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Dr. Abhay SheteMD, LLBMSc (Psychology)MSc (Sociology)
WELCOME TO COLLEGE
CREATE YOUR FUTURE
Common Scenario
LIFE – WHAT IS IT?
CHALLENGES TODAY
Success is created and doesn’t happen overnightThere are six steps to successful living
Acquiring of SkillsStrategic planningRelatedness and being with peopleForming positive public opinionBeing aware of TimeSeeking His Blessings
Steps to Success
The first steps is being proficient in your work.
There is no excuse for being inefficient.Efficiency needs sincerity and hard work.Be focused. Eat well, sleep properly and do
regular exercises.Nurture healthy habits. NO SMOKINGNO ALCOHOLManage your emotions properly especially
towards opposite sex.
Acquiring Skills
FOCUSED
Each and everyone has to plan for their careers.
Only you will be aware of the requirements of the goal you are seeking.
A stitch in time saves nine.Avoiding distractions – FB, Watsup, SMS and
chatting during reading hours is important. You can keep the cell on silent mode when
you are reading. Playing and excelling at sports is also
important.
Strategic Planning
IT NEEDS TO BE PLANNED
Everyone has to learn to live within the group.
It is an art that has to be cultivated. We need friends and seniors who can help us
and support us. Do not stay alone and encourage those not
mixing to come forward in the groups. Learn to handle differences – agree to
disagree.Learn to control anger. Praising gets you more value than criticising.
Staying with the Group
ALL OR NONE
Public opinion has to be created.You are being watched by people around you.Your ability to fight the distractions is being tested. You need to handle your physique, thoughts and
actions properly so that a positive opinion is created.
Learn to say No when you want to say No.You can not please all the people all the time. It doesn’t mean that you have to please people to
form good opinion. You have to stay firm on your convictions.
POSITIVE PUBLIC OPINION
WORKING TOGETHER
Being aware of the time is crucial for success.If the conditions are favorable the person
may get results. In case of failure, one must study the factors that resulted in failure and start again.
Our expectations from ourselves and others are dependent on the surroundings and hence the study of time is important.
However one must not blame stars for any failure. Though the conditions may not be favorable at present, they improve as time passes.
TIME
Knowledge of time
One has to remember that 99% of the results depend on the first 5 steps. The remaining 1% is by way of blessings.
Seeking His Blessings make us humble and down to earth. It is very easy to get carried over by success.
By praying and joining hands one can remain connected to the supreme powers.
One can be atheist and yet remain humble by acknowledging the powers of Universe.
Seeking help becomes easy once we learn to pray.
Blessings
FAITH IS IMPORTANT
Stay Focused on your dreams.Keep distractions to minimum. Cultivate healthy habits leading to healthy
body and mind. Cultivate healthy relationships – learn to
respect. Develop good emotional quotient by creating
positive emotions. Be part of a group that is conductive to your
development.
Take Home Message
ALL THE BEST