“Side By Side”Balance Learned in Life’s Opposites

“Side By Side”Balance Learned in Life’s Opposites

Ecclesiastes 7:13-18

Wisdom, Confusion & BalanceWisdom, Confusion & BalanceBook of Ecclesiastes is inspired record of Solomon’s

search for wisdomBut wisdom is not immediately apparent in the confusion

of experiencing life’s opposites Righteousness is not always rewarded quickly Evil is not always punished & reproved quickly Leads some to false conclusion of seeking a median between

the two (so-called “gray area”)Truth is that wisdom is by-product of pursuit

Balance found in dealing with life’s opposites This clarifies our focus to fear God & be wise

Notice these points in study of Eccl. 7

Ecclesiastes 7:1-4Ecclesiastes 7:1-41 A good name is better than precious oil; and the day of death, than the day of one's birth. 2 It is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. 3 Sorrow is better than laughter; for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made glad (“better”- KJV). 4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.

Priorities must be set with end as focus, rather than present desires

Must balance desire for fun & character building

Ecclesiastes 7:5-7Ecclesiastes 7:5-75 It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools. 6 For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool: this also is vanity. 7 Surely extortion maketh the wise man foolish; and a bribe destroyeth the understanding.Not pleasant to hear rebuke, but necessary to hear rebuke

of the wiseFoolish talk may be funny, but it is often vainCompared to loud but useless fire from the thornsLike extortion & bribery in taking focus awayBalance is necessary to avoid self-destructiveness

Ecclesiastes 7:8-10Ecclesiastes 7:8-108 Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof; and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit. 9 Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry; for anger resteth in the bosom of fools. 10 Say not thou, What is the cause that the former days were better than these? for thou dost not inquire wisely concerning this.Wisdom gained by putting emphasis on end goal, not

immediate gratification & present worldOne test of our wisdom seen in handling angerAnother test seen in how we deal with the pastBalance corrects problem in both by re-focusing

Ecclesiastes 7:11-14Ecclesiastes 7:11-1411 Wisdom is as good as an inheritance; yea, more excellent is it for them that see the sun. 12 For wisdom is a defence, even as money is a defence; but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom preserveth the life of him that hath it. 13 Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked? 14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, and in the day of adversity consider; yea, God hath made the one side by side with the other, to the end that man should not find out anything that shall be after him.

Wisdom is of greater value than material thingsWisdom can only be attained by keeping balance amidst times

of joy & times of adversity

Ecclesiastes 7:15-18Ecclesiastes 7:15-1815 All this have I seen in my days of vanity: there is a righteous man that perisheth in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man that prolongeth his life in his evil-doing. 16 Be not righteous overmuch; neither make thyself overwise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself? 17 Be not overmuch wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time? 18 It is good that thou shouldest take hold of this; yea, also from that withdraw not thy hand: for he that feareth God shall come forth from them all.

What Is Point Of These Verses?What Is Point Of These Verses?Cannot right all the world’s wrongs (15)“Be not righteous over much” (16) - possible by:

Self-righteous arrogance leaving impression one thinks he can never be wrong about anything

Demanding immediate perfection in others rather than being patient, kind, considerate & helpful to correction

Exaggerating faults of others & minimizing own faults Idea of allowing “gray area” behavior not in context

Go to opposite extreme if forsake way of right (17)Proper fear of God keeps us from both extremes (18)Lack of balance leads to destructive end for all

Ecclesiastes 7:19-22Ecclesiastes 7:19-2219 Wisdom is a strength to the wise man more than ten rulers that are in a city. 20 Surely there is not a righteous man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not. 21 Also take not heed unto all words that are spoken, lest thou hear thy servant curse thee; 22 for oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others.

True wisdom is source of lasting strength neededWisdom recognizes that we all make mistakesWisdom is not be overly sensitive to criticismAgain, balance is needed to develop such wisdom

Ecclesiastes 7:23Ecclesiastes 7:23

All this have I proved in wisdom: I said, I will be wise; but it was far from me.

Search for wisdom basedsolely on analyzing this worldwill not have successful end

Must balance with fear of God

Fear of God Assures BalanceFear of God Assures Balance

Having the proper fear of God causes us to… Accept our inability to be wise of ourselves (Prov. 3:7) Be open to teaching that comes from God (Psa. 25:12) Give ourselves in total service to God (Deut. 10:12) Recognize our time on earth is a sojourn (1 Pet. 1:17) Sober reality remembering the judgment (Heb. 10:26f)

"This is the end of the matter; all hath been heard: fear God, and keep his commandments; for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every work into judgment, with every hidden thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil" (Eccl. 12:13-14).

Wisdom Born of Balance Essential in All Areas

Wisdom Born of Balance Essential in All Areas

Individual Growth

Family Life

Teaching the Gospel

Relationships with Brethren