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Oh, Hey girl hey!
TAKE A SEC TO GRAB SOMETHING TO MUNCH ON! THE PROGRAM WILL START PROMPTLY AROUND 7:00PM
By the way, a prize will go to the girl with the cutest PJ’s on – anyone got a onesie they want to rock??
Healthy Relationships: The good, the bad, and the ugly!
BROUGHT TO YOU BY PEARLS
PEER EDUCATORS ADVOCATING RESPONSIBLE LIFESTYLES
PEARLS – say what?
Meredith’s new peer education program
Sophomores – Seniors + Interns + Sherri
Healthy initiatives of spring 2014:
Condom roses, create your perfect partner, wellness buffet, Valentine’s sweets, STD screening promotion, safe spring break and alcohol awareness, Escape Fire,
The Pearls we have here today are….
Why am I here?
Prince Charming is on lock
So single and ready to mingle
Relationships? Who need ‘em?
We are glad you are here!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLUSfMIQ8Rk
5 PHENOMENAL PARTNERS….
...WHICH ONE IS BEST FOR YOU?
5 POTENTIAL PARTNERS
Alex: notices the little things, always says nice things to you, always encouraging
Casey: helps you with whatever need, does favors without you even asking
Logan: always gives thoughtful gifts for holidays and ‘just because’
Jesse: Perfect for just lounging around with, likes to spend time with you, always has good conversations
Taylor: good with PDA, lets you know he cares for you by sitting close and touching you
Why the 5 Love Languages?
We all are differentWe all feel loved differently
When others speak our love language, our love tank will be filled
5 POTENTIAL PARTNERS
Alex: notices the little things, always says nice things to you, always encouraging
Casey: helps you with whatever need, does favors without you even asking
Logan: always gives thoughtful gifts for holidays and ‘just because’
Jesse: Perfect for just lounging around with, likes to spend time with you, always has good conversations
Taylor: good with PDA, lets you know he cares for you by sitting close and touching you
Word of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts
Quality Time
Physical Touch
The 5 Love Languages
Words of Affirmation (Alex)
Unsolicited compliments
Hearing “I love you”
Encourage/inspire
Words of appreciation
Insults
Acts of Service (Casey)
Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibility
Is there something you keep getting asked to do?
Do it!
Laziness
Broken commitments
Making more work for the other person
Receiving Gifts (Logan)
Not materialistic
Likes the love/thoughtfulness/effort
behind the gift
Gift = physical presence in a critical time
Missed birthday or anniversary
Hasty/thoughtless gift
Quality Time (Jesse)
Give undivided attention
Quality conversations
Sympathetic listening
Have partner write down list of 5 activities they enjoy to do and do it!
Distractions
Postponed dates
Failure to listen
Physical Touch (Taylor)
Very touchy! (not just in bedroom)
Holding hands, kissing, hugging, spooning,
Sit close
Touch each other when leave and return
Neglect
Abuse
Essential Bonus
Tolerable Deal-Breakers
Red Flag?
Green Flag?
Unsure?
Friends-zone
Hook up buddies
Arranged marriage
Friends with benefits
Quick daters
Whole Package
Good Friends
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRrPMfhcyrY
Start at 5 seconds
168 hours in a week?
LET’S MANAGE OUR TIME WISELY, GALS!
Thank you for participating!
What’s next?
Who wore the cutest PJ’s?
Eat more food!
Take our survey and enter to win gift cards!
Participate in PEARLS events!
Use what you learned (love languages, flags, love triangle, time management) to improve your life and relationships!