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Respect, Responsibility,
& Resilience
THE 3 R’s KIDS NEED FROM EVERYONE!
Deborah Gilboa, M.D.
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hap·pi·ness:noun
good fortune; pleasure; contentment; joy
INGREDIENTS:1. Confidence2. Competence3. Relationships
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KID BRAINS
•Temperament• Content-free• Genetic• Biologic•Character• Content-rich• Culture-based• Experience-dependent
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MOVING TARGETS
• Character predictors in children/teens• Gratitude• Curiosity• Self-control• Grit
• Culture-based• Experiential learning
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If you could wave a magic wand...
Which behavior
would you change?
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THE 3 “R’s” KIDS REALLY NEED
Respect CONFIDENCE, gratitude,
curiousity
Responsibility COMPETENCE, self-control
Resilience RELATIONSHIPS, grit
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RESPECT
•Tone of voice.•Titles of respect.•Eye contact•Body Language•Secret Code•Negotiating•Privacy•3 sentences; amazing results!
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RESPONSIBILITY
•How can I help?•Homework•Practice•Community service•One work ethic; 2 sentences
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The ability to RECOVER from ADVERSITY!• What do we know?– Bad things happen.– There are always choices to be made.– Feelings change over time.– Recovery requires tools and experience.
• What do people need?
PRACTICE.
WHAT IS RESILIENCE?
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Who needs it?Adults!• When we are…– Hurt– Angry– Scared– Overwhelmed– Stressed!
Kids!• When they are…– Hurt– Angry– Scared– Overwhelmed– Stressed!
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WHAT’S HAPPENING TO ADULTS?• Nurturing
– Children, partners, parents, siblings, friends
• Working– Jobs, volunteering, continuing education
• Reacting– Illness, injury, deadlines, the UNEXPECTED
• Exploring– Relationships, finances, communities, opportunities
SEARCHING… for balance
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WHAT’S THE ANTIDOTE?What do we need?
1. Communication
2. Respect
3. Health
4. Opportunity
5. RESILIENCE
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HOW DO ADULTS GET IT?
Perspective – Control what you can control
Strategies• Clear goals • Accessible, safe stress relievers• Manageable commitments• Well-developed support network• Resources we’re willing to use
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HOW DO KIDS? Mistakes teach resilience. Praise the process. Let life teach the lesson. Choices, within limits. Encourage some risk-taking. Reach out for resources!
“I’ll be really interested to see what you do!”
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