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I have always had a fascination for old men especially the septuagenarians and octogenarians. Call it Father-figure complex or what have you but when l chat

with them, they remind me of a rare breed. True gentlemen. Principled and their composure is second to none. They have seen it all and their stories are full

of rich contents making you realize how much values or lack thereof exist in society today. In their days they were content with what they earned because our currency was strong so they did not need to bend or worse still, break the rules with total disregard for morals or etiquette. This attitude is what has instilled the discipline in them and why they can hold their head up high

and wear their name like a badge of honour. Some of them are blessed with offsprings who have made what would have been an otherwise rude awakening

of the signs of the times, more habitable for them to live in. When they reminisce about the Nigeria of old, you cannot but wonder if we have progressed or digressed

as a nation. We all know that the latter is more of a reality than the former. All we can do is pray that our country turns around in our own lifetime so it will be our children who will

have something tangible to tell their own children when they too hit their twilight years.Ambassador Abdullahi Ibrahim Atta, O.O.N. who recently turned 90 is one of such people and his, is a riveting

interview. What l found most profound is his complaint about the lack of care for pensioners. For people who have given their sweat and blood to the growth of this nation, they deserve to be accorded their deserving respect and not have to crawl and beg to get what is due to them. I hope this is something that can be addressed with the urgency it needs. We all will become pensioners at some point and we pray that we would not have to spend our evening struggling for our rights like they are doing now. After labouring for the better part of our lives, our evenings should be spent resting and enjoying the fruits of our labour not looking for alternative ways and means to put food on our table when there is no energy to hustle anymore.

Reaching 90 is by no means a small feat. In today’s time, with even more grind and hustle, we just pray we can.

THISDAY STYLEFASHION DIRECTOR/EXECUTIVE EDITOR

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EDITOR PRINT OLUFUNKE BABS-KUFEJI

EDITOR DIGITAL KONYE NWABOGOR

STYLE CORRESPONDENT MOJISOLA ALLEN

STYLE CORRESPONDENT SAFINA MOHAMMED

SENIOR DESIGNER MATHIAS ARCHIBONG

CONTRIBUTORSRUKY SALAKO

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FashionTRIPLE DELIGHTPG 6

5 MINUTES WITH JECINTA POWELLPG 8

THE PERFECT DRESSPG 10-11

THE LOOK CO-ORDSPG 18-19

DIAMOND INKEVENTS & GIDEONHERMOSAPG 4

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Ambassador Abdullahi Ibrahim Atta, O.O.N. turned 90 recently. A true Nigerian and a devout Muslim, Atta is married to his wife and partner of 63 years, Amina, and they have been blessed with eight children, with their spouses, and 20 grandchildren. FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI reports

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MASCULINE FRAGRANCE SHE CAN WEARPG 22

Two days of mastering the very best techniques in Events creation and decor coupled with high octane networking, fine dining and happiness, the world-class event stylist, Gideon Hermosa took top personalities in the African events industry, on a creative exploration of the best Global Events trends and techniques.

The exclusive master class, which took place at the Civic Centre, reeled out Hermosa’s winning tips on event styling, floral arrangement, and the secrets to his amazing transformation process.

On the second day of the master class, a unique design was unveiled by Gideon Hermosa and Adenike Balogun the CEO of Diamond Ink Events, and the brain behind the master-class, to the excitement of all attendees.

Afterwards, a cocktail party was held to honour Gideon Hermosa, it was a night of classical music, fine dining and prime conversations.

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RUTH OSINUGA GBEMI OLATERU & FUNKE OBRUTHE

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JUMAI MACHARM ROSEMARY INEGBESE PEARL ILOLO

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BY RUKY SALAKO

Its always interesting to see ladies rock the same outfits in their own

different ways, especially when it’s the famous black dress.This week we have Media personality,

Toke Makinwa, Ex Big Brother Naija Housemate, Ifu Ennada and CEO GlamdAfrica, Kiki Osibanjo spotting a beautiful black dress from a Nigerian Fashion Designer, Zhenascloset.

The dress, which is perfect for almost every occasion from a Wedding party, Dinner, Movie Premiere, Redcarpet to a Funeral sits well on all three ladies.

While Toke paired hers with a bronze YSL sandal, Kiki opted for the classic Manolo Blahnik pumps and Ifu Ennada settled for a Black Dolce & Gabbana Strappy one.

Both Toke and Ifu completed the look with red lipstick with an up hairdo while Kiki decided to go for that nude glow which obviously flaunts the dress. We Like…

IFU ENNADA

KIKI OSIBANJO

TOKE MAKINWA

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You are a devoted and concerned mother, a savvy entrepreneur, philanthropist, media blogger and a writer, it might seem generic, how do you juggle these roles conveniently?

I am a firm believer that we have one chance to life and for that reason I might as well gradually and simultaneously do a few of the things I love. Besides, I am a strong adherent of time management, as it helps me in a way that fits well with my particular needs, activities and plans. Managing my time to the best of my ability makes it easier and possible for me to prioritize. Determining the order for dealing with my real estate and cosmetic line businesses, and my foundation. They come according to their relative importance and sometimes by making a whole lot of sacrifices.

What is the meaning behind the name ‘Yessinblog’ and what influenced you to go eponymous with your brand? I wanted the blog to be a representation of me and for that reason, I decided to use my very simple nickname “yessin”, which was given to me by my German friend many years ago. Also discerning the potentials of a name that is unique with few letters, easy to pronounce and spell, and not difficult to remember when searching the web, I knew it will serve me well on any internet platform. Also, since the title had already been established as my brand name, as I have used “yessinproductions” and “yessinbeauty” for my other businesses, I therefore concluded to carry on with a particular sequence which allows room for customer identification.

What is Yessinblog.com? Tell us about the media blog/Vlog and how long you have been in media blogging.

I have been in media blogging for a duration of three months. The idea for Yessingblog was conceived due to the need to write at every instance after completing my book manuscript. Yessinblog.com was designed to consecutively piece and gather new materials that are certain to enlighten readers from an intellectual point of view. It is a media blog which focuses and analyses affairs on Socio-economic Pollution and Development, Leadership, Lifestyle and Inspiration. Therefore, the blog examines, researches and interprets disturbing to interesting topics from an economic to a domestic point, across Nigeria and beyond. Relatable subjects from a Socio-economic and Leadership background is expected to be contentious and overly emphasized in lengthy discussions. Whereas, the Lifestyle and Inspiration

segments are educative, original, entertaining, creative and promising short posts. With articles such as “The evil and power that is “state of origin”; a stand to quench the fire of Tribalism and Nepotism”, “Mind Manipulations; the transformation of our mental capacity towards success”, “A Woman’s Cry; are good men still in existence?”, “Lagos Living; The African City that is supposed to be named twice”, “The consequences of “YOLO”, Living in the present as a detriment to the future”, “Diezani Madueke; the expected benefits and disappointments of a powerful Nigerian woman”, and many more mind blowing pieces of writings are expected to engage and tackle the readers mind, tickling their fancies to an immeasurable degree. Hence, if you love to read relatable, educative, controversial, credible, creative, engaging and fun posts, yessinblog.com is the place for that breath of fresh air. Articles which are updated every Wednesday and Fridays at 13:00 are powered by “Google Translate”, an add-on which translates articles into any preferred language of a readers’ choice. Posts are mainly articles centred around my findings and opinions, with occasional writings from other contributors. Also, face-to-face or focus group interviews on irresistible subjects will be published through videos or transcripts. Articles are presented as an excerpt of a post on the home page to enable further reading by clicking on the topic or “Continue reading” tab. Furthermore, visitors can choose the exact segment they would like to read through the “Categories” drop button, find recent and old posts by typing in the “Search” bar. For updates, newsletters and free giveaways, subscribe to the blog via email from the “Sidebar widget” and without hesitation anyone can contact us through the contact page for enquiries, complaints and promotions. We will be there to respond.

Social media/media blogging like time is constantly evolving, how has the yessinblog.com brand been able to carve a niche?

Since nearly all of the blogs carry agitating, casual and untrue news, blogging for me meant redefining the “blogging experience” into a creative and mentally stimulating platform, instead of the perceived notion which is mostly attributed to all kind of irrelevant gossip. I am aware that the principal reason for this wide spread of particular blogging is due to the fact that it attracts more traffic and financial gains, but it is however unable to educate the readers with a more promising story and style of writing, instead it fuels false stories that creates unnecessary public judgement. Those are some of the areas where I have a problem with “gossip blogs”

business model. So, with its fervent need to constantly impact lives, yessinblog is willing to gradually grow and close this gap of fewer intellectual, moral and comminutie-based blogs in the country.

Is yessinblog.com in anyway a reflection of who you are as a person?

Yes, it is. I love creativity, beauty, intelligence and spontaneity. The structure of the blog is inventive and the released articles are intelligently put together. Although with a lot of critical evaluation, I most times write about how I feel. But sometimes, I just want to tell a fictional story meant to tackle with the readers power of reasoning and other times I drop a bomb, revelations which people mostly shy away from or pretend to know nothing about.

You have a book series set to be published soon?The book series is a reflection of me as a person, but

it is however infused with deep beliefs from a mystical perspective. It is a tale (romance-thriller and fantasy) alongside genius illustrations, which portrays deep rooted emotions and happenings of Gigi- a young single mother from West Africa- who lived life in the present and at the same time fully existed in her dreams. It explores love, romance, betrayal, inspiration and spirituality, which travels back and forth across modern world and time past. From her captivating Mark’s soul- an ex-lover- in a journey of sex and romance, to Bob- her overly protective subconscious boyfriend- who guards her fiercely, who has also fallen in love with her even though it is forbidden. Bob who only had access to her through an undeserving love from God, recounts her journeys in battles, joy, betrayal, love and unhappiness. Trying to keep her sanity as Gigi struggles with a “present day” love and romance in today’s fast paced world, she realises that the mind, which must be felt with the heart, answers all things and the Almighty is very present. An awareness which she consecutively pens down as motivational messages while the story unfolds. The simultaneous correlation between two existence gives her the power to infuse both worlds into written beliefs in her mysterious book, which her subconscious and other unforeseen elements take advantage of, writing down their weaknesses and emotions and what the world of today painfully refuses to acknowledge. It is a satisfying mind-twister novel, which has something, a lasting experience for everyone. You will be surprised as to what I have come up with.

You have an intimate admiration for fashion, what role does it appearance play in your line of business?

Fashion for me is elegance and creativity with an announcement of authority. My taste in fashion is very evident in what I do, so much so that I infuse simplicity and uniqueness in every aspect of my business. I tend to identify with a wardrobe of timeless pieces. My write-ups are mostly articles that can stand the test of time. These similarities between fashion and work shows my passion for originality. Relating to fashion, I am less interested in what is in vogue. Also, my passion for creativity allows me to design the artworks meant for articles, with pictures or illustrations that have a deep sense of meaning and not just with basic pictures that fail to stimulate the mind.

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THISDAY Style Vol. 22, No. 8529 Sunday, September 2, 2018S T Y L E & D E S I G N

PERFECT DRESSChoosing the right dress for an event is a daunting task,

especially considering the number of dress styles and choices available on the market. Lately, styles have

gotten even prettier, with new chic lengths, sophisticated prints and pastel colours all filling the rails. So, if you are on the hunt

for the perfect dress, for your next outing, you really need look no further. This,

is the Style edit...

If you’re

after a timeless design that can be recycled over and over again, we suggest considering a classic midi.

Graphic prints can also be a great choice if you’re after something a little different - we’ve seen plenty of

chic geometric styles lately. Team with a pair of sandals

and a beautiful smile to really maximise your

look.

An ankle-skimming design with a nipped-in waist is a figure-

flattering option. Pair with some

subtle gold hoops, and some pointies for understated elegance.

We are firm believers that no round up of dresses would be complete without

something fabulously floral. We urge you to be

bold and pick something pretty to really demonstrate your

knowledge of the catwalk trends.

Perfect for fans of retro styling, a 50s-inspired look is another classic choice. Set off with pumps and a cute updo for an old school Hollywood vibe.

Those wishing to get experimental

with more striking dresses should go for a stand out piece.

An uneven hemline or single strap will most certainly add a focal point to your ensemble - just keep finishing

touches simple.

BY KONYE CHELSEA NWABOGOR

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OLIVIA ENEKWE OKOJI

UGONNA OMERUO

IFEOMA ODOGWU

STELLA UZO

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Ambassador Abdullahi Ibrahim Atta, O.O.N. who turned 90 on August 10th 2018 was Nigeria’s pioneer Ambassador to Cuba in 1977 and one of the founders of the National Intelligence Agency in 1986. His long and meritorious career spanned the National Railways, Finance, Foreign Affairs, Security Services, and Lecturing on Diplomacy and Security Consciousness to leaders in both the public and private sector. He was born in 1928 in Okene, Kogi State into a royal family of 149 children headed by His Royal Highness, Alhaji Ibrahim Atta, The Atta of Ebiraland and Hajiya Aminatu Ovbene Atta. He served the country internationally in Guinea, Ghana, Egypt, the United Kingdom, Western Germany, Cuba and Canada. During his years in the security services, he worked with four Heads of State, earning their respect and receiving formal recognition, culminating in the award of Officer of the Order of the Niger O.O.N.

A true Nigerian and a devout Muslim, he nevertheless judges persons and prospective in-laws based on their character, not on their race, religion or ethnicity, and this is reflected in his diverse extended family. Ambassador Atta is a trustee of the Association of Retired Career Ambassadors. He was pioneer Chairperson of Metro Health HMO. He has published many professional papers as well as his 2010 autobiography titled International Diplomacy & Palace Politics that is available in bookshops and online book retailers. He is married to his wife and partner of 63 years, Amina, and they have been blessed with eight children, with their spouses, and 20 grandchildren.

Your father was Pa Atta, the paramount ruler of Ebiraland and Kingdom. He had over 40 wives and 148 children. What were the some of the happiest moments for you as a child in such a huge household?

My happiest recollection was the day they asked me to go to college, to Ondo Boys High School. I was the only one chosen from my mum’s family. I had an early consciousness of the huge value of this privilege to be educated to a higher level.

How did your upbringing help shape you as the man you are today, how did it reflect in your career choices and what lessons learnt would you like to pass on as wisdom to the next generation?

I witnessed a lot of competition amongst my father’s wives, our stepmothers; sometimes healthy rivalry and often, not so healthy.

Every woman struggled to make sure her own child was not left out. As a result, any privilege I received, I took seriously and did not allow any opportunity to pass without taking advantage of it. My advice to the next generation is “Don’t assume that another opportunity will come. Grasp every chance and privilege and take it seriously”

Though your father was wealthy, what other jobs did his wives do to help supplement the upkeep of the palace and children?

Almost all my father’s wives, including my mother, were experts in weaving silk cloth. Apart from selling them in the market, they also received special commissions that were expensive, and some special orders with English yarn. Other wives sold cotton, traded in foodstuffs between the on and off-season such as locust beans, maize, and sorghum. Some also bought spinning yarn to make into fabric and sell, while others bred poultry and sold the chicks. The women were very industrious and a vital part of the family’s wealth and the local economy.

When you started working in the railways as a stationmaster, how tough was the training and

what did you enjoy most about the job?The railway administration was one of the career

choices that gave the most comprehensive training to its staff especially the traffic and commercial staff. They taught you telegraphic communications, train composition depending on the capacity of the engine hauling it, working out the tonnage, booking of luggage, goods, receiving and delivering goods, bookkeeping, accounts and creating a daily balance sheet. I most enjoyed the variety of the competencies and tasks required. Sending telegraphs, learning morse code, and communicating between stations using block working with the train drivers to ensure safety.

How did the government make you comfortable about the risks involved and protection of your family at the time?

Every Nigerian government assures its staff that they are responsible for your safety and protection, and that of your family, if anything happens to you in active service. That has been the law and the rule applied. It

gave us the assurance we needed to boldly do our jobs.

What is your personal take on the Nigerian civil war and its interlude in our history as a nation?

The Nigerian Civil War was the most unfortunate event in our nation’s history. From my perspective, it was provoked extraneously. Left to Nigerians, we would not have fought. External forces provoked. The killing of Ibos in Northern Nigeria was orchestrated by Radio Dahomey announcing that northerners were being killed in the east, and some Ibo soldiers showing photos of the slaughtered Sardauna. The French were behind the Radio Dahomey incident. The French were interested in the newly discovered oil, and President De Gaulle was reputed to have given Ojukwu $6 million to purchase arms to defend the Ibos. They were targeting the oil.

What key things do you think a leader or a President has to have to improve Nigeria and achieve true unity

The leader who will unite Nigeria must be very well educated. He or must know the history of Nigeria properly. S/he must have the charisma, skills and network to attract and bring educated and knowledgeable people together without ethnic or religious leanings, and avoid nepotism. S/he should be honest, transparent, not greedy, be able to relate to people at all levels.

Your wife, Amina, played a prominent role in building of relationships between you and the prominent officials of the countries of your ambassadorship. Can you give us some examples of how she enabled this?

My wife, Amina, is a very intelligent woman. She is a master at hospitality and hospitality is the key to making good friends in diplomacy. She was an excellent hostess and would invite wives of key public servants, ministers and madam ambassadors for tea or lunch. With her natural charm, she entertained them, built relationships, and the women found her admirable and would emulate her.

I found retirement quite boring. From early childhood

I had early morning tasks, whether the farm, school or

work. Suddenly, I had nowhere to go in the morning. I was

lucky that I have always been an ardent reader of books, so I read all the books that I

collected during my career and my travels to kill time.

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Why did your former colleagues in the Foreign Ministry regard the Research Department of Nigerian Service Organization as spies monitoring them?

This reputation was caused by the overbearing and arrogant behaviour of some members of the research department that gave a wrong impression of who they really were. They did not communicate well with their peers. Most of the negative reports that created this impression were not even written by research fficers, they were submissions and petitions written by colleagues and forwarded to the research department. Some people even impersonated research officers and this reinforced the impression.

What advice do you have for those who abuse power while in office?

People abusing their positions of power should think about when they will no longer be in power. It happens to everyone without exception.

How people will react to you, treat you or try to get revenge. Abuse of power generates resentment that is dangerous to them and their relations, and the resentment can manifest from unexpected quarters. It is better to be balanced while in power.

When you started the NIA (National Intelligence Agency) as Deputy Director General, the staff saw you as a father figure. What was it about you that won their trust even including their private lives?

I won the trust of subordinates and peers by showing sympathy, being fair in the judgment of issues, being just in dealing with the affairs of officers. I gave them my respect and encouraged them to work harder and to open up to me. There was no master-servant relationship or oppression. I was very straightforward with them and put them at ease when in my presence. This gave them confidence to open up to me to the extent that I became a father figure and they would seek my advice even when they had personal problems. These trusting relationships and the goodwill they engendered were a great advantage to me after retirement. Everywhere my children or I go, we are very welcome.

What was the last major event that occurred during your time at the NIA?

That would be the Orkar coup in 1990 that nearly toppled the Babangida administration. Consequently, there was a review of the security services. My boss, Chief Horsfall, was moved to the SSS, and Brigadier Akilu was moved to the NIA. I was mulling retirement and was asked to stay longer than anticipated to make sure the new people settled down, and new entrants from different ministries and agencies were harmonized.

How did you find retirement at first?I found retirement quite boring. From early childhood

I had early morning tasks, whether the farm, school or work. Suddenly, I had nowhere to go in the morning. I was lucky that I have always been an ardent reader of books, so I read all the books that I collected during my career and my travels to kill time.

What is your take on the humiliation being meted out to pensioners who have spent so many years of service in various ministries and are treated unfairly when it’s time for their dues to be paid?

I find the treatment of pensioners an abomination. One day those who are in service now will also become pensioners. It is a sin to allow pensioners to suffer after giving their lives to the country. It is a crime for them to be deprived of the pittance that is their pension, or for it to be delayed. It is an act of callousness. Every government should do something to severely punish those accountants and administrators abusing the funds and creating trauma, starvation and torture for the elderly and aged. The humiliating method adopted for verification of pensioners is disgraceful. With today’s technology they should know whom they have on

genuine payroll and knowwhen a pensioner has died instead of gathering them

in the sun annually, some in wheelchairs or stretchers. It is an act of insensitivity and indignity to the people who have served their country and a disincentive for existing civil servants to be industrious and honest.

From the last count how many members of the Atta family are there including yours?

I don’t have a precise count, at the last count which was several years ago, just children, grandchildren and great grandchildren were well over 1000. Of Atta’s children there are about 40 left. The 149th child arrived three months after my father died. She is 54 years old now, the same age as one of my children. Some Atta family reunions involving second and third cousins number in the thousands.

What has been the most pivotal moment in your life thus far?

I think it was in 1977. I was preparing to come home from Hamburg where I served as Consul General after spending seven years abroad when I received a letter in the diplomatic mail conveying the message from the Head of State, General Obasanjo, appointing me Ambassador to Cuba.

I had just left hospital and was recovering from an illness. The letter ignited my spirit. I returned home to receive my letters of credence to go to Cuba and took

some leave to visit my mother in Okene. I arrived in Cuba on the 22nd of July 1977 and just two days later, which is unprecedented, I was asked to present my credentials to the President of the National Assembly of Cuba. They considered Nigeria sending an Ambassador a special event because we were the biggest African country. On the 25th of July, I joined other ambassadors to go to Camaguey in Cuba to witness the annual 26 of July anniversary celebration by the Cubans, where Fidel Castro spoke for two hours! The other African countries present, mostly francophone and Portuguese speaking, approached me to become the head of the African ambassadors there. It is usually the oldest serving ambassador who heads a continent, not the newly arrived, so that was a special honour. They said that Nigeria was always outspoken on issues of international interest and they made me the spokesman for Africa even though only one of the countries, Ethiopia, was English speaking. I took up the leadership of both my embassy and our continent.

Fortunately I was very well informed on African affairs and Nigerian ambassadors had the most autonomy to represent their countries. Other African countries were not like that.

How do you feel at this stage in your life, 90 years old?

I feel fulfilled. I am very happy that God has given me good health, a clear memory and a good family. My children are all graduates.

They are all married and have children. Some of their children have graduated. I feel that is a special achievement that gives me great happiness. I pray for them daily to achieve greater than we attained in view of the struggles I had to go through to go to school and the polygamous setting I grew up in. The unity among my children is very important to me. Having an intelligent and supportive wife, who is reasonable in our relationship, never demanding what I cannot give is an unquantifiable blessing. While we quarrel, we have a good relationship. Our job now is to pray for happy homes for our loved ones, and successful careers so that they can continue to look after us now that we are too old to fend for ourselves. I am humbled by the respect accorded to me by my peers and members of my extended family.

I hope to see our country turn the corner and harness its potential for the benefit of all.

The unity among my children is very important

to me. Having an intelligent and supportive wife,

who is reasonable in our relationship, never demanding

what I cannot give is an unquantifiable blessing.

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WHAT VALUE DOES ETERNITY HOLD?

The sound of running water lent a calming sound that seemed to cool the soul in the searing heat of the morning sun. The beautiful flowers, towering palms, elegant trees, lush green grass, perfectly manicured and encasing the sapphire colored pool, was the perfect setting for anyone willing to appreciate the creativity that man can engineer with elements of nature to settle any restless spirit. It was in this idyllic setting that I found a spot to settle and allow my mind to probe the mysteries that life had to offer.

Rising in the backdrop, against this modern setting, towering majestically into the clear blue skies above the African desert stood the ancient pyramids of Giza. Time weathered they may be and heading like all things man-made towards extinction, that they have survived not mere decades but through 4 millennia tells us something deeper about man’s ability to create beyond the superficial. Ancient Egypt, it seemed, thrived not because they worried much about the present, but primarily because they focused so fully on the afterlife.

The God of Creation, we know, made man a spirit being then encased us in a mortal body for a set time and purpose upon the earth. The deepest longings and eternal search of every soul passing through this earth life is for a better understanding of where they come from and where they are going. Instinctively we all know life on earth is temporal and while we may create things of beauty that satisfy our lusts, only those that strive to answer the questions of eternity will ultimately outlive us and even generations to come. Ancient Egypt discovered this truth and left us with visible monuments attesting to what man is capable of when creating with eternity as the end goal.

Is that idea you wish to birth of eternal value?

TIMES…Watcher

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If the term “co-ords” isn’t in your fashion lexicon, insert a new entry, pronto. Shorthand for a co-ordinated look, a matching two-piece could be

just the touch of polish your wardrobe is lacking.

Choose colours and textures carefully. Often a co-ord set ends up costing more than a one piece. If the pieces only really work together, you’re not getting the full benefits.

The co-ord is more versatile than the tailored office

or cocktail dress, more functional than jumpsuits,

potentially less corporate than a trouser suit – and a

way to introduce prints and bright colours without the

long-term commitment to a head-to-toe look.

A shirt and matching skirt is

a clever way to maximize the

“dressed-up” feeling of a dress

with something that doesn’t feel

neither uptight nor prissy.

Experiment with sizes. You can usually buy

the components separately so you may take

a smaller top than a bottom – either way,

you should find it easier to get a perfect fit

overall than with a dress.

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FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI & ISIOMA USIADE

Summer is the perfect time to plan a long weekend getaway, whether you’re craving the beach, pool, movies or party. No matter where you go, what you pack is crucial to arriving and staying stylish. Battling the traffic is hard enough. Here’s how to take the stress out of packing, wherever you’re bound. Rely on these fashion formulas and you’ll be ready for anything or a whole lot of nothing.

6PERFECT OUTFITS FOR A WEEKEND GETAWAY

For the Great Outdoors a perfectly simple top and white turn up-style shorts is a go for the summer look. Add a trendy simple basket woven bag and you’ll be ready for whatever the day brings.

Pounding the city pavement requires a bag that’s big enough to stash all your essentials water, sunblock, and that perfect lipstick. A lightweight maxi dress is a great summer choice, but ditch the heels in favour of distance-friendly flats.

A mini off-shoulder dress will keep you cool and classy. Slip-on sneakers lets you navigate tricky terrain without sacrificing style.

When relaxing oceanside, comfort is key. Pair soft wide pants with a crop top and a cool sun hat for comfort.

A night out on the town calls for your highest heels and sexiest outfit. Stay true to your style.

An airy romper worn with simple slip on transitions perfectly from a daytime stroll through town to an outdoor dinner under the stars.

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JULIET IBRAHIM

LISA FOLAWIYO

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MASCULINE

She Can WearWomen in the 21st century are dictating their own olfactory ground rules. And part of this fragrant

paradigm shift is the raid on male cologne shelves.We know without a doubt, that in perfumery, women are synonymous with floral scents that are sweet, subtle and elegant but some women don’t fit into that box. They are strong, sexy and intelligent and want their fragrance to match their personalities. So if you are one of these women, we have some fine choices to suit that personality of yours and the lucky thing is you don’t have to go far to purchase them, they are right

here in Nigeria at Montaigne’s place.

NOIR D’ORIENT – EVODY

This is pure elegance in a bottle. A Woody Spicy fragrance that

is Fresh, sweet, smoky and warm, with top

notes of incense and cinnamon; its middle notes are

cloves, rum and exotic spices while base

notes are driftwood and patchouli. From morning till night you’ll ooze seductiveness.

Just one spritz and – voilà – you’re good to go!

HEROES - FRANCK BOCLET An Oriental Woody fragrance its sweet, chewy,

smokiness lingers warmly on the skin and If you like a heady oriental - patchouli, amber,

oud and vanilla loom large - with a hint of mystery, this is for you.

PRIVATE LABEL –JOVOY PARISA vetiver leather dosed with patchouli and papyrus sedge, followed by a creamy, woodsy base, Private Label is bone dry and only lightly sweetened

yet soft and seductive. An ideal oriental scent. It leaves a trail while remaining consistent over time. Earthy, elegant, and stunning, Private Label is sure to appeal to vetiver and leather lovers, as well as any perfumista who wants to walk on the dark side.

DOM ROSA – LIQUIDES IMAGINAIRESDom Rosa incorporates a luxurious heart of rose, with touches of clove and incense suggesting the endless depths of character achievable from a master vineyard. As it dries, a sophisticated woodiness lingers like the last sip on the tongue, its pleasures sinking deep into the head, heart and soul. As the initial release of the Eau Sanguine trilogy of wine-inspired scents, Dom Rosa is truly one of the most unique fragrances we’ve encountered in a long while.

FRAGRANCES

HORA FUGIT -ATELIER FLOUHoga Fugit contains a mouthwatering range of notes –bergamot, fragrant lavender, orange, vanilla, patchouli and more. It’s easy to wear, unfussy and long lasting. For women it’s a great day-off fragrance that somehow goes rather well with denim. Finish with your hair in a ponytail, slick of lipstick and you’ve got outfit with attitude.

IRREVERENT - HISTOIRES DE PARFUMS

No woman should be without a super-sexy perfume, so say hello to your new evening

scent, Irreverent Histoires de Parfums. This fragrance is a fragrant freshness of Bergamot, Elemi and Lavender, clashing vigorously with a balm of Styrax and Oud, wanting to indulge

themselves in Patchouli’s impertinence and Sandalwood’s gushing insouciance. In short,

it’s the perfume equivalent of your little black dress!

BY FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI

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