NFL Characters Unite Playbook
Transcript of NFL Characters Unite Playbook
NFL CHARACTERS UNITE In NFL Characters Unite, NFL stars share
deeply personal stories of facing hardships in
their lives and mentor young people in their
communities who are currently struggling
to fit in, deal with bullying and overcome
adversity. Through meaningful conversations
and unique one-on-one confidence building
activities made possible by local YMCAs, the
players encourage the kids they meet to find
the character, strength, and courage to
persevere and pursue their own dreams.
NFL Characters Unite premieres on Friday,
February 6, at 7/6C, on USA Network.
END BULLYING ZONE
The End Bullying Zone is a place where
everyone can help prevent bullying and build
character. In this playbook, you will find tips
and resources on stopping bullying; discussion
questions and interactive activities addressing
the issue; and “plays” from your favorite NFL
players. We hope you join us and millions of
people around the country on Team #NFLCU.
Together, we can reach the End Bullying Zone!
Team #NFLCU
HINES WARDPITTSBURGH STEELERS (FORMER)
RICHARD SHERMANSEATTLE SEAHAWKS
DARREN SPROLESPHILADELPHIA EAGLES
CHARLES TILLMANCHICAGO BEARS
J.J. WATTHOUSTON TEXANS
TONY DUNGYINDIANAPOLIS COLTS (FORMER)
LARRY FITZGERALDARIZONA CARDINALS
JIMMY GRAHAMNEW ORLEANS SAINTS
TONY GONZALESATLANTA FALCONS (FORMER)
PETE CARROLLSEATTLE SEAHAWKS
VICTOR CRUZNEW YORK GIANTS
RANDALL COBBGREEN BAY PACKERS
JAMAAL CHARLESKANSAS CITY CHIEFS
MARIO WILLIAMSBUFFALO BILLS
NICK MANGOLDNEW YORK JETS
TROY POLAMALUPITTSBURGH STEELERS
JAMEEL McCLAINNEW YORK GIANTS
MARK HERZLICHNEW YORK GIANTS
JUSTIN TUCKOAKLAND RAIDERS
BULLYING is any hurtful behavior that is done on purpose to harm another
person. Bullying can take many forms, such as verbal, physical, relational and
cyberbullying.
PREJUDICE is a preconceived judgment or irrational opinion for or against
an individual, a group, a race, or their community.
DISCRIMINATION is an action or behavior made in favor or against someone
based on something about them—for example, their race, religion, ethnicity,
gender, sexual orientation, physical or mental disability—instead of their merit.
sources: dosomething.org, stopbullying.gov
The Issues
15% of High School students were
cyberbullied in the past year
Over 3.2 million students are
victims of bullying each year
Approximately 160,000 teens skip
school every day because of bullying
1 in 10 students drop out of
school because of repeated bullying
Discussion Questions
JAMAAL CHARLESKansas City Chiefs
Kansas City Chiefs running back Jamaal Charles
faced many difficult challenges during his childhood.
Raised without a father, teased because of his learning
disability, and living in a high-crime neighborhood, he
worked hard to stay out of trouble by playing football.
Today, Jamaal is a record-breaking player in the NFL
and is committed to being a role model that he didn’t
have in his own father. In NFL Characters Unite, Jamaal
mentors Martinous, who also lost his father and has
been bullied for being different from other kids.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
• Jamaal suffered with a learning disability that made
him ashamed and want to hide from his classmates
for fear of their judgment and teasing. Have you ever
wanted to hide from classmates for fear of being
judged or teased?
• Martinous was bullied for not having a father and
being different from other kids. Have you ever been
teased or bullied for being different than other kids?
• Jamaal’s play to reach the End Bullying Zone is to
draft a strong offensive line and enlist a community
to help stop bullying. Who would you recruit to help
prevent bullying in your school or neighborhood?
JAMAAL’S PLAY TO REACH THE END BULLYING ZONE
“Draft a strong offensive line and enlist
a community to help stop bullying.”
DARREN SPROLESPhiladelphia Eagles
Philadelphia Eagles running back Darren Sproles was
a top football player and track star growing up. He ran
fearlessly, but was always nervous to talk because he
stuttered. Sports was an outlet and protected him
from being taunted, but he still worried about what
other kids would say about his speech impediment.
However, through hard work on his game, his speech
and his confidence level, he made incredible strides
and is committed to helping other kids refuse to let
a disability get in the way of achieving greatness.
In NFL Characters Unite, Darren mentors Sheila at the
Columbia North YMCA in Philadelphia. Just like Darren,
Sheila has a stutter that has made her a target for bullies.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
• Darren avoided talking because of his speech
impediment and fear of being ridiculed. Have you
ever avoided doing something because you were
concerned what people would think of you?
• Sheila had become anti-social and didn’t participate
in school activities because she was teased so often
as a result of her stutter. Have there been activities
you wanted to participate in but did not because you
were afraid you would not be accepted?
• Darren’s play to reach the End Bullying Zone is to
take it a few yards at a time and be persistent. What
are some of the steps you can take to stop bullying?
DARREN’S PLAY TO REACH THE END BULLYING ZONE
“Take it a few yards at a time. Bullying
might not stop overnight, but be persistent
and we can make it stop over time.”
Discussion Questions
MARIO WILLIAMSBuffalo Bills
When Buffalo Bills defensive end Mario Williams
was in college, his brother-in-law was killed during
Operation Iraqi Freedom, leaving Mario’s sister to raise
her young sons alone. Mario was ready to quit football
in order to help take care of her and his nephews, but
his sister refused to let him give up his dreams. Mario
stayed in school, worked hard and earned the top
spot in the 2006 NFL draft. He also made it his life
mission to assist his sister and other military families
and wounded warriors. In NFL Characters Unite, Mario
meets Sophia, whose father was killed in Afghanistan.
This loss has been a struggle for her to deal with,
and has been made worse by the bullying she has
experienced at school on a daily basis for not
having a father.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
• During a time of tragedy, Mario almost left school
and gave up football entirely to help his family. Have
you experienced a tragedy in life? How did you
handle the situation?
• Sophia uses her talent for art as a diversion from her
pain and fear of bullying. Are there activities you do
to help cope with bullying or any other hardship?
• Mario’s play to reach the End Bullying Zone is to
step up and say something if you see bullying. Have
you ever witnessed bullying? If yes, what did you do?
RICHARD’S PLAY TO REACH THE END BULLYING ZONE
“My play is blanket coverage. Get
kids, parents, schools and communities
involved to stop bullying.”
RICHARD SHERMANSeattle Seahawks
Seattle Seahawks cornerback Richard Sherman grew
up in an area riddled with gangs and violence. Despite
the pressure from others around him who tried to lure
him down a dangerous path, he was focused on proving
that if he could make it, then any kid in a rough
neighborhood could too. He became a scholar–
athlete at Stanford and a Super Bowl champion, but
he has never forgotten where he came from and has
made helping others succeed a top priority. In NFL
Characters Unite, Richard Sherman meets Tevin, a teen
who lost his parents and is struggling to stay on the
right track, excel in school and not fall victim to a life
of poverty and crime.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
• Richard felt peer pressure growing up to join
gangs and pursue a life of crime. Have you ever felt
pressured to do something you did not want to do
and/or knew was wrong?
• Tevin is called a loner and doesn’t have many friends
because he is focused on school and doesn’t want to
end up in trouble like others around him. Have you
lost friends because you made decisions that your
peers did not agree with?
• Richard’s play to reach the End Bullying Zone is to
get everyone—kids, parents, schools, communities—
involved to stop bullying. Do you know anyone
working to prevent bullying?
MARIO’S PLAY TO REACH THE END BULLYING ZONE
“Defense can be the best offense.
If you see someone being bullied,
step up and say it’s wrong.”
Joking, Teasing or Bullying?Understanding the differences
between harmless fun, hurtful
teasing, and bullying
# of Participants: Individuals or groups
Age Range: 8 through adult
Materials/Space Needed: Pens and paper
Instructions: Use scenarios below to identify bullying
situations. You can choose to work on this individually
or in small groups. Discuss reasons for identifying the
scenario as joking, teasing or bullying.
Joking – Intention is to create humor and fun; usually
between friends; reciprocal
Teasing – Intention is to provoke a reaction such as
anger, resentment or confusion
Bullying – Repeated, premeditated, intentional,
planned; trying to be the one in control; want to take
power or possessions from someone
Processing/Debriefing: Discuss how joking and
teasing can eventually become bullying. If time allows,
discuss what would be possible appropriate responses
by the targets.
Scenarios:
On his way to school every morning, Joe is stopped by
a group of older students. They help themselves to the
contents of his lunch and warn him not to tell anyone. • Is this Joking, Teasing or Bullying?
Carlos borrows a ruler from someone who sits near him
in class. He takes his time giving it back even though
the other student has asked for it several times. Carlos
tends to annoy his classmates from time to time.
• Is this Joking, Teasing or Bullying?
A group of students are playing outside on the
playground. One student grabs his friend’s hat and
shouts, “You can’t catch me!”
• Is this Joking, Teasing or Bullying?
Anna has been receiving the silent treatment from
a group of girls in her class. Over the past month,
each time she tries to talk to them, they ignore her.
Sometimes they turn and face the other direction, or
talk about her as if she’s not there. Anna is feeling
frustrated and upset over the way they are treating her.
She doesn’t understand why this is happening.
• Is this Joking, Teasing or Bullying?
Every morning when Claudia gets on the bus, no one will
share a seat with her. They move over or say “This seat is
taken.” Eventually, at the back of the bus she finds one.
• Is this Joking, Teasing or Bullying?
SeesawRaising awareness of bullying
and experiences had by others
# of Participants: 5-50
Age Range: 10 and up
Materials/Space Needed: A large space to move around
Instructions: Read some or all of the following questions.
Have participants go to the left side of the room if their
answer is YES, or the right side of the room if their
answer is NO. Participants cannot stay in the middle of
the room. They must choose one side.
• Have you ever been called names?
• Have you ever been teased or been the butt of the joke?
• Have you ever witnessed someone being teased?
• Have you ever been ignored or neglected at school?
• Have you ever witnessed someone being bullied before?
• Did you stand up for the person being bullied?
• Have you been bullied at school, home or work?
• Have you been the bully at school, home or work?
Processing/Debriefing:
• Any eye-openers for you as we did this activity?
• Things you did not expect?
• What is the impact of bullying?
• Does bullying have a short-term or long-term
effect on people?
• How do we change the behavior of the “bully”?
Activities
source: YMCA of Greater Houston
GLSEN
glsen.org
GLSEN is the leading national education organization
focused on ensuring safe schools for all students.
GLSEN works to address anti-LGBT behavior and
bias in schools, striving to protect students from
bullying and harassment, advancing comprehensive
safe schools laws and policies, empowering principals
to make their schools safer, and building the skills of
educators to teach respect for all people.
STOMP OUT BULLYING
stompoutbullying.org
STOMP Out Bullying™ focuses on reducing and
preventing bullying, cyberbullying, sexting and other
digital abuse, educating against homophobia, racism
and hatred, decreasing school absenteeism, and deterring
violence in schools, online and in communities across
the country. It teaches effective solutions on how to
respond to all forms of bullying; as well as educating
kids and teens in school and online, providing help for
those in need and at risk of suicide, raising awareness,
peer mentoring programs in schools, public service
announcements and social media campaigns.
1-855-790-HELP (4357)
TEENS AGAINST BULLYING
pacerteensagainstbullying.org
Created by and for teens, PACER’s Teens Against Bullying
is a place for middle and high school students to find
ways to address bullying, to take action, to be heard,
and to join an important social cause.
THE TREVOR PROJECT
thetrevorproject.org
The Trevor Project is determined to end suicide
among LGBTQ youth by providing life-saving and
life-affirming resources including a nationwide, 24/7
crisis intervention lifeline, digital community and
advocacy and educational programs that create a safe,
supportive and positive environment for everyone.
The Trevor Project Lifeline: 866-488-7386
Resource Guide
YMCA
ymca.net
A leading non-profit committed to nurturing youth as
they journey from birth to career, and our partner in
combating bullying with positive programming that
promotes character-building and instills core values.
WARNING SIGNS YOUR CHILD IS BEING BULLIED
• Be afraid of walking to/from school
• Change their usual route
• Not want to go on the school bus
• Ask you to drive them to school
• Feel ill in the mornings
• Not want to go to school/program
• Begin doing poorly in school
• Come home with clothes or other items destroyed
• Need more money than usual (keep losing money)
• Have possessions go “missing”
• Have unexplained bruises, scratches or cuts
• Begin to bully other children or siblings
• Have nightmares
• Become withdrawn
• Become aggressive and unreasonable
• Become anxious or distressed
• Attempt or threaten suicide
WHAT YOU CAN DO
Questions to ask your child:
• I’m worried about you. Are there any children at
school who may be picking on you or bullying you?
• Are there any children that tease you in a mean way?
• Are there any children who leave you out or exclude
you on purpose?
• Who do you sit with on the bus and at lunch?
Questions to ask teacher:
• How does my child get along with other students in
his/her class?
• With whom does he/she spend free time?
• Have you noticed or suspected that my child is being
bullied by other students? (when asking, give
examples i.e. not just physical)
Empower your child! Help build healthy friendships:
• Provide opportunities for your child to socialize
• Set up an expectation of friendship
• Help them find common interests with others
For Parents
For additional information and resources on how
you can prevent and respond to bullying, please
visit stopbullying.gov
About
CHARACTERS UNITE
Characters Unite, USA Network’s award-winning
public service program, was created to address the
social injustices and cultural divides still prevalent
in our society. Inspired by USA Network’s iconic
“Characters Welcome” brand and with the support of
leading national nonprofit organizations, the ongoing
campaign is dedicated to supporting activities and
messaging that combat prejudice and intolerance while
promoting understanding and acceptance—on-air,
online, and in communities across the country.
charactersunite.com
USA NETWORK
USA Network, the leader in cable entertainment,
offers a powerful stable of dramatic, comedic and
unscripted originals in more than 102 million U.S.
homes. The network also features spectacular live
television, a dynamic portfolio of acquired series
and the best in blockbuster theatrical films and
entertainment events. A trailblazer in digital innovation
and storytelling, USA is defining, driving and setting
the industry standard for Social TV. USA is a program
service of NBCUniversal Cable Entertainment, a division
of NBCUniversal. The award-winning website is located
at usanetwork.com
YMCA OF THE USA
YMCA of the USA (Y-USA) is the national resource
office for the Y, one of the nation’s leading nonprofits
strengthening communities through youth development,
healthy living and social responsibility. Across the
United States, 2,700 Ys engage 22 million men,
women and children – regardless of age, income or
background – to nurture the potential of children
and teens, improve the nation’s health and well-
being and provide opportunities to give back and
support neighbors. Anchored in more than 10,000
communities, the Y has the long-standing relationships
and physical presence not just to promise, but to deliver,
lasting personal and social change. ymca.net
THE COMPANY
Founded in 2010 by entertainment industry veteran
Charlie Ebersol and industrialist Mike Lanigan,
The Company creates, packages and produces
groundbreaking unscripted and scripted television
programming as well as feature films. The Company’s
library of programming spans a dynamic range of
leading broadcast and cable networks, top movie
studios, and unparalleled partnerships with major
sports and entertainment brands. The Company’s
current programming includes the record-breaking
CNBC hit “The Profit,” now in its third season, and
USA’s critically acclaimed “NFL Characters Unite.”
Past credits include “The Moment” (USA Network),
“The Great Escape” (TNT), “Race to the Scene”
(REELZ) “Off the Grid: Million Dollar Manhunt”
(History), “The Wanted” (NBC) and many others.
For more information, visit TheCo.com
Special thanks to the YMCA Buffalo Niagara and its
Southtowns Family YMCA; YMCA of Greater Kansas
City; Philadelphia Freedom Valley YMCA and its
Columbia North Center; and the YMCA of Greater
Seattle and its Coal Creek Family Branch.