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Understanding Self-Esteem
February 6, 2014Kent Gomez, M.S.
And How To Keep It High
Video: Wear Sunscreen
Write down 3 things that you’ve got from this clip.
What stood out to you?
What images caught your eye?
What messages from the piece caught your attention?
In one sentence, how would you summarize this video clip?
What is Self-Esteem?
A person’s overall evaluation or appraisal of his or her own worth.
Your CORE BELIEF about yourself.
Our core beliefs--true or false, real or imagined--
form the inner compass that guides our choices.
At the heart of our core beliefs is the statement “I AM ____”.
How we complete that sentence has a profound effect on the quality of our lives.
Video: Dead Poet’s Society
How much do you think Todd believes in himself?
How strong do you think Todd’s self-esteem is (1-10)? How can you tell?
How successful do you think Todd will be in life if he doesn’t increase his self-esteem?
Where does Self-Esteem come from?
It is largely developed during childhood.
Based on our successes and failures, how are we treated by immediate family members, teachers, coaches, peers, etc.
Yes’s and No’s by age 2.
Healthy vs. Low Self-Esteem
Healthy self-esteem
Being praised to
Being listened to
Being spoken to respectfully
Getting attention and hugs
Experiencing success in sports or school
Having trustworthy friends
Low Self-esteem
Being harshly criticized
Being yelled at
Being ignored, ridiculed, or teased
Being expected to be “perfect” all the time
Experiencing failures in sports or school
Self-Esteem Wreckers!Overgeneralization
All-or-Nothing thinking
Filtering
Mind Reading
Should Statements
Negative Comparison
Self-Blame
Labeling Cognitive Distortions
Self-Esteem Wreckers
Each group is responsible in teaching the class their assigned self-esteem wrecker.
As a group, your tasks include:
Define the term in your own words.
Create a short skit illustrating your assigned self-esteem wrecker.
Provide solutions to work with the self-esteem wrecker
As a group, assign roles to everyone:
Notetaker, spokesperson(s), stage players
Group Activity
Video: Dead Poet’s Society
How would you rate Todd’s self-esteem now? How can you tell?
Is it possible to raise your self-esteem?
Absolutely! Self-esteem is a learned behavior.
I Am What I Say I Am,
You Are What You Say Are.
Class Activity
Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.
~ Eleanor Roosevelt
Three Steps to Better Self-Esteem
Rebut the Inner Critic.
Practice Self-Nurturing
Practice Basic Self-Care (Stress Management)Plan Fun and Relaxing Things (Time Management)Reward yourself for your accomplishmentsRemind yourself of your strengths and achievementsForgive yourself when you don’t do all you’d hoped
Get Help from Others.
The Three-Column MethodIrrational Thoughts Cognitive Distortion Rational Response
I’m so dumb because I wrote the wrong answer on the board. Now everybody can see that I’m an airhead.
I got a “D” on my quiz, now I’m never going to pass this class. Teacher should’ve given me extra time to study. He’s stupid!
If she turns me down, then I’m a loser forever!
Cognitive-Behavior Therapy Tool from “Feeling Good”
LabelingMind ReadingFiltering
All-or-Nothing ThinkingShould StatementLabeling
OvergeneralizationLabeling
Matthew McKay, Ph.D.Patrick Fanning
David D. Burns, M.D.
Journal Entry # 2DUE: February 14, 2013• Page 33 on the On Course Study Skills Plus 2nd Ed.
• Please do items 1, 2, and 3.
• If you are using a different version, look for the journal
entry where you explore your strength and weaknesses
and the reputation you have with yourself. It should be
towards the very end of Chapter 1.