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In This Issue
May’s Theme: Forgiveness
May 7: Sonora Service
Change in lunch place
May 7: White Privilege
Discussion
Moving Meditation
May 12: Skyline Forgiveness
Discussion – 3:30
May 12: Movie Night
Board Notes
May 14: Douglas Flat
Service
Member Highlight
Rev. Sonya’s schedule
Pledge Drive Update
Green bags
UUFTC Gallery
“Pardon Me”
Sunday Service May 7, 10:00 at Sonora Library
What do you need to be
pardoned from? Is there a
relationship between
forgiveness and pardon?
How does guilt block our
pathways to forgiveness? I
ask you, where does
vengeance come from?
Please join Pastor
Jacqueline Duhart, Parish
Minister at First Unitarian
Church of Oakland as we
reverently sit with some of
the complicated elements of
forgiveness. Pastor
Jacqueline will lead us
through a short ritual that
may support us in
letting go of our old
feelings of guilt and
freeing our divine spirit
for the holy work of
growing more love and
justice for all beings.
Please join us for
worship, all are
welcome and all are
worthy.
Rev. Jacqueline Duhart
is a colleague and friend
of Rev. Sonya from
seminary. She is
another "pulpit
exchange" minister brought
to us by virtue of Rev.
Sonya's generosity.
During her service to the
Unity Church, Unitarian, in
St. Paul, MN, her primary
responsibilities were
working with the
neighborhood block
nursing program called
Summit University Living
at Home. Rev. Jacqueline
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has undergraduate and graduate degrees in Social Work from Baylor University and the
University of Texas. She spent more than 20 years as a social worker for the U.S. Air Force,
where she spent time on the ground as a chaplain in Iraq during the first Gulf War. Rev.
Jacqueline has spent many years serving a justice ministry outside of traditional faith. Among her
extensive justice work, she was a health educator and community trainer with Standing Together
Against Rape in Anchorage, a member of Anchorage Domestic Violence Task Force, and a board
member of Planned Parenthood of Alaska where she was instrumental in the 30% increase of
funds over a three-year period.
After Service Lunch Location changed for month of May – It has been requested by several
members that we visit another restaurant for our two remaining after-service gatherings before
we start meeting at the Fellowship House again in June. The My Garden Café at 14270 Mono
Way was selected and is located on Highway 108 on the left just after Hess Ave.
White Privilege – Rev. Sonya Sukalski
We have had some great gatherings as we try to get our minds, hearts, and
spirits around what the next four years will mean. Learning spiritual tools
is one part. Framing conversations and values we want to reinforce is
another part, and talking about white privilege is still another part. White
privilege is not exactly a term most of us use every day, let alone white
supremacy. Yet there are many aspects to community life that are
influenced by both. “White Supremacy Culture” from Dismantling Racism: A Workbook for Social
Change Groups, by Kenneth Jones and Tema Okun, ChangeWork, 20011 outlines several
characteristics I have suffered from at different times in my life. A big one is perfectionism.
Perfectionism can cut off all the air in my lungs when I think of all the small and large ways I am
imperfect, don’t measure up, or just plain make glaring mistakes. We live in a culture where
being an expert seems to be the aim for every child as they decide what they will be in life. I got
this lesson deeply when I memorized 5 songs for a piano recital when I was 8 or 9. I got mixed
up in the middle of the recital and have never recovered – my hands shake if I try to play in front
of people. Another aspect is a sense of urgency – I certainly suffer in this way too – feeling like I
should be as efficient and quick as possible to fit more in, even though it might not be clear what
good “more” would bring. If I can fit fifteen tasks on my to do list into one day, that doesn’t
necessarily mean I will be spared setbacks the next day, or that I have things on my to-do list that
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even matter to me or anyone else. For me a sense of urgency makes me anxious, abrupt, and
likely to miss what is really important. There are many more aspects to unpack – fear of conflict,
defensiveness, quantity over quality. I hope you will look up the article and ponder where and
when these qualities have touched your life. There is a lot of food for thought there. I don’t know
what exactly the discussion on white privilege with the First Congregational Church in Murphy’s
will deliver May 7th at 5 pm, and whether some of these topics will come up, but I’m curious
about a couple of things. What will a substantive conversation about white privilege look like
with people of faith who are not far different than we are theologically? If I enter into this
conversation, might it make talking to my dad’s deeply conservative family seem easier, or more
interesting, or more doable, or more worthwhile? I’m also excited to connect with potential
interfaith partners to see what kinds of things might surface that we can roll up our sleeves and
work shoulder to shoulder on that makes a difference in the Motherlode. 1 http://www.cwsworkshop.org/PARC_site_B/dr-culture.html
I hope you will mark your calendar and make the drive over to Murphy’s Sunday May 7 - 5 p.m. potluck
and discussion at the UCC Congregational Church on Algiers.
It’s Back -Moving Meditation
Tuesdays, 9:00- 10:00 a.m. Fellowship House Marilyn Waggoner and Hoyt Cory lead the Moving Meditation, or Hei Gung (a Cantonese form of Qi
Gong) class. It consists of very gentle quiet movements done standing mostly in one place. No
special equipment required, wear comfortable clothing and shoes. All ages are welcome. No
experience is necessary. No fee required.
UUFTC Board of Directors Meeting Notes
UUFTC’s board of directors meets monthly at 9 a.m. on the third Saturday of each month at the
Fellowship House. The following are some highlights from the April 15 meeting.
With regret, the board accepted the resignation of Mike Strange. No one will be appointed to
fill out his term since the annual meeting is in two months.
The nominating committee offered the following nominees for open positions (to be voted on
at the annual meeting June 4.): Linda DuTemple, board member; Janet Telford, secretary;
Chel Oldham, treasurer; Nominating Committee for 2017-18 - Laurie Bailie, Craig Mineweaser
and the third member to be appointed from the board in June 2017.
Movie Night – Friday, May 12, Fellowship House, 5:30 Potluck, 6:00 Movie
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Some board members are planning to attend the District Assembly in Walnut Creek, May 5-6.
The board expressed appreciation to Linda DuTemple for the newsletter and the UUFTC
email blasts. After discussion, the board agreed that Linda will send out reminders or news
emails when requested, using her discretion. If an event has not already been scheduled or if
she has questions, Linda will consult with Rev. Sonya, Janet Telford, and/or Dusty Taylor to
determine appropriateness.
The board approved the recommendation to change the bylaws to have up to 6 board
members. The bylaws currently call for 7 board members. The change will be voted on June
4, 2017, at the annual meeting.
I refuse to accept the view that we are so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and
war that the bright daybreak of peace and unity can never become a reality... I believe that unarmed
truth and unconditional love will have the final word.
- Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
As Mothers, Sunday, May 14, 10:30, Douglas Flat Schoolhouse, 1358 Main St
A recent petition on Climate change asked me to nurture life and fiercely protect the ones I
love as a mother. Many of us – regardless of gender, our roles in life, or reproduction
capability – do exactly this on a regular basis – nurture life and protect those we love.
Henrietta (Etta) Robins Mack Eliot was one of those mother figures who raised a generation
of Western Unitarians as the wife of Rev. Thomas Lamb Eliot who served the Portland
Unitarian Church in the late 1800s. In this exploration of motherhood, we aim to nurture
your UU roots through Etta Eliot's life and letters. Rev. Sonya Sukalski
* Claire Mills * Eileen Wright * Maggie White * Renee Kramer * Ann Leonard *
* Amy Ada Haratani * Dodie Harte *
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We will be highlighting UUFTC Members in upcoming newsletters
to better get to know each other. In this issue we meet a new
member Pat Bozzo (pronounced Bot so). Pat and her husband Fred
were married 56 years. He was an Architect & a pilot. Pat tells us
“We both donated a good deal of our lives doing many kinds of
volunteer work. We gained much strength and support as members
of the Community of Agape. It was such a blessing when we
retired and moved from Turlock to Coulterville.
I have lived on the same property as son, daughter in love and 2
grandchildren for 19 years. We were blessed with 2 perfect sons, 2
wonderful grandchildren & 2 daughters in love.
I retired after 30+ years in the trenches as an Animal Shelter Pet Rescue volunteer.
The past 10 years I've been 24/7 caregiver for Fred as he had Early Onset Alzheimer's Dementia.
He passed away in September of 2016.
I love reading and I've collected many books. I love nature and the mountains.
I hope to go to our primitive but comfy cabin near Relief Reservoir in the Immigrant Wilderness
Area this summer, if the snow melts. At present I'm taking one step at a time, while saying
goodbye to Fred and contemplating what I want to be when I grow up.”
Welcome Pat
“What day is it?" asked Winnie the Pooh
"It's today," squeaked Piglet
"My favorite day," said Pooh
- A.A. Milne
Rev. Sonya’s Summer Schedule
May 13-14- Sonora/Douglas Flat - Forgiveness
June 2-4 – Annual Meeting - Honesty
June 30-July 2 - Resistance
July 10-August - 20 Sacred Door Trail Pilgrimage (Rev. Sonya away)
August 26 – Saturday 11:00 Installation (Covenant)
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Giving in Gratitude - Growing in Spirit
Pledge Drive Update
Green Baggers,
On the last delivery date Mother Lode Food Project volunteers
delivered 4000 lbs. (2 tons) of nonperishable food to the ATCAA
Food Bank for distribution to local food pantries. This brings our
total to date to 140,368 lbs. (70 tons) or the equivalent of 107,975
meals. Wow!
Five years ago, April 2012, the first MLFP delivery to ATCAA was 1420.5 lbs. The growth over
the years is an impressive reflection of your efforts and the difference MLFP is making in the
lives of our neighbors. Good work, Congratulations, and Sincere thanks.
Next green bag collection: Sunday Service June 4th
In gratitude to each of you,
Ellen Beck
Did I offer peace today? Did I bring a smile to someone's face? Did I say words of healing? Did I let go of
my anger and resentment? Did I forgive? Did I love? These are the real questions. I must trust that the
little bit of love that I sow now will bear many fruits, here in this world and the life to come.
- Henri Nouwen
We are nearing the end of our pledge
campaign and have received $34,344
in pledge commitments.
We have a significant way to go
before May 7 to reach our goal of
$55.500. Please send your pledge in
now so we can draft our budget for
approval at the June 4 Annual
Meeting.
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Looking for a way to declare your commitment to justice and join in
community with other Unitarian Universalists at upcoming
Marches and Events? Check out our SSL clothing
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hope these resources support and inspire all that
you do. Bulk discounts do apply and expedited
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UUFTC Members at March for Science in Sonora
donning their ‘Standing on the Side of Love’ t-shirts
Donna, Lane, Laurie L., Janet, Terri and Laurie B.
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Board Members: Dusty Taylor, President; Laurie Bailie, Vice-President; Chel Oldham, Treasurer;
Janet Telford, Secretary; Pam Taylor
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UUFTC GALLERY
Chocolate Seder
hosted by Laurie
Bailie at Fellowship
House 4-14-17
Interfaith Service 4-23-17 included UUFTC minister, singer Ami, Regional Jewish Community
Rabbi, Imam from Modesto Mosque, Bahai community, Unity Church minister, members of
Shambhala Buddhist group.
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Craig and Janet all dressed up and ready
to sing at the Columbia College Choir’s
Spring Concert 4-22-17