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Helen Yang

-- U of Oregon

Counseling Psychology; Computer Science.

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Cal State East Bay Counseling

Center .

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Josh & Katie Chen

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Ask for God’s provisions

24:12 ─

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Believe in God’s promise

24:7

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Be Considerate

3:7

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by the end of the DAY

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Helen Yang

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•dysfunction

Family,

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• 2: 7

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•2 2 5

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• (secure attachment

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• Robert Sternberg

1. passion

2. intimacy

3 commitment

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Adult Attachment

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Attachment style

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Self-esteem

Thoughts about self

Positive Negative

Sociability

Thoughts about

others

Positive Secure Anxious-

preoccupied

Negative

Dismissive

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Avoidant

Fearful –

Avoidant

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• John Gottman

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1. Getting the Love you want (our "text" book, for the class)

2. Making Love Last Forever, Gary Smalley

3. Relationship Rescue, Phillip McGraw (Dr. Phil)

4. Men are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, A practical guide for improving

Communication and Getting what you want in your relationships; John Gray,

Ph.D.

5 Women and their fathers, The sexual and romantic impact of the first man in

your life, Victoria Secunda

6. Boundaries, When to say Yes, When to say No, to take control of your life,

Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend

7.When Men Batter Women, New insights into ending abusive relationships,

Neil Jacobson, Ph.D, John Gottman, Ph.D.

8. The verbally abusive relationship, how to recognize it and how to respond;

Patricia Evans

9. Verbal Abuse Survivors speak out, On relationship and recovery, Patricia

Evans

10 Controlling people, How to recognize, understand, and deal with people who

try to control you; Patricia Evans

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