `iqk~seds sk `cgds`fp smgirk smes smgp e~g enhg sk rw~qerr smgi$

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    F`~rs Bmeqsg~ 23

    \`sm ~gle~cr sk smgrg l~kwqr( smg kdhp sm`dl `s hgevgr wr sk ecc `rsmes smg ~geh |k~j rse~sr kwsr`cg smg iggs`dlr$ @s `r smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~srqe~s`b`qedsr |mk iejg qgkqhgr c~geir ngbkig ~geh`sp( np be~~p`dl kwsrqgb`f`b serjr kd e cep sk cep ner`r$

    Smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~sr feb`h`sesk~

    \mk `r smg QBQ feb`h`sesk~;

    @d smg f`ghc kf QBQ smg feb`h`sesk~ `r smg qg~rkd smes feb`h`sesgrsmg qhedd`dl q~kbgrr( smg kdg |mk feb`h`sesgr smg c`~gbs`kd sk ng sejgd `dsmg iggs`dlr edc feb`h`sesgr smg q~kbgrr kf QBQ$ Smg`~ ~khg `r vg~p`iqk~seds kdg er `r smg qe~s`b`qedsr ~khg `d smg b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s$

    Smg |k~c feb`h`sesk~ igedr sk err`rs `d smg fkbwr edc fhk| kf smgqe~s`b`qedsr `d smg iggs`dlr edc sej`dl bme~lg kf rqggc`dl wq smgq~kbgrr kf ~grqgbsfwh c`ehklwgr$ Smg qg~rkd |mk kbbwq`gr sm`r ~khgq~kv`cgr ed ebs`vg ess`swcg |m`bm c~`vgr gebm kdg kf smg qe~s`b`qedsrbkds~`nws`kdr edc `dvkhvgr ng`dl enhg sk iks`vesg edc gdbkw~elg smgl~kwq$

    Ed `iqk~seds iessg~ `r( smg feb`h`sesk~ `r smg kdg |mkfeb`h`sesgr(ngbewrg kvg~ehh( smg kdgr |mk be~~p kws smg cep sk cep serjr e~g smgl~kwqr qe~s`b`qedsr edc smkrg smes rw~~kwdc smg qg~rkd$ Smes `r dks skrep smes smg feb`h`sesk~ ckgr dks mevg serjr( `d febs( smgp mevg iedp~grqkdr`n`h`s`gr( nws smgp mkhc c`ffg~gds kdgr `d ~grqgbs sk smg ~grs kf smgqe~s`b`qedsr bme~ebsg~`rs`br$ Smg feb`h`sesk~r ~khg `r grrgds`eh fk~ QBQrrwbbgrr$

    \mk bed ng smg feb`h`sesk~;

    @d smg ieok~`sp kf kbber`kdr( smg feb`h`sesk~ |`hh ng e q~kfgrr`kdehf~ki smg gcwbes`kdeh f`ghc: g`smg~ fk~ieh -`d e qwnh`b rgbsk~ rbmkkh) k~`dfk~ieh -`d e cep bgds~g( |k~j( gsb$) edc |mk ehrk |k~jr c`~gbshp |`smsmg bgds~eh qg~rkd edc jdk|r smg ~grs kf smg l~kwqr qe~s`b`qedsr$ @s `r`iqk~seds smes smg feb`h`sesk~ `r rkigkdg |mki smg bgds~eh qg~rkdvehwgr edc np |mki smgp bed fggh rwqqk~sgc$

    @s `r ~gbkiigdcenhg smes smg feb`h`sesk~ `r e qg~rkd |mk jdk|rsmg q~`db`qhgr edc fwdceigdsehr kf QBQr qm`hkrkqmp$ @s `r q~knenhp smg

    ngrs( `d smg ngl`dd`dl smes smg feb`h`sesk~r ~khg `r f`hhgc np e q~kfgrr`kdeh|mk mer ehhkbesgc s`ig cgc`besgc sk smkrg cws`gr |`sm`d smg`~ |k~j`dlcep( ehsmkwlm ng`dl ~geh`rs`b( fk~ sm`r( `s `r dgbgrre~p smes QBQrigsmkckhklp f`~rs `iq~gldesgr smg bwhsw~eh edc rkb`eh qkh`b`gr b~ges`dl oknr fk~ feb`h`sesk~r edc err`ld`dl ed gbkdki`b qe~s fk~ sm`r e`i sk ngq~grgds `d smg rg~v`bgr nwclgsr$

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    \mes `r QBQ; 27

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    F`~rs Bmeqsg~ 26

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    F`~rs Bmeqsg~ 2=

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    Bmeqsg~ S|k

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 31

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 35

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 3>

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 32

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 33

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    Smg bherr`f`bes`kdr kf smg c`ffg~gds b`~bhgr e~g eh|epr sejgd `dsk

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    SMG DG\ EQQ^KEBMGR Z>1Y?

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 37

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    Smg ikrs bkiikd rs~esgl`gr q~grgds e~g? L~kwq Ebs`kd Qhedd`dl-LEQ)( Fei`h`gr F`~rs( \mkhg H`fg Qhedd`dl( Qg~rkdeh Rsk~`gr( Grrgds`ehH`fgrsphg Qhedd`dl -GHQ) edc hershp Qhedd`dl Ehsg~des`vg Skik~~k|r |`smMkqg -QESM)$ Smgrg rqgb`f`b rs~esgl`gr bed ng wrgc es edp ikigdssm~kwlmkws e qg~rkdr h`fg( |mgd iej`dl `iqk~seds s~edr`s`kdr edccw~`dl ikigdsr kf rs~grr$

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    Smg knogbs`vg kf sm`r eqq~kebm |er sk rwqqk~s smg l~kwqr kfqe~gdsr |mk |g~g `dsg~grsgc `d `dc`v`cweh`rgc edc k~led`rgc qhedd`dl(|`sm ed e`i fk~ smg fei`hpr v`g| sk ng rme~gc edc ng smg reig er smg gcwbes`kdeh edc rkb`eh rg~v`bgr$

    Fei`h`gr F`~rs Z>1Y

    Sm`r eqq~kebm |er e |ep sk sgebm fei`h`gr mk| sk wrg qg~rkdehfwsw~g qhedr edc err`rs smgi `d knse`d`dl rwqqk~s edc gcwbes`kdehrg~v`bgr$

    \mkhg H`fg Qhedd`dl Z>1Y

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 36

    smgp be~~`gc kws$ Sm`r rsgq `r smg f`~rs sk ng sejgd `d k~cg~ sk be~~p kws eqhed sk rge~bm fk~ giqhkpigds |`sm ~gfg~gdbg sk smg`~ `dsg~grsr$

    Qg~rkdeh Rsk~`gr Z>1Y

    Sm`r eqq~kebm rse~sgc kff ng`dl cgvghkqgc `d smg bkiiwd`sp kfq~ebs`bg fk~ sgebm`dl smg q~`db`qhg kf dk~ieh`res`kd2 edc sk gdbkw~elgsmkrg ~grqkdr`nhg fk~ qhedd`dl sk `dvgrs s`ig edc `iel`des`kd sk mghqqgkqhg |`sm fwdbs`kdeh c`vg~r`sp sk bkdrs~wbs edc bkiiwd`besg smg`~n`kl~eqm`gr$

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    kd ~gfhgbs`kdr kd mk| smg bgds~eh qg~rkdr h`fg wrgc sk ng$ Ed `iqk~sedsfebsk~ |mgd cgvghkq`dl e fwsw~g qhed `r sk sejg `dsk ebbkwds smg h`fg smgqg~rkd mer hgc wds`h dk|$

    Grrgds`eh H`fgrsphg Qhedd`dl -GHQ) Z60Y

    Sm`r q~kbgrr( |m`bm |er b~gesgc `d 500> `r sk mghq qgkqhg |`smfwdbs`kdeh c`vg~r`sp iejg ed ecguwesg s~edr`s`kd f~ki ed `drs`sws`kd`dsk h`fg `d smg bkiiwd`sp$ GHQ `r e skkh grqgb`ehhp wrgfwh fk~ qgkqhg

    |mk e~g lk`dl sm~kwlm rkig spqg kf s~edr`s`kd `d smg`~ h`fg$

    Grrgds`eh H`fgrsphg Qhedd`dl `r e q~kbgrr |m`bm kffg~r e lw`cg kdmk| sk h`vg edc mk| sk cgvghkq e rwqqk~s qhed sk ebm`gvg c~geir edccgr`~gr$ @s `r e fhg}`nhg q~kbgrr smes bed ng wrgc `d bkin`des`kd |`smksmg~ QBQ sgbmd`uwgr$

    Sk rse~s |k~j kd ed Grrgds`eh H`fgrsphg Qhed( `s `r dgbgrre~p skjggq `d i`dc smg fkhhk|`dl iessg~r?

    ) Sk c`rbkvg~ |mes `r `iqk~seds `d smg qg~rkdr ce`hp h`fg$

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    2 Bkiiwd`s`gr kf q~ebs`bg edc smg q~`db`qhg kf dk~ieh`res`kd |g~gc`rbwrrgc `d smg hers bmeqsg~ kf sm`r iedweh( |mgd |g rswc`gc smg k~`l`dr kfQBQ$

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 3$ Smg qg~rkd rgbs`kd?

    \mes ck qgkqhg eci`~g enkws smg qg~rkd; -e h`rs smes ckgr dks`dbhwcg smg |gej qk`dsr kf smg`~ bme~ebsg~)

    \mes ckgr smg qg~rkd ck;

    \mk edc |mes `r `iqk~seds sk smg qg~rkd;

    Smg~g rmkwhc dks ng edp spqg kf uwgrs`kdde`~g( nws smg rgbs`kd rmkwhc`dbhwcg e~ger enkws smg qg~rkd rwbm er?

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    Smg `dfk~ies`kd `r q~`k~`s`rgc `d smg fkhhk|`dl |ep?

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 3=

    2$ Rwqqk~s?\mk( |mgd edc |mp rmkwhc e qg~rkd ng rwqqk~sgc; Sm`rrgbs`kd `r c`v`cgc `dsk s|k qe~sr?

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    3$ Ed ebs`kd qhed |m`bm `dbhwcgr?

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    Qhedd`dl Ehsg~des`vg Skik~~k|r |`sm Mkqg -QESM) Z

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 30

    QESM mer g`lms rsgqr |m`bm e~g?

    5$ Sk jdk| smg qg~rkdr c~gei$

    >$ Sk ~e`rg e|e~gdgrr |`sm knogbs`vgr$

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    7$ Dggcr edc err`rsedbg sk iejg knse`d`dl lkehr qkrr`nhg$

    6$ Sk qhed dgbgrre~p ebs`kdr fk~ smg fkhhk|`dl ikdsm$

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 71

    @hhwrs~es`kd

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 75

    h`fg `d smg fwsw~g -knogbs`vgr)$ Sm`r `dfk~ies`kd `r l~eqm`behhp rmeqgc npigedr kf c~e|`dlr k~ `ielgr$

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    Rsgq 3$ Sk `cgds`fp qg~rkdeh ~grkw~bgredc iesg~`ehr? Sm`r `r enkws smg l~kwq ng`dl rgdr`s`rgc sk smg gffk~sredc bkii`sigds smes smgp |`hh mevg sk iejg `d smg fwsw~g$ \mgdqkrr`nhg( `s `r ehrk `iqk~seds smes smg bgds~eh qg~rkd iejgr e h`rs kf smg`~k|d bkii`sigdsr edc gffk~sr |m`bm smgp sm`dj e~g dgbgrre~p sk ~gebmsmg`~ k|d c~geir$ Smgp rqgb`fp |m`bm qgkqhg edc |m`bm ~grkw~bgr |`hhng ~guw`~gc$ Fk~ g}eiqhg( smg bgds~eh qg~rkd bed qws qmkskr kf smkrg

    qgkqhg |mk e~g lk`dl sk ng `dvkhvgc edc e qmksk kf smg bgds~g k~errkb`es`kd |mg~g smgp |kwhc h`jg sk ebm`gvg `s$

    Rsgq 7$ Dggcr edc err`rsedbg sk knse`dlkehr? @s `r dgbgrre~p sk cgsg~i`dg smg err`rsedbg |m`bm |`hh ng dggcgcer smg~g |`hh ng e rs~kdl h`dj ngs|ggd smg l~kwq edc smg g}sg~deh mghq

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 7>

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    S~ec`s`kdeh skkhr `d QBQ 72

    @hhwrs~es`kd =? G}eiqhg kf QESM Rkw~bg?

    mssq?++|||$`dbhwr`vgrkhws`kdr$bki+qbqhedd`dl$erq

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    Rgbkdc bmeqsg~ 73

    Smg feb`h`sesk~( |mk `r smg qg~rkd smes rmkwhc ng e|e~g edc jdk|ehh kf smg c`ffg~gds eqq~kebmgr( iwrs bmkkrg |m`bm igsmkc `r ikrsrw`senhg fk~ smg bgds~eh qg~rkd edc smg`~ b`~bhg kf rwqqk~s$

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    Sm`~c Bmeqsg~

    Berg rswc`gr kf s~ec`s`kdeh QBQQg~rkd bgds~gc qhedr bed bkvg~ iedp c`ffg~gds rbkqgr kf h`fg(

    f~ki knse`d`dl e mkwrg sk wr`dl qmkskl~eqmr sk bmkkrg smg sm`dlr smespkw h`jg$ Smg hers erqgbs iep dks rggi vg~p r`ld`f`beds( nws `d smg gpgrkf smg qg~rkd |mk `r enhg sk ebm`gvg sm`r( smg qk|g~ kf cgb`c`dl |m`bmebs`v`sp smgp h`jg np igedr kf e qmksk( bed ng e n`l hedcie~j `d smg`~h`vgr$

    Iedp berg rswc`gr g}`rs |m`bm e~g |~`ssgd wdcg~ smg qg~rkdbgds~gc qm`hkrkqmp$ Smgrg bergr c`ffg~( er smgp qw~rwg c`ffg~gdsknogbs`vgr( smgp bgds~g kd c`ffg~gds e~ger kf smg qg~rkdr h`fg -mgehsm(

    mkwr`dl( hg`rw~g( gsb$)$ Ik~gkvg~( smgrg bergr e~g |~`ssgd f~ki iedpc`ffg~gds qg~rqgbs`vgr( fk~ g}eiqhg smgp bed ng skhc np e fei`hpiging~( np q~kfgrr`kdehr k~ np smg qg~rkd smgirghvgr |mk `r ~gbg`v`dlsmg rwqqk~s$

    E bkiq`hes`kd kf bergr |m`bm rmk| smgrg qg~rqgbs`vgr e~gc`rqhepgc `d sm`r nkkj( |mg~g c`ffg~gds knogbs`vgr e~g |k~jgc kd edc|mg~g smg qhedd`dl q~kbgrrgr |g~g be~~`gc kws np qgkqhg |mkgdbkwdsg~gc c`ffg~gds rbehgr edc c`ffg~gds spqgr kf ne~~`g~r$ Smg bergr

    smes e~g q~grgdsgc `dvkhvg qgkqhg `d smg`~ ge~hp pge~r( sm~kwlm sk ecwhsredc qgkqhg |`sm ik~g ecvedbgc pge~r$ Smg ieok~`sp kf smg qhedr |m`bmmevg nggd |~`ssgd enkws mevg nggd be~~`gc kws np qgkqhg |`smfwdbs`kdeh c`vg~r`sp( ~giging~`dl smes sm`r `r smg e~ge `d |m`bm smgqg~rkd bgds~gc qm`hkrkqmp mer mec smg ikrs cgvghkqigds$Dgvg~smghgrr( ksmg~ bergr e~g ehrk q~grgdsgc$

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    Sm`~cBmeqsg~ 76

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    Berg rswc`gr kf s~ec`s`kdeh QBQ 7

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    Berg rswc`gr kf s~ec`s`kdeh QBQ 62

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    Sm`~cBmeqsg~ 63

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    Berg rswc`gr kf s~ec`s`kdeh QBQ 67

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    Sm`~cBmeqsg~ 66

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    Berg rswc`gr kf s~ec`s`kdeh QBQ 6 PGE^R

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    Ed g}eiqhg kf Ie~`er qg~rkdeh fwsw~g qhedd`dl Z

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    Berg rswc`gr kf s~ec`s`kdeh QBQ 60

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