Parenting - November2011
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November 4, 2011 [16] www.kirklandreporter.com P eer pressure is a reality of growing up. ough it’s out of our control as parents, there are things we can do to support our children and help them successfully navigate the peer-pressure pitfalls. First, have regular talks with children about the pressures they face in school and leisure time. Share your concerns and help them de- termine healthy boundaries for using drugs, drinking, having sex or engaging in illegal activities. en help your children under- stand that if they give in and do something that is contrary to their core value system, they will feel distress and regret later. Be sure to let them know you will hold them responsible for their behavior and present spe- cific, logical consequences. Studies show that when a parent clearly disapproves of an activity, a child is less likely to participate. When children express and defend their own position with a caring adult, they gain extra confi- dence for times they will need to take a firm stand instead of following the crowd. As adults, we can help children think about what might work for them in various situations they can imagine. Telling a teen to “just say no” or to “walk away” is overly simplistic and assumes that the child holds enough self confidence to risk social rejection. ere are plenty of things kids can do to maintain friendships while deflect- ing peer pressure, including using humor, suggesting a better idea or making an excuse and leaving. Families can agree on a code word or phrase for a teen to use when calling to indicate that there is trouble, knowing that a parent will come, no questions asked. Lastly, know your child’s friends and how they feel about their social status. ose who are more eager to be popular are more will- ing to compromise morals to fit in. Patti Skelton-McGougan is executive director of Youth Eastside Services. Visit www.YouthEastsideSer- vices.org. How to navigate peer pressure ...today’s parent Clip here. 425-821-0882 Columbia Athletic Clubs – Juanita Bay 11450 98 th Avenue NE • Kirkland, WA 98033 www.columbiaathletic.com *Pass valid for redemption at CAC-Juanita Bay only. One pass per membership. Some restrictions apply. Must redeem by 11/31/11. 3-Day Pass Bring in this coupon during the month of November and try us out for a few days. What We Offer: ✔ All New State-Of- The-Art Fitness Equipment ✔ Enhanced Group Exercise Classes ✔ Saline Purification Swimming Pool ✔ Indoor Cycling Studio ✔ Squash, Basketball & Racquetball ✔ Family Friendly & Kids Programs ✔ Hydro Massage Therapy ✔ Industry Leading, Certified & Accredited Staff ✔ Juice Bar & Lounge Area ✔ Jacuzzi & Steam Sauna ✔ Staff Dedicated To Wellness ✔ Friendly, Community Club Atmosphere Columbia Athletic Clubs-Juanita Bay is now offering Holiday Discounts to help you get started. Good Fitness = Great Life! We can help. We have 30 + years of Experience! Clip here. 530044 TOTEM LAKE CLINIC 12710 Totem Lake Blvd NE Kirkland, WA 98034 425-821-4040 Hours: M-Th: 8AM – 7PM F: 8AM – 5PM Kurt R. Billett, M.D. Swapna J. Bobba, M.D. Paul E. Buehrens, M.D. Debra M. Chaput, M.D. Alexis R. David, M.D. Peter J. Lallas, D.P.M. Paul K. Mayeda, M.D. Larry E. Nacht, M.D. Paul E. Sandstrom, M.D. Roohi H. Wani, M.D. Chao-Ching Wu, M.D. BOTHELL CLINIC 10025 NE 186th St Bothell, WA 98011 425-486-9131 Hours: M-F: 8AM – 6PM S: 9AM – 4PM Buckley A. Eckert, M.D. Sally R. Esser, M.D. David A. Higginbotham, D.O. Lilaine C. Leonardo, M.D. Ann S. Lu, M.D. Theresa A. Platz, M.D. Peter V. Sefton, M.D. Thomas A. Wilson, M.D. • Accepting new patients • Same day & Saturday appointments • On-site lab and x-ray • Two locations for your convenience WWW.LAKESHORECLINIC.COM Family Medicine, Internal Medicine, Pediatrics & Podiatry FLU VACCINE NOW AVAILABLE 537786 Specializing in Preschool, Prek, & Kindergarten Classes, September through June. Themed Summer Camp Available. 540233 KENMORE: (425)486-9333 • WOODINVILLE: (425)486-5499 www.morningstarschool.com Located in Kenmore & Woodinville NEW! Stay & Play Drop-In Child Care Ages 2 to 7, up to 4 hours per day Mon.-Fri. from 8am to 4pm Kenmore Campus Only PARENT TALK Patti Skelton-McGougan
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November 4, 2011[16] www.kirklandreporter.com
Peer pressure is a reality of growing up. � ough it’s out of our
control as parents, there are
things we can do to support our children and help them successfully navigate the peer-pressure pitfalls.
First, have regular talks with children about the pressures they face in school and leisure time. Share your
concerns and help them de-termine healthy boundaries for using drugs, drinking, having sex or engaging in illegal activities.
� en help your children under-stand that if they give in and do something that is contrary to their core value system, they will feel distress and regret later. Be sure to let them know you will hold them responsible for their behavior and present spe-ci� c, logical consequences.
Studies show that when a parent clearly disapproves of an activity, a child is less likely to participate.
When children express and defend their own position with a caring adult, they gain extra con� -dence for times they will need to take a � rm stand instead of following the crowd. As adults, we can help children think
about what might work for them in various situations they can imagine. Telling a teen to “just say no” or to “walk away” is overly simplistic and assumes that the child holds enough self con� dence to risk social rejection.
� ere are plenty of things
kids can do to maintain friendships while de� ect-ing peer pressure, including using humor, suggesting a better idea or making an excuse and leaving. Families can agree on a code word or phrase for a teen to use when calling to indicate that there is trouble, knowing that a parent will come, no questions asked.
Lastly, know your child’s friends and how they feel about their social status. � ose who are more eager to be popular are more will-ing to compromise morals to � t in.
Patti Skelton-McGougan is executive director of Youth Eastside Services. Visit www.YouthEastsideSer-vices.org.
How to navigate peer pressure...today’s parent
Clip here.
425-821-0882 Columbia Athletic Clubs – Juanita Bay
11450 98th Avenue NE • Kirkland, WA 98033
www.columbiaathletic.com *Pass valid for redemption at CAC-Juanita Bay only. One pass per membership. Some restrictions apply. Must redeem by 11/31/11.
3-Day PassBring in this coupon during the month of November and try us
out for a few days.
What We Offer:✔ All New State-Of-
The-Art Fitness Equipment
✔ Enhanced Group Exercise Classes
✔ Saline Purification Swimming Pool
✔ Indoor Cycling Studio
✔ Squash, Basketball & Racquetball
✔ Family Friendly & Kids Programs
✔ Hydro Massage Therapy
✔ Industry Leading, Certified & Accredited Staff
✔ Juice Bar & Lounge Area
✔ Jacuzzi & Steam Sauna
✔ Staff Dedicated To Wellness
✔ Friendly, Community Club Atmosphere
Columbia Athletic Clubs-Juanita Bay is now offering Holiday Discounts to help you get started.
Good Fitness = Great Life!We can help. We have 30 + years of Experience!
Clip here.
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Kurt R. Billett, M.D. Swapna J. Bobba, M.D.Paul E. Buehrens, M.D. Debra M. Chaput, M.D. Alexis R. David, M.D. Peter J. Lallas, D.P.M. Paul K. Mayeda, M.D. Larry E. Nacht, M.D. Paul E. Sandstrom, M.D. Roohi H. Wani, M.D. Chao-Ching Wu, M.D.
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