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Harvard-trained theologian Meggan Watterson marched out of her church at age ten. With little-girl clarity, she knew something tremendously crucial was missing…the voices of women. Watterson became a theologian and a pilgrim to the divine feminine to find the missing stories and images of women’s spiritual voices. She knew women’s voices had never been silenced, just buried. But what she truly sought was her own spiritual voice inside her—the one veiled beneath years of self-doubt. At a sacred site of the Black Madonna in Europe, Watterson had a revelation that changed her. Rather than transcending the body, denying or ignoring it, being spiritual for her meant accepting her body as sacred. Only then, Watterson realized could she hear the voice of unfaltering love inside her- the voice of her soul. With passion, humor, and brutal honesty, Watterson draws on ancient stories and lesser-known texts of the divine feminine, like The Gospel of Mary Magdalene, making them modern and accessible to reveal the spiritual process she went through. She suggests that being spiritual is simply about stripping down to the truth of who we really are. Through her extensive work with women, Watterson found that she was not alone. There are countless women who long for a spirituality that encourages embodiment rather than denies it, that inspires them to abandon their fears but never themselves, and to be led by the audacious and fiercely loving voice of truth inside them. No matter where you rest on the spectrum of spirituality; religious or secular, devout believer or chronic doubter, freelance mystic or borderline agnostic, this story is about the desire in all of us to want to shed everything that holds us back. Reveal provides what religions have left out—the spiritual voice of a woman who has claimed her body as sacred—a woman who has found the divine insider her. In essence, this is a manual for revealing your soul. “I have spent the majority of my life gathering stories of the divine feminine. Each time before getting my masters degrees in theology and divinity, I went on a pilgrimage to sacred sites of the divine feminine throughout Europe. The first one was with a group and the second was on my own… The stories of the divine feminine, of Christianity’s Mary Magdalene, Catholicism’s Black Madonna, Hinduism’s Kali ma, and Buddhism’s Green Tara for example, allowed me to begin to see that I wasn’t as much of a spiritual misfit as I had thought. There was a red thread that became visible to me that ran through so many of the world religions, especially through their mystics, relating that the way to find the divine is to go within. And, that our potential to be transformed by going inward is exactly the same whether we are a man or a woman. The real barometer of our spiritual potential is not our sex, but the commitment of our desire to want to encounter the divine.” Excerpt from Reveal (Less)Download or Print

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REVEALA Sacred Manual for

Getting Spiritually Naked

MEGGAN WATTERSON

HAY HOUSE, INC.

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Copyright © 2013 by Meggan Watterson

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All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced by any mechanical, photographic, or electronic process, or in the form of a pho-nographic recording; nor may it be stored in a retrieval system, transmit-ted, or otherwise be copied for public or private use—other than for “fair use” as brief quotations embodied in articles and reviews—without prior written permission of the publisher. The author of this book does not dispense medical advice or prescribe the use of any technique as a form of treatment for physical, emotional, or medical problems without the advice of a physician, either directly or in-directly. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. In the event you use any of the information in this book for yourself, which is your constitutional right, the author and the publisher assume no re-sponsibility for your actions.

Reprinted by permission of the publisher and the Trustees of Amherst College from The Poems of Emily Dickinson: Variorum Edition, Ralph W.

-vard College.

Rumi, The Essential Rumi,

The Collected Poems of Muriel RukeyserPermission. All rights reserved.

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Watterson, Meggan

Watterson. -- 1st ed. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references.

2. Spirituality. I. Title. BL624.W365 2013 204'.4--dc23 2012043250

Tradepaper ISBN: 978-1-4019-3820-8Digital ISBN: 978-1-4019-3821-5

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This book is dedicated to every womanwho desires to hear and follow

the soul-voice inside her.

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Contents

Invocation ............................................................................... xiIntro!uction ..........................................................................xiii

!e First Veil: REVEAL Your Soul-Story ..................................1!e Second Veil: REVEAL Your Sacred Body .......................... 23!e !ird Veil: REVEAL Your Soul-Voice ............................... 45!e Fourth Veil: REVEAL Your Divine Worth ....................... 71!e Fi"h Veil: REVEAL Your Inner Mystic .......................... 101!e Sixth Veil: REVEAL Your Soul-Work ............................. 131!e Seventh Veil: REVEAL Your Spiritual Community ........ 155

Benediction .......................................................................... 175Endnotes ............................................................................... 181Ac"nowledgments ................................................................ 185About the Autho# ................................................................ 191

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Invocation

i am the sex of human that has consumed the fruit, the snake’s offering.

and no, i am not guilty. and yes, i am naked.and no, i am not ashamed.

and yes, i am that silhouette there in the distance,the one always found dancing.

i am a scarlet letter, i am burned at the stake. my name is sita, i am a bride. my name is thecla, i will never be married.

i am shaped like a triangle, i am as curved as the number three.i am s-like and undulating. i am fire, and i taste of an ancient sea.

i am that feeling you had when you tried to forget me.

i am that moment when you eclipsed yourself, and suddenlyi am here—a shrine within you left too long unattended.

i am that impulse you had to light a candle there. yes,i am this simple. yes, i come this easily.

for you, i will press myself flat like a book that has never been read.

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i will hold myself there against your skin and watch as your eyes closefrom the heat of me, so near to you.

i will let you handle me like a verse of sacred scripture,i will entrust all of my pages for your beholding.

for you, i will open to the meatiest chapter of myself, i will go straight to the pith, the real juice.

and i will say, “read here, beloved stranger, start sipping this nectar for the soul journey of which you are now a pilgrim.”

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know I felt hope—hope that such a protected, coveted place could exist in me; hope that one day, like the uni-corn, I could look out at the world from a sacred, invio-lable place in my own body and unshakably know my own worth.

That moment reminded me of a crucial something that I knew could never be taken from me. I had no name for it at the time, but I know it now as my body’s unbreakable holiness. The image of the unicorn inti-mated that there is an eternal, unconditional aspect within each of us, a secret garden that no one else can touch. It has a hidden latch that only we have the power to open. And it’s there waiting within us, like a neglected oasis visited too infrequently or not at all.

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I would always hesitate before opening the door to

rest of the world would cease to exist. Nothing else could compete with the presence I met once I entered. St. E’s, a Catholic Charities organization in San Francisco, was a place of mother’s milk and indigestible pain, a place for the excluded—the controversial population of pregnant teens and teen moms.

An icon of the Virgin Mary was perched on top of

frame was so light that she teetered every time a child-care counselor or Sister of Charity opened the refrigera-tor door to retrieve their lunch from inside.

She was the “classic Virgin,” I was told—the Mary most readily found in small enclaves in places of wor-ship, especially in stone grottos on the periphery of

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downcast eyes, her pursed lips, and her white hands pressed tightly beneath her chin in prayer.

It irritated and intrigued me to see Mary so easily jostled. I would shoot a frustrated glance her way every time I caught her teetering back and forth, as if to ask in

It took approximately three minutes to ascend the stairs that separated the staff lounge from the floor where the teenage clients of St. E’s Parenting Program resided. I walked up those stairs slowly, savoring the silence and the light. Once I stepped onto the linoleum tiles of the third floor, the raw intensity I met with demanded every ounce of me.

The smell in the corridor of the third floor was a po-tent mix of cocoa butter, baby formula, and disinfectant. The sounds of babies crying and music blaring blended in an unsettling cacophony of too much seriousness too soon, real life interrupting youth.

All the teens etched themselves into my heart, but one in particular struck a match up against it and lit it on fire. She had been raped and then thrown out of her mother’s house for being pregnant. After spending sev-eral nights in jail for prostitution, she was sent to St. E’s.

One morning, I was there when she found herself suddenly very vulnerable and afraid, as the reality of the imminent birth finally hit her. She turned to me and on this rare occasion actually looked me in the eyes and said, “I could use some God right about now.”

I started to ask about her religious or spiritual background, but she stopped me with a quick flick of her hand and said, “Find me a more meaty Mary, then we’ll talk.”

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at her in awe. The recognition in her quick, sideways glance at me was electric. We both smiled, as if sud-denly and if only for that second, we were on the same sacred team.

We needed an embodied Mary. We needed images and stories of the Divine Feminine that affirm the sacred-ness of the female body, images and stories of a Divine Feminine that can carry the weight of the darkness as well as the light.

reminded that they are sacred, that their bodies are holy regardless of rape, incest, and prostitution? Would these girls even be in this situation if the female body was re-vered as holy in the major world religions?

Where had Mary’s body gone? At that time I didn’t identify with the more tradi-

tional religious sense of “being called.” So I won’t tell you I was called to go on the group pilgrimage to the Divine Feminine the summer before entering divinity school. The truth was far more ordinary. It was simply too painful to stay still, to see these teenaged girls who were so uncared for materially and spiritually. And it was especially painful to see that these young girls, with names I will never forget, cared so little about their own

idea how to love my body or even be in it. Ma-

habharata,gods have gotten together in a godlike conference call, and they’re freaked out because the world is complete-ly out of balance. The demons, or asuras, are running

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rampant. And the male gods, despite all their efforts, re-alize that they cannot defeat the demons on their own. Though they had created this imbalance, they could not correct it. So the male gods agree that their only chance

being so she can clean up their mess. They needed the fiercest form of the Divine Feminine to come in savior-style and defeat the demons.

-ness) of the goddess Durga. (Durga is also a great warrior goddess—just not quite as fierce as the sword-swinging,

-ga’s forehead and with a kick-ass sharp sword slays the demons, which represent the false beliefs created by the imbalance between the masculine and the feminine—beliefs like the one that says it’s okay to tolerate rape and

chops all those false beliefs to bits, and peace is restored because the fierce Divine Feminine has brought the mas-culine back into balance.

I knew as I witnessed and worked with the teenaged mothers at St. E’s that this is where we were as a world culture. We were at the point in the Mahabharata when the male gods sound a unified cry for the fierce Divine Feminine to rise.

I heard the call.

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I had seen the Black Madonnas of Chartres, Marsat, Clermont-Ferrand, and Le Puy with China Galland and a bevy of women mostly 30 years my senior. And now we were nestled in the mountains of central France, in

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About the Author

Meggan Watterson is a spiritual mentor, speaker, and scholar of the Divine Feminine who inspires women to live from the audacity and authenticity of the voice of their soul.

She is the facilitator of the REDLADIES, a spiritual community that encourages women to reclaim their bodies as sacred and to be led by the soul-voice inside them without compromise or apology. (Some break bread together; REDLADIES break dark chocolate.) Meggan is the founder of REVEAL, a women’s spiritu-ality event that is a triumvirate of one part fiery soul-voices, one part ritual, and one part dance party. She

in New York City with her son.

www.megganwatterson.comFollow Meggan on Twitter (@megganwatterson) and

To join the Reveal community online go to the REVEAL Facebook page.

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