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See this banged up vehicle?

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This is not a metaphor for what your marriage looks like now...

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It is actually the solution that saved Jon and Sue from getting

a divorce...

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It’s an ugly, banged up car that Jon & Sue will always smile

thinking about... for the rest of their lives...

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And whether you’ve realized it or not... this is what will save your marriage... as you’ll see in just a

couple minutes...

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Kinda like you, Jon and Sue had seen better days in their

marriage...

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For Jon... it snuck up on him slowly until he couldn’t fool

himself anymore...

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It started with a subtle creeping feeling that something wasn’t

right... a dark uneasiness in his stomach...

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Something was off, even if he couldn’t place it...

And it had been going on for a while...

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Sue hadn’t been herself lately... She was colder, more distant... missing that spark he always

adored about her...

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When they first settled in together as man and wife, she would smile radiantly whenever he

walked into the room...

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When he came home from work, she would just glow... she’d say

“Hey Handsome,” and run up and kiss him on the lips...

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Now when he came through the door after a hard day of work, all he would get is a half-smile, and a dry “Hey.” She wouldn’t even

get up to give him a hug...

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The blazing passion that used to define their relationship had been

simmering down to barely a pulse...

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Wilting away like a dying flower over the last two years...

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It didn’t feel like she really respected him anymore... or

cared about how he felt...

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The little things she used to do for him to show she cared... all of those were quietly disappearing...

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One thing that used to amaze him was how she could surprise

him with with a spontaneous caring gesture when he least

expected it...

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She would do things like sneak a love note into his briefcase during a big meeting day...

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He’d discover the note during the business meeting and blush beet

red... she was so cutely mischievous...

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She’d always look nice for him... and do things like put on his

favorite sundress... even they were just staying in and it wasn’t

“date night”...

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These days, things were different... she didn’t seem to care at all whether she turned him on or looked attractive...

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She started not bothering to do her hair how he liked it... and always dressing as if it was a

“lazy sunday”...

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As each day went by...she seemed colder, more distant...

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It started to feel like they weren’t even “in love” anymore... just

roommates raising kids together...

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Jon had enough evidence at this point to know something was definitely wrong, even if he

couldn’t place what...

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So he decided something needs to change!

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He went on Google to look for relationship advice... and

discovered some interesting tips on improving his marriage...

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“This is so easy!” he thought, “Why didn’t I think of it before?”

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He learned about love languages, and started reading about how women and men are from different “planets” and just need to understand each other’s

differences...

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Revived and optimistic, he put these new tools to work... doing loving favors and showing how

much he cared about her...

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He sent unexpected flowers to her office... and helped her

around the house without being asked...

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He made sure to compliment her beauty when she even took the slightest gesture to look nice

for him...

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And it was working!

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Things seemed to be picking up for the two of them... and she

definitely noticed how caring he was being...

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Jon wanted to continue improving their relationship so he took her

to a very special restaurant, on a surprise date night...

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This was a wonderful night-time venue they hadn’t been to in

years...

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They were going to go to “L’Astrance” the French

restaurant he had proposed to her at...

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He had been very creative in setting up this surprise-date so

she wouldn’t expect it...

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He told her they were just going somewhere casual in town...

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He smiled to himself as they walked closer and closer to

L’Astrance...

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“She’s going to be so excited when she realizes where we’re

going... and it’s not even our anniversary! She’ll be so happy

to do this on a random date night!” He couldn’t wait to see

her reaction...

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He walked hand in hand with his lovely wife as they got closer to the restaurant... thinking “Man

am I lucky...”

Then something beyond his darkest imagination occurred...

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Her eyes met the L’Astrance sign and she abruptly halted in her tracks... as if her feet had

gotten stuck in the cement in the sidewalk...

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“I can’t do this...” she said...

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Jon was shocked... this didn’t make sense at all... She loved this restaurant! It had so many memories for them. What was

wrong??

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“I... I think we need to be apart...” she finally said... before breaking

down into tears.

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After a few moments of crushing silence, he awkwardly nodded and started walking back to the car with her... no longer holding

hands...

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Jon didn’t know what to think...

What did she mean “We need to be apart”?...

A separation... a divorce?!? This out-of-nowhere request hit

him like a cold brick to the head...

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He knew they had been through some hard times recently but he

had no idea it had gotten this bad...

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Jon had never dreamed Sue would want a life without him,

period...

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As they drove home in cold, deathly silence... Jon’s thoughts

could not stop racing...

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“This isn’t fair...”

Jon had committed to spending the rest of his life with Sue and he had never once considered

going back on his word...

He loved her... He had sacrificed so much for her...

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Then this happened:

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And their marriage became more beautiful than ever...

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However... Long before that crashed car saved their

marriage... Sue had been going through a very different

experience with Jon...

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When Sue and Jon had first gotten married... it was all a

wonderful dream that she hoped she would never wake up from...

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She had met her fairy-tale Prince... the man that made her

feel safe... sexy... and alive...

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She could always trust Jon to be there for her no matter what...

He was her wall that she could always lean on...

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And he made her feel so good...

He loved making her happy... loved taking care of her and

showering her with affection...

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Every day was a holiday... It felt like life had become an ongoing

vacation...

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As long as Jon was hand in hand with her, she couldn’t even

imagine being bored... or lonely... or dissatisfied with anything in

the world...

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But over the last two years... their passion had cooled like an herbal

tea left outside a bit too long...

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A dull feeling remained that was still tolerable... but she couldn’t

help but grieve that she no longer had that searing fire of love in

her heart for him...

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She found herself caring less for Jon... and caring for the

relationship even less... She wasn’t sure how this could

happen...

She certainly didn’t want to lose what they had...

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At times, she blamed herself...

Though she also felt that Jon wasn’t pulling his weight either...

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Jon did seem to be taking her for granted lately...

Things she did to make him happy were no longer

appreciated... Sometimes they weren’t even noticed...

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She would spend hours of her day cooking Jon’s favorite dish...

a delicious lamb roast...

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And he would just sit down and eat... Without even a word about

all the time and effort and attention she put into this meal...

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She may as well have made him a microwave TV dinner for all he

cared...

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And this hurt her... a lot...

As he uncaringly ate the lamb... she held back her tears and

swallowed back her burning urge to scream at him for callously throwing her loving gift back in

her face...

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And that wasn’t the only time things like that happened...

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Sometimes she would go to the salon to get an absolutely

gorgeous haircut and facial... to look beautiful for him...

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And not only did he not notice...

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When she finally told him what she had done to look good for him, the first words out of his

mouth were... “Well how much did that cost?”

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She began sadly resigning herself to the fact that nothing she did would ever be good

enough...

“Why do I even bother...” she felt...

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So from that day on, she stopped working overtime to please him...

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And it didn’t seem to matter... because Jon had also gotten lazy

with his appearance as well...

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He used to shave daily because he knew she loved feeling his

ultra-smooth, fresh-shaved skin when they kissed...

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Now he didn’t care if he had a stubble, even though it would

scratch her face when they were close...

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In the early days, he used to shower and put on her favorite cologne before getting intimate

with her...

Now she was lucky if he even wore deodorant...

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And her blood began to boil when she asked him to help

clean up the kids for dinner and he said “No, I’m watching

football...”

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Did he not respect her anymore?

Was he not attracted to her enough?

She could feel her emotional investment to him shrinking as

each day passed...

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Now... her friends were completely on her side on this

matter...

“You’re great, Sue. I don’t know why you put up with him...”

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And it didn’t take long for her to notice that when she dressed

pretty and dolled up...

Other men were turning their heads to check her out... even if

Jon wasn’t...

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“Maybe being single again wouldn’t be so bad...” she

thought...

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Then out of nowhere... Jon pulled a 180-degree turn and started changing his ways...

totally without warning...

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She didn’t know what happened...

Suddenly he was extremely

attentive, sweet... everything she thought she was missing...

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But... it just didn’t feel right...

Everything he did felt forced...

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It didn’t feel natural and loving... It felt fake...

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She couldn’t help but wonder...

“Where is this coming from? Is he feeling guilty for something? Is

he having an affair??”

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The more he tried to be nice, the more distance she found herself

needing...

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Until that night he tried to take her on that ultra-romantic date to

the L’Astrance...

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She had already been holding back the need to escape for a

while...

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But when she saw the blue-lights of the L’Astrance sign, she couldn’t do this anymore...

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She jolted to a stop on the sidewalk... as if everything inside her had slammed on the breaks

to a screeching halt...

She said “I think we need to be apart...”

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That was before she talked to a lawyer, of course...

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They drove home that night and agreed to sleep in separate

rooms, until Jon could go to a friend’s house for a while...

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And it didn’t take long before both of them started to realize the implications of splitting up...

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Sue heard the bad news from the attorney first...

“It’s going to cost you a lot,” said the lawyer...... “And it can take up

to 2 years to finalize...”

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Sue was in shock... “TWO YEARS?? That’s ridiculous!!”

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Sue was expecting three (or maybe five) months at most!

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She thought she’d be remarried in two years time... She had this beautiful plan of being happily single for a while... playing the

field for a little bit... finding someone new... and falling in

love all over again...

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Her life wasn’t supposed to miss a beat...

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But it savagely dawned on her that marriage is not so easy to

split up...

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The attorney told her:

“Even when a couple tries to separate nicely... unexpected

disputes come up and it can take a long time to settle in court...

You two have some decent assets... and children...”

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A divorce was going to cost her tens of thousands of dollars in

court fees alone...

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Sue had been assuming she’d either get the house after the

divorce or move to a nice apartment in the city...

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But now that she was going to be spending this much on lawyers,

mediation, and court fees...

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Not only would she not be able to afford to keep the house... she would be living in the smallest apartment she’d lived in since

college!

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The “new single life” didn’t sound so fun anymore...

It was a rude awakening...

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She couldn’t help but wonder if it might be easier to fix the

marriage she had than to find a new one... After all, she was

madly in love with Jon when she said her vows... Could she get

that back?

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Jon was having a similar experience...

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He hadn’t wanted a divorce at all, but the idea sounded even worse now that his attorney Robert Rey

was telling him the time and costs involved...

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Mr. Rey told him “If most couples had any idea how much time,

money, and stress it takes to get divorced... they would give their

marriage a second shot...”

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Jon sighed with dismay... if only there was a way to fix this... if

only he knew what to do...

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Then Mr. Rey said something totally unexpected...

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“I’m not going to take you as a client.”

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Jon was startled, “What? Why??”

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Mr. Rey said, “Normally, I’d be happy to take your money. You have some good assets, and the way your case looks... this could take a long time, even years...”

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“I’d love to have the income for the firm... but I’m tremendously

booked up for the next 3 months...”

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Mr. Rey continued, “I know you can’t wait around for 3 months

while your wife is divorcing you, so this is my idea...”

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“Look outside over there...”

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Mr. Rey pointed out the window and in the parking lot was this

smashed up car...

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Mr. Rey frowned... “On my way over here, some bonehead

thought he had the right of way and crashed into my car...”

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“What the heck this have to do with my case?” thought Jon

impatiently...

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Mr. Rey continued... “I had to rush, so I took the guy’s business

card so he can pay for the damage... I’ve got his info taken down now, so now I’m giving this

bonehead’s card to you...”

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The card read “Andrew Rusbatch – Save My Marriage Today”

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Yes... that “bonehead” is me...

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As Jon looked over the card curiously, Mr. Rey said “I want

you to try this guy out for 3 months... I looked at his website

and he has a track record for saving hundreds of marriages...”

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Jon disagreed and quickly piped in, “I wish that were possible, but Sue doesn’t want to fix things. She doesn’t even want to go to

counseling!”

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Mr. Rey raised an eyebrow, “That’s what’s different about this

guy... He doesn’t actually like counseling... and he says you don’t even need your spouse on board to make this work...”

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“All you have to do is follow his little system, supposedly.”

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Mr. Rey smiled, “Look, I’m skeptical too. He might be full of

shit. But out of my own self-interest, I don’t want you to hire another lawyer until I can take

your case...”

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“Give him a few months... if it doesn’t work, I’ll get your money

later. If he does save your marriage... then at least the other firms don’t get you as a

client either...”

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Jon’s first thought was,

“No wonder people don’t like lawyers...”

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But his next thought was that if there’s any hope... any hope at all that this Save My Marriage Today guy can stop this divorce and give him the happy love life he once had... than he’d be an

idiot to not give it a shot...

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He arranged an email consultation with the man on the business card... with me... and believe me it wasn’t cheap...

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But three months later...

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He never called the lawyer again...

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And when Mr. Rey tried to follow up in a few months, Jon didn’t

even bother listening to the voicemail...

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In almost no time at all, Jon and Sue were in love again...

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Things were getting better by the day... sometimes by the hour...

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They still had arguments... but that was ok...

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While before, each disagreement was bringing them down...

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Now, they use every little quarrel as an opportunity to get closer...

to be happier...

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They’re in love again... they are friends again... and they spend each day happily living their life

together...

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Jon is back to being thoughtful and doing nice things for Sue... but it feels natural and loving...

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Sue dolls herself up for Jon and he swoons in amazement for

how beautiful she is... and how wonderful it is to have a loving

wife who cares for him like this...

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Divorce is completely off the table...

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And not because of how expensive and time-consuming the divorce process would have

been...

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They now have solid... real loving reasons to stay together...

and it doesn’t feel like work anymore... it feels like a renewed

honeymoon...

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Their marriage is beautiful because both spouses have their

needs completely met...

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Sue feels more beautiful than she did on her wedding day... and Jon once again feels truly respected

as the man of the house...

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And none of this required going to a marriage counselor...

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Or reading a bunch of books...

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Or learning a new “love language...”

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It just took something very simple that I will give you today...

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So you can have what Jon and Sue have...

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Right now, Jon and Sue feel blessed that their marriage had

this little fender-bender...

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Because now they are closer than ever before...

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I just got an email from Jon about how they’re right now on a nice

tropical vacation, enjoying life more than ever...

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Every day is a gift...

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And I want the same thing for you...

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But you won’t need to sign up for an expensive one-on-on consult

with me...

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Instead, I am going to give you all you need in the next few

minutes so you can snap your marriage back to where it

belongs...

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And feel that romantic bliss again... have your partner on

your side... no matter how rough things are right now...

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I’m Andrew Rusbatch, and let’s be clear...

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I’m not a fancy pants PhD in Marriage Therapy… if you want

one of those, you can go grab the yellow pages and sort through

the pile…

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The reason why you’re here is I think that on some level you know those people can’t help

you…

And there’s a very specific reason for that… which reveal in

one minute…

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What I am is someone who has been helping marriages go from complete and utter failure to indescribable romantic bliss since I began coaching couples

in 2005…

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And it’s only now that I’m giving everything away to you without

you having to book a private consulting package with me...

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If you’re like a lot of the clients I talk to... then there’s a good

chance things have gotten bad… really bad…

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You might not be living with your spouse anymore…

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You might not be talking with your spouse anymore…

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There might even be divorce papers waiting on your

doorstep…

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Or you might just be in a place where you know divorce is a scary possibility… even if it

hasn’t been said out loud yet...

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So I am going to tell you 3 things that will not only help save your marriage from bitter, expensive

divorce...

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But give you a renewed loving passion with your spouse that you forgot was even possible...

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Where you are grateful for each other every moment... and waking up together on a

Saturday morning feels more magical than even your wedding

day...

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The first thing you need to know is…

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You must avoid separation at all costs…

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And if you’re already separated… you and I have to get to work…

quick!

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A lot of people like you have had their spouses either hint at separation or demand it…

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And I don’t blame people for thinking that’s a good idea... The heart might be in the right place...

“Some time apart will give us

some perspective...”

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However... this is what I’ve seen happen countless times with

separated couples...

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One or both of the spouses starts to get adjusted to the single life

again…

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They’re not really single... because they haven’t realized

how much a divorce will dominate or even destroy their lives...

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But it feels nice to have a little space...

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A lot of people assume that their spouse will start missing them

and want them back...

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But the truth is that once a spouse gets re-acquainted with

single life…

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Other ideas pop in their head…

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“Maybe it wouldn’t be so bad…”

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“It’s a little lonely now but maybe once I started dating other people

this would be fun…”

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These are Marriage-Exterminating ideas… and even

the best, most well-intentioned couples who separated in order

to SAVE the marriage are in danger of this…

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The 2nd tip I am going to give you may surprise you…

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And it is the fact that whether you know it yet or not…

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You... by yourself... have all the power to fix your marriage and

prevent a nasty divorce... even if it looks hopeless and your

partner has already sent the papers to your doorstep...

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What I learned in my near decade-long marriage saving

career is:

All it takes is one spouse to save a marriage.

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This can sound surprising or even impossible to some

people... but it’s amazing what happens when one person does what is necessary... even in just

taking that first step...

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I’ve seen some messy situations, worse than you’d ever believe…

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And it all came down to that one spouse willing to take action…

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Even when it looked hopeless…

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Even when the other spouse was already demanding a divorce…

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Even when lawyers were already in the picture…

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And through countless consultations over email… (which I’ll show you how to download in a moment as a special gift for

watching this)

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You’ll see how people were able to bring their marriages from the

darkest pits of despair to beautiful heights of joy and

light…

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Time after time as this happened, it became predictable... It

became almost easy to give someone exactly what they need to turn their marriage

around...

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It became a simple system that I didn’t need to think so hard about

anymore...

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And that’s what got me to a “problem”…

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Which brings me to the 3rd Point... one I didn’t even want to

admit existed...

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There was something very dark about what I was doing when

helping couples save their marriages...

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I felt great helping people stop divorce and renew their love

through phone and email consultations…

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But there was one fact that I was a little uncomfortable with…

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That they didn’t really need me to do it…

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All they needed was this simple system I was using...

It was basically the same conversation... email after email,

couple after couple…

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It didn’t matter who was using the Save My Marriage Today

system...

As long as they followed the instructions, it worked...

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And that got me feeling insecure...

What if this system got out in the open and people didn’t need me

anymore?

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What if everyone knew this so no needed to hire me?

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It was that moment when I felt a nauseating turn in my stomach and realized I was incredibly and unforgivably selfish…

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I am so ashamed of how much I had been holding back...

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All around me, from coast to coast… around the world…

marriages were dying…

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Divorces are rampant… families are breaking apart…

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Children will never know the security and pleasure of living

with both parents for their entire young lives…

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And I was letting this happen nationwide... worldwide... just

to make a quick buck...

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I was part of the problem…

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And that ends today...

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So I’m going to effectively slit the throat of my private marriage consulting business... even

though it may cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars...

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And I’m going to make everything available to you personally,

today...

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Everything I’ve ever taught to save marriages is now available

to download for yourself…

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And in less than 130 seconds, I’ll show you how to get all of this…

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I’ve put together some easy-to-follow manuals that outlines the entire process I’ve used with hundreds of couples, step by

step…

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And with this... you can start healing your marriage at this

moment… and be happier than ever…

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This is Save My Marriage Today

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My entire program for preventing divorce and turning your

marriage into indescribable joy... even if divorce looks

inescapable...

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So in these marital bliss making manuals, I’ve put everything in

here...

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First, you have the original full guide for Save My Marriage

Today...

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Which packs everything in you need to make your marriage

caring... cooperative... respectful... and loving...

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You’ll experience the Love Mindset Shift... and go from “trying to solve problems”” to making each day a wonderful opportunity to re-connect with

your spouse....

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You’ll see why 83% of your marriage disagreements are not

from a lack of love, but from problems with the Four

Interpersonal Skills... which will all be solved for you...

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And with the “Fight Dissolver” process, you’ll nip disagreements

in the bud before they explode into nasty arguments...

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The truth is that all the fights and arguments you hate come from

layers and layers of minor, unspoken conflict...

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And when you have Save My Marriage Today, you will have the awareness needed to stop this vicious cycle in its tracks...

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And all of this works even if your spouse is not living with you

anymore...

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It’s true, that separation is very dangerous for marriages,

(especially for one already on the rocks)...

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And that’s why it’s all the more important you correct this now...

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The process for getting a spouse to move back in with you is a

careful process... and you must follow what Save My Marriage Today advises to the letter...

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Trying to wing this on your own can be expensive and deadly for

your relationship...

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In Save My Marriage Today, you’ll gain full confidence in how to resolve any conflicts you have about children in the house...

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Whether they are your own or from a previous relationship...

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One of the scariest things about divorce is having a judge decide for both of you what happens to

your children...

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So you do not want to skip this section when you get Save My

Marriage Today...

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An extremely important thing you’ll find invaluable is the

Relationship Stress Melter which makes all the stress you

deal with day-to-day disappear...

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Stress is a delicate subject you cannot ignore... because stress

from your daily life feeds into your marriage...

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And then when your relationship gets stressful... that feeds into the rest of your life.. and the vicious cycle continues... but

NOT when you have the Relationship Stress Melter at

your fingertips...

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Imagine how great it will be to stop stress in its tracks... to be

able to walk through life in absolute peace... knowing you have the loving support of your

partner at every turn...

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And imagine feeling ten times better at work and when you’re

with friends...

Imagine feeling refreshed and happy when you wake up...

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Remember that the health of your relationship affects every area of

your life... from your physical health, to your mental well-being

and happiness...

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And if you’ve ever wondered what’s normal in a marriage and

what should or should not be happening... then I have

something special for you...

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There are 6 Stages of Marriage you need to understand... so

you’ll recognize when a so-called “conflict” is ‘bad’ and when it

means the relationship is actually getting deeper and even more

loving...

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There are times where things appear to be a little rocky but are

actually the sign of amazing things to come...

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The tough part you had until now was knowing when these

changes are perfectly normal and when they are a problem...

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With Save My Marriage Today, you’ll never again have to wonder because it’s all laid out for you...

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And I know you’ve heard a million mixed opinions about what’s supposed to happen in your

relationship...

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Your parents say one thing... your friends say another... and of course your spouse has their

own opinion...

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When you have Save My Marriage Today as your guide, all that confusion evaporates...

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Your friends & family are valuable in helping you get

clarity about your marriage... but they can unintentionally (or intentionally) sabotage your

relationship for life if you are not looking at this guide...

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You may be wondering “What if my spouse is not on board with this Save My Marriage thing...”

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I’m not going to lie... it will be much easier if your spouse is going through this guide the

same time as you... and I understand that’s not always

possible...

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If the divorce papers are lying on your doorstep, chances are that Save My Marriage Today is not at the top of your spouse’s to-do

list...

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And that’s totally fine...

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The magic of Save My Marriage Today is that it only takes one person’s commitment to save a

marriage...

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Even if your spouse doesn’t want to speak to you again... you can make it work using this guide...

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And believe me, there are plenty marriages that these principles have saved... even when the

marriage was at death’s door...

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Now you may be concerned that you don’t have enough time for all of this because things have

gotten so bad, so fast...

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If you feel your marriage is on life-support and one of you is

about to pull the plug...

You need every fast-action resource right now without any

time to spare! ...

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So I’ve built an Emergency Operating Room for your marriage in this special

manual...

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And it’s called...

Save My Marriage Today – Book 2: Emergency Guide

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Sometimes you don’t have the time to go page by page... so

with this guidebook I make absolutely sure you have the solution you need instantly...

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Whatever your problem is, you can find it in your Emergency

Guide so you can take the necessary steps before it’s too

late...

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This is especially helpful if an affair has happened... and one of

you has packed a suitcase in rage...

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And yes... if there is cheating involved... whether it’s a one-night-stand or an extended

affair... you absolutely can and should resolve it...

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I know that right now it can be hard to think clearly about your

marriage... you may be in a state of anger... frustration... maybe

depression.. and it will be harder to think straight and do the right

thing...

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That’s why you can lean on the Emergency Guide to do all the

hard work for you...

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You can relax... Save My Marriage Today is designed to

take all those conflicting stressful emotions and melt them away... so you can be in a calm relaxed

state as your marriage gets resolved...

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Whether you’re grieving in disappointment or furious with

betrayal...

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Even if you’re wondering if you should even bother fixing your

marriage...

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This Emergency Guide will give you everything you need...

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And because stopping a possible divorce is so important, I’m going

to gift you a $167 bonus when you get Save My Marriage

Today...

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You get the 12 Part Video Series for Marriages in Extreme

Crisis...

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This takes your Save My Marriage Today – Emergency

Guide to the next level...

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As me and several other professionals guide you through the hard issues of repairing a

marriage... such as when there’s cheating, addiction, money problems, or depression &

anxiety...

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The original plan was to make this a course you could buy

separately, but I want to make sure you have absolutely

everything you need to save yourself from divorce and

everything that comes with it...

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So this 12-Part Video series is yours FREE when you get Save

My Marriage Today...

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But that’s not all...

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Remember that I said earlier that I’d let you peak through my email consultations with past couples

who turned their marriages around?

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Well I’m going to do more than that...

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Over the last nine years, I’ve amassed a ton of success stories and email consultations that have

dealt with very specific situations...

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No matter what you’re going through right now, I am sure

you’ll relate to many of the stories of challenge and success...

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So I’m going to give you access to look over these case histories so you’ll know your marriage will

be ok...

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You get not just one volume... not two volumes... but three

volumes of my best and most successful consultations over the

past nine years...

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I could sell each of these separately, but I like I said, I want

to give you all the ammunition you need to obliterate all the problems threatening your

marriage....

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You get Save My Marriage Today Consults – Volumes 1, 2,

& 3 at no charge at all...

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That’s a value easily of $60 by itself...

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By now, you’re probably wondering “Ok, well how much do I have to pay for all this?”

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Before I answer that... I hope I don’t have to point out the real

elephant in the room...

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What will it cost you not to save your marriage...

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Remember that divorce can cost you literally tens of thousands

of dollars...

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The lawyers & court fees can go on endlessly...

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And just when you think things are settled... a new dispute comes up that drags on for

another six months...

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And all this time you’re missing work for court appointments...

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You’re stressed out...

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The time you take off work for divorce can cause you to get passed over for a promotion...

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Or even fired!

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And at this point, unfortunately it is completely legal for companies

to fire employees for missing work from divorce court dates...

even if you’re required by law to show up...

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And if... God-forbid... you lose your job during a child custody

battle... Well, you just know what the judge is going to decide...

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And that’s before we even get to the mental... emotional... and

health costs of going through a stressful divorce...

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Believe me... anything I could charge you for just one more chance at a happy marriage

would be a drop in the bucket compared to the alternative!

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So to get Save My Marriage Today, all it takes is

$97

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And this not only includes your Save My Marriage Today

guide...

But also Save My Marriage: Book 2 – Emergency Manual to make sure you turn things around

ASAP before it’s too late...

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And for free, I’m throwing in the $167 12-Part video Course for Marriages in Extreme Crisis

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PLUS the 3 Volumes of Consults valued at $60...

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When you add these extra-special bonus materials to the

main Save My Marriage Today guides... you end up with a total

value of....

$97 + 167 + 60 = $324

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Which is STILL a drop in the bucket compared to divorce

proceedings... and less than the price of a couple counseling

sessions...

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And you get all of this for just

$97...

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Unless you buy right now, in which I will give ALL of this to you

for just

$47

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Yes... if you buy right now from this presentation... if you click

Add to Cart without hesitating a moment longer... you can have

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That’s a steal if I ever heard one... Now when you click Add

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Imagine how refreshed you will be to know you’ve taken the first

step in re-creating a loving, wholesome... relationship with

your spouse...

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Remember that even if they’ve already left you... it’s not too

late...

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The divorced papers aren’t signed and approved by a judge

yet...

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You still CAN turn this around...

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All you have to do is click Add to Cart...

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And you will be taken to a secure checkout page...

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And be literally minutes away from melting away all the issues in your marriage and creating a

rock-solid bond with your spouse that you never dreamed you could have with anyone...

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And if you’re even a little bit unsure of whether this is the right

decision to make...

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Know that you’re fully protected by a 60-Day Money-Back Guarantee

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Look, I know a lot of “professional marriage counselors” say that

you need many months or years to ‘fix your issues’...

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But this guide is called Save My Marriage TODAY for a reason...

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I don’t think it should take you any time at all to realize that this guide is literally rescuing you and

your spouse from divorce...

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So if you use any of these principles at all and don’t think it’s

doing the job... then of course contact us for a full refund...

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This course is designed to save you from a loss of tens of

thousands of dollars in attorney fees... and massive emotional

pain...

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So you don’t see immediate obvious results from Save My

Marriage Today... then we don’t want your money!

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And if you browse through it and decide “Hey I don’t think this will work,” then YES you can have a

refund if you’d like... but I’d highly advise you use the system before making any

judgments...

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Remember this is your marriage... your family you’re

talking about here... not a measly $47....

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So now the question comes of if you’re ready to take that one step toward creating a whole new life

for you and your spouse...

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Mending that broken heart and healing your wounds... so you

can be happy together for life...

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You don’t have to worry about your future anymore... or wonder if the neighbors or relatives are

gossiping about how you two are doing...

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You don’t have to wonder if you’ll only get to see your child on

weekends... (or if you’ll have to raise that child all by yourself...)

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It all begins when you click Add to Cart

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Imagine what it will be like to know your spouse is once again the love of your life... your best

friend... someone you can depend on for life...

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When we worry so much about saving our marriage... it’s so easy

to forget how wonderfully blissful a thriving marriage can

be...

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Where every day is a beautiful reminder of how lucky you are to

be with this person...

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Don’t you want that back...

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Don’t let $47 stand in the way of you renewing your love &

passion with your partner...

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I can’t imagine how this could not be worth it if you care even a little bit about making your

marriage work...

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Click Add to Cart and within minutes, you’ll be downloading

the solution to your problems and be stomping out the threat of

divorce once and for all...

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And I have a little secret to tell you if you need a little more

reason to click Add to Cart and save your marriage...

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And that’s several unannounced bonuses that I’ve slipped in here

as a special gift for you...

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I was just going to let you be surprised when you get to the

instant download area... but if you haven’t clicked the button

yet...

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Then I don’t want to risk you walking away and losing your marriage because I didn’t try

everything to help you...

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So your first secret bonus is

“Re-Establishing Commitment: Practical Steps to Rebuild Love

in Your Marriage”

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This is a special report which will make it ten times easier to pick up the pieces once you and your spouse have officially “made up” and agreed to work things out...

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Sometimes even after a couple has reconciled... there can be that “awkward phase” where it

takes time for things to get back to normal...

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This guide will give you a stone-solid foundation to build your relationship on so it’s easy to restart your new happy life

together...

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The next secret bonus is:

“How to Cheat-Proof Your Relationship”

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This special ebook is beyond valuable for both preventing

infidelity and knowing what to do if either you or your spouse has made the mistake of cheating...

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The truth is that infidelity is rampant all over the world... even with very happy couples... so you

always need to be on guard to make sure you know the warning signs... and how to nip a possible

affair in the bud...

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And the third secret bonus is:

Stress: A Comprehensive Guide to Wellness & Inner

Peace

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I don’t need to remind you how destructive stress can be to not

only your marriage but your health... your career... and every

part of your life...

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Remember that stress is a vicious cycle that needs to be

stopped before it rips everything away from you... and this guide will give you everything you need to drop the stress and relax in

peace...

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This guide could easily add years to your life with its breakthroughs

in letting go of anxiety and stress... And you can use it to help your spouse whenever they’re having a bad day as

well...

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And what are the three other secret bonuses?

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Well I can’t give everything away, can I? You’ll have to see when

you click Add to Cart...

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You already know that for the shockingly low price of $47 you get the full Save My Marriage

Today program...

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Including the main Save My Marriage Today guide... the

Emergency Guide... and the 12-Part Video Series for Marriages

in Extreme Crisis...

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As well as the THREE Volumes of Consults...

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If that wasn’t enough for $47... You’re also getting literally six more bonuses... which you

know three of already... So you’ll be able to “Re-Establish

Commitment”... “Cheat-Proof Your Relationship” and “Stop

Stress”...

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And you know there are Three More Mystery Bonuses inside

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That you can only get through this presentation... Just by

clicking Add to Cart right now...

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So what are you waiting for?

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It’s time to reclaim your marriage... get the respect you deserve... and put any worries of

divorce to rest...

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You don’t have to worry about divorce or separation anymore because you’ve done the right

thing today... By clicking Add to Cart and saving your marriage...

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You won’t have to go through the humiliation of your friends and

family seeing your marriage fail...

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And if you have children, you won’t have the shame of letting

them know you’re splitting...

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Instead, you’ll have the joy of knowing that any kids that are in

your life will be growing up around parents that are 100%

completely in love...

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Showing them the example of what real love looks like and that

marriage works...

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Imagine being able to have all the joy you did when you were

first married...

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Even if it’s a little less giddy than it was before, you still feel

amazing about each other... and it’s completely effortless to see

each other’s beauty...

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Imagine getting that buzz pulsating through your body

when your spouse gazes at you... feeling radiant and attractive...

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And having romantic dinners out together again... being the cuddly

couple that other people in the restaurant notice are so in love... feeling steamy about what awaits

for you in the bedroom...

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It feels so good to be alive when you’re in a loving relationship with someone who cares and

respects you...

Don’t give that up...

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That finishes up our presentation. Click Add to Cart and I’ll see

you in the download area...

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Click Add to Cart

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Now we’ve finished this presentation and you may have a

couple questions...

<After 20 seconds past the last slide>

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One common one is: “How do I get the materials? Do I get

something in the mail or is this something I download?”

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Everything you get in Save My Marriage Today is available for you to read online, watch online, and download within minutes of

you clicking the Add to Cart button...

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The only thing you need on your computer to make this work is a PDF reader. Most people have

these already built in their computers, and you can always

download Adobe Acrobat Reader for free (Instructions on how to do

so are inside the course).

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The next question that comes up is... “How will this look on my

credit card or bank statement? I don’t want my statement to say Save My Marriage Today. This

is a private matter!”

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I couldn’t agree more, and that’s why there will be nothing on your statement to indicate what you

purchased...

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Your privacy is extremely important to us... Your bank or card statement will have a $47

charge from “Clickbank,” which is a provider of thousands of digital

products... from health, to business, to entertainment...

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Another question is: How do I know this will work...?

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Well, no one can 100% promise you that your marriage will last

forever.

It takes action on your part and at least some willingness of your

partner at some point... (even if they’re totally unwilling today, that

can be fixed...)

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What we are sure of is that this will give you the best shot of

turning a nearly-dead marriage into a beautiful loving

relationship...

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And that you’ll know this within the first few days of having the

guide...

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And that’s why you have a 60-Day Money-Back Guarantee

to make sure that you are completely satisfied with Save

My Marriage Today...

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If you decide to change your mind for any reason or no

reason...

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Then you’re just an email away from getting every penny back...

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We are that sure that this will make an enormous difference in

your life and relationship...

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So what are you going to do?

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Are you going to walk away and hope your relationship works out

on its own?

That hasn’t worked so far.

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Are you going to give up?

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Or are you going to get Save My Marriage Today and within

minutes begin having a harmonious, loving relationship

with your spouse again... stopping any hint of divorce in its

tracks...

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The time is now, don’t wait a second more...

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Click Add to Cart