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OK hotshot

I’m about to drop some serious shit in this special report, so

pay very close attention...

This special report focuses on something I believe is THE DIFFERENCE between you having mind-blowing success with

women online, while other men fall flat on their faces and fail.

Often, it's not luck, or a fat bank account, or even good looks…

It's simply:

Knowing How To Create Attraction!

With that in mind ...

In this special report, I’m going to walk you through a simple

(but little known) attraction formula I discovered a few years ago, so you can use it yourself to have more success with

women online.

The formula contains several different parts, each designed to

work with the other, and each having a specific purpose.

As each part builds on another, it also creates more awareness

for you to understand, apply, become competent at, and finally

master and maintain.

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But first, I want you to realize ...

It’s Taken You YEARS To HaveThe Mindset You Currently Have

About Attracting Women So it’s important you allow yourself the necessary time to read and discover why and (more importantly) how to fix it…

for good.

As you read this report, at some point you will have an ‘AH-HA’

moment.

Maybe it’s in a specific part of the formula, or maybe it’s just

being exposed to this information.

But it will happen.

And when it does, it’s the beginning of YOUR “Attraction

Awareness.”

Once you know this, you’ll be able to effortlessly make women “want” you really, really quickly.

As with all opportunities, you have a choice.

I’m giving you the tools you need to meet women online for the rest of your life…

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But it’s not up to me to get this.

It’s up to YOU.

My biggest hope is that you will seize this opportunity to enjoy

every day with the confidence of knowing you finally CAN

meet women online quickly and easily

And you Know EXACTLY how to get (and keep) a woman interested in you and pursuing you.

It’s as simple as following a formula.

It took me more than four years worth of sweat, elbow grease, and hustle to learn this... now I get to share this with you in the

best, most effective way possible - so you can enjoy the same

success I've had WITHOUT the years of struggle it took me to

get there!

A Word Of Caution...Some of the concepts and ideas presented in this report are so simple, obvious and easy to use you might think, "Dave, you spent your time and energy to find THIS out?"

Don't be fooled - it's usually the simplest ideas, which have

the biggest impact.

This special report is designed for you to be able to quickly use

the information and apply it to see immediate results.

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Strike while the iron is hot.

Read and use this information like a madman now, BEFORE

everyone else does.

One thing is for sure. You will learn many things about meeting

women online inside this report that will immediately increase

your results in as little as 5 minutes.

The Attraction Formula Part 1: My

Thanks to the this formula, I'm able to pretty much attract women online at will. (Hypey sounding, yes ...But true none the less.)

Why?

Because the attraction formula lets you totally DOMINATE any online dating site you choose ...almost instantly.

And I mean that literally.

Once you learn this... and understand how to communicate with women online ON A DEEPER LEVEL... your results meeting women online will skyrocket in a matter of days.

And it's not NLP or anything like that.

This is the real deal.

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This is where you are completely confident, natural and just being yourself (albeit a new and improved you).

This is the entire formula - everything you need to create momentum to meet an endless supply of women online and stay there - REGARDLESS of where you're at right now.

All you have to do is apply a little self-discipline and follow a few steps.

In fact, this single formula is so important... I credit MUCH of my results to the understanding and use of this formula alone!

Pay close attention here.

This is what separates guys who are successful meeting women online, from those who are struggling

And if you're not yet achieving the kind of results you want meeting women online you might want to pay close attention to this.

Basically, I “set things up”

So Women Are Pursuing Me

I literally just sit back, let them chase me and select the women I want to meet.

(Tough life, I know:-))

Everyone I’ve showed this to has been flipping out.

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If I sold all of this new stuff, it would be an instant ‘hit’.

This is an idea I’ve been messing around with for around the last 2 years.

Anyway, let’s get jiggy...

Here’s The Formula ...The formula is:

My + Cf + Cg = Interest/Attraction

A LOT OF GOOD THAT DOES YOU, RIGHT?

I mean yeah, it's just a bunch of letters and stuff.

Worthless to you without an explanation.

Here’s what the first part of the formula means:

(Mystery + Cf + Cg = interest/attraction)

If what you're doing right now is *not* producing the results you want, you need to ask yourself the following questions:

>>> Which step of this formula am I breaking?

>>> Which step of this formula can I improve?

>>> What tools can I use to help my application of the formula easier?

Understand that the formula works as a whole... and the lack of any one element causes the performance of the whole formula to suffer.

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The hard part is application.

You may think the ideas are too simple too apply.

BUT THAT'S THE SECRET!They're not only simple, but they're totally easy to apply and master, with practice.

Lets start with the first element: My, or short for MYSTERY.

For ANY part of internet dating to work for you, you need to stop letting women know *everything* about you so fast.

Please re-read the previous sentence again because it’s VERY important.

You need to stop letting women know everything about you so quickly.

Pretty simple, right?

Most men are in such a rush to tell women everything about themselves, in the hopes the woman finds SOMETHING she likes

Which is a CRITICAL mistake.

(and it also conveys many of the wrong qualities)

TMI, or Too Much Information and this is what 99% of the guys online do (and why 99% of them get poor results).

They tell too much, too soon.

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As a result these guys convey that they don’t have many options, and are not a CHALLENGE.

But let me tell you a secret: Women tell me all the time: They don't want to know everything about you right away.

Surprised?

You shouldn’t be.

Women tell me they want to find out about you little by little... women tell me they want a man to be a CHALLENGE.

Women tell me they *don't* want someone who's going to read off a laundry list of facts about themselves in the hopes she’ll find something she likes.

Guys who do this subtly communicate to a woman without even speaking a word or meeting you, that you don’t have a high “Attraction Awareness”.

In other wards you are conveying that you just don’t understand how to spark attraction.

Oh ... And It Get’s Even Worse ...

Once a woman thinks you don’t ‘get it’ -- she’ll start to think all sorts of things in her head…

She’ll assume you don’t have a lot of experience attracting women, and then as a result she makes yet another assumption…

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That you aren’t a man other women want...

And what woman wants a guy no other woman wants?

If other women desire you, then there must be a REASON why.

Women will rack their brains trying to figure out WHAT that reason is.

Guys do it as well, for instance…

I’m sure you’ve been out and seen an average looking dude with a woman who’s WAY out of his league.

And what’s the first thing that goes through your mind?

Be honest.

“HOW THE HELL IS *HE* WITH HER?”

Then you start analyzing this guy, trying to figure out WHY she’s with him and HOW he got her.

(Usually the first thing guys say? “Oh, she’s with him because of the money”)

Well, guess what?

Women Do The SAME EXACT THING!

Only they don’t assume its an exterior quality, but rather something INTERNAL.

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A KEY part of human nature is this: We want what we can’t have, and we value what we have to work for.

How do you know if you're telling women too much?

There's a secret for doing so, and it lies in understanding how to appeal to basic human nature.

Once you create an air of mystery about you, women will want to find out more about you, because she now has A REASON to.

(little did she realize this was all done on purpose – you gave her the reason.)

As David DeAngelo once said:

“Give her the gift of missing you"For some reason I always remembered this one saying, but it took a while for it to really sink in where I had my own ‘AH HA’ moment and understood HOW to apply it quickly and easily.

Many of my Insider Internet Dating students use a very powerful technique I call the "BRAIN ITCH" that leaves women hanging on the edge of their seats, wanting to know more about you.

And they do this over and over... with wildly successful results.

By employing this very powerful psychological tactic, you appeal to a core piece of human nature: CURIOSITY.

Curiosity is a very powerful tool in your arsenal -- that is IF you learn how to use it properly.

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Knowing about it is one thing

knowing HOW to use it is something else all together.

Human nature also tells us that as humans we like small steps, often called ‘bite sized chucks.’

We also like things that are easy.

If you spill your guts in a long rambling email message, or in your profile, often times women may just tune you right out.

Why?

You’re Giving Her Too Much Information, Too Soon!

It’s like being forced to watch a 2 hour TV commercial.

Doesn’t sound too appealing, right?

Now think back on those times that you were curious about something - and try to remember what it was that made you curious.

Chances are you were curious what you read or were told described something of interest to you, something that got you curious, perhaps something that left an unanswered question in your head. Aha!... now we’re getting somewhere.

Think of your favorite TV show… and pay close attention to the way they end the show using something called

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... a ‘CLIFFHANGER.’

So here's your exercise for part 1: Look at your profile or emails and see what you are ALREADY doing that you think reveals too much about you.

See where you can trim things down to create more mystery.

If you're not meeting enough women online, is it because your profile/emails are based on telling a woman everything about you hoping that she'll be interested... instead of what she really wants to know?

A ‘lil something to think about. :-)

Keep reading to find out part 2…

The Attraction Formula Part 2: Cf

The 2nd part of this formula, Cf stands for "Confidence".

My + Cf + Cg = Interest/Attraction

(Mystery + Confidence + Cg = interest/attraction)

Pay close attention here.

It's not enough to tell a woman you're confident!

You need to CONVEY that you are a confident guy.

This is the part of the formula where most guys completely mess things up.

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Most guys think merely telling a woman he’s confident or SHOWING it will bring him success, attraction or interest from women.

Unfortunately nothing could be farther from the truth.

Ask yourself the following: If you were a confident guy… What kind of email would you send women you might be interested in? How would you act around women?

If you just flat out tell women “I’m confident”, you don’t get it.

You might end up spooking women out and they'll know immediately you're faking it.

It's almost like that guy who flaunts his cash, cars and bling all the time.

These guys are usually the ones who don't have a pot to piss in, they just flaunt it, whereas the really rich guys never flaunt it, you can just tell from their presence.

In order to show women you're confident, you simply need to

Convey Traits Of A Confident Guy

Here's the secret I learned from the school of hard knocks: If you're not sure HOW to convey confidence without saying it you might be suffering from a lack of results when you meet women off the net…

Most likely because you aren’t conveying in person that you are a confident guy.

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I’ll show you how to change this quickly.

For now, take some time and do the exercise for today: Identify 3 traits of a confident guy.

Ask yourself if you were a confident guy...

1. How might you act towards women you meet online?

2. What do you think you would email women?

3. What would you not want women to know?

The Attraction Formula Part 3: Cg

Ok... did you manage to decipher the techniques I talk about in the first 2 sections?

This is the formula we’ve been talking about:

My + Cf + Cg = Interest/Attraction

(Mystery + Confidence + Congruence = interest/attraction)

The 3rd and final part of the formula stands for “CONGRUENCE.”

Congruence is where the rubber meets the road.

It's where you CONVEY all the things you mention (or didn't mention) in the previous two parts of the formula.

It’s the transition from saying it into BEING it.

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What this means is if you say you are a busy guy, you must convey it in order to be congruent with it.

Let me give you an example: Suppose you mention in your profile that you are a really busy guy and don't have a lot of time.

What message are you conveying if you are at home, searching for women online and emailing them at 11 pm on a Saturday night?

Are you being congruent with a busy guy?

Here's another example...

If you tell a woman you are seeing other women, yet have every day of the week open to see her, what message are you conveying to her?

If your profile talks about how much fun you have in your life, and how social you are, yet every photo is with you alone and not looking like you're having fun, what message are you conveying?

Are you being congruent?

The takeaway from this is:

DON'T Just Say It -- CONVEY It

You need to back up what you say in order to be in line with it.

You need to be to be congruent (or consistent.)

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What you need to ask yourself about being congruent is this: "Are my actions conveying the same things I am saying?"

Think about it.

And if you're not consistent, believe you me -- women IMMEDIATELY sense something isn't right.

She sense’s something is out of order and that’s when she figures out either:

A. You are trying too hard to be someone you aren't.

or ...

B. You aren't telling the truth.

Regardless of which one she thinks, you've already blown it.

Once she has doubts about you and your honesty you’re HOSED!

This is precisely why women test men... To find out if they are congruent with what they say.

It's easy to talk up a big game, lets face it, we both know women have heard it thousands of times... and they have devised ways to test men.

When women throw out these tests and when it comes time to BE that man, most guys fail and often times fall flat on their faces.

Why?

It’s simple… because they aren't congruent with what they say.

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Hey - Didja Like This Report?This is the same formula I use -- which took me nearly 4 years of studying NATURALS (who aren’t exactly the most open of guys to ask for advice.)

Please don’t dismiss this formula because it is so simple, it has the power to completely change your life instantly!

Simple is the only thing that really works for most people because it is the only thing people will really do. If you don't understand something you won’t do it, right?

Take action right now, start by applying the first part of the formula to what you’re doing right now.

Don’t wait.

Do something with what you’ve just learned immediately, so you start using it AUTOMATICALLY.

If you start now, even just working on it a little bit each day, within no time you very well could have more women online to choose from than you know what to do with.

I’ve Got Something Special I Think You’ll Really Enjoy ...

I'd like to share with you a lot more of what it takes to attract a woman online - so I made a free video packed with my best dating tips.

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When you watch it you'll learn EXACTLY what it takes to communicate with women online so attraction happens fast… and so you're never seen as “just a friend” again.

Here's the video (you're going to "click" the video to watch it).

I really hope it has the same impact on you as it did on me. Because it has completely changed everything for me.

Now... it's YOUR turn.

- Dave