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    Table of Contents17 Types Of Smiles To Wear: A Guide For All

    Occasions

    My 7 Tips To Bring Up Smile #17

    10 Hidden Benefits of Smiling

    1. Get others to trust you

    2. Smile for leniency

    3. Recover from social slip-ups

    4. Because otherwise I'll feel bad

    5. Laugh off the hurt

    6. Grin for insight

    7. Smile for sex

    8. Hide what you really think

    9. Smile to make money

    10. Smile and (half) the world smiles with you

    A man without a smiling face must not open a shop

    Smile for longevity

    Just grin and bear it!

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    Smiling may lower your heart rate

    Study: Forcing a Smile Genuinely Decreases Stress

    Grin and Bear It: Smiling Facilitates Stress Recovery

    A man without a smiling face must not open a shop

    Smile for longevity

    7. Smile for sex

    19 Ways to Enhance Your Sense of Humor

    Health Benefits From Smiling

    Brain Connection

    Immune Boost

    Pain ReliefStress Reduction

    17 Types Of Smiles To Wear: A Guide For

    All OccasionsWhat happens when you feel the first instance of joy?Thats right. You break out in a smile.

    A smile is a facial expression with the upward contours at the ends of

    your mouth Sometimes, it may not be mouth that is telling of a smile;

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    it may just be that sparkle in your eyes! Hence, it is very possible to use

    a smile to communicate a thousand words.

    Most smiles are happy signs. They speak of joy, happiness, love or even

    pride. However, there are smiles that can also be an involuntary

    expression of anxiety, otherwise known as the grimace, or an expressionof embarrassment in a sheepish sort of way.

    Please also do not confuse a smile in a human with what seems like one

    in an animal. Animals baring their teeth which you may mistake for a

    smile is often used as a threat or warning display. In chimpanzees,

    rather than it being a sign for happiness, it can be a sign of fear.

    I was most amused when I came across this statement found in

    Wikipedia: Biologists believe the smile has evolved differently among

    species and especially among humans. I just cant imagine how a smilecan look so different back in the days of my great grandma. So, for the

    purposes of record keeping, I am going to publish my glossary guide for

    smiles and declare it to be the most updated one at this point in time.

    After 30 million years of human evolution, here is a list of smiles that

    you can currently wear for all ocassions. (Note: Your intent is very

    important when it comes to projecting the smile you wish to put on).

    1. Sweet Smile. This is the smile that

    melts hearts. One lookand you know you are

    done for! It is hard to

    say no to the request

    that accompanies it.

    Ive been hijacked

    several times over this

    smile (see my elder

    daugthers in the left

    picture)Sigh!!

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    2. I am in Love Smile.

    You cant mistake this

    smile from the rest.

    This smile exudes theenergy of pure love

    and bliss. It need not

    be just a romantic

    smile. A smile for the

    love of your pet also

    qualifies!

    3. Most Beautiful Smile. This is a smile that isSimply Breathtaking!

    It is a smile that

    causes others to skip a

    heartbeat! Hence, use

    it Sparingly, or ER

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    will have to be alerted

    !

    4. Happy Smile.

    This is a smile that

    reflects a happy and

    joyful heart. My

    younger daugther,

    who had previously

    been more of anintrovert, is now very

    much in her element

    (see left picture)!

    5. Thoughtful Smile. Your eyes look

    glazed. There is no

    eye contact in this

    smile because you are

    thinking about

    sometime faraway:

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    the longing for

    someone or the

    cherished memory of

    a past. You can still

    remember the joy and

    how it felt like. It is as

    if you are living the

    moment again; so you

    break out into this

    smile.

    5. I know it all Smile.You have the hint of a

    smile. It is also one

    that you cultivate as

    you get older, your

    mind filled with

    wonderful stories

    from your past. It is a

    smile that speaks

    volumes about thewisdom youve

    gained about life.

    6. The Sparkle in The Eyes

    Smile.The eyes say it all.

    Sparkling with

    excitement and sheer

    joy over an important

    discovery. No words

    need to be

    communicated.

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    7. I am the Boss Smile.

    Wear this smile ifthese thoughts run

    through your head:

    Say what??!!?? I am

    the boss. Come humor

    me!

    8. Lucky Smile.

    An almost

    embarrassed look.

    The smile that says"Im Lucky Again!"

    9. Amused Smile. Make a guess: whichis the amused and not

    so amused smile?

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    10. Naughty Or Up-to-No-

    Good Smile.

    This is the smile thatyou would wear when

    you are embarrassed

    for being caught red

    handed at something

    naugthy. My younger

    daugther is very good

    with this! Her smile

    (see picture on the

    left) is classic and a

    dead giveaway!

    11. Satisfied Smile. Put on this smile after

    a most satisfying

    experience such as a

    delicious meal,

    connecting with afriend or beating the

    computer in a chess

    game.

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    12. Contented Smile. This is a smile that

    needs to be

    distinguished from thesatisfied smile. A

    satisfied smile is one

    for having felt joy

    derived from an

    external factor,

    whereas a contented

    smile comes from

    within. A contentedsmile reflects quiet

    serenity, a sense of

    peace and fufilment in

    everyday joys. It is a

    "In the Now"Smile.

    13. Confident Smile. Wear this smile for

    any reason that you

    feel confident about.Even if it means

    showing off your

    braces!

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    14. Proud Smile.

    There is the hint of asmile that speaks of

    pride. A job well

    done.A Smile of

    Achievement.

    15. Sexy Smile. This smile needs

    some strategic

    positioning. It is to be

    projected at a 47-

    degree angle to the

    recipient, so that youare seen from your

    best side. You also

    need to tilt your head

    slightly downwards

    (for coyness) but with

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    eyes glancing up

    (daring the recipient

    to come forward) and

    if you are female,

    fluttering your

    eyelashes with

    deliberate intent.

    Leaning your head on

    one of your hands

    denotes helplessness:

    That You Need to be

    Rescued Quickly!!

    Overall, there is acertain mystery to

    your smile. I know

    it takes

    practice..but I

    assure you it works

    it was the smile that

    snarled my husband!!

    17. Cheered Up Smile. This is a smile thatyou wear with an

    uplift in your spirits.

    You put it on, after

    being in a better mood

    from a low. In fact, if

    it helps, this is THE

    smile that lit Tim

    Brownsons face (seeleft picture) after

    failing to get his new

    top-of-range and

    pricey laptop to work.

    Using his advice from

    http://www.adaringadventure.com/blog/wordpress/life-coaching/reasons-to-be-cheerful-heres-7/
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    7 Reasons To Be

    Cheerful, I propose

    that you wear this

    smile, even if you are

    similarly tempted to

    hack your

    dysfunctional PC to

    pieces.

    My 7 Tips To Bring Up Smile #17Since this blog is on self help, Im also throwing in my lifesaver tips for

    smile #17. I suggest you take notes carefully. There may just come atime when you will need a good cheer, from feeling lousy.

    1. Munching Chocolates. Chocolates can work wonders, since it

    contains alkaloids such as theobromine and phenethylamine, which have

    mood enhancing effects. I keep a stack of them in my fridge, out of sight

    from my sweet-toothed kids.

    2. Playing with my kids. My kids never fail to cheer me up. Of course,

    we have our fair share of trying moments. But mostly, their presence

    alone is great for bringing a smile to my face. There is something about

    them that makes me feel like squeezing and hugging them many times a

    day.

    Heres a piece of interesting research finding for you: Young children

    and toddlers laugh on average 300 times as compared to 15 times for an

    adult daily. Hence, if you want to be happy, then you should really be

    learning from the experts children!! To them, life is just one happy

    event after another. And it should be the same for you too!

    3. Walking In The Park. Being close to nature is therapeutic. Just

    breathing in the fresh air, taking in the sights of swaying trees andfeeling the gentle breeze does it for me! I always feel better after a walk

    in the park.

    4. Listening to Music. This is one of my favorites Built to Lastthe

    tempo is really upbeat, dont you think?

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    Only uplifting music makes the cut here. Now, dont play the above

    song if you are trying to get over your broken relationship.

    5. Watching A Comedy. Im with Tim on this tip. The only thing is that

    I dont watch as much TV anymore. But I know this tip works and will

    not hesitate to use it, if needed. My favorite shows used to be ThirdRock From The Sun, Friends, Seinfied and Mr Bean. I would sit

    curled up in my favorite arm chair, eating chocolates and having a good

    laugh.

    Its funny how laughter can also help put things in perspective. Since

    these shows typically reveal how dysfunctional life can be, they earn top

    marks for helping you re-evaluate yours and throw your blues away.

    6. Swimming. Doing laps can be rejuvenating. The rush of water while

    swimming is a good mental relaxer. Of course, it does not have to beswimming for you. Just about any exercise activity that puts you in a

    better mood will do.

    7. A Good Meditation Session. This tip beats all the above 6 because it

    is about joy that arises from internally rather than from an external

    stimulus. What is to be noted is that joy on its own, may or may not arise

    during the meditative session. From my understanding of Buddhist

    teachings, neither do you attempt to seek joy while meditating. Simply

    Be in the Now while meditating.Just being able to experience the sense of peace, above all the madness,

    is intrinstically uplifting. Inner peace comes when your mind settles and

    stays quiet, after all that frustration, despair and hopelessness over your

    troubles. In the meditative state, you feel a shift towards light. A veil of

    peace overtakes you and you find yourself cheered up, after the sitting.

    In Time, with Enough Meditative Practice, Youd Be Wearing Smile #12

    Naturally!

    1. Become comfortable with smiling. If you're not used to smiling

    regularly, overcoming your nervousness or cynicism about smiling cantake a little practice but like any habit, it's easy to reform with time.

    Some things to keep in mind include:

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    o A smile always looks good. Feeling nervous

    about the beauty or appearance of your smile is unnecessary. Trust that

    your smile makes you look great.

    o A smile is professional. Smiling at work or during other

    professional occasions is not going to make you seem unprofessional.

    Quite the opposite, a smile will humanize you and make you appear

    more approachable. People will appreciate your recognition of their

    worth and of a job well done when you smile.

    o A smile makes you real. If you're afraid of appearing

    vulnerable when you smile, accept that any form of vulnerabilitysuggested by a smile is precisely what makes it such a powerful act.

    You're opening yourself up to others and people will respond better to

    that than to a serious, unmoved demeanor. Moreover, a smile

    accompanied by an assertive personality will take care of any sense that

    people will use your smile to walk all over you!

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    Make your smile genuine. While it is perfectly possible to crack a

    smile when you feel terrible, angry, annoyed, or you're up to something

    nefarious, a genuine smile is much harder to fake; indeed, only around10 percent of the population can manage that feat.[2]

    o A genuine smile is detectable by others because it is

    accompanied by a general glow, smiling eyes where the outer corners

    crinkle and the lower lid tightens, and a reassuring demeanor that helps

    the viewer to feel more at ease in your presence. A genuine smile comes

    from being happy, positive, and from drawing your feelings from the

    heart.o Think happy thoughts. The easiest way to a fantastic, genuine

    smile is tobe happy. Think about someone you care about (perhaps the

    person standing in front of you as you smile), about something that you

    genuinely love to do, or think of a funny joke that you just find hilarious.

    Or think about the happiest moments in your life.

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    o Be genuine. Draw on your heartfelt feelings, not just

    rationalizations. When you're confronted by a person or situation that

    makes you feel ambivalent and you're oscillating between giving the

    cold shoulder or smiling, err on the side of smiling find one single

    thing in your heart that is positive about the person or situation beforeyou, and use that to create your smile.

    o Love people and your life. It's much easier to produce

    friendly, easygoing, genuine smiles when you love what you do, when

    you love the people around you, and when you love humanity in general.

    Be grateful for all that you have and you'll find smiles come far more

    naturally.

    o Be playful. Intense times can make us too serious. See life as

    an adventure, be gentle on yourself and watch children at play. Beingplayful will bring a smile to your face much more easily.

    3. 3

    Smile with your eyes. A wholehearted smile will naturally draw in the

    eyes (called a Duchenne smile). It is commonplace to hear a person say

    "her eyes were smiling", or to say "he didn't mean it; he was smiling but

    his eyes weren't". The eyes are essential for a genuine, warm smile.

    Your eyes light up, twinkle, and reflect your happiness. While it's hard

    to fake this unless you're really feeling it, you can try this exercise:

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    o To get a feel for how to make your eyes smile, stand in front

    of a mirrorand practice smiling, but concentrate only on your eyes. You

    may find it helpful to cover the lower part of your face with a piece of

    paper. Play around with it a bit, and you'll find that you can make your

    mouth smile when your eyes aren't smiling, and you can also smile only

    with your eyes. When your eyes do smile, remember how it feels, which

    muscles are working and how. With practice, you may discover how to

    smile with your eyes at will by relying on your feelings and muscle

    memory.

    4. 4

    Practice your smile. There is no harm in practicing your smile doing

    so will increase your smiling confidence, improve your sense of well-

    being,[3]

    and help you to learn which of your smiles are your best.

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    o Look at photos of yourself smiling, with a closed mouth,

    open mouth, and from different angles. Which smiles and poses make

    your face light up the most? Which smile displays your other features to

    their best possible advantage? Which smile comes across as the most

    natural, the most "you"?

    o Find that picture and focus on what your face is doing. Thenpractice in front of a mirror until you get it just right. Keep practicing,

    and pay attention to how that great smile feels, so that you'll be able to

    replicate it without looking in a mirror. Soon it will become second

    nature, and you'll likely find that you'll lookmore photogenic in your

    next batch of pictures.

    o If you want to improve your smile, look at pictures of smiles

    you believe are beautiful. Also, remember that you're beautiful (inside

    and out); your smile is bound to look better if you feel good aboutyourself!

    o Note the difference between a smile and a grin. Grins bare a

    lot more teeth (think Cheshire Cat) and are not necessarily flattering on

    all people, although for some people they can make you appear cute. If

    you're prone to grinning and it's not doing your appearance any favors,

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    try showing only your upper teeth when you smile. Showing your lower

    teeth can make it seem you're baring your teeth.

    o When showing teeth, pressing the tongue behind the teeth

    will make small gaps look less noticeable.

    o Practice smiling at random strangers.[4] Make a choice thatyou'll do this, make brief eye contact with a person, and smile. As you

    do so, think happy thoughts (it helps to choose someone attractive to

    begin with). Don't choose a person with sunglasses; you need to see their

    eyes. Not everyone will smile back but note how you feel when they do!

    5. 5

    Maintain good oral hygiene. One thing that can cause you to fear

    smiling is the worry that there is something stuck between your teeth, orthat you have bad breath. Eliminate these hygiene sources of worry by

    taking active steps to keep your mouth fresh and clean.

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    o Brush your teeth and tongue regularly, carry floss with youwherever you go so that you can clean up after dining, and have breath

    freshener on you at all times (natural or commercial).

    o See your dentist regularly for teeth check-ups and cleaning,

    as well as discussing options for teeth straightening, etc., if this is a

    concern for you. When you smile people will inevitably look at your

    mouth, so following these considerations will help you make a better

    impression, and, more importantly, a healthy mouth will make you feel

    more confident about smiling.o If your teeth are stained, consider your lifestyle habits that

    bring this about and try to minimize the impacts of such habits as

    smoking or drinking too much red wine, coffee, soft drinks, etc.

    o Keep your lips in great shape to prevent chapping.

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    o Deal with bad breath. If it's surface, cleaning and fresheners

    should be adequate. If these do not work, it may be a sign of an

    underlying health problem, so see your doctor for advice.

    6. 6

    Expect smiling to be difficult in some situations. Smiling on demand

    can be difficult, whether it's for a photo or for the sake of keeping mom

    happy when the relatives you can't stand visit. This is because you are

    feeling self-conscious or you lack a genuine reason for smiling. In these

    sorts of cases, smiling needs to come from your memory of good smiles

    along with a little self-kidding or jokes in the head.

    o

    For a photo, smile 20 percent more than you think youshould.[5]

    o Smile wide and show the top row of teeth.

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    Enjoy the many benefits of a smile. In order to want to smile, it really

    helps to know what benefits a smile can bring to your day. The

    following benefits are bound to make you lean towards sharing a grin

    with others most of the day:

    o Smiles improve your appearance. Charles Gordy once

    quipped: "A smile is an inexpensive way to change your looks". All you

    need to do is think about how you feel about a person who is frowning

    and a person who is smiling who tends to be the better looking?

    o Smiles make things right again and say much more than

    words can. If you've goofed, said something less than complimentary,

    feel lost or alone, or feel down, a smile can restore the balance. It lets

    other people know that you're prepared to be open with them, and that

    you're willingly agreeing to make amends where needed.

    o Smiles create trust and rapport. A smile is a great way ofestablishing mutual feelings of being on the same level as others,

    whether that is one-to-one or in front of a group giving a presentation. It

    says "I'm OK, you're OK, and we're all going to enjoy one another's

    company."

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    o Smiles make you feel good. Even if you're feeling a little

    blue, insert happy thoughts into your mind and just add that smile. It will

    trick your mind into feeling better, as endorphins are released to reduce

    physical or emotional stress.[6][7]

    o Smiles make other people feel good. An open-mouthed smileis visible from further away than a frown, offering people reassurance

    that you're friendly.[8] And it makes people feel better to see a smile,

    from afar or close-up.

    o Wrinkles are better when they're smile lines rather than frown

    lines. Mark Twain said: "Wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles

    have been"; viewed this way, smiles are an indication of your overall

    character, which becomes more and more outwardly telling as you age!

    o Smiling is a good long-term predictor of happier lifeoutcomes.[9] It's correlated with health, happiness, friends, success, and a

    longer life.[10]

    o See How to Smile for Better Health.

    o See How to Smile to Be Happy.

    Tips

    8. Opportunities for smiling are all around you. Make the most of

    them.9. You don't need perfect teeth to have a perfect smile. Not

    everybody has perfect teeth, and that's okay. Straight teeth are nice, but a

    great smile doesn't depend on standard model's teeth. That said, if you

    feel uncomfortable about your teeth you may be reluctant to smile, and

    that's no good. If that's the case, either learn to appreciate your

    individuality or look into cosmetic dentistry procedures. Or, you could

    smile with your mouth closed if preferred.

    10. Wear clothes that smile. Add to your positive body language the

    color of happiness. Yellow is the color for dependability. A soft yellowis non-threatening and friendly. Warm colors from the yellow family are

    welcoming. Golds, browns, golden-oranges, are all dependable colors of

    friendship. Blues are passive and calm colors. In the visual language,

    soft blues project a serenity and quiet peacefulness. Avoid reds that are

    come across as aggressive and threatening.

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    11. Don't let the anger of others get you down. An easy way to

    remember this is to think of "Jenna," the average Starbucks employee.

    Jenna has to sit through the complaints of dozens of customers a day, but

    she's always got a smile on her face because she knows she has amazing

    friends!12. You've probably heard of "contagious" or "infectious" smiles.

    There's a reason for this when you smile, it tends to make others

    around you smile. Even in the most stressful times, a roomful of smiles

    can brighten everybody's mood.

    13. Ever laugh hysterically about something you've just seen? Take

    that memory but just laugh slightly and now you have a natural pretty

    smile.

    14. A lot of men feel uncomfortable about smiling at strangers,especially at other males. If that is the case, then just offer a casual "Hi",

    or "Hey man!", or "What's goin' on?". It works just as well, and feels

    less awkward for a lot of guys.

    15. Try a light smile: don't show as many teeth as you would when

    you're laughing. It's the best smile for flirting - light and seductive.

    16. If you have a tooth that pokes out a bit at the side, as many people

    sometimes do, try to get your lip to go above it so your lip doesn't catch

    on the tooth when you smile.17. Don't compare yourself to the celebrities you see on TV, in

    pictures, etc., because they are faking it. Instead, be yourself, be natural,

    and be genuine. Everybody has a smile waiting to burst out from inside

    them somewhere!

    18. Pretend like you're laughing when you're smiling.

    19. People will think you are a better and more fun person when you

    smile! Even if it is in the darkest of times!

    20. Dont pretend to smile! Only smile when you want to or have

    the urge to! Dont fake it but dont have a gloomy face!

    Warnings

    A fake smile can make you look phony, nervous, or even

    dangerous, so don't just try to put on a smile without first practicing or

    putting yourself in a happy state of mind. You can spot a fake smile

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    from a genuine (or Duchenne) smile a fake smile is one where the

    corners of the mouth aren't turned up, or the mouth is solely smiling,

    with no change at all in the eyes. You'll know it when you see it as you

    pick up the subtle body language cues that confuse you as to the smiler's

    intention; and if it's you making the fake smile, check your emotions toknow whether or not you mean the smile.

    Try to make sure you don't have spinach or something stuck in

    your teeth because you'll leave a poor impression. Duck out to the

    bathroom after a meal and quickly refresh; this is even more important

    when you know your teeth are prone to catching bits of food.

    There is no scientific study saying how many muscles it takes to

    smile over frowning.[11] It's probably just better to accept that smiling is

    worthwhile because the longer term benefits are worth the effort!

    A man without a smiling face must not open a shopThere is an old Chinese saying that goes something like this: A man

    without a smiling face must not open a shop.

    That same phenomenon has much the same effect on interviewers. In a

    survey conducted among 5000 human resource managers, one of the

    questions was: What do you look for most in a candidate? Of the2756 who responded, 2322 ranked enthusiasm first. The first thing

    interviewers look for in a candidate is vitality and enthusiasm. Many

    candidates with the right background experience and skills disqualify

    themselves with a demeanor that suggests they lack energy.

    The easiest way to convey energy and enthusiasm is to smile. Now

    theres a tip that you can implement today. No waiting, no paying for

    expensive degrees, no buying a new suit just smile!!

    In the classic little book, The Magic of Thinking Big, DavidSchwartz challenges the readers with this test: Try to feel defeated and

    smile big at the same time. You cant. A big smile gives you confidence.

    A big smile beats fear, rolls away worry, defeats despondency. That

    sounds like a great preparation for your next interview.

    A man without a smiling face must not open a shop

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    What a great Chinese proverb.

    It is spot on and a key part of delivering a great brand experience at the

    buy stage of the path to purchase. The first moment of truth.

    We all know shops we have visited when we had a poor brand

    experience with the sales person (rude, poor advice, no smile, etc). As a

    result we may have been put off buying or at least felt less inclined to

    rush back to buy again.

    On the other hand, we have also all had a great interaction with a

    salesperson. A smile was probably a key part that left you with the

    feeling of a good buying experience.

    It does not take much but can make a big difference.

    Retailers know this but don't always have clear values or training in

    place.

    Sure, it takes time and money but if you look at the loyalty and potential

    advocacy it is worth it [check-out advocacy drives growth paper from

    LSE].

    POSTED BY ANDREW WEIR AT WEDNESDAY,

    SEPTEMBER 07, 2011LABELS: BUY, FIRST MOMENT OF TRUTH, LSE

    10 Hidden Benefits of SmilingSmiles are about much more than just showing pleasure. Psychological

    research reveals 10 ways to use them to your advantage.

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    People are always smiling, especially in groups, but it doesn't just signal

    that they're happy, far from it. We use smiles for specific social purposes

    because they can send out all sorts of signals that can be useful for us1.

    Here are ten ways smiles can be used to our advantage by sending out

    messages about our trustworthiness, attractivity, sociability and more.1. Get others to trust you

    In a world where everyone is out for themselves, who should we trust?

    One signal that suggests we are trustworthy is a smile. Genuine smiles

    send a message that other people can trust and cooperate with us. People

    who smile are rated higher in both generosity and extraversion and when

    people share with each other they tend to display genuine smiles (Mehu

    et al., 2007).

    Economists even consider that smiles have a value. In one study byScharlemann et al. (2001) participants were more likely to trust another

    person if they were smiling. This study found that a smile increased

    people's willingness to trust by about 10%.

    2. Smile for leniency

    When people do bad things they often smile when they are caught. Is

    this to their benefit?

    According to a study conducted by LaFrance and Hecht (1995), it can

    be. We treat people who've broken the rules with more leniency if theysmile afterwards. It doesn't matter whether it's a false smile, a miserable

    smile or a real felt smile, they all work to make us want to give the

    transgressor a break.

    This seems to work because we find people who smile after breaking the

    rules more trustworthy than those who don't.

    3. Recover from social slip-ups

    Did you forget to buy your partner an anniversary present? Has an

    important client's name slipped your mind? Have you accidentally

    kicked a small child? If you've tripped on a social banana,embarrassment is your go-to emotion.

    The function of embarrassment is to get us out of tight social spots

    (Keltner & Buswell, 1997). The embarrassed smiles we display involve

    looking down and sometimes we emit a silly little laugh. This is

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    designed to elicit fellow-feeling from other people so they think less of

    the slip and forgive us more quickly.

    So the embarrassed smile helps us get out of jail free(ish). Once again,

    the power of a smile.

    4. Because otherwise I'll feel badSometimes we smile both because it's polite and so that we can avoid

    feeling bad afterwards. Like when someone enthuses about how they

    saved a small amount of money with a coupon they found down the back

    of the sofa. It hardly seems to warrant a smile but you muster one

    anyway because it's polite.

    In one study people were asked to remain stony-faced after hearing

    someone else's good news (LaFrance, 1997). They felt bad afterwards

    and thought the other person would think worse of them as a result.So we nod and smile politely because otherwise we'll regret it

    afterwards. Women, though, seem to feel this pressure to smile at the

    happy news of others more than men.

    5. Laugh off the hurt

    Smiling is one way to reduce the distress caused by an upsetting

    situation. Psychologists call this the facial feedback hypothesis. Even

    forcing a smile when we don't feel like it is enough to lift our mood

    slightly (this is one example ofembodied cognition).A word of warning: smiling at upsetting things may work but it doesn't

    look good to others. When Ansfield (2007) had participants viewing

    distressing videos, those who smiled felt better afterwards than those

    who didn't. But people who smiled at distressing images were judged

    less likeable by others.

    6. Grin for insight

    When we're nervous our attention tends to narrow. We stop noticing

    what's going on around the edges and only see what's right in front of us.

    This is true in both a literal and a metaphorical sense: when nervous orstressed we're less likely to notice ideas that are at the edge of our

    consciousness. But to gain insight into a problem, it's often precisely

    these peripheral ideas we need.

    Cue a smile.

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    Smiling makes us feel good which also increases our attentional

    flexibility and our ability to think holistically. When this idea was tested

    by Johnson et al. (2010), the results showed that participants who smiled

    performed better on attentional tasks which required seeing the whole

    forest rather than just the trees.So a smile really can help give us a burst of insight.

    7. Smile for sexA woman's smile has a magical effect on men, over and above eye

    contact. One study examined how men approached women in a bar

    (Walsh & Hewitt, 1985). When a woman only established eye contact

    with a man, she was approached 20% of the time. When the same

    woman added a smile, though, she was approached 60% of the time.

    When men smile at women, though, the effect is less magical. While

    smiling increases women's attractiveness to men, it doesn't work so well

    the other way around. Indeed there's some evidence men look more

    attractive to women when displaying pride or even shame, than when

    they look happy (Tracy & Beall, 2011). Less smiling makes a man look

    more masculine.

    8. Hide what you really think

    Psychologists used to think that a genuine smile never lies. Fake smilesinvolve only the mouth, while real smilescalled Duchenne smiles by

    psychologistsreach up to the eyes. Recent research, though, suggests

    that 80% of people can fake the crinkly eyes central to a Duchenne smile

    (see Duchenne: Key to a Genuine Smile?).

    So smiles can be used to hide what we really think, but it's still not easy

    to fake a real smile because they have to be timed correctly. A key to a

    trustworthy smile is that it has a slow onset, i.e. it takes about half a

    second to spread across the face. One piece of research has found that incomparison to a fast onset smile (about a tenth of a second to spread),

    slow onset smiles are judged more trustworthy, authentic and even more

    flirtatious (see: A Slow Smile Attracts).

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    9. Smile to make money

    We've already seen that economists have calculated the value of a smile,

    but can a smile make us real cash-money? Apparently the broad smile of

    a waitress can: Tidd and Lockard (1978) found smiling waitresses made

    more in tips (there's no study on waiters).More generally people in service industries, like flight attendants or

    those in entertainment and hospitality are effectively paid to smile at

    customers. But, watch out, a constant mismatch between felt and

    displayed emotioncalled emotional labour by psychologistscan be

    exhausting, possibly leading to job burnout.

    A smile may make money, but it can also be draining.

    10. Smile and (half) the world smiles with you

    One of the simple social pleasures of life, which goes almost unnoticedbecause it's automatic, is when you smile at someone and they smile

    back.

    As you'll have noticed, though, not everyone does smile back. Hinsz and

    Tomhave (1991) wanted to see what proportion of people would respond

    to a smile aimed at them with their own smile. Their results suggest

    around 50% of people reciprocate. In comparison almost no one

    responds to a frown with their own frown.

    Smile for longevityIf none of these studies can coax a smile out of you then consider this:

    people who smile more may live longer. A study of pictures taken of

    baseball players in 1952 suggests those smiling outlived their non-

    smiling counterparts by seven years (Abel & Kruger, 2010).

    Now there's a reason to smile.

    ----1There are also all sorts of cultural and gender differences in why and

    how we smile. Women generally smile more than men, although thisstill depends on the situation. Across cultures, Russians smile the least

    and Americans the most. American smiles, though, tend to be more

    'fake', i.e. involving mainly the mouth rather than both the mouth and the

    eyes.

    Image credit: Ben Ishaque Luthor

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    Just grin and bear it!At some point, we have all probably heard or thought something like

    this when facing a tough situation. But is there any truth to this piece of

    advice? Feeling good usually makes us smile, but does it work the other

    way around? Can smiling actually make us feel better?

    In a study forthcoming inPsychological Science, a journal of the

    Association for Psychological Science, psychological scientists Tara

    Kraft and Sarah Pressman of the University of Kansas investigate the

    potential benefits of smiling by looking at how different types of

    smiling, and the awareness of smiling, affects individuals ability to

    recover from episodes of stress.

    Age old adages, such as grin and bear it have suggested smiling to be

    not only an important nonverbal indicator of happiness but also

    wishfully promotes smiling as a panacea for lifes stressful events, says

    Kraft. We wanted to examine whether these adages had scientific merit;

    whether smiling could have real health-relevant benefits.

    Smiles are generally divided into two categories:standardsmiles, whichuse the muscles surrounding the mouth, and genuine orDuchenne

    smiles, which engage the muscles surrounding both the mouth and eyes.

    Previous research shows that positive emotions can help during times of

    stress and that smiling can affect emotion; however, the work of Kraft

    and Pressman is the first of its kind to experimentally manipulate the

    types of smiles people make in order to examine the effects of smiling

    on stress.

    The researchers recruited 169 participants from a Midwestern university.The study involved two phases: training and testing. During the training

    phase, participants were divided into three groups, and each group was

    trained to hold a different facial expression. Participants were instructed

    to hold chopsticks in their mouths in such a way that they engaged facial

    muscles used to create a neutral facial expression, a standard smile, or a

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    Duchenne smile. Chopsticks were essential to the task because they

    forced people to smile without them being aware that they were doing

    so: only half of the group members were actually instructed to smile.

    For the testing phase, participants were asked to work on multitasking

    activities. What the participants didnt know was that the multitaskingactivities were designed to be stressful. The first stress-inducing activity

    required the participants to trace a star with their non-dominant hand by

    looking at a reflection of the star in a mirror. The second stress-inducing

    activity required participants to submerge a hand in ice water.

    During both of the stressful tasks, participants held the chopsticks in

    their mouth just as they were taught in training. The researchers

    measured participants heart rates and self-reported stress levels

    throughout the testing phase.The results of the study suggest that smiling may actually influence our

    physical state: compared to participants who held neutral facial

    expressions, participants who were instructed to smile, and in particular

    those with Duchenne smiles, had lower heart rate levels after recovery

    from the stressful activities. The participants who held chopsticks in a

    manner that forced them to smile, but were not explicitly told to smile as

    part of the training, also reported a smaller decrease in positive affect

    compared to those who held neutral facial expressions.These findings show that smiling during brief stressors can help to

    reduce the intensity of the bodys stress response, regardless of whether

    a person actually feels happy.

    The next time you are stuck in traffic or are experiencing some other

    type of stress, says Pressman, you might try to hold your face in a

    smile for a moment. Not only will it help you grin and bear it

    psychologically, but it might actually help your heart health as well!

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    For more information about this study, please contact: Tara Kraft [email protected] or Sarah Pressman at [email protected].

    ###

    The APS journalPsychological Science is the highest ranked empirical

    journal in psychology. For a copy of the article "Grin and Bear It: The

    Influence of Manipulated Positive Facial Expression on the Stress

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    Response" and access to otherPsychological Science research findings,

    please contact Anna Mikulakat 202-293-9300 or

    [email protected].

    Smiling may lower your heart rateNext time you're stuck in traffic, quell your road rage by flashing a quick

    smile.

    Researchers from the University of Kansas had college students hold

    chopsticks in their mouths to simulate either a smile or a neutral

    expression, and then induced a stressful situation. (Besides having

    chopsticks in their mouths.) The results? Smilers had lower heart ratesand reduced stress responses compared to the straight-faced subjects.

    Researchers believe that activating certain facial muscles--like those

    used to smile--sends a message to your brain: You're happy. Calm down.

    Lead researcher Sarah Pressman, Ph.D., an assistant professor at the

    University of Kansas, explains: "It's not just that our brains are happy

    and make us smile, it can also be the opposite--we feel the smile and

    become happy," she says.

    What about lowering your heart rate? "If you're happy, you perceivestress differently and feel less threatened," says Pressman.

    But here's the kicker: You don't have to actually be happy to reap the

    benefits. People in the study weren't necessarily in a good mood--they

    just faked a smile. So skip flipping off the guy who's driving like a jerk,

    and force a grin instead. Even though you may feel awkward, it's an easy

    way to break a very short stress response, says Pressman.

    (Want more quick health tips like this one delivered to your inbox every

    a.m.? Sign up forour free Daily Dose newsletter!)

    Next time you're stuck in traffic, quell your road rage by flashing a quick

    smile.

    Researchers from the University of Kansas had college students hold

    chopsticks in their mouths to simulate either a smile or a neutral

    expression, and then induced a stressful situation. (Besides having

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    chopsticks in their mouths.) The results? Smilers had lower heart rates

    and reduced stress responses compared to the straight-faced subjects.

    Researchers believe that activating certain facial muscles--like those

    used to smile--sends a message to your brain: You're happy. Calm down.

    Lead researcher Sarah Pressman, Ph.D., an assistant professor at theUniversity of Kansas, explains: "It's not just that our brains are happy

    and make us smile, it can also be the opposite--we feel the smile and

    become happy," she says.

    What about lowering your heart rate? "If you're happy, you perceive

    stress differently and feel less threatened," says Pressman.

    But here's the kicker: You don't have to actually be happy to reap the

    benefits. People in the study weren't necessarily in a good mood--they

    just faked a smile. So skip flipping off the guy who's driving like a jerk,and force a grin instead. Even though you may feel awkward, it's an easy

    way to break a very short stress response, says Pressman.

    (Want more quick health tips like this one delivered to your inbox every

    a.m.? Sign up forour free Daily Dose newsletter!)

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    By Lindsay Abrams

    Study: Forcing a Smile GenuinelyDecreases Stress

    Adding a smile to your to-do list can ease the stress of multitasking.

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    PROBLEM: Happiness makes us smile, but can smiling make us

    happy? Even if it's a fake smile, because your mouth is propped open by

    chopsticks? There's the standard smile, which remains located in the

    muscles surrounding the mouth, and the genuine (or Duchenne) smile,

    which spreads to the eyes and, at least anecdotally, both looks and feelswarmer and more natural. Does one work better than the other?

    METHODOLOGY: In an experiment that was smile-worthy in its own

    right, researchers used chopsticks to manipulate the facial muscles of

    their 169 participants into a neutral expression, a standard smile, or a

    Duchenne smile. In addition to the chopstick placement, some were

    explicitly instructed to smile. Then, they were subjected to a series of

    stress-inducing, multitasking activities, which they struggled to performwhile continuing to hold the chopsticks in their mouths. The subjects'

    heart rates and self-reported stress levels were monitored throughout.

    RESULTS: The participants who were instructed to smile recovered

    from the stressful activities with lower hear rates than participants who

    held neutral expressions, and those with Duchenne smiles were the most

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    relaxed of all, with the most positive affect. Those with forced smiles

    held only by the chopsticks also reported more positive feelings than

    those who didn't smile at all.

    CONCLUSION: When a situation has you feeling stressed or flustered,

    even the most forced of smiles can genuinely decrease your stress andmake you happier.

    The full study,"Grin and Bear It: The Influence of Manipulated Positive

    Facial Expression on the Stress Response," is published in the journal

    Psychological Science .

    Grin and Bear It: Smiling FacilitatesStress RecoveryJuly 30, 2012 Just grin and bear it! At some point, we have all

    probably heard or thought something like this when facing a tough

    situation. But is there any truth to this piece of advice? Feeling good

    usually makes us smile, but does it work the other way around? Can

    smiling actually make us feel better?

    In a study forthcoming inPsychological Science, a journal of the

    Association for Psychological Science, psychological scientists TaraKraft and Sarah Pressman of the University of Kansas investigate the

    potential benefits of smiling by looking at how different types of

    smiling, and the awareness of smiling, affects individuals' ability to

    recover from episodes of stress.

    "Age old adages, such as 'grin and bear it' have suggested smiling to be

    not only an important nonverbal indicator of happiness but also

    wishfully promotes smiling as a panacea for life's stressful events," says

    Kraft. "We wanted to examine whether these adages had scientific merit;whether smiling could have real health-relevant benefits."

    Smiles are generally divided into two categories:standardsmiles, which

    use the muscles surrounding the mouth, and genuine orDuchenne

    smiles, which engage the muscles surrounding both the mouth and eyes.

    Previous research shows that positive emotions can help during times of

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    stress and that smiling can affect emotion; however, the work of Kraft

    and Pressman is the first of its kind to experimentally manipulate the

    types of smiles people make in order to examine the effects of smiling

    on stress.

    The researchers recruited 169 participants from a Midwestern university.The study involved two phases: training and testing. During the training

    phase, participants were divided into three groups, and each group was

    trained to hold a different facial expression. Participants were instructed

    to hold chopsticks in their mouths in such a way that they engaged facial

    muscles used to create a neutral facial expression, a standard smile, or a

    Duchenne smile. Chopsticks were essential to the task because they

    forced people to smile without them being aware that they were doing

    so: only half of the group members were actually instructed to smile.For the testing phase, participants were asked to work on multitasking

    activities. What the participants didn't know was that the multitasking

    activities were designed to be stressful. The first stress-inducing activity

    required the participants to trace a star with their non-dominant hand by

    looking at a reflection of the star in a mirror. The second stress-inducing

    activity required participants to submerge a hand in ice water.

    During both of the stressful tasks, participants held the chopsticks in

    their mouth just as they were taught in training. The researchersmeasured participants' heart rates and self-reported stress levels

    throughout the testing phase.

    The results of the study suggest that smiling may actually influence our

    physical state: compared to participants who held neutral facial

    expressions, participants who were instructed to smile, and in particular

    those with Duchenne smiles, had lower heart rate levels after recovery

    from the stressful activities. The participants who held chopsticks in a

    manner that forced them to smile, but were not explicitly told to smile as

    part of the training, also reported a smaller decrease in positive affectcompared to those who held neutral facial expressions.

    These findings show that smiling during brief stressors can help to

    reduce the intensity of the body's stress response, regardless of whether a

    person actually feels happy.

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    "The next time you are stuck in traffic or are experiencing some other

    type of stress," says Pressman, "you might try to hold your face in a

    smile for a moment. Not only will it help you 'grin and bear it'

    psychologically, but it might actually help your heart health as well!"

    Share this story on Facebook, Twitter, andGoogle:

    19 Ways to Enhance Your Sense of HumorWhat is the greatest reward of being alive? Is it chocolate, sex, ice cream, tropical

    vacations, hugs from children, a perfect nights sleep, or the satisfaction of a job

    well done? A thousand people, a thousand different answers. But one supreme

    pleasure that spans all people is

    laughter.

    Little can compare to the feeling of a deep, complete, heartfelt laughing spell. No

    matter your age, wealth, race, or living situation, life is good when laughter is

    frequent.

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    Life is also healthier. Research finds that humor can help you cope better with

    pain, enhance your immune system, reduce stress, even help you live longer.

    Laughter, doctors and psychologists agree, is an essential component of a healthy,

    happy life.

    As Mark Twain once said, Studying humor is like dissecting a frog you mayknow a lot but you end up with a dead frog. Nonetheless, were giving it a try.

    Here are 19 tips for getting or growing your sense of humor, based partly on

    the idea that you cant be funny if you dont understand what funny is.

    1. First, regain your smile. A smile and a laugh arent the same thing, but they do

    live in the same neighborhood. Be sure to smile at simple pleasures the sight of

    kids playing, a loved one or friend approaching, the successful completion of a

    task, the witnessing of something amazing or humorous. Smiles indicate that stress

    and the weight of the world havent overcome you. If your day isnt marked by at

    least a few dozen, then you need to explore whether you are depressed or overlystressed.

    2. Treat yourself to a comedy festival. Rent movies likeMeet the Parents; Young

    Frankenstein; Pee-Wees Big Adventure; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; This

    Is Spinal Tap; Animal House; Blazing Saddles; Trading Places; Finding Nemo.

    Reward yourself frequently with the gift of laughter, Hollywood style.

    3. Recall several of the most embarrassing moments in your life. Then find the

    humor in them. Now practice telling stories describing them in a humorous way. It

    might take a little exaggeration or dramatization, but thats what good storytelling

    is all about. By revealing your vulnerable moments and being self-deprecating, you

    open yourself up much more to the humorous aspects of life.

    Plus: 5 Ways Love Makes You Smarter

    4. Anytime something annoying and frustrating occurs, turn it on its head and

    find the humor. Sure, you can be angry at getting splashed with mud, stepping in

    dog poop, or inadvertently throwing a red towel in with the white laundry. In fact,

    that is probably the most normal response. But it doesnt accomplish anything

    other than to put you in a sour mood. Better to find a way to laugh at lifes little

    annoyances. One way to do that: Think about it as if it happened to someone else,

    someone you like or maybe someone you dont. In fact, keep running through

    the Rolodex in your head until you find the best person you can think of to put inyour current predicament. Laugh at him, then laugh at yourself!

    5. Read the comics every day and cut out the ones that remind you of your

    life. Post them on a bulletin board or the refrigerator or anywhere else you can see

    them frequently.

    6. Sort through family photographs and write funny captions or one-liners to

    go with your favorites. When you need a pick-me-up, pull out the album.

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    7. Every night at dinner, make family members share one funny or even

    embarrassing moment of their day.

    Plus: 20 Secrets Your Waiter Wont Tell You

    8. When a person offends you or makes you angry, respond with humor

    rather than hostility. For instance, if someone is always late, say, Well, Im gladyoure not running an airline. Life is too short to turn every personal affront into a

    battle. However, if you are constantly offended by someone in particular, yes, take

    it seriously and take appropriate action. But for occasional troubles, or if nothing

    you do can change the person or situation, take the humor response.

    Check out the Top 10 list archive from David Letterman. You can find it

    at cbs.com.

    10. Spend 15 minutes a day having a giggling session. Heres how you do it:

    You and another person (partner, kid, friend, etc.) lie on the floor with your head

    on her stomach, and her head on another persons stomach and so on (the morepeople the better). The first person says, Ha. The next person says, Ha-ha. The

    third person says, Ha-ha-ha. And so on. We guarantee youll be laughing in no

    time.

    11. Read the activity listings page in the newspaper and choose some laugh-

    inducing events to attend. It could be the circus, a movie, a stand-up comic, or a

    funny play. Sometimes it takes a professional to get you to regain your sense of

    humor.

    12. Add an item to your daily to-do list: Find something humorous. Dont mark

    it off until you do it, suggests Jeanne Robertson, a humor expert and author ofseveral books on the topic.

    13. When you run into friends or coworkers, ask them to tell you one funny

    thing that has happened to them in the past couple of weeks. Become known as a

    person who wants to hear humorous true stories as opposed to an individual who

    prefers to hear gossip, suggests Robertson.

    14. Find a humor buddy. This is someone you can call just to tell him something

    funny; someone who will also call you with funny stories of things hes seen or

    experienced, says Robertson.

    Download the free Jokes & Funny True Stories iPhone app.

    15. Exaggerate and overstate problems. Making the situation bigger than life canhelp us to regain a humorous perspective, says Patty Wooten, R.N., an award-

    winning humorist and author ofCompassionate Laughter: Jest for the Health of It.

    Cartoon caricatures, slapstick comedy, and clowning articles are all based on

    exaggeration, she notes.

    16. Develop a silly routine to break a dark mood. It could be something as silly

    as speaking with a Swedish accent (unless you are Swedish, of course).

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    17. Create a humor environment. Have a ha-ha bulletin board where you only

    post funny sayings or signs, suggests Allen Klein, an award-winning professional

    speaker and author ofThe Healing Power of Humor. His favorite funny sign:

    Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, and the pig likes it.

    18. Experiment with jokes. Learn one simple joke each week and spread itaround. One of Kleins favorites relates to his baldness: What do you call a line of

    rabbits walking backward? A receding hare line.

    19. Focus humor on yourself. Because of my lack of hair, Klein says, I tell

    people that Im a former expert on how to cure baldness.

    Learn more about the healing power of laughter.

    Health Benefits From Smiling

    People smile for a variety of reasons, including fear, contempt,misery and happiness, notes the Harvard Business School. Yourfirst smile, which probably had no emotional significance,probably occurred a few hours after you were born. Within acouple of months, a baby starts to smile in response to ahuman face. Happy smiles, as documented by scientific studies,benefit your health in numerous ways.Sponsored Link

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    Brain Connection

    Your smile muscles are connected to mood centers in yourbrain, notes Emory University's Blomeyer Health Fitness Center.

    A theory, first devised by Charles Darwin, contends that afeedback loop from the muscles that control smiling activatesyour brain's happy place and may put you in a brighter mood.Similarly, people who readily smile in response to somethingthey find funny report being more amused than people whorefrain from using their smile muscles. By contrast, people whohave lost control of those muscles and are unable to smile showmore frequent signs of depression.

    Immune Boost

    Laughter, which generally involves smiling, may improve yourimmunity and take away your pain, according to a study,published in the November-December 2010 issue of the journal"Alternative Therapies in Health and Medicine." Laughter offersphysiological, psychological and spiritual benefits with virtuallyno contraindications -- medical reasons to abstain from it -- andalmost no adverse side effects. Also, as far as your brain isconcerned, it's just as effective to make yourself laugh as if you

    find a cartoon or something else in your environment to behumorous.

    Pain Relief

    Smiling causes a release of endorphins, your body's naturalpain-relieving and feel-good hormones, notes Dr. David Beales,co-author of "Emotional Healing for Dummies." Practicereleasing them by starting your day with a smile or smiling atyourself in the mirror when brushing your teeth, shaving or

    putting on makeup. Make it a point to share a smile withsomeone you meet during the day. Also, the company you keepwill influence the number of smiles-per-day. The more smilesyou desire, the more jovial people you will likely seek out orgravitate toward.

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    Stress Reduction

    Stress-reducing effects of smiling may include decreased levelsof the stress hormone cortisol and lower blood pressure,

    according to a study, published in the January 2001 issue of thejournal "Australian Family Physician." Smiling also improvesyour creativity, a vital function for effective problem-solving. Inaddition, assuming a position with your arms open, head tiltedupward and your face smiling radiates pride and competenceand decreases levels of cortisol, according to a study, publishedin the Sept. 21, 2010, issue of the journal "PsychologicalScience OnlineFirst."