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In this set we will go thru, ALL that you need to know to feel competent and confident in approaching any woman in any situation.

The McDonald's example! [1:10] [5] {0}

Cathaxis [1:45((] [9] {0}

CATHEXIS: 1. Concentration or investment of

mental or emotional energy on one particular

person, idea, or object - 2. Charge of psychic

energy so investedThe shaolin monks example [2:30((] [0] {0}

The monks discipline [3:43((][9] {0}

Poke at this board for hundreds of days, poke it, and poke it, and poke it more each day... and more and more... and each and every day keep at it, until one day, you can just poke at the board and create a hole in it!!

And then next time you do it in 50 days, and then in 20 days, then in maybe just 5 strokes!TRACK 2 - The five phases of an approacher [0:00] [9] {0}! Phase 1 Approacher - totally anxious,

takes a miracle (or alcohol) to approach

women - Need to do some heavy work

on self-image/confidence . (Review Secrets

of the Alpha Man.) Approach

carefully, avoid cold contacts until your

confidence is raised.

! Phase 2 Approacher - some anxiety,

can eventually take action, but still

pretty nervous. Stay in a warm market

until you improve to a Phase 3-5. Approach

regularly, memorize approaches

and conversational tools.! Phase 3 Approacher - Minimal anxiety,

but needs more guidance in technical

ability. Usually approaches, but occasionally

reluctant. Work on your skills,

take inventory. Is it a lack of ability?

Find your weakness and develop it into

your strength.

"Has minimal anxiety, but needs more guidance and technical ability. This approacher should work on his skills, he should take a cold-hearted look at his skills. Just find the skills and develop them. And we will pinpoint those in this set"! Phase 4 Approacher - minimal anxiety,

has great game, enjoys the approach,

will approach "convenient" targets.

Works in all markets. Watch out

for burnout.! Phase 5 Approacher - No anxiety,

great game, approaches women everywhere

possible, including going way out

of his way to meet them. No fear! Again,

work all markets, but watch out for

burnout.[4:55((] THE GOAL (make it like putting on the socks in the morning), you want your CNS to feel the same?

TRACK 3 A.I.M intro [0:00] [2] {0}

A.I.M. = Approach Introduction Model

Study The Rules of Engagement

TRACK 4 A.I.M no rejection [0:00] [7] {9}

2) Accept that there is no such thing as rejection

[0:30((] [2] {0} Everything you think is just based on how you think about it, rollercoaster metaphorTRACK 5 Well groomed, clothed, fit, positive [0:00] [7] {9}

3) Get yourself together. Exercise, eat right.

Accept only a healthy, positive lifestyle.

She will be on her guard against the guys who don't have these things taken care of.

TRACK 6 Well groomed, clothed, fit, positive [0:00] [10] {9}1) Prepare - Prepare - Prepare

You MUST do some preparation before you do your approaches. Now it is possible to go out and just do it cold, spontaneuous and right off the cuff... that is the goal you're aiming for. But chances are right now you have to do some memorization, getting some material under your belt, before you feel confident going into a situation.

Adapt the material to YOU, to own this stuff, change the wording slightly so you can deliver it

The best approaches are the ones you invent based on your solid understanding of technique you get in this model

Like learning a language, or kung fu... you learn moves and more moves and more moves (words), until at one point you can just combine them spontaneously!

Or that sucessfull people are those that are the most flexible, they have the most alternative STUFF in their heads, ways of doing things etc... by learning as many of these as possible (mastering them), you will be able to eventually just wing it on the spot (like learning pebbles?)

READ pop-culture.TRACK 7 Rapport, trust, comfort [3] {x}[1:39((] ultimate goal, improvisation... [10] {9}

15) Improvisation is your ultimate goal. You

will be a Level 4 or 5 approacher when you

have memorized the material given, invented

your own, honed your presentation,

and can invent things on the fly.

TRACK 8 Calibration [4] {4}

You must become aware

But not hyper-sensitive Just situationally aware6) Calibrate: You must be attuned to her

both mentally and physically. Not Hyperattentive!

But pay attention to signals. Adjust

as necessary.

TRACK 9 the right attitude [0:00] [5] {9}

4) Get your head on straight. The right attitude

is absolutely critical to your development.

"99% of the time when she "rejects" you, or is "unresponsive", its because of HER, and not you, coz both me and you know, if she really knew you, she'd love you. Most of the time unfortunately we ASSume it's US. DO REMEMBER the 99+% percentage, it's USSUALY because of the man making a flawed approach, and the woman making a faulty ASSumption based on it. That's why it's important to have a good grasp of how you present yourself :)

If, you really believe that the woman who is not showing interest in you is just making a faulty and subjective interpretation then it's easy to just adjust your presentation!![2:51((] 100 years ago analogy [7] {9}

TRACK 10 no one can make you feel inferrior [0:00] [8] {2}

FROM NOW ON YOU DON'T GRANT THAT PERMISSION!

TRACK 11 growing pains are NECCESSARY [0:00] [8] {2}

"They accepted that there will be pain involved in learning this, and ACCEPTED it, and did it anyway"

TRACK 12 QUALIFY [0:00] [10] {2}

5) Qualify - Qualify - Qualify - You are the

one choosing, not her. Remember, No one

can make you feel inferior without your

permission!

"When things aren't going the way YOU want them to, you need to cut it off"

"Style: Pleasure meeting you"

~ I think this is a GREAT crutch to give to guys, especially as having a solution of preparing (when doing mental preparations for sarging), by visualizing [mckenaa/deangelo 7reps style] that when a girl is extremely bitchy (or you approach very creepily) that you go pleasure meeting you bitch -boom(pleasure meeting you ESPECIALLY since guys are always running around asking "how do I smack her down, when she insults me" "how do I end up the victor if she rejects me?" "give me a COMEBACK to put her down", "DavidX: Guys are going in expecting to be insulted it's like, they're going in ready to defend themselves, before they've even been attacked" well... the solution to AFC's biggest AA nightmare: "pleasure meeting you" with a fun smile (pickup101 has great examples of reacting to bitchy sets in a very fun, positive attitude, it's a good attitude to take for the "pleasure meeting you")... you do this even if she has her back turned and isn't listening to you "pleasure meeting you" ~TRACK 13 direct vs. indirect [0:00] [2] {2}

19) Indirect approaches are good for lower

self-confidence. They are low-risk, low yield.

Direct approaches are good for higher selfconfidence.

They are high-risk, high yield.

Both are essential to know.

EVEN in an indirect approach, SHE KNOWS that you like her. She has a RADAR that picks it up. BUT THAT IS OK! Since she's open to the approach of any man she's interested in. She just needs time to figure out if you're of any interest to her.

TRACK 14 Courage [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 15 It's not what you say, but how [0:00] [2] {2}

7) Its not what you say but how you say it.

[5] 2:02 tonality examples TRACK 16 THE PAIN BARRIER!! [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 17 approach-ability is almost entirely based on belief-systems [0:00] [2] {x} ~ Look at McKenna's positivity for an extremely good explanation of belief systems, or major mark's renegade seminar for a lot of KJ-ing on belief systems : ) ~TRACK 18 Introvert vs. extrovert [0:00] [2] {4}

Basically explains how the main difference between introverts and extroverts isn't in their social skills. It's in how they re-charger their batteries. You can be a very social and charismatic introvert for example The difference is that introverts need alone-time (reading a book, listening to music)to relax from socializing, so you need to balance out. Just make sure to balance it out with the right amount of alone-time to recharge your batteries!! That's crucial in doing all of this, you want to avoid burnout ~burnout SUCKS! coz in the end you end up taking MORE time to progress, when you do too much approaching work, and then spend time in burned-out mode... it suxxors :D~22) Recharge your batteries! Avoid burnout

by balancing your approaching with other

activities, but ideally weave the A.I.M.

model into everything you do. Approaching

women is an inter-woven part of your life,

not a separate part.TRACK 19 Chemistry is a perception [0:00] [9] {4}

10) Chemistry is a perception. You are in

control of the experience and interaction. If

you keep the approach smooth, she will assume

you have chemistry.

HSV social pressure manipulation [10]TRACK 20 Wingman notes [0:00] [9] {4}

I recommend for starters to work with a wing-man, since going solo requires a different and much harder skill-set, and a wingman gives you a little bit of that social proof.

You will be associated to the qualities of your wingman (perception by association to)...

TRACK 21 Be fluid [0:00] [9] {4}

9) Stay flexible and fluid. You must be like

water, flowing and adjusting to the social

dynamics of the situations you find yourself

in.

TRACK 22 The powerfull vibe [0:00] [9] {4}

Do breathing excercises etc...TRACK 23 affirmations [0:00] [3] {3}

14) The best way to get confident in approaching

women is to approach women

and get past the fear. Affirmations arent a

good substitute.

TRACK 24 male panic syndrome [0:00] [7] {3}

It's the point where she seems to gather all the power in the conversation and you tend to panic out and lose your state.

TRACK 25 Where can I meet nice guys!?!? [0:00] [9] {3}Chances are that she DOES want you to introduce yourself to her!

i'll give ANY woman a chance!

TRACK 26 You have to make approaching FUN for you! [0:00] [10] {9}You have to condition into your CNS a feeling, an anchor of having fun with approaching, that's what you want to associate with this. You don't want to associate pain, or boredom, or (do I have to.... blah) to the approaching thing.

Your CNS is designed to avoid pain, and seek PLEASURE. You must associate pleasure to approaching!TRACK 2-1 HER body language [0:00] [3] {8} It's not do or die (it shouldn't determine absolutely whether to approach her or not)

Your attitude should not be that of being shot-down, it should be of being testing women if they're the right one, she disqualified herself

- Alot of BL signs are vague and ambious and can't be trusted or relied upon (some of them are true, but most are vague), and anyway most women will have a somewhat closed bodylanguage at first, it's expected and normal

Look at open vs. closed body-language

Guys' closed body-language (holding a drink in front of yourself)

THE KEY: Not looking at body-language as it is, but CHANGES in body-language is what you need to look at!

What is the CHANGE, if it goes to extremely closed, to somewhat closed, that's progress. EVEN if you're not getting those super duper she's infatuated USS signs. You might not get the hair flip or the palm flashing or whatever... Look at the DELTA, the CHANGE, not the absolutes

This is what we call "cracking the nut", each women is a little rough on the outside on the beginning, and you need to open her up a bit to reveal to soft inside within. This can be cracked in every girl, even the bitchiest girl, infact the bitchiest ones are the easiest to crack as it's a simple defence mechanism... when girls act like bitches they really have a very vulnerable part they're trying to not expose, so they cover up with this defense mechanism

We're applying social pressure to crack the nut

AGAIN, you're using BL as a barometer, and not as sign of whether you should go and talk to her12) Read her body language, but do not

get caught up in looking for signs to progress.

Every woman is nervous and slightly

closed when you first meet her, so its hard

to read anything for certain.

TRACK 2-2 Reading people's energy [0:00] [2] {2}It's not do or die (it shouldn't determine absolutely whether to approach her or not

Stay out of your head (hypnotica)TRACK 2-3 Body-language, trust your instinct [0:00] [3] {3}

If you are calm, cool and collected, you will pick up on this naturally.

If it feels like she's closing up to you, chances are she is, BUT DON't REACT to it! Just like driving into a skid on an icy road, you don't SWERVE out in the opposite direction, but you slow down and drive thru it slowly, and then redirect.

~Or Swinggcat (and Style)'s changing of body-language (wait no, you look kinda better like this [uncrosses their arms]) ~TRACK 2-4 Look at her eyes!!! [0:00] [10] {8}

If you are calm, cool and collected, you will pick up on this naturally.

If it feels like she's closingTRACK 2-5 Look at her lips!!! [0:00] [8] {3}

How to kiss

TRACK 2-6 Body aligment [0:00] [3] {7}

Is she atleast facing you

Is she leaning in

TRACK 2-7 Breasts display [0:00] [3] {8}

IS she pushing her breasts out!!

If she is showing any cleavage it's almost certain she's trying to attract a man

TRACK 2-8 Displaying palms, forearms [0:00] [3] {8}

Barometer Why palm reading is usefull, it get her to open the hand

TRACK 2-9 Her hair, watch it [0:00] [3] {8}

Tilting head

Or any action where she displays more of her hairTRACK 2-10 Mouth covering [0:00] [2] {3}

Good sign (shy action)TRACK 2-11 WC going [0:00] [2] {6}

Good sign if she comes back with anything changed in her appearance (makeup, hair, whatever)TRACK 2-12 What she does with arms [0:00] [2] {6}

Is she playing with toys Is she touching her armNone of these is a clue on its OWN, look for clusters.GENERALLY, if she's talking to you (engaged), and you feel the vibe as being positive, she's atleast somewhat interested. You need to escalate and keep the interaction moving forward. Unless she displays clear signs that it needs to end definitively.

TRACK 2-13 Most important IOI [0:00] [2] {6}

- Touching you, does she touch you, does she lean onto you, does she brush lint off of you

- If she play-hits you in any way (women who aren't interested don't do this)

TRACK 2-14 IODs [0:00] [7] {6}[1:35((] When IODs happen [9] {9}

TRACK 2-15 Closing body-language [0:00] [3] {4}

If she suddenly crosses her arms out of nowhere, you can guess she got very uncomfortable all of a sudden

Closed legs are ok, it's normal, and if she actually opens them, or opens, closes them all the time (that's a VERY good sign)

TRACK 2-15 Hanging, dangling shoe [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 2-16 Suddenly looking up and to the side [0:00] [4] {1}

TRACK 2-17 Proximics [0:00] [1] {1}

How close we stand to people, walls etc...

There are 4 distance zones (intimate, friendly, social, public)The importance is in how close she comes to you, and how close she lets you come

Just remember to not go too far, too fast

TRACK 2-18 The pass-by!!! [0:00] [1] {6}

When she shows up near to you more than once. It's one of the best ones!! IT will happen alot in bookstores, supermarkets, public areas.

TRACK 2-19 Mirroring BS [0:00] [1] {1}

Blah blah, whatever...

TRACK 2-20 The point is [0:00] [1] {10}

Don't take either one as a green or red light, you want to perssist for as long as it takes to notice if you want to term this woman as qualified or not.

THE IMPORTANT PART IS THE DELTA, how does it change, notice the change, not the absolutes.

TRACK 2-21 The approach killers [0:00] [1] {3}

Any bragging (dropping names etc...)

Avoid compliments as openers, as ussually they aren't trusted, they think you must be lying or trying to bribe them, they think it's false Sexual innuendo (as a starter) Oggling other women You push too far, too early (push for a date or whatever, in a unnatural manner)TRACK 2-22 Excercise to get you ready intro [0:00] [7] {3}

13) Use all the exercises from the audio.

Theyre tried and tested.

TRACK 2-23 The qualifier VIBE, BL [0:00] [10] {5}TRACK 2-24 Socialise with everyone! SUPERsocialize [0:00] [10] {10}

TRACK 2-25 Sign up for as much as POSSIBLE [0:00] [3] {10}Dancing class

HiFive

TRACK 2-26 Do people-watching [0:00] [8] {6}

Just go and observe how different people's BL works for them

Look at how people interact

TRACK 2-27 "you" is a fluid concept [0:00] [3] {6}

You can be just as "james bond", as james bond! It was afterall just some actors PLAYING him on the screen, it was an act. It was a way of being, acting. You can do the same.

When you go to the mirror (looking at the new clothes you bought), and saying "oh wow this isn't me", remember NO, that is YOU, since "you" is fluid process , it's whom you choose to be!

TRACK 2-28 You can remove 95% of your mental anxiety by just imagining a certain social situation [0:00] [10] {6}

TRACK 2-29 Convo excercises [0:00] [ ] {2}

TRACK 2-30 What drives/motivates you [0:00] [3] {6}

You need to have a bigger cause, a bigger goal in mind (than just approaching for the sake of approaching)

TRACK 2-31 KEEP a journal!!! [0:00] [10] {6}21) Keep a journal and track your results.

The guys who get the most success in life

are the ones that are willing to track their

effort, sharpen their skills, and look unflinchingly

at their own performance to improve.

ANALYZE your PATTERNS! :)TRACK 2-32 Opening ritual [0:00] [2] {2}

[1:29((] Da ritual! [9] {9}

TRACK 2-33 The centerfold excercise [0:00] [2] {2}

You take a playboy centerfold and for a good 2-3 minutes just look her into the eyes, without ever looking at the body, and then leave her, without ever having looked at the body! :)

TRACK 2-34 Tongue Twister Excercises [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 2-35 Stay Calm Excercise [0:00] [9] {2}TRACK 3-1 A.I.M Intro [0:00] [2] {2}

A specific model you can follow to make sure that each approach is consistent and most effective.

- Determine who you gonna walk up to

- Engage

- DisEngage

TRACK 3-2 T.E.D Intro [0:00] [2] {2}

[1:16((] Direct vs. indirect [4] {5}Are you gonna be direct or indirect?

You should use both of them.

For newbies the suggestion is always to go indirect.

Indirect = asking for the time, asking if someone has arrived at the party

ALOT of guys think it's black or white, you either do one or the other

When women are more sensitive (such situations), indirect is better

-For direct:

She can get extremely shy and close up not knowing what to do

or she can put up a bitch shiled, both are to test whether you are as strong/confident as you portray yourself to be

It works better when you can pull off direct

Start off:

with more general, and broader, universal openers

until you are able to tailor it to the enviroment

[5:44((] determine your angle of approach [2] {4}

Look at her body-language to see how open she'll potentially be to the approach (like a woman who is running towards a cab in an attempt to stop it, with hands grasping full of huge bulky shopping bags)

There are logically women who can't be approached, but make sure to not go and let FEAR decide this, let logic decide Determine right off the bat candidates which are not to be approached23) Not every woman wants to be approached,

or needs to be approached.

Look for signals that indicate her interest or

disinterest.

[7:25((] the state of a lion [3] {9}

YOU NEED TO ASSUME THAT STATE!

The MOMENT you see the target, you assume the image of the lion!! ~~McKenna's step-into james bond~~

[7:25((] expose yourself before you approach [] {}

Don't approach her from the blue, if it's possible do a walk-by, or stand next to her... Unless like you have to do it then carpe diem. But if you can, let her notice you first, and then approach.

This step will increase your success tremendously since you won't be taking her so much off guard :)

TRACK 3-3 Approach in 3 seconds... 3...2...1[0:00] [3] {9}

[0:59((] Congruency is important [0:00] [8] {6}

16) Women are looking for congruity. This is

where the words you say match the attitude

you give off. She can see past acting or a shaky self-confidence, so learn how to

relax and summon inner strength.

[2:02((] She knows what you're doing [0:00] [2] {3}

Doesn't matter how indirect you think you're being, she KNOWS when you're interested.

[3:06((] Be even cooler, and even more calming and soothing [0:00] [8] {7}

11) Have confidence for two. A woman is

usually uncertain in any meeting with a

man. She will draw on your level of calmness

for herself, so you must have enough

confidence for the two of you.

TRACK 3-4 Layers of interaction [0:00] [3] {5}

Layer 1 is the thing you put on when you leave out the door, as soon as you walk out of your peer group ( , , .)

The faster you act like you are layer 2, then you can transfuce confidence into her.

Layer 3 is a layer of a sexual communication, it's not overt sexual interest, just a vibe of "i might be interested in you", "i'm kinda interested in you"

When you get into layer 2 is where you want to start with flirting so as to not enter the friends zone

[3:16((] Displaying sexual interest [2] {5}

~Basically explains the same thing Louis & Copeland talk about in Mastery, about a respectfull (yet sexual) scanning-down of her body... having an open powerfull body language (it's not explained so well in her as in mastery, where they explain what they mean by POWERFULL open body-language being a way of showing interest, it's on their ~20) Get to Layer Three communication as

soon as possible. Do not be afraid to demonstrate

flirting sexual interest in a woman.

Dont try to sneak by her radar by being

friends first.

TRACK 3-5 Engage [0:00] [3] {5}

1, 2,3... lion state, read her BL, be willing to move and disengage if things don't go as well as it could be

[0:40((] Keep the convo going technique [6] {3}

[3:25((] understay your welcome

QUALIFY her (see if she is smart enough to play with you)

Go for a close3:49 if more than 50% give you their number

[4:03((] LADDER of goals [3] {7} FIRST just open, open, open (get yourself to feel good just for having opened), don't care about the outcome

Get some positive interest from her Then, get to next goal level of where you can get numbers Then get your level to where you can take insta-dates

Then go to a level where you can get kisses on the insta-date

Then get to gunwitch's goal of same-day-lays

Although I don't recommend the last one as a long-term goal as it's not a very positive lifestyle, although it's good to do just to prove to yourself that you can do it :)

17) Progress your goals for each interaction.

The first goal could be to just say hello. The

next would be to talk with her for a few

minutes. The next goal is to get the email or

phone number. And the next would be to

bridge straight into a mini-date. As you improve,

stretch your goals to challenge your

ability.

8) Stay balanced in your approach and

push the limits of your comfort zone.

15) Calmness and relaxation are absolutely

necessary. You cannot be resourceful and

on with a woman that you are all giddy

and nervous around. Contain your excitement.

Shes just a woman.

18) If youre having a lot of problems approaching

women, start by talking to guys

to get you over some of your fear of strangers.

It helps immensely.

24) Seek rapport only AFTER you have

started a light, fun conversation. If you go

for rapport immediately, it will be too much

of a shock and it will seem as if you are

seeking validation or supplicating. Instead,

hang back, demonstrate your High Social

Value (HSV) without coming across as arrogant

or pompous, and keep a high level of

fun in the conversation.

TRACK 3-6 Disengage [0:00] [2] {5}

- Doesn't matter how indirect you think you're being, she KNOWS when you're interested.

- Your mental conditiong is always NEXT

- You wanted to just convo, so you got a 4 minute convo with a girl...NEXT!!!- You got a # from a 10 and she begged you to call her ... NEXT!!!

We don't treat them as cattle, we just treat them as "yet unproven", until something comes out of it, they're just another moving object in your catalog

[3:20((] The ULTIMATE goal [8] {7}

The ULTIMATE goal is IMPROVISATION. Where you can just forget all i've told you, and all the lines and everything, and you just end up doing it.

[5:03((] Rapport assumption [6] {8}Treat her as if you've known her for 15 years :D :D

It makes both of us calm.

TRACK 3-7 Gimmicks!! [0:00] [3] {5}

Palm Reading is SIMPLE! :)

The cube Magic Tricks Handwriting analysis (it actually does work in sense it does show the real personality)[1:54((] These openers are [6] {8} All examples from which you can create your own, and not all will jive with your wordings. Use the information to create your own.

TRACK 3-8 The great energy opener [0:00] [2] {5}

I apologise but, I just had to come by and say you have a great energy about you, and I wanted to let you know that (it's flattering, yet not too direct)

---> I'll NOW stand back, look at her reaction, and if it's warm keep going with it

---> I'm saying "I apologise", because the first thing a woman wants to know is "why the hell are you talking to me"

TRACK 3-9 Aren't you [0:00] [2] {2}

"Hey, i saw you and thought for sure, didn't you use to work with jenny cartelo? I'm pretty sure i've seen you there? "

It's good for fast situations, where you need to catch them before they go away

IT has to be with a conviction or she'll sense it's just another pickup line I suggest using someone you really DO KNOW, as it will automatically give you alot more convictionTRACK 3-10 Did you hear? [0:00] [2] {2}

"Hey, did you hear that Michael Jackson is supposed to now go on a tour with his sister, this next year? "

"Hey don't get too nervous now, i know this is gonna be real weird, but i'm gonna start picking up on you now... ok here we go: So, WHAT's your name :)" It works best in enviroments conducive to people meeting , and best in proximics situations, where the woman happens to be nearby

The more untrue it is, the better, it will get some interesting convos

It's good to go HOP-ping from it

TRACK 3-11 Super-direct approach [0:00] [4] {2}

"Hey did you guys hear that Britney Spears is going on a tour with Kid Rock!?"

It's great at parties, because you'll always get atleast a good response now

It's good to go HOP-ping from it

HAVE FUN with this approach, and actually all approaches

TRACK 3-12 The opinion opener [0:00] [5] {2}

"Hey guys, a quick female opinion on something, how old... do you think a guy needs to be before he is said to be TOO OLD to marry?"

"Hey guys, I was talking with some friends, and need a female opinion on something... what is the hottest car on the market right now?"

It has to be a social situation where there is ALOT of people there being social, groups etc...

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You can use the opinion opener again also in a supermarket or in a store...

You can actually come up with these on the fly and improvisationally

TRACK 3-13 2 on 2 approach [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-14 For passing a woman by on the stree [0:00] [2] {2}

"Excuse me... I just had to say THANKS" she needs to first go... woah... what.. why?... then you go "You know when you just have those days where you... you're not up, nor down. You're not really extremely happy, but you're not down either... but then you just see someone... with a beatifull and brillian smile and it lightens up your entire day? "

Try that one sometime, it really is effective

TRACK 3-15 Who lies more [0:00] [2] {2}

Typically it's used on SETS

[0:18((] Use these on sets first, even though there is a way to sometimes adapt them to singles [3] {3}

TRACK 3-16 Taking their seat [0:00] [4] {2}

"Hey guys, is this chair taken... and they say... no go ahead... so you go ahead and sit down... So guys, how you doin'?! :)"

TRACK 3-17 So... how was your day? [0:00] [4] {2}

If you're good at the introductions, she'll play along with it.

TRACK 3-18 So, guys who has more one-night stands? Men or women? [0:00] [2] {2}

The good thing about this opener is that it will give you a sense of whether they are more uptight, or more sexually aware, sexually approachable

TRACK 3-19 You know what? My horoscope said today that I need to meet some new friends. Hi, my name is Alek[0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-20 The bad-sketch artist opener! :) [0:00] [7] {2}

This is mostly a test on your side where you are testing where if the women are friendly, approachable enough with a good sense of humour, you're qualifying with this test.

You can also use it later in (like instead of the cube or something) "you know I happen to be a professional sketch artist, would you like me to do you? "TRACK 3-21 Hey guys i'm really curiuos here, who here has the most curious and adventerous mind[0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-22 The fictious cell phone character opener [0:00] [8] {2}

TRACK 3-23 The cold-shoulder response [0:00] [8] {2}

SEGWAY: Well see, I took this one seminar on improving your confidence, and lowering your shyness and... Hey, you wanna something cool.. real quick?'

If you get the cold-shoulder from any of these women... isn't very responsive "HEY, I was just trying to be friendly there, I mean i got this vibe that you're this caring, and warm person? You're not really cold and aloof are you?

"You need to break her down, get past those social boundaries she's putting up to avoid the guys who really are dweebs. Because only a guy who will be persistent and not take it personally will prove himself and alpha male

TRACK 3-24 The instant break-up opener [0:00] [3] {2}

Women will have fun with this for HOURS.

Just bridge it into, how do you guys know each other?TRACK 3-25 Working-girl opener (an SS pattern) [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-26 A good close [0:00] [5] {2}

Try out for fun, PRECISELY because it feels stupid.TRACK 3-27 Use the dog as an opener [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-28 You know you look like someone famous... but I can't figure out who it is. Who have they told you, you look like? [0:00] [7] {2}

TRACK 3-29 Rollercoaster (an SS pattern) [0:00] [2] {2}

You start with an opinion opener, and then you bridge into this

TRACK 4-1 If you get any closer, you're gonna have to buy me a drink [0:00] [5] {2}

It's a good opener for bars... Once you get good, you'll be throwing these out spontaneously and on the fly.Try out for fun, PRECISELY because it feels stupid.

TRACK 4-2 Stupid towel approach [0:00] [3] {2}

TRACK 4-3 Department store approaches [0:00] [7] {2}

TRACK 4-4 Cafe opener [0:00] [6] {2}

TRACK 4-5 Festivals and carnevals with booths and art museums [0:00] [7] {2}TRACK 4-6 Conventions and Fairs [0:00] [7] {2}

TRACK 4-7 Putting ads for models to photograph [0:00] [6] {2}

TRACK 4-8 Trivia openers [0:00] [8] {2}

Try out for fun, PRECISELY because it feels stupid.

TRACK 4-9 The power eye-contact opener :) [0:00] [10] {2}

" Keep in mind that if a woman holds your eye-contact for longers than 2 seconds, she's probably interested. That's her way of letting you know."

- THE JOKE TRY IT OUT "Ok since we're in staring contest already, you should know a little bit about your opponent, you shoud know that I have been trained by the U.S. CIA to never look away first! :) " TRACK 4-10 Poolhouse opener [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 4-11 Compliment her for department stores[0:00] [8] {2}

Together with the POST-compliment thing... you can just go... give the opener... run away. And if she seems friendly and keeps looking at you from all around the store... then come back and make a convo!! :)

TRACK 4-12 POWER-TOOLS! Storytelling [0:00] [4] {2}

[3] {2} (Much better in other resources)

TRACK 4-13 POWER-TOOLS! Sexual innuendo [0:00] [8] {2}

TRACK 4-14 POWER-TOOLS! Power questions [0:00] [5] {2}Maybe style's ED routine would fit in hereTRACK 4-15 The Cube [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 4-16 Advanced locations to do this at [0:00] [2] {2}

[Life-purpose]

[1:39] Do a dating-related survey!!! (DOC-love, eric-webber openers)

[2:22] Photographing opener

[3:03] Become a personal trainer ( McKenna... !)

[4:22] Volunteer to hand-out flyers :) :) :D :) :D

FIND a location to go out there and interact with the public, that's ALL we're doing :)

[/life-purpose]

TRACK 4-17 The diagnosis of the approach! [0:00] [3] {2} - :)

BELIFS:

1) She knows what you're doing and why you're talking to her

2) Believe in your heart that it's good for the both of you for you to talk to this woman, if you don't talk to her, she doesn't have the benefit of experiencing you, her seeing how you can improve her life. It's a loss for her mostly

3) You need to be yourself (but selectively, show some mystery)

Stand-offish and distant response

She's testing you too much

she acts like a total bitch

they run too much hot & cold

they use too much the friends into the picture

she shows interest, but it gets nowhere

you get alot of numbers, but no (low number of) subsequent dates

get many dates, but didn't get anywhere with them

problem with cell-phones

If you are having problems with leaving Messages

She doesn't give you a number or contact information

If you get AMOG-ed alot

If you get blown out before you've even had a chance of saying anything, ITS NOT YOU, it's ussually her having a very bad day with stalkers or bad approaches

TRACK 4-18 Events etc...!!! :) [0:00] [10] {10}!!

Balance with your ability to review things :)

TRACK 4-19 Events etc...!!! :) [0:00] [10] {10}!!Women will have fun

TRACK 4-20 Listen to this atleast 10 times! :) [0:00] [0] {4}!!

You will find yourself just automatically saying and doing some of this stuff (dave riker)

TRACK 4-21 FOR LIFE PURPOSE STORY!!!!!!!!! [100%!!]