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    Table of Contents

    Introduction ...................................................................................................................................3

    Preface ........................................................................................................................................3

    Historical Background .............................................................................................................. 6

    The Chinese Exclusion Act ..................................................................................................... 6

    The Chinese Family ................................................................................................................9The Women’s Movement .....................................................................................................10

    The Critical Reception ............................................................................................................ 11

     Bone .......................................................................................................................................11The Joy Luck Club .................................................................................................................13

    Thesis ...........................................................................................................................................14

    Structures of Bone and The Joy Luck Club ...........................................................................14

    Structures of Bone .................................................................................................................14Structures of The Joy Luck Club............................................................................................15

    Relationship between Bone and The Joy Luck Club............................................................16

    Analysis of the Texts................................................................................................................19Analysis of Bone....................................................................................................................19Analysis of The Joy Luck Club..............................................................................................24

    Conclusion ...............................................................................................................................30

    Works Cited ................................................................................................................................32

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    Introduction

    Preface

    As an immigrant from Bangladesh, I wished to do my senior thesis on Asian American

    immigrant literature. Since I am not aware of any Bengali-American immigrant literature books,

    I wanted to work with Chinese American immigrant literature. The two works I focused on were

     Bone by Fae Myenne Ng and The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan.

     Bone is about a Chinese family in which Mah and Leon are the mother and father,

    respectively, and Ona and Nina are their daughters. Leila, the main character and the narrator, is

    Mah’s first daughter from her previous marriage and Leon’s stepdaughter whom he treats like his

     biological daughter. Mason and Osvaldo are the boyfriends of Leila and Ona, respectively.

    Mason is Chinese while Osvaldo is Spanish. While growing up in Chinatown in San Francisco,

    Leila, Ona, and Nina search for their individuality in between Chinese and American cultures

    and values. As a result, they go through family conflicts with their parents, specifically with their

    mother, Mah. As the daughters’ relationships with their parents deteriorate, specifically with

    their mother, Ona commits suicide, Nina moves to NY, and Leila marries her boyfriend, Mason,

    without informing her mother and stepfather. This displays their independence and freedom of

    choice and action in opposition to their parents and their Chinese heritage.

    The Joy Luck Club  by Tan is about four mothers and their four daughters. The four

    mothers are Suyuan Woo, An-mei Hsu, Lino Jong, Ying-ying St. Clair, and their four daughters

    are Jing-mei “June” Woo, Rose Hsu Jordan, Waverly Jong, and Lena St. Clair, respectively. The

     book consists of four sections with four stories in each section either from the mothers or their

    daughters. The first section consists of four stories from the mothers where they speak about

    their lives before coming to the USA and their relationships with their parents. The second

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    section consists of four stories from the daughters where they narrate their childhood and their

    relationships with their mothers in Chinatown in San Francisco. This section also highlights how

    the daughters’ relationships with their mothers start to deteriorate while the daughters search for

    their individuality in between Chinese and American cultures and values. The third section

    consists of four stories from the daughters about their adulthood and their relationships with their

    mothers. The forth section consists of four stories from the mothers and their relationships with

    their four daughters. Additionally, the last two sections show how the relationships between the

    mothers and daughters improve as the daughters realize in their adulthood that their happiness

    depends on their acceptance of their mothers and the mothers’ Chinese heritage. This is because

    they are all part of each other.

    I can relate to these two books in different ways. For example, just as Rose faces her

    mother’s resentments for dating a boy who is not Chinese, I have faced my mother’s resentments

    every time I desired to marry a man who was not Bengali. Additionally, my relationship with my

    mother deteriorated as I remained stubborn in wanting to marry a foreigner just as in the case of

    two of the daughters in The Joy Luck Club, Rose and Waverly. My mother does not want to give

    me in marriage to a man whom she cannot relate to on a cultural level just like the mothers of

    Waverly and Rose. Also, just like Rose, June, Waverly, Nina, Ona, and Leila, I went through a

     phase when I did not appreciate my Bengali culture and ethnicity. Although I did not want to be

    American in lifestyle, I preferred to be amongst those who appreciated diverse cultures and

    ethnicities. However, just as June, Rose, Lena, and Waverly realize that the harmony of one’s

    life depends on one’s harmony with one’s mother, her language, and her culture, I realized that I

    am a Bengali regardless of how much I reject it. Thus, I hope to find peace of mind and

    happiness in my life with other Bengalis and Bengali culture.

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    I aim to examine in this thesis how the daughters disobey and disregard their mothers and

    the mothers’ Chinese culture and values by seeking their individuality through American

    lifestyle and values in both of these texts. In  Bone, Ng focuses on the relationships between one

    mother and her three daughters. Ng shows that their relationships deteriorate when the daughters

    seek their individuality through American lifestyle and values opposing their mother’s Chinese

    culture and values. On the other hand, in The Joy Luck Club, Tan focuses on the relationships

     between four mothers and their four daughters. The four daughters seek their independence

    through assimilating into the mainstream American culture as young girls. However, as grown

    up women, the daughters reconcile with their mothers realizing that their happiness depends on

    their acceptance of their mothers and the mothers’ Chinese culture and values.

    Before I start the analysis on the main thesis statement, it is necessary to look into some

    historical background, such as the Chinese Exclusion Act, the Chinese family structure, and the

    women’s movement. The information on these historical topics will provide insight into the

     background of the mothers and daughters’ upbringing and ideologies. For instance, the mothers

    have expectations from their daughters based on the way they grew up, the hardships they lived

    through, and the Chinese traditional family values they nurture within themselves. On the other

    hand, the daughters either conform to or oppose the mothers’ expectations based on the way they

    grow up in American society with various movements that promote women’s voice and

    individuality, such as the women’s movement.

    While analyzing the main topic, the deterioration of mothers’ and daughters’

    relationships and their improvement, I will have a section that discusses the role of the structure

    of the texts in supporting the main topic. Thereafter, I will have another section, which will

    examine why these authors, Ng and Tan, wrote about this topic in different ways. For example,

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    Tan shows resolution to the conflicted relationships between the mothers and daughters while Ng

    does not show any improvements in the relationships between the mother and her three

    daughters. Next, I will analyze each text closely, examining each daughter’s relationship with her

    mother and how it deteriorates while the daughter seeks her individuality through the American

    lifestyle and values in opposition to the mother and her Chinese heritage. I will further analyze

    The Joy Luck Club to show how each daughter’s relationship with her mother improves while the

    daughter realizes that her happiness depends on her acceptance of her mother and the mother’s

    Chinese heritage. Finally, the conclusion will give an overview of the thesis paper. It will also

    show how the main topic relates to today’s society, and what possible role these texts can play in

    mothers’ and daughters’ relationships in everyday life.

    Historical Background

    The Chinese Exclusion Act

     Ng and Tan portray various effects of the Chinese Exclusion Act in their books, such as

    menial labor, illegal immigration, and Chinese bachelor society. The Chinese Exclusion Act of

    1882 was a law that legally prohibited the Chinese from entering the USA (Song 2). Before this

    law, the Chinese were allowed to freely enter the USA to join the work force in various

    capacities, such as railroad construction, mining, and agriculture. The USA welcomed Chinese

    laborers as cheap labor during the railroad construction. Additionally, about 110,000 Chinese

    entered the USA between 1850 and 1882 to join the labor forces either temporarily or

     permanently (Calavita 5).

    After the Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882, Chinese immigration to the USA decreased. As

    Calavita says, “according to the census of 1890, there were 102,620 Chinese men and 3,868

    Chinese women in the United States, the vast majority of whom settled in California” (5). The

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    Chinese who went back to their country for temporary visits could not come back to the USA

    due to the Exclusion Act. Moreover, the Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882 comprised offensive

    discrimination against the Chinese after the implementation of this law. For instance, during the

     process of this law, Senator Farley said, “these hordes of heathens that swarm like rats in a cellar

    and live in filth and degradation … the Chinese are neither Caucasian nor American, but are

    alien to our race, customs, religion, and civilization” (Calavita 12). The derogatory sentiments

    against the Chinese people not only drove them out of the USA but also closed many valuable

    opportunities in the society, including respectable jobs and marriage with white women.

    In Bone, Leila’s stepfather’s, Leon, life reveals the effects of the Chinese Exclusion Act

    in Chinese American society. Due to the Exclusion Act, Leon pays $5,000 dollars to an old

    Chinese American to bring him to the USA as his son. Leon also adopts the old man’s last name,

    which is “Leong”. Additionally, Leon agrees to send back the old man’s bone after his death to

    China for agreeing to be his son on paper (Ng 50). Leon legally enters into the USA through this

    transaction. However, due to the discrimination against the Chinese, Leon never lands a stable

     job to support himself and his family. In this regard, Kung adds in his book, Chinese in American

     Life, “…because of riots, expulsion, and even lynching, the Chinese were forced to seek

    employment that brought them into little, if any, direct competition with their white coworkers”

    (30). Thus, Leon works menial jobs, such as assistant laundry presser, prep cook, busboy, waiter,

    and porter (Ng 103).

    Leon breaks down mentally after his daughter, Ona, commits suicides and exclaims, as

    Leila narrates, “he blamed all of America for making big promises and breaking every one.

    Where was the good job he’d heard about as a young man? Where was the successful business?”

    (Ng 103). This shows how depressed and shattered Leon feels as a Chinese immigrant to the

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    USA. Leon tries his best to find a suitable job to maintain his family and live a happy life with

    his children. However, his identity does not allow him to find stable work in the USA (Ng 58).

    Thus, he takes temporary menial jobs one after another to provide for his family. He fails to

    spend quality time with his daughters and family due to the natures of the jobs as well.

    In a similar way, Tan explores long-term effects of the Chinese Exclusion Act in the

    Chinese community through the immigration of the mothers and their menial jobs. For instance,

    Lindo enters the USA with false identity. She pays an American-raised Chinese girl to help her

    with the interrogation questions upon her arrival in the USA (Tan 258). This shows how Chinese

     people found a way to cheat the immigration system to enter into the USA that released a law to

    exclude them. Also, when June relates, “my mother got these magazines from people whose

    houses she cleaned. And since she cleaned many houses each week,” shows that as a Chinese,

    June mother’s is left to find menial jobs (Tan 133). June’s mother does not work as a cleaner in

    one family but many families to earn her living. This suggests that her work is unreliable and

    unstable.

    Another long-term effect of the Chinese Exclusion Act and the defamation of the Chinese

    that Ng explores is the Chinese bachelor society. During the early years of the Chinese

    immigration to the USA, in what was called the Gold Rush era, more Chinese men immigrated to

    the USA compared to the Chinese women (Young 14). Since Chinese men were prohibited from

    marrying white women, they enjoyed themselves with prostitutes while remaining as bachelors

    (Yung 18). During this period, the prostitute trade was a thriving business, as about 85% of

    Chinese American women were prostitutes in 1860 (Yung 18). Even though   the characters in

     Bone does not live in the Chinese Exclusion Act’s period, the old bachelors mentioned in  Bone

    serve as a reflection of the Chinese Exclusion Act and the prohibition of marrying white women

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    in the Chinese society. Leila says, “A group of old men stood at the base of the stairs, playing

    cards. …More than once, an old guy has come up and asked, ‘My room? Date?’” (Ng 8). This

    shows that the old Chinese bachelors do not have wives to fulfill their sexual desires. They spend

    their time playing cards “at the Square” while they enjoy looking at beautiful women (Ng 7).

    The Chinese Family

     Ng and Tan explore the traditional Chinese marriage and family in their books Bone and

    The Joy Luck Club. In the old Chinese tradition, marriages took place through the help of

    fortunetellers and matchmakers. In Bone, Leila explains her mother’s first marriage saying, “The

    old way. Matches were made, strangers were wedded, and that was fate. Marriage was for

    survival” (Ng 35). This demonstrates that Leila’s Mah does not marry her first husband out of

    love for him but out of necessity. He picks her, and she does not have a choice but to marry him.

    Leila’s Mah also marries her first husband to escape from the warzone area of China to the USA

     just as she marries her second husband to obtain a US green card (Ng 35, 184).

    In The Joy Luck Club, Lindo’s first marriage takes place through a village matchmaker.

    She says, “the village matchmaker came to my family when I was just two years old. … Because

    I was promised to the Huangs’ son for marriage, my own family began treating me as if I

     belonged to somebody else” (Tan 51). In this regard, Yung says that the women are married off

    at an early age through a matchmaker and are not allowed to see their fiancés until the night of

    the wedding (Yung 10-11). This shows the extent to which a girl does not have choice in her

    future marriage. She is promised to a man for marriage at the age of two, an age where she is

    incapable of helping herself. Furthermore, her family normalizes the matter by treating her as if

    she is no longer a member of her own family. She grows up with detachment to be able to move

    to her future husband’s family.

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    In the traditional Chinese family, the wives are expected to be obedient not only to their

    husbands but also to their mother-in-laws. Also, their happiness rests on giving birth to male

    heirs and on serving in-laws, specifically the parents-in-laws (Ling 85, Yung 11). Therefore,

    when Lindo moves into her husband’s family, her mother-in-law treats her like a slave to cook

    and clean to please both the mother-in-law and her husband (Tan 56). Her mother-in-law also

     pressures her to have a son (Tan 61). Since the wives do not have a choice of divorce under the

    feudal system, Lindo deceitfully escapes her first marriage (Yung 11). She makes up a nightmare

    curse story where her husband will die if he does not divorce her.

    In the Chinese traditional family, the daughters are required to be obedient to their

     parents. Ying-ying’s mother guides her, saying, “A girl should stand still. If you are still for a

    very long time, a dragonfly will no longer see you. Then it will come to you and hide in the

    comfort of your shadow” (Tan 72). This shows that in Chinese culture, a girl is supposed to be as

    invisible as her shadow through her obedience of the rules and regulations of the parents and

    culture. She is expected to obey without asking questions or making any inquiries. Additionally,

    when June disobeys her mother’s instructions to become a smart girl in one aspect or other, her

    mother threatens her, saying, “Only two kinds of daughters, those who are obedient and those

    who follow their own mind! Only one kind of daughter can live in this house. Obedient

    daughter” (Tan 142). This demonstrates that if a daughter does not obey her parents, her status as

    a daughter diminishes as she becomes less valuable. Thus, she is left with no choice but to obey

    her parents.

    The Women’s Movement

     Bone and The Joy Luck Club  portray the influence of the women’s movement in the

    traditional Chinese family. The women’s movement of the 1960s to the 1980s made it possible

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    for women of every race and ethnicity to progress in terms of economic equality and social roles

    (Evans 36). Additionally, the men, specifically husbands and fathers, possessed less power over

    women’s lives in the USA after the late 1980s (Evans 36). Therefore, when Nina faces problems

    from her parents, she leaves San Francisco’s Chinatown for New York City. She leads an

    independent life where her father has no control over her. Additionally, the four daughters, June,

    Waverly, Rose, and Lena, of The Joy Luck Club are well established in terms of jobs. For

    example, June works as a business writer while Waverly, Lena, and Rose work as a tax attorney,

    a project coordinator at her husband’s company, and an artist, respectively. Despite marital

     problems, Rose and Lena hold some authority over their husbands and their future goals. Evans

    says, “the book is, in many respects, a celebration of the power and resourcefulness of women,

    especially their ability not only to survive but also, eventually, to thrive difficult circumstances”

    (37). This is true for all five mothers in both texts . For instance, Leila’s mother runs a store on

    her own to support herself while her husband lives separately. Also, the four mothers in The Joy

     Luck Club  work alongside their husbands to support their families. Their husbands do not

    constrict their lives but live with them in mutual agreement and cooperation.

    Critical Reception

     Bone by Ng

    Mei Cheng completed a scholarly research study on  Bone called, “Translation: Writing

    Beyond Dualism.” One of the aspects of  Bone that Cheng looks into is symbolism. Cheng says

    that the symbolism enables Ng to depict the complex world around her, specifically immigrant

    life in Chinatown. Cheng also states that the historical and cultural contexts found in the

    symbolism convey a powerful history and culture of an overlooked ethnic minority. Cheng says,

    “the text uses names, objects, and physical surroundings to symbolize lifestyles, social standing,

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    and old and new forms of social patterns” (110). Cheng relates that Ng uses specific elements

    and embeds within them symbolic meanings to show a complex immigrant world (110). Some of

    the ordinary terms that Ng uses as symbols are bones, papers, and a few “Chinglish” words. Ng

    embeds new insights and meanings into ordinary terms to provide fresh perspectives of the

    historical and cultural reality. Cheng further states, “the mixture of ordinary symbols and their

     powerful symbolic meaning conveys a mixed meaning in terms of characteristics, plot,

    development, and conflict solution” (111). Thereby, Ng shows a different way of conveying

    cultural dilemmas and family conflicts (Cheng 111). Ng also blends quarrels, struggles, sadness,

    happiness, and everyday experiences to construct an immigrant cultural identity, “a confrontation

    with the American marginalization, [and] a deconstruction of a dominant discourse” that

    alienates the Chinese immigrants as “others” (Cheng 111). Hence, the Chinese American identity

    is composed of struggles between Chinese and American cultures.

    Along with symbolism, Cheng discusses how Ng explores an immigrant family problem

     based on the social space of San Francisco’s Chinatown. Cheng says that while Ng shows

    Chinese American experiences and familial problems, she demonstrates how different characters

    find different ways to escape the familial problems. The fact that Ng depicts the spaces, such as

    Salmon Alley, the open market, apartments, streets, workshops, restaurants, the square, and the

    San Fran hotel, as old, narrow, and messy show that these places are at odds with the characters

    and push them to move out. Therefore, the characters feel stuck and search for a way to leave

    this environment. Cheng says that the characters’ ways out are either physical journeys, such as

    going to NY, or destructive actions, such as suicide. Cheng further states, “the central pursuit of

    searching for a way out is fundamental” to the characters’ conditions in Ng’s novel (143).

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    The Joy Luck Club by Tan 

    The Joy Luck Club has been critically looked at as a text that shows how the East’s values

    versus the West’s values are portrayed (Evans 26). Some critics complain that Tan romanticizes

    China and its people, spreads stereotypes about Chinese people, and “demoniz[es] the East”

    (Evans 26). However, the critic Tamara Silvia Wagner says Tan critically looks at the behaviors

    of the Americans as well as the Chinese. For instance, when Waverly’s boyfriend, Rich, visits

    her family, he asks about the Chinese customs like a tourist at the dinner table while Waverly’s

    family judges Rich’s manners of dealing with her family as rude (Evans 26). Furthermore,

    Wagner says Tan questions the American ideal of the “melting pot” when she brings in the

    example of the Chinese and Jewish style of playing Mahjong (Evans 26). Tan clearly shows that

    the Chinese people disregard the way Jewish people play mahjong, which suggests separations of

     people based on ethnicity, culture, and religion.

    The critic Megali Cornier Michael approaches The Joy Luck Club from the perspective of

    the privilege of the community over the individual (Evans 29). She closely studies the role of the

    San Francisco Joy Luck Club in the novel to support her idea (Evans 29). Michael argues the

    club gives the women agency. The women choose to help each other through constant support

    and power in their adopted country instead of being consistent losers and winners (Evans 29).

    Additionally, the women pull together enough money to support a younger generation to fulfill

    June’s mother’s task of meeting her lost twin sisters. This also conveys a sense of community to

    the younger generation (Evans 29).

    Tan’s use of multiple narrators and multiple time periods encouraged many critics to

    study The Joy Luck Club based on the theories of the Russian philosopher Mikhail Bakhtin. The

    critics say, “a dialogical work is in conversation not only with itself and its own multiple

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     perspectives but also with other works and other authors” (Evans 24). Due to the conversation,

    the single source authority is prevented while encouraging change, exchange, and clarification.

    In this way, each work improves itself while coming in contact with the other (Evans 24).

    Thesis

     Bone and The Joy Luck Club are two immigrant Chinese American texts that can be

    studied from multiple perspectives, such as as historical and cultural artifacts,in the role of

    social space and family conflicts, the role of the Joy Luck Club in building a community, and the

    symbolism found in both books. However, one of the central themes of both texts is the

    relationship between mothers and their daughters. In Bone, Ng shows that the daughters disobey

    their mother and disregard her Chinese culture and values when they seek their individuality

    through American lifestyle and values, which is not dependent on their acceptance of their

    mother and her Chinese heritage. On the other hand, in The Joy Luck Club, Tan shows that as

    inexperienced youth, the daughters disobey and disregard their mothers to claim their

    individuality. However, as grown up women, the daughters realize their happiness depends upon

    their acceptance of their mothers, and the mothers' Chinese culture and values for they are parts

    of each other.

    Structure of Bone and The Joy Luck Club

    Structure of Bone 

    The structure of  Bone  emphasizes the fact that the daughters disobey their mother and

    disregard her Chinese culture and values. They seek their individuality through American

    lifestyle and values, which is not dependent on their acceptance of their mother or her Chinese

    culture and values. The main structure of the novel is based on a backward unfolding of events.

    Leila is the narrator in  Bone. She is also the oldest daughter of her mother, Mah, who has two

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    other daughters, Ona and Nina from another father. The fact that Leila chooses to narrate her

    story from her present life to the past shows that she is satisfied with her current American

    lifestyle and culture. She is confident about her American identity such that she can assert herself

    against her mother’s requests to be amongst Chinese, to eat Chinese foods, and to follow Chinese

    cultures without questioning. Also, she is happily married with her boyfriend whom she has

    dated for a few years. Even though she fears her mother’s resentment for marrying him without

    informing her, her happiness is not reduced. Additionally, when Leila mentions that Nina, who

    lives in New York instead of San Francisco’s Chinatown, is trying to form a relationship with a

    Chinese boy, she shows that at the present, Nina enjoys a pleasant life away from her family (Ng

    11). Nina is independent like an American and lives her life to the fullest, just like Cheng says,

    “Nina is the most Americanized among the three sisters” (159). Also, at the present, Ona is dead,

    and this does not seem to hinder anyone’s life. However, as Leila unfolds the past events in a

     backward method, the three sisters’ struggles for their individuality through the American

    lifestyle and values become clear when they disobey their mother and disregard her Chinese

    culture and values.

    Structure of The Joy Luck Club

    The fragmented structure of The Joy Luck Club emphasizes the four daughters’ - June,

    Rose, Waverly, and Lena - disobedience of their mother and disregard for their mothers’ Chinese

    culture and values to claim her individuality based on American culture and values. Also, the

    fragmented structure emphasizes the actions of the daughters as to how as grown-up women they

    realize their happiness depends upon their acceptance of their mothers, and their mothers’

    Chinese culture and values. Tan organizes the stories of four mothers and their four daughters

    into four sections. The first section contains stories of the four mothers about their mothers,

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    childhood, and how they immigrated to the USA. The last section contains four stories of the

    mothers with regard to their relationship with their daughters and how they come to terms with

    each other.

    In the first section, June narrates her mother’s story before the other three mothers. In the

    last section, June relates her mother’s story last after the other three mothers narrate theirs. In this

    way, June’s mother’s story frames the other stories in the book. Since June’s mother, Suyuan, is

    the founder of the San Francisco Joy Luck Club, she is given the authoritative figure and her

    stories stand as a frame surrounding all of the other stories. The position of other mothers’ stories

    from section one to section four is different, as if randomly inserted into the sections. The second

    and third sections contain stories of the four daughters. In section two, the daughters narrate their

    childhood relationship with their mothers as to how they disobeyed their mothers to claim their

    individuality. In section three, the daughters relate their unhappy life and how their mothers help

    them to improve their conditions. In sections two and three, June’s story comes last like a frame

    from the first section to the next. The fragmented order of the stories gives them individuality

    and uniqueness. Since the reader can barely connect each story with the story that precedes it, the

    conflict and resolution within each story becomes heightened. The reader is also forced to

    concentrate more to grasp the connection between each story. Even though the daughters’

    conflicts and resolutions are similar to each other, the random fragmented order of the stories

     blurs these resemblances.

    Relationship between Bone and The Joy Luck Club

    As Chinese American immigrant texts, Bone and The Joy Luck Club portray the mothers’

    and daughters’ relationships deterioration and improvement in different manners. They also

     present the daughters’ flight away from their mothers’ Chinese heritage for the American

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    lifestyle and values in different ways. In The Joy Luck Club, Tan shows that the daughters as

    young girls oppose their mothers and the mothers’ Chinese heritage. The four daughters from

    four different families with different social and economic background share a common struggle

    against their mothers. They all disobey and disrespect their mothers and the mothers’ Chinese

    culture and values. For instance, June refuses to be the genius that her mother wants her to be.

    June goes to the extent of dropping out of college to assert to her mother that she will not be

    what her mother desires her to be. However, as grown up women, all four daughters come to

    terms with their mothers and accept their mothers’ Chinese culture and values. For example,

    Lena takes her mother’s advice to speak up for her rights to her husband, who plans to divorce

    her. Because Lena accepts her mother and listens to her, she finds courage to face her husband.

    In  Immigrant Acts,  Lisa Lowe says, “in the 1990s, we can afford to rethink the notion of

    racialized ethnic identity in terms of differences of national origin, class, gender, and sexuality

    rather than presuming similarities and making the erasure of particularity the basis of unity” (83).

    Tan adopts Lowe’s ideas about hybridity, and multiplicity in The Joy Luck Club through the

    organization of the text about four mothers and their four daughters of four different families.

    These families have diverse social, economic, and educational background, such as Lena’s

    mother is Chinese while her father is an Irish American, June’s mother studied nursing in China,

    and Rose’s parents come from a poor family background. Even though Tan shows different

    social, educational, and economic status with each mother and daughter, Tan essentializes the

    conflict and resolution between the mothers and daughters. Each daughter resents her mother and

    her mother’s Chinese culture and values while growing up in American society in San

    Francisco’s Chinatown. Also, each daughter comes to terms with her mother as a grown up

    woman and accepts the mother’s Chinese culture and values.

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    On the other hand, in  Bone,  Ng seems to refute the essentialization of mothers’ and

    daughters’ conflict and resolution found in The Joy Luck Club. In  Bone,  Ng focuses on one

    family instead of multiple families as found in Tan’s work. Also, Ng shows the relationship

     between one mother and her three daughters. Even though the main conflict is still assimilation

    into the mainstream American society, the three daughters have different levels of conflict with

    their mother. The daughters also differ in the way they face their situations. For instance, Leila,

    the oldest daughter, is closer to her mother and the Chinese people of Chinatown in San

    Francisco. Therefore, even though Leila distances herself from her mother by disregarding the

    Chinese wedding banquet, Chinese language, and Chinese food, she still dates and marries a

    Chinese boy and lives in Chinatown close to her mother. On the other hand, Ona, the middle

    daughter, tries to please both her parents by being part of both Chinese and American culture.

    However, when Ona realizes that her parents do not want to accept her Spanish boyfriend, she

    asserts her independence drastically through suicide. Ona’s suicide leaves her parents devastated

    and confused just as they caused her to be frustrated in terms of picking between her parents and

    her beloved boyfriend. Unlike Leila and Ona, Nina leaves her family and hometown, San

    Francisco, for New York City. She refuges to accept her parents and their Chinese culture and

    values. She claims her independence and lives her life as an American to its fullest. Unlike Tan,

     Ng also gives the father an important role in the daughters’ dissociation from the Chinese culture

    and values and assimilation into American culture and values. Ng also seems to convey that the

    father is often harsher than the mother about daughters’ decisions to marry outside of the

    Chinese culture. The fact that Ng does not bring about reconciliation between the mother and her

    daughters conveys a message that assimilation into American culture and society is often a one-

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    way trip. The mothers and daughters do not come to terms with each other. There is not always a

    happy ending in every family.

    Analysis of the Texts

    Analysis of Bone

    Leila disobeys her mother as she marries her boyfriend without informing her and avoids

    Mah’s Chinese wedding banquet in order to claim her individuality through American lifestyle

    and values. After Leila gets married behind her mother’s back, she informs her stepfather about

    her marriage first instead of her mother. This shows that she does not have a good relationship

    with her mother. She seems to run away from her mother and tries to find comfort in her

    stepfather’s company. Also, when Leila mentions her marriage for the first time, she says, “I

    didn’t marry on a whim – don’t worry, I didn’t do a green-card number” (Ng 1). This shows that

    Leila frees herself from following her mother’s steps in her marriage, as her mother married her

    first husband out of necessity and married her second husband, Leon, for the green card (Ng

    182). In this regard, Cheng says, “her marriage contrasts with Mah’s, who marries for survival,

    as a result of a lack of choice” (164). Even though Leila acts like she worries about her mother’s

    reactions, in actuality, she does not care whether her mother is happy or sad about her marriage.

    In the scene where Leila informs her mother that she does not like banquets and describes a

    Chinese wedding banquet as noise, trouble, and a waste of money, she clearly informs her

    mother how much disregard she has toward Chinese traditions, specifically wedding parties (Ng

    21). Also, this demonstrates what Cheng says, “the Chinese-born Mah and American-born Leila

    have different cultural values” (155). The fact that Mah is silent and Leila realizes how quiet the

    setting in which they are shows how heart broken her mother is to hear her daughter’s distaste

    and disregard for her culture and values.

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    As Leila makes her stance against her mother’s Chinese wedding banquet clear, she

    asserts her individuality while embracing an American style of marriage. For instance, she

    informs her mother in English that she and her boyfriend, Mason, got married in City Hall in

     New York (Ng 21). On one hand, this shows Leila’s disregard for her mother’s language, as well

    as the culture. On the other hand, this shows that Leila prefers to be American. When Mah

    replies in Chinese, Leila shows her inability to communicate with her mother, saying, “Using

    Chinese was my undoing. She had a world of words that were beyond me” (Ng 23). She has no

    way to connect herself with her mother when Mah speaks in Chinese. Leila is distancing herself

    from her mother in two ways: denial of both her mother’s language and the cultural wedding

     banquet. At the same time, Leila is attaching herself to American culture, through a simple

    wedding ceremony and the American language of English.

    As the oldest daughter, Leila’s relationship with her mother is deteriorates because she is

    not a good role model for her younger sisters based on her mother’s Chinese culture and values.

    Leila says, “Mah said something about how everything started with me, since I was the first one,

    the eldest, the one with the daring to live with Mason when I wasn’t married” (Ng 41). This

    suggests that Leila’s mother holds Leila accountable for the incorrect decisions of her younger

    sisters. Her mother thinks that since Leila is the role model, her younger sisters find courage

    from her daring actions, such as living with the boyfriend before marriage. Leila’s words choice,

    such as “irrational” hints to the tense relationship between Leila and her mother. Leila does not

    feel comfortable in her mother’s company because of her mother’s accusations. Leila says, “I

    didn’t want to get into a fight …but I couldn’t help saying something and my tone wasn’t the

    kindest. ‘Nina wanted to go. Don’t blame me’” (Ng 41). Leila’s tone and words choices, such as

    “get into a fight” and “my tone wasn’t the kindest,” reveal her inner turmoil and bitterness

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    against her mother. It also implies that Leila has hard time to be a Chinese obedient daughter.

    She almost bursts out with anger and resentment toward her mother. Leila says, “of course they

    hit on me, too: I was the eldest; they thought I was responsible. ...Like with Ona, I figured it was

    her own choice” (Ng 25). This shows she does not want to be responsible for her sisters’ actions.

    She feels that their actions are based on their freedom of choice and action. She did not want to

    act like the big sister. Leila says, “I was trying to break away from always being the Big Sister”

    (Ng 15). This demonstrates that she does not want to act like a boss over her younger sisters

    directing them to what to do and what not to do. She is in American society where everyone has

    the freedom of choice to do what he/she desires.

    Leila’s backward unfolding of events discloses how Ona disobeys her mother and father

     by dating Osvaldo, a Spanish boy, and even more drastically in committing suicide in order to

    claim her individuality through American lifestyle and values while disregarding Chinese values

    and culture. Based on Chinese family values, Ona is supposed to be an obedient child. However,

    as an American born and grown child, she follows her heart. In the scene when her sisters, Leila

    and Nina, suggest her to lie about her love for Osvaldo to her father, who forbids her from dating

    him, Nina openly informs her father that she loves Osvaldo (Ng 173). This shows that Ona

    speaks her mind and does not fear her father’s resentment. Also, this shows that Ona disregards

    the Chinese cultural familial values of obeying the father. In contrast to Tan, Ng shows that a

    daughter has as much trouble with her father as with her mother. In fact, Ona has even more

     problems with her father than her mother. Leila says, “Ona felt disappointed by Leon and

     betrayed by Mah” (Ng 119). This shows that Ona expects acceptance of her father whom she

    loves and cares for. Additionally, Ona expects her mother to support her just as she allowed her

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    to date him initially. When Ona fails to receive any support from either of her parents, she

    embraces her American identity firmly and leaves with Osvaldo (Ng 175).

    Ona’s suicide becomes the ultimate disobedience to her father and mother just as it

    defines her individuality and her relation to the American lifestyle. After Ona’s death, her father,

    Leon, feels devastated. He says, “She’s my daughter, I’m her father. Why wouldn’t she tell her

    father if something was wrong?” (Ng 147). This demonstrates that Leon feels disobeyed and

    discarded to the utmost level. Ona not only leaves him forever through her suicide but also

    leaves no answer to assure the hearts of her father and mother. Ona leaves them with nothing just

    as they left her with no other choice but to break up with her beloved boyfriend. In a similar line,

    Chen says, “the protagonists’ desperate search for a way out of their ill fate, is on the one hand,

     part of their journey toward self-fulfillment” (143). This further shows that Ona embraces the

    American values of freedom of choice and free decisions. She does not consult anyone before

    she commits suicide. Leila’s saying, “I had to believe that it’d been Ona’s choice,” explains that

    Ona claims her freedom and independence through her death (Ng 15). Ona leaves her mark of

    individuality with her ultimate decision, death.

     Nina asserts her individuality and her embrace of American culture and values in

    disobeying her mother and father through an abortion and moving to New York to live

    independently. Just like Ona, Nina openly follows an American lifestyle by dating and sleeping

    with foreign boys. However, when Nina gets an abortion, her parents take the news as an insult,

    humiliation, and degradation as parents who are disobeyed (Ng 25). Additionally, Nina’s

    abortion stands as a cultural shock and disgrace. Leila says, “they forecast bad days in this life

    and the next. ‘I have no eyes for you,’ Mah said. ‘Don’t call us,’ Leon said” (Ng 25). This shows

    that the father has an active role in the family, just as the mother does, in resenting the actions of

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    the daughter that are against their Chinese culture, tradition, and values. On the other hand, Nina

    knows she does not have to live with her parents in the USA. She can move out of her parents’

    house and live on her own. Thus, she does not fear to disclose her actions that go against her

     parents’ Chinese cultural values. Nina’s honesty and toleration of the harms at the hands of her

     parents show that her action is from her freedom of choice.

     Nina also professes herself by avoiding her parents and talking back to them. Leila

    relates, “Like with Ona, I figured it was her own choice” (Ng 25). This shows Nina’s choice of

    action demonstrates her independence from her parents and their Chinese culture and values. Just

    as Cheng states, “Though born into a Chinese family, she does not identify with her parents’

    Chinese way of doing things” (159). Leila says, “I always thought Nina had the best deal because

    she escaped the day-to-day of it: the every-single-moment. She got time away from the fright of

    it” (Ng 15). This implies that Nina moves to NY to be away from family conflicts and troubles.

    Additionally, in the scene where Leila relates that she can keep quiet about the way Mah and

    Leon rant, Nina yells back at them instead of being silent, which shows she is outspoken (Ng

    25). She does not value Chinese traditions and culture where a girl is supposed to do whatever

    her parents order her to do. Also, a girl is not supposed to speak her mind, but should keep quiet

    to be ruled over. Nina does not do this. This demonstrates how Nina is different from the

    traditional Chinese girl who is supposed to obey her parents. Nina says, “They don’t want to

    come into our worlds. We keep on having to live in their world. They won’t move one bit. …and

    I know about should . I know about have to. …But I’ve learned this: I can’t ” (Ng 33). This shows

    that Nina initially wanted a balance between American and Chinese cultural life. However, her

     parents do not want to live in between American and Chinese culture. Thus, Nina decides to

    move out and be fully American just as Ona decides to express her freedom of choice. In a

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    similar way, Leila marries privately to reinforce her individuality and her embrace of American

    culture and values.

    Analysis of The Joy Luck Club

    June refuses to follow her mother’s instructions to be a prodigy to claim her individuality

     based on American culture and values. When June says that her mother believes she can be

    anything in the USA, she states she does not believe that (Tan 132). She does not agree with her

    mother’s goal. Even though June’s mother lacks the means to provide quality education or

    training for June to be a genius, June’s mother does not give up. However, June’s saying, “after

    seeing my mother’s disappointed face once again, something inside of me began to die,” shows

    that she does not have the same motivation or interest as her mother to become a genius. In this

    regard, Evans says, “…not all Asian Americans desire … to live up to the stereotype of the

    ‘docile whiz kid’” (40). June only wants to become a genius to live up to her mother’s

    expectations. This also implies June is trying to satisfy her mother’s expectations instead of her

    own. Thus, she says, “You want me to be someone that I’m not! … I’ll never be the kind of

    daughter you want me to be” (Tan 142). This demonstrates that June takes full control of her life

    and who she wants to be. As June claims her individuality, she disregards her mother and her

    mother’s wishes. Thus, she becomes the disobedient girl who has no space in her mother’s house

    (Tan 142).

    As a grown up woman, June accepts her mother by realizing that her mother had been

    right about her intelligence and by committing to fulfill her mother’s dream of meeting her lost

    twin sisters in China. In the scene where June recalls her mother’s statement that she could have

     been a genius if she wanted to because she has natural talent, June tries to play the piano her

    mother gave her and becomes “surprised at how easily the notes came back to [her]” (Tan 143-

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    144). This demonstrates that for the first time June realizes she has natural talent her mother

     believes in. June realizes that if she sincerely tried to be a genius, she could have become one as

    her mother desired. June says, “the minute our train leaves the Hong Kong border and enters

    Shenzhen, China, I feel different. …And I think, My mother was right. I am becoming Chinese”

    (Tan 267). Once again, June realizes her mother was correct. She is acknowledging her mother’s

    intelligence and wisdom. The respect June lost as a teenager toward her mother, she regains as an

    adult. Also, June understands, as Shen says, “[June] realize[s] that [her] mother [has] always had

    [her] best interests at heart” (Bloom 13). As June lands in China to fulfill her mother’s dream of

    finding her lost twin sisters and starts to understand the Chinese language, June shows ultimate

    acceptance of her mother (Tan 281). June says, “my sisters and I stand, arms around each other,

    laughing and wiping the tears from each other’s eyes” (Tan 288). This shows that June finds her

    happiness not only in finding her twin sisters, but also in finding herself through accepting her

    mother and her Chinese heritage.

    Waverly disobeys and disrespects her mother by refusing to be her mother’s boasting

    object, dating American man, and marrying American man to claim her individuality based on

    American culture and values. As Waverly wins Chess games, her mother, Lindo, takes pride in

    her achievements. Waverly says, “‘Lost eight piece this time. Last time was eleven. What I tell

    you? Better off lose less!’ I was annoyed, but I couldn’t say anything” (Tan 97). This shows

    Waverly does not appreciate her mother’s interferences into her Chess game. It also implies

    Waverly disregards her mother’s tips because she feels her mother does not have knowledge of

    the Chess. Even though Waverly feels annoyed with her mother’s tips, she does not say anything

    to avoid being disrespectful to her. However, in the scene where Waverly’s mother boasts about

    her in the market place to anyone who looks her way, Waverly speaks up against her mother,

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    saying, “if you want to show off, then why don’t you learn to play chess” (Tan 99). On one hand,

    this shows Waverly crosses the line of being an obedient Chinese daughter who does not speak

    up against parents. She also accuses her mother of ignorance. On the other hand, this shows she

    claims her individuality following the American culture and values. She decides how she wants

    to be treated and looked at. She does not want to be a tool of her mother to be broadcast openly

    in public. Furthermore, her mother’s saying, “We not concerning this girl. This girl not have

    concerning for us,” shows Waverly disrespects her mother to the extent that her mother becomes

    indifferent toward her (Tan 100). In a similar manner, Ho says, “in the face of rejection by

    Waverly, [her mother] ignores her much adored but ungrateful daughter. She no longer advises

    or hovers over Waverly” (Wiener 66). In the scene where Waverly tries to catch her mother’s

    attention about her white American boyfriend, Rich, Lindo ignores the topic and circumstances

    surrounding Waverly’s boyfriend or her plans to be married (Tan 168). This shows how Lindo is

    disregarding her daughter’s American lifestyle and values just as her daughter disrespects hers.

    Waverly, as a grown up woman, reconciles with her mother by accepting that half of her

    characteristics come from her mother and by respecting her mother’s superior understanding and

    wisdom. In the scene where Waverly goes to her mother to inform her about her marriage to her

    white American boyfriend, her mother tells her that she knows the news already (Tan 181). This

    shows that Waverly’s mother knows more about her than she expected. Also, her mother

    understands her daughter to the extent that she does not need Waverly to inform her about every

    detail of her life. Additionally, the fact that Waverly finds herself guilty of thinking negatively

    about her mother shows that Waverly is not as knowledgeable, wise, and skillful as her mother

    (Tan 181). This also shows that Waverly has a lot to learn from her mother. In the scene where

    Waverly learns from her mother that half of her characteristics come from her father while the

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    other half come from her mother shows that Waverly will always have the Chinese parts of her

     parents within herself even if she denies her Chinese heritage. Waverly’s boyfriend says, “Can

    you believe what comes out of her mouth? Now I know where you get your sweet, tactful

    nature” (Tan 184). This confirms to Waverly her natural connection with her mother. Also, it

    implies Waverly can be happy while accepting her mother and her mother’s Chinese culture and

    values.

    Lena disrespects her mother by replacing her mother’s Chinese manner of serving guests,

    older people, and disregarding her mother’s superstitious statements for the American style of

    serving guests and avoiding Chinese superstitions. Lena’s mother says, “my daughter has put me

    in the tiniest of rooms in her new house. …I smiled. But to Chinese ways of thinking, the guest

     bedroom is the best bedroom” (Tan 242). This shows how Lena adopts an American way of

    thinking and living to the extent that she does not know how to accommodate her mother based

    on Chinese traditions of receiving a guest. Also, Lena forgets her mother and her mother’s

    Chinese values that state the honor that should be given to older relatives. Therefore, she finds it

    normal to put her mother in the tiny guestroom of her house. On the other hand, Lena’s mother

    notices how her daughter has become a foreigner who is moving only farther away from her and

    her Chinese values and thinking. Additionally, Lena’s mother’s saying that Lena will not listen

    to her advice of not putting any babies in the tiny guestroom with slanted roof for fear of bad

    omens shows that Lena does not believe in her mother’s superstitions (Tan 242). It also implies

    that Lena disregards her mother’s negative attitude based on Chinese superstitions. This becomes

    clearer when Lena says, “and I knew that was not true. I knew my mother made up anything to

    warn me, to help me avoid some unknown danger” (Tan 105). This shows Lena does not

    appreciate her mother’s negative perspectives in everyday objects. Lena’s mother says, “I raised

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    a daughter, watching her from another shore. I accepted her American ways” (Tan 251). This

    demonstrates that there is a barrier between Lena and her mother. Lena’s mother accepts her

    daughter’s American ways even though she resents the fact that she has not raised her daughter

    in way pleasing to her (Tan 243).

    As a grown up woman, Lena reconciles with her mother by accepting her mother’s

    Chinese superstitious statements and way of thinking. Lena says, “I believe my mother has the

    mysterious ability to see things before they happen” (Tan 149). This shows that Lena has come

    to accept and believe in her mother’s Chinese way of thinking and supernatural predictions.

    Grice adds in this regard, “…Lena …believes that [her] mother [has] magical powers” (Wiener

    83). It also implies that Lena’s mother’s supernatural predictions affect her either positively or

    negatively. For instance, when Lena’s mother visits her, Lena is fearful of her mother’s

     predictions about her renovated house and her relationship with her husband (Tan 151). This

    shows that Lena believes in her mother’s predictions to be true and effective. Therefore, she is

    afraid what her mother may say to her based on her mother’s observations of her house and her

    relationship with her husband. Furthermore, when the flower vase breaks after falling off from

    the flimsy end table, Lena says, “‘It doesn’t matter,’ I say, … ‘I knew it would happen.’ ‘Then

    why you don’t stop it?’ asks my mother. And it’s such a simple question” (Tan 165). This shows

    Lena has same intuition as her mother to comprehend a troublesome situation. Additionally, it

    symbolizes Lena’s understanding that her mother notices her poor relationship with her husband

    that may end up breaking. Therefore, Lena’s mother wants her to fix it before it breaks like the

    flower vase. Lena realizes that her mother advises her with a simple question to take action

     before the predicted negative event comes to pass. This shows that Lena finds a common ground

     between herself and her mother and her mother’s Chinese heritage.

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    Rose disobeys and disrespects her mother by challenging the Chinese notion of an

    obedient daughter who listens to her mother and takes care of her younger siblings. As a young

    girl, Rose follows her instincts against the desires of her mother asserting her independence. For

    instance, during a dream, Rose avoids picking a doll that her mother wants her to pick,

    demonstrating that Rose asserts her will and takes her own course of life against the wishes of

    her mother (Tan 186). This also shows as Shen says, “the daughters’ battle for autonomy and

    independence from powerful imposing mothers are relentless, and the confrontations between

    mother and daughters are fierce” (Bloom 11). Additionally, the fact that Rose dates Ted, an

    American boy, against her mother’s wishes shows that Rose decides to follow American culture

    and lifestyle over her mother’s Chinese culture and values (Tan 117). It also implies Rose finds

     peace of mind and comfort amongst American people instead of Chinese. Furthermore, when

    Rose says, “Why? Why did I have to care for them?,” shows that she does not appreciate that her

    mother forces her to take care of her younger siblings (Tan 123). She does not want to play the

    role of an older Chinese sister who is responsible for the bodies of her younger siblings (Tan

    123).

    As a grown up woman, Rose comes to terms with her mother by listening to her mother,

    and accepting her mother’s Chinese culture and values. Rose says, “back home, I thought about

    what she said. And it was true. Lately I had been feeling hulihudu – confused. And everything

    around me seemed to be heimongmong  – dark fog” (Tan 188). This shows that Rose starts to

    think over what her mother says instead of ignoring and disregarding her mother’s statement as

    irrational Chinese statements. Also, Rose realizes that what her mother says is true as to how she

    will feel if she listens to a psychiatrist instead of her mother (Tan 188). The truthfulness of her

    mother’s statements inspires her to admire her mother and accept her mother’s Chinese culture

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    and values. Additionally, Rose considers her mother’s advice to speak up to her husband for her

    rights (Tan 193). This shows Rose starts listening to her mother unlike during her childhood

    when she refused to listen to her mother. When Rose accepts her mother and listens to her

    advice, she finds courage to speak up to her husband for her rights (Tan 196). Rose is able to

    face her husband and convey to him that she will stand up for her rights in divorcing him. She is

    not going to allow him to throw her away like unwanted weeds from the garden (Tan 196). This

    demonstrates Rose’s determination and courage that she finds in herself by accepting her mother

    and her mother’s Chinese culture and values. In a similar way, Foster says, “it is through [her]

    mother that [she] find [her] voice…” (Bloom 19). Rose says, “That night I dreamt … I spotted

    Old Mr. Chou and my mother off in the distance … ‘There she is!’ cried my mother. Old Mr.

    Chou smiled at me and waved” (Tan 196). This shows complete reconciliation between Rose and

    her mother. Because Rose accepts her mother and listens to her, Mr. Chou does not scare her

    with nightmares. Mr. Chou waves at Rose peacefully as if Rose is a young obedient daughter of

    her mother.

    Conclusion

     Bone  and The Joy Luck Club share a central theme of the mothers’ and daughters’

    relationships.  Bone shows deterioration of the relationships between the mother and her three

    daughters due to the daughters’ disregard of their mother’s Chinese culture and values in order to

    claim their individuality based on American lifestyle and values. Due to the same reasons, the

    mothers’ and daughters’ relationships deteriorate in The Joy Luck Club. However, unlike Bone,

    The Joy Luck Club shows improvement of the relationships between the mothers and their

    daughters. As grown up women, the daughters realize they are part of each other. Therefore,

    their happiness depends on their acceptance of their mothers and their mothers’ Chinese culture

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    and values. Even though these books are about the immigrant Chinese American families, the

    conflicting relationships between mothers and daughters exist in every family, specifically in

    immigrant families. As the daughters try to assimilate into the mainstream culture, the immigrant

     parents differentiate from the mainstream culture by sticking to their native culture and values.

    This assimilation and differentiation with regard to cultures between parents and children create

     problems in the family. The seven different relationships between mothers and daughters

    explored in Bone and The Joy Luck Club exist in American society in immigrant families. Books

    like  Bone and The Joy Luck Club serve as an educational tool to improve the relationships

     between the mothers and daughters who are dealing with assimilation and differentiation

    conflicts in the family. Reading these kinds of books will broaden the perspectives of the parents

    as well as their daughters or children to guide them to interact with each other with

    understanding and kindness.

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