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Sibling Rivalry
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Program Objectives
Parents will understand reasons for sibling rivalry
Parents will learn about ways to reduce fighting among siblings
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Sharing
Did you quarrel a lot with your brothers and/or sisters?
What angered you or made you jealous of your siblings?
How did your parents handle your sibling battles?
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Conflict Within Families
between children between parent and child between spouses
In most families there are three general types of conflicts:
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Let’s Brainstorm!
Why do your children quarrel?
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Reasons for Rivalry
Their basic needs are not being met
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Reasons for Rivalry
Sometimes kids fight just to get attention
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Reasons for Rivalry
Some children need companionship but do not know how to get it from
their sibling
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Reasons for Rivalry
Power within the family
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Ways to Reduce Conflict
Let siblings express their feelings Don't compare siblings with each other Let your children decide whether they want to share
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Ways to Reduce Conflict
Try to spend individual time with each child
Praise your children for who they are as well as what they do
Help your children accept their frustrations
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Ways to Reduce Conflict
Don't take sides in sibling fights
Let children work out differences
Praise your children for any improved behavior
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The Three B's of Dealing With Sibling Arguments
Bear it Beat it Boot'em out!
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Helping Work Out Differences
When sibling rivalry turns into real fighting, parents must step in. A parent's job is to protect children from physical or emotional injuries.
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Action Steps Describe what you see. Separate the children. Set a cooling down period. Listen to each child's point of view
and acknowledge feelings. Work out a possible solution
together for dealing with the problem in the future.
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Encourage win-win Negotiations Problem-solving Steps
Stop the action. Listen to each other's
story Identify the problem. List ways to solve the
problem.
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Encourage win-win Negotiations Problem-solving Steps
Choose a solution that meets everyone's needs.
Carry out the plan. Evaluate how well the plan worked.
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Solving Problems Through Family Meetings
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Guidelines for Family Meetings
Set time when all family members can be present
Understand the purpose of regular family meetings
Establish a non-threatening atmosphere
Establish basic ground rules
Promote self-esteem of each family member
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Family Meeting Ground Rules
Okay to say what you feel
No one has to talk Everyone has to listen No one puts anyone else
down
Everyone gets a chance to talk One person talks at a time and does not get interrupted
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Family Meetings Explain purpose of meeting Provide ground rules Discuss family fun Give time for others to think of activities Discuss Choose an activity Make a plan Review the meeting
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Sample Agenda for Family Meetings
Discuss family issues, concerns, interests, and positive events of past week
Determine priority issue(s) Clarify the issue to be discussed Generate possible solutions Determine the most effective solutions Make plans to implement the solution Plan one fun activity for the coming week
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Conclusion:Communication is the Key
Find time to spend with the children
Really listen and hear Teach problem solving Project what may be
reason to argue and eliminate before it happens!