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SBU MATTERPARENT AND FAMILY ORIENTATION
Center for Prevention and OutreachCounseling and Psychological Services Stony Brook University
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Who are you?
1. First-time parent/family member of a college student
2. Veteran parent/family member of a previous college student
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Why are you here?
Transition
Communication
Partnership
U Matter in your student’s success
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Which kind of parent are you?
1. Can I come with you?
2. I still know what’s best for you…
3. When I was in college…
4. Whatever it is, my student can handle it…
5. 18 and out…
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Now that your student is in college, how much to do anticipate your role
will change?
1. Too much2. Not at all 3. Too little
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Transitions…
Dealing with your feelings
Empowering your student
Negotiating your student’s independence
Managing new expectations…
Know what we offer…
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What do you want your student to get out of college most?
1. Job skills2. Critical thinking3. Have fun 4. Learn to cook and do laundry5. Make new friends
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What do you think your student wants to get out of college most?
1. Job skills2. Critical thinking3. Have fun4. Learn to cook and do laundry5. Make new friends
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Parents asked to draw the greatest influence on their teens placed
themselves last…
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…but teens asked to draw the major influences in their lives placed their
parents first.
U Matter!
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Parental Influence on Alcohol or Other Drug Use
• Communicate with your student:• Listen • Be respectful towards them • Communicate concerns clearly
and directly • Ask questions
• Know the Student Conduct Code
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SBU Alcohol and Drug Policy
• ILLEGAL for anyone under 21 to use or possess alcohol.• Providing alcohol to minors is
unlawful • Illicit drug use is illegal
• Student Conduct Code describes specific policies on the LEGAL use or possession of alcohol on campus
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Parent School
Hi, my child is taking a new medication that
may affect their concentration.
Thanks for calling, we’ll let
their teachers know.
Student
K-12 Communication Model
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Parent School
..
Student
That medication may affect your concentration, don’t forget to speak to the
people at school.
I’m not sure who to tell, I
guess I’ll call my UGC
advisor
I’m glad you called, why
don’t you come in and will go
over some resources.
University Communication Model
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Obstacles to Academic Success
1. Alcohol & other drugs2. Homesickness3. Sleep difficulties4. Stress5. Anxiety & Depression6. Financial Problems7. Internet Use/Computer Games
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• Stress 30.3%• Sleep difficulties 21.0%• Anxiety 21.8%• Depression 13.5%• Internet use/computer games 11.6%• Finances 6.2%• Homesickness 4.0%• Alcohol use 4.1%• Drug use 1.8%
2014 ACHA National Survey Data
2014 National College Health Survey
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• Mood • Irritable• Sad• Distant
• Behavior • Physical appearance• Isolation/Withdrawal (frequency of contact)• Unable to manage finances• Too many interpersonal difficulties
RED FLAGS: Drastic changes in…
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• Communication• Hopelessness • Ways they communicate with you
• Academics• Grades • Withdrawing from semester without any
clear reason
“Just not acting like themselves”
RED FLAGS: Drastic changes in…
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Health and Wellness Services
• Counseling and Psychological Services
• Disability Support Services
• Peer-to-Peer Education
• Health and Wellness Programs
• University Police: 631-632-3333 (emergencies)
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Title IX
Title IX is a federal law requiring all higher education institutions to ensure that employees and students have an environment free of sexual harassment, sexual violence, and gender discrimination.
See www.stonybrook.edu/titleix for more information and/or to report an incident.
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Remember U matter at SBU
• Transitions: challenging and exciting
• Communicate and take an active interest in your student’s college experience
• Know our services
• We are partners in your students’ success
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Let’s hear from one of our undergrad students...
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Thank you!!