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Workplace Bullying: Challenges Raised by Hostile Environment, Workplace Harassment &
Poor Managers in the Federal Sector
forThe ADR Interagency Working Group
Workshop LeadersDenise P. McKenney-FMCS
Jennifer Ortiz-EEOC
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Workshop Objectives
Identify issues associated with workplace bullying and how they may turn into EEO complaints
Identify best route for resolution of bullying complaints
Assess strategies before, during and after an episode of bulling
Identify management and workplace allies to deter and/or resolve bullying issues
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Workplace Bullying Defined Repeated and unwanted actions by an
individual or group intending to intimidate, harass, degrade or offend
Abuse or misuse of power
Bullying is psychological violence
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Harassment of a Different Kind
Harassment comes from the French word
“Harasser” which literally means to sic a “dog on someone” without provocation
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Should Complaints of Bullying be Mediated? What is the outcome that you seek?
To make the “bully” a better person? Behavior modification? Acknowledgement of an offense and apology? Other? The aim of mediation in this case is not to
change the bully from the inside out, it is to change or modify the behavior in the work environment so that morale and production are not impacted.
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What Does the Law Say? EEO Law Protection Harassment/Hostile Work Environment Retaliation Workplace Violence Issues Lawful v. Unlawful Bullying
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What’s EEO Law?
Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (Title VII), which prohibits employment discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin;
Age Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967 (ADEA), which protects individuals who are 40 years of age or older;
Title I and Title V of the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA), which prohibit employment discrimination against qualified individuals with disabilities in the private sector, and in state and local governments;
Sections 501 and 505 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973, which prohibit discrimination against qualified individuals with disabilities who work in the federal government; and
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What’s Covered by Federal EEO?
Charges dealing with EEO Cases RaceColorReligionSexNational OriginDisabilityAge*Hostile work environment
And what else?
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Retaliation Must have previously engaged in
protected activity under Title VII, the ADEA or the Rehabilitation/ADA
Includes participation through testimony, investigation, at hearing or litigation proceeding.
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Harassment Can be either hostile work
environment or quid pro quo
Unwelcome verbal or physical conduct based on one or more of an individual’s protected bases under Title VII, ADEA, ADA or other statutes
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Bullying as EEO Discrimination A hostile work environment consists of:
An unwelcome act that can be Physical or Verbal behavior
Based on employee’s protected status
That is sufficiently severe and pervasive to create a hostile, offensive or abusive work environment
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When can Harassment occur? Before, During or After Work Breaks Lunch hour Work-related events outside of
office, (i.e. happy hours, work conferences, dinners, holiday parties, picnics)
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Bullying & Workplace Violence Factor to Consider if an Individual
imposes a Direct Threat: Nature & Severity of Harm
Likelihood that Harm will Occur
Imminent Fear or Intimidation
Your Workplace Violence Policy
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Offensive Behavior What is Offensive Behavior?
How many people does it take to determine that someone’s behavior is offensive?
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Offensive Behavior Remarks Feelings Behaviors Hurtful Anger Resentment What Pushes Your Buttons?
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Workplace Examples of Bullying
Being shouted at or humiliated Being the target of practical jokes Blame without justification Exclusion or social isolation Physical intimidation (proximal) Excessive micro-managing Purposely withholding vital information
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Examples (cont.) Setting impossible goals for
subordinates to reach Blocking potential training and
employment Tampering with an employee’s personal
belongings Removing areas of responsibility without
cause
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The Effect of Bullying
Absenteeism Decreased productivity Manifestation of illness High turnover Increased accidents on the job Violence
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The Effects of Bullying… When targets believe that they have been
bullied: Some will cut back on work Some will contemplate leaving the job
Only 10% do Take it out on innocent family or pets Others will steal from the job, sabotage work,
damage equipment, damage personal property of the bully or
Contemplate a violent act and carry it out
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Bullying is on the Rise… According to a recent study by the national
Institute for Occupational Health and Safety (NIOSH) bullying in the workplace is on the rise.
24.5% of companies surveyed indicate that bullying has taken place; 10.5% involving bullying by external customers
More women are becoming bullies
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Statistics on Bullying
37% of the workplace has been bullied 72% of bullies are bosses 57% of targets are female Bullying happens four times more than
illegal harassment 62% of employees ignore the problem
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Statistics (cont.)
45% of targets report stress related health problems Panic attacks Clinicial depression Post traumatic stress
40% of targets never tell anyone 3% of targets file lawsuits
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Levels of Bullying
Institutional Managerial Collegial Familial
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The Roots of Bullying
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Roots of Bullying Most targets are high achievers this is
more than likely between peers / jealousy When bullying is boss to target, it’s
usually because the supervisor is “threatened” by the target (fear)
Bullies may experience enjoyment because of your pain (Reuters article)
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Dealing with “Group Think” Be Aware of It Make Group Aware of It Create Environment That Allows
Asking “Why?” Explicitly Encourage “Dissenting”
Views
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What’s the Tone of Your Workplace?
Does speaking-up mean taking a big risk? Risk of Sounding Inarticulate Risk of an Idea Getting Shot Down Risk of Losing Face Risk of Making Enemies Instead of Seeing People, Some People See
“Sharks” Risk of Losing Leverage by Unintentionally
“Committing”
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What Can You Do? Before Situation Occurs
During Conflict
After Conflict
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Conflict Management –v- Conflict ResolutionThe I-R-O Method
Issue - What is the issue or situation? What level of attention does it deserve?
Response – What is appropriate given your role and responsibility?
Outcome – What is your desired outcome and what communication strategies will serve that goal?
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For One-On-One Situations:Back Pocket Response Tips
“Interesting. I’m going to need to think about what you’ve just said and get back to you.”
“Before we start to resolve this issue, is there anything else we need to consider?”
“What exactly would you like to see done?....Think on it and let’s schedule some time to further discuss.”
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How to Deal with Bad Behavior…
First, be kind to yourself – don’t personalize it b/c even though it may be directed at you, probably not about you
Acknowledge that there are various sources for « rude » behavior
Respond with calmness; rather than behavior that escalates rudeness
Self righteous behavior only reflects poorly on you
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How to Deal with Bad Behavior…
Try to address the underlying cause of the behavior: I see you are very stressed. Maybe I could help if you tell me what’s bothering you?
If the conversation remains irrational, then know when to quit
Recognize whether behavior is a pattern or mishap; respond appropriately
From: The Civility Solution: What to Do When People are Rude, St Martin’s Press, 2008
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How to Deal with a Poor Manager A.k.a “The Bully Boss” First have direct dialogue Point out the Impact of Actions & Words Document the Words, Actions, and any
conversations you have Use the Sandwich Approach: “I have a few
concerns about the working environment because…”
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Keep in MindConflict Happens.Situations happen but work
should not hurt.
Remember: The only thing you can truly control is how you choose to respond.
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What Can Employees Do? Recognize that bullying is about
control
Realize that it’s not your fault
Leave the division/organization
Keep a detailed diary and paper trail
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What Can Managers & Supervisors Do?
Create and enforce a zero tolerance policy Address the bullying behavior ASAP Hold an awareness campaign If you are the bully…stop…seek help Model effective professional behavior Use Facilitation, Mediation or design a
Group Intervention/Team Building
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The Power of an Apology A sincere apology benefits the giver
and receiver. Shows respect and empathy for the
wronged person It is a way of acknowledging an act
that if left un-noticed may compromise the relationship.
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Words to the Wise Be careful of the
words you speak, and keep them nice & sweet,
For we never know from day to day, which ones we will have to eat.
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Thank you!Jennifer Ortiz
EEOCand
Denise P. McKenneyFMCS