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Parenting With Love: Stepping Out of the Cultural Stream
Dr. Peggy KendallBethel University
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Busy Familie
s
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Default Values
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1. Identify the Trend
2. Discuss the impact
3. Model Healthy Choices
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Things have changed
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Busy
• What’s important
Things Have Changed
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Busyness
• McNuggets• How do you see your
life speeding up?• How does a fast life
impact your kids?
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Problem
– Don’t notice things– Don’t notice people– Impatient– People = interruptions– No margins– Lack of commitment
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“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
Galatians 5:22-23
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“But the fruit of the Spirit is efficiency, productivity, being on time, the ability to multi-task and the ability to meet everyone’s needs in timely manner.”
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“But the fruit of the Spirit is getting good grades, having tons of friends, being in lots of activities, looking good, and staying out of trouble.”
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“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
Galatians 5:22-23
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Solutions
Figure out what is important Refine Combine Commit
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Solutions
Emphasize what is important
Refine schedules Establish protected
space Play ?
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Alone Together
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Internet Use in 2000
46% of adults used the internet
5% had broadband53% had cell phones0% use social network sites
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2010 Internet Use
Teens 12-17
Adults 18-29
Adults 30-49
Adults 50-64
Adults 65+
0
20
40
60
80
100 93% 90%84%
70%
40%
% of Each Age Group Who Use the Internet
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2010 Cell Phone Use
Teens 12-17
Adults 18-29
Adults 30-49
Adults 50-64
Adults 65+0
20
40
60
80
100
75%
90% 87% 83%
61%
% of Each Age Group Who Have a Cell Phone
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2010 Social Network Use
Teens 12-17
Adults 18-29
Adults 30-49
Adults 50-64
Adults 65+0
20
40
60
80
100
73%82%
64%
47%
28%
% of Internet Users in Each Group Who Use Social Networking Sites
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65% of American households play video games
The Top 5 Video Games:1. Wii Sports (Wii)
2. Super Mario (NES)
3. Pokeman Red/Green/Blue (GB)
4. Tetris (GB)
5. Duck Hunt (NES)
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Vid
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am
es
Video Gam
es
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Alone Together ALONE
TOGETHER• Individualized• Always On• Don’t think through things• Miss the here & now• Limit the power of God
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Solutions
•Consider the impact •Model good choices•Set limits•Talk about it•Play together•Learn to be quiet
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He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my
soul.
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What can you do to slow down?
How can you protect family time?
How can you foster love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness
and self-control in your kids?
What can YOU do right now to role model these characteristics?
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