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United Synagogue looks to the futureTeaneck rabbi upbeat about the Conservative movement’s chances
Phil Jacobs
baltimore – Rabbi Jim Roozen o
Teaneck took a seat or a ew minutes and
took in what was oin on around him.
There were about 1,000 people. They
all seemed to be in a hurry. And the rabbi
knew exactly what their urgency was all
about.
They had athered at this city’s Marriott
Waterront Hotel to celebrate the United
Synaoue o Conservative Judaism’s
100th year, callin the biennial convention
“The Conversation o the Century.”
In recent weeks, this nation’s Jewish
community learned rom the Pew Forum’sstudy that o all the major Jewish streams,
Conservative Judaism’s afiliation numbers
were clearly decreasin most sharply.
It also has had financial problems, as
reported by the news service JTA. In its
most recent fiscal year, which ended in
June, United Synaoue raised $600,000.
That was ar better than it had done in
2011, when it raised $100,000, but still
it was well below the budeted taret o
$1.7 million. United Synaoue also lost $3
million in 2012 and $2.7 million in 2011.
Roozen, thouh, is confident that the
movement’s best days are ahead, and that
this particular biennial conerence would
be a positive turnin point.
“I think we are havin a rand
awakenin,” said Roozen, who is United
Synaoue’s chie learnin oficer. “We
must ask ourselves at this conversation
how we approach chane. And then we
must reconize that chane is ood, that
it’s not antithetical to Jewish values.”Indeed, Roozen wasn’t alone as a
chane aent.
“Over the next two days, we’ll be
questionin who we are, what we stand
or, and what we contribute to the Jewish
landscape,” Rabbi Steven Wernick,
CEO o United Synaoue, said in his
openin address. “We aspire to rewrite
our narrative rom decline to renewal,
energy, optimism, transcendence and
transormation.”
Wernick told the audience that the way
to reverse the movement’s decline in
numbers was by “afirmin three pillars
o Conservative Jewish lie: tradition,
kehillah, and renewal.”
He ured his audience to reach out to
other Jews, be they afiliated or not.
“Let’s unite on issues that matter to
all o us, whether it is the scoure o
un violence in the U.S. or social justice
matters or the environment or access and
acceptance or people with disabilities
and special needs or supportin Israel,”
Wernick said.
He invoked the memories of the
movement’s founder, Solomon Schechter,
and the civil rights activist Abraham
Joshu a Hesc hel when des cri bing the
power of renewal.
“Solomon Schechter put renewal at the
center o his vision when he created theUnited Synaoue, makin Conservative
Judaism alive to the 20th century. That
was a century ao, and now the baton has
been passed to us,” he said. “What was
new 100 years ao needs to be renewed
once aain.”
Harold Kushner, the rabbi laureate o
Temple Israel o Natick, Mass., and the
author o best-sellin works o popular
theology includin “When Bad Thins
Happen to Good People,” delivered the
keynote address at the evenin ala on
Sunday.
He lamented the loss o many o the
movement’s most promisin students, who have deec ted to other movements
or started their own nondenominational
communities.
“I don’t berude my Orthodox
colleaues the rowth o Orthodox
Judaism,” Kushner said. “I don’t berude
my Reorm colleaues the rowth o
Reorm Judaism, ueled in lare measure
by intermarriae and conversion.
“What does bother me is when the best
and brihtest o our movement leave our
synaoues. We can’t hold onto them
— that more than anythin else is what
concerns me.”
United Synaoue historically has
nurtured its teenaers throuh its popular
United Synaoue Youth proram — the
teenaers in evidence at the conerence were there or USY’s all board meetin,
held concurrently with the biennial, in the
same hotel.
For 23 years, Conservative hih school
raduates had the chance to stay in touch
with United Synaoue throuh Koach,
a proram that had a presence on man
collee campuses. Over the last ew year
thouh, undin to the proram w
reduced, and last year it was shuttered.
In its strateic plan, adopted in ear
2011, United Synaoue declared po
collee youn adults to be vital to
mission, but since then undin to th
demoraphic also has dried up.
Ater hearin Kushner speak, Rooz
elt emboldened and excited about th
uture, he said.
“The people who are here noticed
difference, a positive difference,” he sai
“Rabbi Kushner told the audience to sto
with the negativity, and instead be paof a solution, a creative solution to he
USCJ make the changes we know we nee
to make.”
Roozen said that the conerence serv
as a “pivot point” or what has to happ
not just within Conservative Judaism b
within all o American Judaism or the ne
100 years.
“We talked here about creating a Jewi
community we want,” he said. “A lot
the focus is not just about Conservati
Judaism, but how do we contribute
the whole Jewish community of Americ
What are we going to do during the ne
100 years? How do we take our commun
conversation to a much higher level. A l
of those chains that have kept us boun
up and kept us from thinking out of t box I think have been removed. We’
granted ourselves permission to think
different ways.”
Phil Jacobs is a contributing editor to the
Jewish Standard.
What does bother me is when the best and brightest of our movement
leave our synagogues. We can’t hold onto them — that more than
anything else is what concerns me.Hd KH
In this iconic picture of a civil rights march in elma, abbi braham Joshua Hesche
secon from right, marches with dr. Martin uther King, center, an other supporter
Jim ozogen
teve Wernick Harol Kushner
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Rifka Rosenwein ‘kept learning’Day of learning to honor the memory of beloved Teaneck journalist
AbgAl Kl lA
Ten years have gone by since the death o
journalist Rika Rosenwein, a young Teaneck
mother o three who shared her amily’s
joys and challenges in popu-
lar “Home Front” columns or
The New York Jewish Week.
Aside rom journalism,
the Ivy League-educated
Rosenwein loved Mishnah,
the six-section, 63-tractate
code o Jewish law that orms
the basis o the Talmud.
Once a week or 18 years, she
studied Mishnah with her
riend Judy Heicklen, who
moved to Teaneck in 2000 —
a year beore Rosenwein wasdiagnosed with cancer.
In commemoration o Rosenwein’s 10th
yahrzeit, the Drisha Institute or Jewish
Education in Manhattan will host a day o
learning dedicated to the study o Mishnah.
(For more inormation, see the box.)
“Rika studied here and was activelyengaged here,” Drisha’s ounder and
dean, Rabbi David Silber, said. “In her
memory, we want to inspire people to
take a second look at Mishnah, arguably
the most important Jewish
texts that we have in terms
o our ongoing interpretive
tradition. The study o how
Torah is interpreted over
time begins with this all-
embracing oral tradition o
the Jewish people.”
Speakers include Avraham
Walfish on “Commandment
and Control in Marriage: The
Poetics o Mishnah Kiddushin
Chapter 1,” Devora Steinmetz
on “Mishnah and Memory:An Educational Exploration,” and Eliezer
Diamond on “From Cases to Concepts: R.
Jose’s Views on Property Rights as Relected
in the Mishnah, Toseta, and Talmudim.”
Walfish has done groundbreaking work
in looking at Mishnah rom a literary
standpoint, which Silber says “makes thetexts much more accessible to the general
public. A literary approach shows it’s not
just a bunc h o laws, but has a cert ain
artistry to it. Many people think Mishnah
is dry and don’t appreciate its complexity.”
Rosenwein did appreciate it, long beore
the literary analysis approach came into
vogue. Her weekly stud ies with Heicklen
bega n in 1985 when the two women —
then casual riends living on the Upper
West Side o Manhattan — discovered
they had both bought the new vowelized
Pinchas Kehati edition o the third-century
compilation, an edition that has become
popular worldwide.
“We’d meet ater work, and it ju bloss omed,” Heick len said. “We oun
Mishnah very accessible. It’s in Hebrew
as opposed to Aramaic like the Gema
[Talmud]. It really worked or us.”
When Heicklen moved to Tokyo or thr
years in 1993, and later when she lived
London, she and Rosenwein continued the
studies by phone. Marriage and childre
careers and other obligations did not ke
them rom their learning. Neither did canc
“Even when she was diagnosed at the e
o 2001, we kept learning,” Heicklen sai
recalling that some 150 people attend
their final siyyum — a celebration marking t
What: ay of study at risa, focusig o t Misa
Why: o mark ivka osi’s 10t yarzit
When: uday, Octobr 27, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Where: risa stitut for Jis educatio, 37 wst 65t trt, 5t Floor,n York, nY 10023 | 212.595.0307
ow much: Fr ad op to t public
For more information and reservations: [email protected] or 212-595-0307
Rifka Rosenwein
ee Rosenwein e
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Health care and halachaYeshiva University
conference to lookat intersectionof medicine and Jewish law in Israel
MiM Z. WM science correspondent
From the beinnin o lie to its end,
observant Jews are overned by Jew-
ish law, or halacha. Thus the practice o
medicine in the Jewish state also is inlu-
enced by halachic principles. A day-lon
conerence, “Prescribin or a Nation:
Examinin the Interplay o Jewish Law
and Israeli Health Care,” addresses majorissues on that topic. The conerence,
hosted by the Yeshiva University Medical
Ethics Society, a student-run oraniza-
tion, is scheduled or Sunday.
“What makes Israel so unique is that
so many people workin in hospitals
are practicin Jews,” Talia Felman o
Teaneck said. Felman, a junior at YU’s
Stern Collee or Women, is institutional
outreach coordinator or MES and
serves on its board. “It’s a challene
that the Israeli overnment has [strikin
a balance] between halacha and what
needs to be done to keep the country
runnin,” she said.
Felman said that when she was a student
at the Jerusalem-based seminary Michlala
in the year ater hih school, she took amedical ethics class that stimulated her
interest in the field. “Just havin a solid
back round in halachot [ Jewish laws]
in eneral and bein exposed to Israeli
bureaucracy makes it easier to understand,
and apply, and think about these issues,”
she said.
The Medical Ethics Society does not
shy away rom controversial or complex
issues. Past conerences and events have
rappled with the interp lay o halacha
with inert ility, oran donation, modern
enetics, mental health issues, and medical
dilemmas related to the Holocaust. This
conerence, similarly, is boldly conrontin
dificult questions in health care.
“Our hope is that this year’s MES
conerence will help participants betterunderstand how halacha shapes every
aspect o our lives and provides them
with a newou nd appreciation or the
dierences and similarities o the practice
o medicine in Israel and America,”
said conerence chair Rabbi Dr. Edward
Reichman, who is associate proessoro emerency medicine at YU’s Albert
Einstein Collee o Medicine and a
mentor to the MES proram. “As Israel is
comprised o a larely Jewish population,
it presents unique challenes,” he said.
“Issues such as the practice o medicine on
Shabbat, sensitivity to the Kohen visitin a
hospital, inertility treatments, end-o-lie
decision-makin and oran donation are
but a ew o the issues or which the Israeli
medical landscape diers rom ours.”
“With health care policy in the United
States evolvin riht beore our eyes,
we are all interested to learn how Israeli
institutions tackle the same dificult
questions,” said Stern Collee senior Chana
Herzi, co-president o MES.
Proessor Yonatan Halevy, director eneral o Shaare Zedek Medical Center
in Jerusalem, will ive a keynote address,
“Runnin a Modern Hospital Accordin to
Halachah.” Shaare Zedek Medical Center
is on the cuttin ede in many medical
fields, includin inertility research and
practice, an area that has many halachic
implications. As approaches to inertility
have been developed, rabbis and doctors
have worked toether in creative ways
to sanction hih-tech methods or
conception, enablin observant Jewish
couples to overcome obstacles to ertility.
Shaare Zedek’s in vitro ertilization clinic
boasts a hih success rate or challenin
cases, enablin observant Jewish couples
to conceive within reliious parameters.
Two o the speakers, Rabbi Zvi Gluck andattorney Mark J. Kurzmann, are involved
with the oranization ZAKA (the Hebrew
acronym or Zihuy Korbanot Ason, or
Disaster Victim Identification). In Israel,
ZAKA volunteers are amon the first to
arrive at the scene o an accident, a natural
disaster, or a terrorist attack. They careully
and respectully collect remnants o victims
rom the scene, includin blood and body
tissue, in order to aord every part o the
human body a dinified burial. Because
they requently are first responders, ZAKA
volunteers also have been trained in first
aid, and some have become paramedics.
One conerence session will ocus on “ZAKA
International and the Leal Ethics Behind
Jewish End-o-Lie Rescue.”
Talia Felman, who is a biology maj
with an interest in medicine, explain
what the Medical Ethics Society has mea
to her. The oranization represents a
intersection o a number o fields, sh
said. “Sometimes they contradict an
sometimes they convere.”
“It ives a more holistic experience
she said. “I et to be exposed to issues
science, sometimes throuh the lens
philosophy, sometimes throuh the le
o law, and sometimes throuh the le
o halachah.”
Wh: peakers incluing dr. Micell caber, irecor of e srael Minisry of
heal aional Cener for nfecion Conrol; dr. Micael Frogel, presien-elecof merican Pysicians an Friens for Meicine in srael, an abbi Morecai
willig an abbi Yosef Blau of YU’s abbi saac lcanan teological eminary.
What: conference “Prescribing for a aion: xamining e nerplay of JeisLa an sraeli heal Care”
Whr: Yesiva Universiy’s wilf Campus, 500 wes 185 ree, Manaan.
Whn: unay, Ocober 20, 9 a.m. o 3 p.m.
Why: to explore e inersecion of eal care an alaca in srael
w: Pre-regisraion is require. egiser online a .yumeicaleics.com.egisraion fee ($36 per aul, $60 per couple, $10 for college suens, $5 for
ig scool suens) inclues free parking an lunc.
A ZAKA volunteer combs through the wrecked apartment in Kiryat Malachi, Is-
rael. It had been the home of three people who were killed by a rocket terrorist
fired from the nearby Gaza Strip on November 15, 2012. ossi Zelige/Fls90/J
Yeshiva College and Stern College for Women students make up the board of the Yeshiva University Medical
Ethics Society. esiv Uives
Dr. Miryam Z. Wahrman, this newspaper’s science correspondent, is a proessor o biology at
William Paterson University and author o “Brave New Judaism: When Science and Scripture
Collide.” At Mount Sinai Medical Center, she was on the team that produced the first test tube baby
in New York State. At William Paterson, she developed pioneerin underraduate and raduate
prorams in biotechnology, and more recently she developed and teaches interdisciplinary
honors classes and raduate courses and workshops in bioethics and research methods.
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Two families, one concertMusical bridge to connect generations in Emerson
Joanne Palmer
Cantor Shira Lissek, who will perorm in
concert with Arbie Orenstein at Conrea-
tion B’nai Israel in Emerson on October
28, said that her ather’s old riends can
hear his voice in hers.
That’s a neat trick. Her ather, Cantor
Leon Lissek o Teaneck, who or more
than 30 years san rom the bimah o
Conreation B’nai Amoona in St. Louis,
Mo., was one o the paradimatic voices
o his eneration, but his is a man’s voice.
Hers, clearly, is not.
The way his voice still is part o hers, just
as hers has become ever more her own —
the voice o a Jewish woman — traces the
mystery o the transmission o talent and
passion and belonin and commitmentand chane rom eneration to eneration.
And the way the concert will be a two-
amily celebration, eaturin braided
enerat ions o Lisseks and Orensteins,
shows the connections that underlie
Jewish lie in America.
Shira Lissek is a cantor at Park Avenue
Synagogue in Manhattan; in a way, it
would have been hard for her to choose
another path. Her mother, Michal Lissek,
is the daughter of Rabbi Pinchos Chazin,
who was a prominent Conservative rabbi
in Philadelphia, and the granddaughter
of Hirsch Louis Chazin, an Orthodox
cantor in Perth Amboy. And Lissek’s
father “was one of the great cantors of
his time,” she said.
Inevitably, Lissek rew up surrounded
by Jewish music, but “I never set out to be
a cantor.”
She was born in 1974; the year o her bat
mitzvah was the first year the Conservative
movement invested women as chazzanim.
“It’s a very dierent Jewish landscape
now than it was then,” she said. “I never
imained that I could be a cantor.”
There was no Conservative day school
in St. Louis durin her childhood, so she
went to a modern Orthodox school; there
she learned that a cantor’s
voice and a woman’s wereseparated by an unbrideable
chasm. Eventually, thouh,
she brided that ap.
“I set out to be a siner,”
Lissek said. “I never realized
that on this path, o opera
and musical theater, I was
buil din the resu me or a
cantor. I loved it, but there
was somethin in the opera
world t hat I wa s missin. It
wasn’t ulfillin me. I realized
that I wanted a direct and
elevated role in people’s
lives.”
A part-time job at a shul in
Brooklyn led eventually to
Park Avenue.The cantorate chaned as
Jews adapted to Americ a,
as well as to the sound o a
woman’s voice, Lissek said.
She, too, used to hear her
ather’s voice in her head
as she san. “People were
hearin my voice comin out
o my mouth, but I heard him.
Over the years, I have become
more comortable hearin
mine. The Conservative movement has worked to make room or women, and
beco me more eal ita rian , and I have
one throuh that chane as well, slowin
allowin more emininity.
“It is a challene — I want to preserve
the traditional sound o Judaism, but as a
woman I can’t imitate it.
“When I tauht a class about the Hih
Holy Days at Park Avenue, I kept playin
amazin moments rom male cantors, and
the class kept wantin to hear women.”
She played some early recordins;
the women “were sisters o cantors, or
dauhters o cantors, and they were
imitatin them. They sounded like men.”
The class ound it hard to believe, in act,
that those were women’s voices. “They
said no, that’s not what we want. We wantto hear women.”
But cantors today don’t sin only
traditional chazzanaut, she continued.
“We’re American Jews, and the sounds
that open our hearts aren’t the same
sounds that opened hearts in Europe. We
as Jews always are inspired by the sounds
around us.”
When she sins in Emerson, the pianist
will be Dr. Arbie Orenstein, who has his
own amily connections both to the shul
and to Lissek.
Orenstein — who is, among many other
things, a professor of music at Queens
College, a specialist on the life and music
of Maurice Ravel, a preconcert lecturer
for the New York Philharmonic, the
editor of the academic journal Musica Judaica, and an active and committed
synagogue member on Long Island — is
the uncle of Rabbi Debra Orenstein, who
leads B’nai Israel.
He ives concerts benefitin synaoues
— usually his own, but now his niece’s
as well — about our times a year. The
proram at this concert will be accessible,
he said; it will include Hebrew and Yiddish
melodies; works by Puccini, Mozart,
Debussy, and Schubert, as well as by
Canadian Jewish songwriter Kenny Karen;
and some Broadway and popular classics,
includin Roers and Hart’s “Bewitched,
Bothered, and Bewildered” and Irvin
Berlin’s “What’ll I Do?”
Arbie Orenstein met Shira Lissek’s ather
when the two men were on sta at CampRamah in Nyack. The acility, which or
years has been a day camp, was sleepaway
then; Orenstein, a raduate student, was
a teacher that summer, and Leon Lissek,
a cantorial student, was a waiter. The two
remained riends, and their amilies are so
close that they still travel toether.
Althouh the concert will be heimische,
relaxed, and inormal, Orenstein does not
compromise his standards. The pianos he
rents to play at such events must be ood
enouh to produce exactly the sound hdemands. Such pianos are not easy
find. They used to be available throu
Steinway, the company that makes pian
and sold them at its showroom on 57
street in Manhattan, but that showroo
is one now, Orenstein said. That was
blow. “But one o my students said that
knew a place in New Jersey,” he said. Th
was Lindeblad Piano Restoration in Pin
Brook. “As ate would have it, the ello
dealin with us was wearin a yarmulk
He was a reliious Jew. We were talkin
Torah.” As it turned out, the compan
lends pianos to reliious institution
which must pay only transportation cos
Orenstein tried all the pianos and oun
two to be acceptable. Both, thouh, we
sold beore the concert; he made anothtrip to Pine Brook, ound a third, and to
the salesman, “I’m your ood luck charm
I play them — you sell them.” The salesm
areed that i he could sell the third pian
beore the concert, he would not ship it
its new owners until aterward.
“The idea o this concert is to set Jewis
music in the context o a classical concer
Orenstein said. “It is a very nice aternoo
it ives a nice, warm, mispachadic eelin
“We’re all makin music toether.”
We’re American Jews, and the
sounds thaopen our heartsaren’t the same
sounds thaopened heart
in EuropeS LSS
Cantor Shira Lissek
Shira Lissek and her father, Cantor Leon Lissek
An afternoon of music
Who: Cantor hira Lissek will
sing, an dr. bie Orenstein will
accompany her on piano an
explain the music
What: concert featuring Jewish,
Broaway, an classical music. (n
a essert reception will follow.)
Where: Congregation B’nai srael,
53 Palisae venue, merson
When: unay, October 27, at 2 p.m.
How: eservations an information
at the shul office, (201) 265-2272, or
buy tickets at the oor.
How much: $25 per ticket
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Akiva Roth o Englewood, who had been hired this
year to teach English at Yeshiva College, was fired last
week, ater news o his 1997 conviction or lewdness.
Because o the nature o the oense o which he
was convicted, last week the Orthodox synagogues in
Englewood decided that prudence dictated that he be
asked not to show up or shul, and he agreed.
Thereore, an email went out to the members o the
shuls — Congregation Ahavath Torah, Congregation
Shomrei Emunah, the East Hill Synagogue, and
Kesher. That email soon made its way to the Internet,
where it was posted on the Failed Messiah blog.
“It is important that we respond appropriately,” the
email said. “On the one hand, with an eye towards the
protection o all; on the other hand, without jumping
to conclusions solely based upon media accounts.”
Roth, now 42, was arrested in 1997, charged withexposing himsel to pre-bar mitzvah boys at private
lessons, touching himsel and encouraging them to
do as he did. He was then a teacher at what was the
Solomon Schechter Day School o Union and Essex;
that West Orange school has been renamed the Golda
Och Academy.
The original charges were or sexual contact and
endangering the welare o a child, but Roth was
convicted o our ar less serious charges o lewdness.
He was sentenced to 10 years o probation, a sentence
that ended six years ago.
The judge who sentenced him, Barnett Homan,
allowed him to plead guilty to lewdness rather than
the more serious charges, but he is reported as having
been uncomortable with Roth. One the one hand,
Homan said, Roth was “in the lowest category or
risk o re-oense.” On the other hand, the judge said,
Roth demonstrated “a lack o appreciation or the wrongulness o his conduct.”
He went on: “Deendant is very arrogant and
continues to blame the victims,” Homan said.
Roth has worked in many Jewish institutions, mainly
Orthodox or Conservative — the Jewish Theological
Seminary, Camp Ramah, and YU. He also worked or
Hillel and AIPAC.
The rabbis who signed the email — Akiva Block
o Kesher, Menachem Genack o Shomrei Emunah,
Shmuel Goldin and Chaim Poupko o Ahavath Torah,
and Zev Reichman o East Hill — are making ew public
statements as they decide how to handle the issue,
which is complicated by the age o the charges and the
question o whether the behavior has ever recurred.
As they consider their next steps, they are joined by
Rabbi Fred Elias o Kol HaNeshamah, a Conservative
shul in Englewood; Roth would sometimes go there as
well as to the Orthodox ones.“The community is discussing the matter and
determining the best path to take,” Goldin, who is
also the immediate past president o the Rabbinical
Council o America, said. “We are also researching
whether there are any current issues.
“We have to be sensitive both to the community and
to Akiba,” he said.
In their email, the rabbis acknowledged the
tightrope. “May Hashem grant us the wisdom to deal
with this and ot her complex situat ions properly,”
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Barnert gets grant to offer ‘Taste of Judaism’Lois GoLdrich
When the three-session Taste o Judaism
program was created in the early 1990s,leaders o the URJ — then the Union o
American Hebrew Congrega-
tions — already had a learn-
ing program in place, said
Rabbi Elyse Frishman, reli-
gious leader o Barnert Tem-
ple in Franklin Lakes.
Frishman, one o the
original curriculum writers
or Taste o Judaism,
noted that the program
was created “in the midst
o our successul 16-week
Introduction to Judaism
course, designed or anyone
who wou ld lik e to have
a semester’s worth o engagement in
understanding Judaism more clearly.”The course appealed to both Jews and
non-Jews, she said, drawing in those
who were interested in learning more
about their own religion along with those
exploring the possibility o conversion.
Still, Frishman said, movement leaders
ound that there were many people
interested in learning more, “but not
interested in a 16-week course.”
As a result, URJ created the new, shorterprogram. According to the organization,
since 1994 more than
100,000 people have
participated in this course.
This year, the Reorm group
has awarded grants to
congregations in 17 cities to
oer it. Barnert Temple is
among them.
“It’s an opportunity or
Jews and non-Jews alike to
explore the core principles
o Judaism and discern how
— i they’re Jewish — it could
be more meaningul; and —
i they’re not — then at the
very least to gain a deeper understanding
o what Judaism is,” she said. And, sheadded, a non-Jew involved in a relationship
with a Jew can learn “how to integrate
comortably with that person’s heritage
and amily.”
Frishman has been teaching the course
since its inception, both at Barnert and
beo re that at the Reor m Templ e o
Suern, now part o Beth Haverim Shir
Shalom in Mahwah. She has taught it three
times at Barnert but “it’s been a whilesince we oered it here,” she said. Each
session lasts about two hours and explores
one o the three themes highlighted in the
program: Jewish spirituality, ethics, and
community values.
Recalling the creation o the program,
Frishman said that at the outset, the URJ
invited a handul o rabbis in the area to
create sample curricula. She was one o
those rabbis
“It emerged that there were a lot o
dierent ways to approach these three
topics,” she said. “It was clear that rabbis
should have some leeway in designing the
curriculum. Our samples were [sent out]
to help others.”
The rabbi said that over the years, the
makeup o the classes has varied.“This time we have 15 people,” she
said, pointing out that the classes, to be
held throughout Oc tober, already have
begu n. “O those, about one-t hird are
members o the congregation, including
some new members.”
“Each time, the balance has bee
dierent,” she said. “Once it was almo
exclusively composed o people ro
outside the congregation who welooking into Judaism or personal reason
Some three or our later converted.
“This time we have our youn
couples, three o whom are in interai
relationships and looking to understan
what role Judaism should play in the
lives,” Frishman said. Another coupl
older and already married, is exploring th
possibility o conversion or the non-Jewi
spouse. Still another couple, longstandin
members o the congregation, are “ju
interested in learning more.”
The course, she said, already inspire
one participant to go urther and enroll
the synagogue’s adult confirmation clas
“This is a gateway oering, a very low
barrier class,” she said. “It’s very easy
walk into, with no obligations. Just shoup.”
Participants are given cards on which
write down any questions they have abo
Judaism, and Frishma n promises the
that by the end o the third session, all
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Double dose of Torah talkMaking book on Fair Lawn rabbi’s weekly radio and bimah discourses
JOANNE PALMER
Most pulpit rabbis have to worry about
only one d’var Torah each week. That, of
course, is the sermon they will deliver on
Shabbat, generally based on the weekly
Bible reading.
Rabbi Benjamin Yudin of Fair Lawn
has double that responsibility. Not only
does he speak from the bimah of the
shul he has led since 1969, Congregation
Shomrei Torah, every Shabbat morning,
but every Friday morning at 8:15 he also
gives another 15-minute d’var Torah from
his electronic bimah, 91.9 FM, during the
radio show called JM in the AM.
And he’s been doing it for 35 years — he
has missed only ive weeks during that
time.Now, Mosaica Press has gathered 52
of those broadcasts — a year’s worth of
parashiot —into a book, “Rabbi Yudin on
the Parsha.”
Although of course he talks about
the same parashah in shul and on the
air, Yudin does not give the same talk in
both places. The text is the same, but the
audience is not.
“Over the years, the listening
audience has become very diverse,”
Yudin said. “It’s not like going into a
classroom, where more often than
not your students are going to be
homogenous. This audience is not.”
He has some idea of who this
audience is because listeners often
approach him. “People stop me,and they’ll say thank you,” he said.
The range of Jewish background
and education spanned by Yudin’s
listeners is both an intellectual
challenge and a reward for him, he
said. “I hate stereotypes, but the
truth is that there are many Jews,
listeners, in Pompton Lakes and
Franklin Lakes who do not have a
sophisticated Jewish education. At
the same time, there is Lakewood.
Many residents there do have a
sophisticated Jewish education. And
I also reach Brooklyn, and Monsey,
and each has a completely different mix.
“It’s an incredible challenge to ind
something that will not be so basic that
the more educated community will turn itoff, or too advanced that the others will.”
There is also the question of vocabulary.
“Sometimes I must translate words for
those who don’t understand — but I can’t
translate too much.”
Another difference between his
in-person d’var Torah and the on-air one,
Yudin said, is its use of sources. In shul, he
can ask congregants to read the words he
quotes, so the learning can be text-based;
he must assume that most radio listeners
— who are driving, perhaps, or cleaning,
or preparing Shabbat dinner — do not have
either a text in front of them or their hands
free to turn pages. “I see it” — the radiod’var Torah — “as an opportunity to create
bonds, week in and week out, and also the
opportunity for nourishment, not just of
the body or of the soul.”
Ideally, he added, the d’var Torah can
provide the seed for a Torah discussion
at Shabbat dinner at tables where the
will for such discussions are there but the
conidence and knowledge to start them
may not be.
The book is subtitled “Tomorrow we
have the privilege.” Those are the words
Yudin used to begin his irst radio d’var
Torah, and they are the words he still uses
as an introduction every week. “Religion
can become rote,” he said. “It can become
stale. I hope and really believe that it is a
privilege, that every week it is a new idea.
A new privilege.”
Although it might seem to be dificult
to come up with two new approaches
to a Torah parashah that comes around
every year without fail, Yudin inds itexhilarating. He does not worry about
repeating himself, because he has learned
that if he is excited by an idea, the odds are
that it’s new to him.
This week’s Torah portion, Vayera,
includes the Akedah, the binding of Isaac,
the powerful story in which God at irst
demands that Abraham sacriice his son,
his “only son,” and then at the very last
moment stays the patriarch’s hand. On
Monday, Yudin was not sure how he would
approach that story, either on Wednesda when he prerecords his radio talk,
on Saturday. He already had two idea
though.
“The Rambam says that we don
have prophecy today, but one of the
principles of faith” — which Maimonid
formulated — “is to believe that prophe
existed.
“These are my words for the Rambam
thoughts,” Yudin continued. “The o
commercial said that Ivory soap was 99
percent pure. If Abraham’s prophe
was 99.4 per cen t acc ura te, the n h
never would have taken the knife and b
prepared to offer Isaac as a sacriice. Yosee from Abraham’s ability to go throug
with it that his prophecy was 100 perce
accurate.” If Abraham had thought th
God would allow him to slaughter Isaa
he would have agonized over his decisio
The other idea, also new to him th
year, was “that the Torah goes out of
way to tell us that the Akedah happen
on the third day. The rabbis point out th
had he done it immediately, he could ha
been seen as acting out of a religious hig
And had he more time to think about it,
wouldn’t have done it.”
On Sunday, Fair Lawn’s mayor, Joh
Cosgrove, issued a proclamation honori
Yudin’s book, and presented it to him
a book signing and breakfast at the shu
More than 150 people were there, listeninas Nachum Segal, JM in the AM’s ho
and Shevi Yudin, the rabbi’s wife, talk
with both respect and admiration abo
Benjamin Yudin. Shevi Yudin told stori
about her encounters with people wh
wanted to know if she was married
“Rabbi Yudin from the radio show.”
And Rabbi Yudin from the rad
show took a few minutes out from th
celebration to think about the next week
parashah.
It’s an incredibl
challenge to find something thawill not be so
basic that themore educatedcommunity wi
turn it off, or tooadvanced thathe others wil
RABBI BENJAMIN YUD
Rabbi Benjamin Yudin signs a copy of
his book for Milton Frank.
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Anat Cohen plays RocklandIsraeli clarinetist and her quartet headline Chazen Jazz Concert
AbigAil Klein leichmAn
“I always try to surround mysel with music
and be part o as many projects as I can,”
says award-winning Israeli jazz clarinet-
ist and saxophonist Anat Cohen. She and
her eponymous quartet will headline the
annual Chazen Jazz Concert at Rockland
Community College’s Cultural Arts Center
on October 26 at 8 p.m.
Pianist Bruce Barth, guitar player Howard
Alden, Joe Martin on bass, and Daniel Free-
man on drums will back her. “We’ll have
un,” promises Cohen, whose appearance inRockland was arranged by special request o
sponsors Jerry and Simona Chazen.
Cohen stole a ew minutes to speak by
phone rom her Manhattan home during a
week when she was jetting to perormances
in several cities in Caliornia and Italy.
She regularly plays such top music ven-
ues as Jazz at Lincoln Center and the Vil-
lage Vanguard, has been voted Clarinetist
o the Year six years in a row by the Jazz
Journalists Associati on, and was named
2012’s and 2013’s Multi-Reeds Player o
the Year.
It is not easy to pinpoint Cohen’s musi-
cal style. Inluenced by the international
musicians with whom she learned at
Berklee College o Music in Boston, she
plays a unique blend o Brazilian choro
and samba, classic New Orleans jazz, and
swing, tinged with a hint o klezmer.
“Clarinet is oten associated with cer-
tain genres, like swing or olk music,” she
said. “I combine the old and new, using
the clarinet as an expressive tool and not
in one genre. I’m just happy that peopleare drawn to what I do.
“It’s a gradual process o adding things
to my repertoire. Just collaborating with
a new musician is enough to bring a new
subtle lavor to my work.”
Earlier this year, New York Times colum-
nist Joe Nocera described Cohen as “a ter-
rific musician, luid, ull-throated, with a
knack or creating beautiully crated, even
eloquent solos.”
In addition to her quartet, Cohen oten
makes appearances and recordings as a
trio with her older brother, saxophonist
Yuval Cohen, and her younger brother,
trumpeter Avishai Cohen. The three sib-
lings got their start in the Jaa Music Con-
servatory in their native Israel, and each
successully auditioned or Berklee’s trav-
eling representative in Tel Aviv. Cohen also
played tenor saxophone in the Israeli Air
Force band or her military service.
The Cohen siblings’ ourth collabora-
tive album, “Tightrope,” was released this
week. “We played at a sold-out concert
at Carnegie Hall in February and we will be playing in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, in
November,” Anat Cohen said. “When we
play together, it augments the experience
immensely.”
Albums eaturing Cohen as a bandleader
include “Place and Time,” named one o
All About Jazz-New York’s Best Debut
Albums o 2005; “Noir” and “Poetica”
(2007); “Notes From The Village” (2008);
“Clarinetwork” (2010); and “Claroscuro”
(2012), which takes its title rom the
Spanish word describing the play o lig
and shade.
Following her Rockland gig, she
scheduled to appear in Knoxville, Tenne
see, and she plans to be at NJPAC in Ne
ark on November 7.
At the Chazen concert, the JCC’s awa
or lietime achievement in the arts is
be bestowed on jazz pianist George We
ounder o the Newport Jazz Festival an
the New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Fes
val, among other outdoor music events
“George Wein created unique, lasti
estivals that have really let their mark the American popular music scene,” JC
Rockland CEO David Kirschtel said. “He
truly a visionary in the business. The JC
is proud to honor him and that he will jo
us or this exciting jazz concert.”
Tickets to the concert, available ro
www.jcc rockland.org, cost $25 apiec
Patrons who pay $75 will receive pr
erred reserved seating and are invit
to a private dairy dessert reception o
lowing the concert.
Cohen’s musical style is a blend o infuences rom samba to jazz to klezmer.
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AbigAil Klein leichmAn
A trip to the lorist three years ago inspired
Pro. Dennis Klein to ound the Fair TradeTeaneck Steering Committee, which has
organized its third annual Fair Trade Sab-
bath series o events to mark national Fair
Trade Month in October.
Among the five houses o
worship participating over
the next ew weeks are two
synagogues, Congregation
Beth Sholom and Temple
Emeth. Fair Trade Sabbath
is intended to unite religious
congregations in support
o air wages, sustainable
arming methods, and the
abolition o child slave labor.
With its origins dating
to post-World War II, the
air trade movement originally was acharitable eort championed by religious
organizations. Today, the movement
encourages people to buy such products
as coee, tea, sugar, and clothing only i
those particular items are socially and
commercially sustainable products.
Such products should be chosen in
place o commodities that may harm the
environment, the economy, communities,
and disadvantaged people.“Fair Trade Teaneck’s decision to
convene Fair Trade Sabbath observances
during Fair Trade Month recalls the
international movement’s
origins in organized religion,”
said Klein, a human rights
activist who directs the
master’s degree program
in Holocaust and genocide
studies at Kane University.
“They remind us o our aith
in dedicated hard work to
achieve a measure o justice
or the most vulnerable and
marginalized among us.”
His inspiration came when
he walked into Tiger Lily,
a Teaneck lorist shop, Klein said. Thestore’s owner, Tim Blunk, had a display
about air-trade lowers on his counter. “I
asked him about it, and he struck me as
extremely knowledgeable and committed
to the project,” Klein said. “He really
tapped a nerve or me.”
Blunk became a member o the steering committee that Klein put together.
His goal was to leverage the Teaneck
community’s long-time reputation or
civic consciousness into practical support
o air trade.
At Beth Sholom, at 10 a.m. on October
19, Rabbi Joel Pitkowski will speak ro
the pulpit about air trade in the conte
o environmental sustainability. Th
service will be ollowed by a kiddush noon eaturing certified air-trade item
On Sunday, October 20, Beth Sholom w
sponsor a program on the environment
“I have been involved in Fair Trad
Teaneck since I got here two and a ha
years ago,” Pitkowski said. “For me, it
a wonderul way to express Jewish valu
o caring or our ellow human beings an
the environment, and having those valu
expressed in how we live every day.”
When Pitkowski came to Beth Sholo
among his first actions was switching th
“oficial” shul treat rom Hershey Kisses
air-trade chocolate. It was “a simple w
to illustrate the idea,” he said.
“One o the beautiul notions o Judais
is that it has something to say abo
everything we do — including what we ea what we wear, and how we interact wi
the people who make our ood and wi
the environment that God created or us
he added.
Temple Emeth will observe Fair Tra
Prof. Dennis Klein
see Fair trade page
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ern New Jersey’s young lead
ership group, eNgageNJ, will
walk with Team Sharsheretin the Making Strides
Against Breast Cancer Walk in Manhattan on Sunday,
October 20.
To walk with eNgageNJ, go to Sharsheret’s website,
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called Making Strides Against Breast Cancer NYC Walk,
and register to walk with Team Sharsheret. All are wel
come to join the group o young leaders, 22 to 30 years
old, who plan to meet at 8 a.m. in Central Park at the
69th Street and 5th Avenue entrance. Call Kim at (201)
820-3936 or email [email protected].
Fort Lee shul dedicationOn Sunday, October 20, at 9:45 a.m., the Young Israel
o Fort Lee will dedicate its new building at 1610
Parker Ave. Participants include Fort Lee Mayor Mark
Sokolich; Rabbi Shmuel Goldin, honorary president o
the Rabbinical Council o America and leader o Con
gregation Ahavat Torah in Englewood; Paul Glasser,
senior director o Institutional Advancement o the
Orthodox Union; and Rabbi Neil Winkler o the Young
Israel o Fort Lee; and shul leaderss.
The new acility, the “Ulo and Ethel Barad Build
ing,” is named ater its donors. Their son, Gerald, willspeak at the event in memory o his parents, who
were longtime members and contributors. An open
house will be held rom 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., ollowing
the dedication.
The original building, erected in 1980, was demol
ished nearly three years ago to make way or a much
larger, twoloor acility to serve its 120 amilies. The
new handicappedaccessibile structure includes
an elevator that runs automatically on Shabbat, ull
kitchen, reception hall, main sanctuary and smaller
beit midrash or weekly services.
Emunah honors leadersWomen in the community who head chessed com
mittees in local shuls will be honored at Emunah’s
Kallah Tea on this Shabbat, October 19, 435 WarwickAve., Teaneck. Nechama Price, on the aculty at Stern
College in the Bible and Judaic studies departments
since 2004 and a recent graduate o the first class o
the American branch o Nishmat’s Yoetzet Halacha
program, will discuss “Strong or Weak? Women in
the Tanach.”
The honorees include rom Congregation Arzei
Darom, Valerie Levin; Bais Medrash o Bergen County,
Michelle Wasserlau; Beth Aaron, Toby Feder; Congre
gation Beth Abraham, Tammy Greenberg and Tsipi
Gurell; Congregation Bnai Yeshurun, Betty Kay and
Ora Parmett; Congregation Ahavat Shalom, Lizzie
Zimmer Farberwitz; Keter Torah, Estee Kirsch; Con
gregation Ohr HaTorah, Elissa Hochbaum; Congre
gation Rinat Yisrael, Yael Davidovics; Congregation
Shaarei Orah, Malka Jachter; Congregation Shaaarei
Tefillah, Audra Lichter and Terri Normand; Young
Israel o Teaneck, Marsha Friedman, Devorah Schatz,Robin Mendelson, and Hadassah Weinberger; and
Zichron Mordechai, Rhonda Leibowitz.
For inormation, email [email protected].
AMIT dinnerat Chelsea PiersChana and Daniel Shields o Teaneck will be honored
at AMIT’s annual dinner on Sunday, November 10, at
Pier Sixty Chelsea Piers in New York City at 5:30 p.m.
The evening will also pay tribute to the memory o
Esther Semmelman, Chana’s sister, who also lived in
Teaneck. Rabbi Shai Piron, the minister o educationor the State o Israel, is the special guest.
Hundreds o AMIT riends and supporters are
expected to attend. All proceeds will benefit the AMIT
Network o schools and programs throughout Israel,
which in recent years has grown to encompass more
than 26,000 students rom kindergarten through
junior college.
The dinner will also honor Ina and David Tropper
o Riverdale, N.Y., and Jill and Yoni Ellman o New York
City. Event chairs are ormer dinner honorees Stacey
and David Kanbar o New York City. Among the dinner
cochairs are Robin and Shukie Grossman o Teaneck,
Jacques Semmelman o Teaneck, and Alex Thurm o
Englewood.
Chana Shields and her amily have been deeply
rooted in AMIT or generations. Her grandmother,
Shirley Halpern, was an active member o her Miz
rachi chapter in Brooklyn, while her mother, MarciaHolzer, was involved on both the national and local
levels and is a past national board member, as was her
late sister, Esther Semmelman. Chana’s aunt, Norma
Holzer, was also a past national president. Chana was
a member o the inaugural NewGen board, involved in
the initiative to bring a younger generation into AMIT,
served as recording secretary, and is the national vice
president o marketing.
Dan Shields is also dedicated to Jewish communal
lie. Growing up in Toronto, his amily was involved
in organizations ranging rom the local Jewish day
schools, yeshivot, and synagogues to Bikur Cholim
and Mizrachi. He served as treasurer o the Lower
Merion Synagogue in Pennsylvania and as a trustee o
Yeshivat Noam, while also being active at Congrega
tion Keter Torah.
Esther Holzer Semmelman grew up in Monsey, N.Y.,
and was a lawyer. She worked at the UJA Federationand was a member o the inaugural NewGen board,
later serving on the national board. She and her hus
band, Jacques, and their two children, were active in
many communal organizations including their shul,
Rinat Yisrael, Shalva, Keren Or, Moriah, and the Torah
Academy o Bergen County.
Esther died in 2012, ater a 10year battle with can
cer. The Art Project at the AMIT Beatrice and Irving
Stone Meysharim School in Shoham, Israel, is dedi
cated in her memory.
For inormation on the dinner call (212) 477-4725.
Daniel and Chana Shields
CourtesyAmit
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A house dividedM
uch has been said and
written in the last two
weeks about the new
Pew Research Center
survey, and its disturbin portrait o
the state o American Jewry.
No stream has reason to crow.
Attrition alicts all lavors o Juda-
ism — even the so-called secular, espe-
cially when we actor in the number
o Jewish parents who say they are
not raisin their children “as Jewish
— either by reliion or aside rom reli-
ion,” in the survey’s own words. In
Orthodoxy’s case, where the picture
appears to be less bleak, the num-
bers m ay be unortunately skewed, because virtua lly all the Orthodox
interviewed were rom Brooklyn,
Monsey, and Lakewood — solid bas-
tions o charedi Judaism, but not rep-
resentative o more liberal Orthodox
enclaves.
Amon the comments, press
releases, speeches, articles, and
sound bites that inundated us in the
wake o the Pew results, the words o
two Orthodox rabbis stand out. The
first is Rabbi Shmuel Goldin o Con-
reat ion Ahavath Torah in Enle-
wood. “We are all in this toether,”
he told our reporter Lois Goldrich
(“Local rabbis talk about the Pew sur-
vey,” Oct. 11, 2013). “We need to find a
way to reach out to those beyond our
ranks and boundaries, and do a bet-
ter job within our ranks, to touch both
minds and hearts.”
I we are to reverse the trend lon
observed and yet aain confirmed by
this new survey, we need to set aside
our ractionalism and our actional-
ism. We need to eschew triumpha-lism and embrace collaboration. We
need to aree to disaree on matters
o observance and ideology, and ocus
instead on our common commitment
to preservin the American Jewish
uture. The best minds rom every
corner o Jewish lie need to sit at the
same table, and come up with ways to
fix that which clearly is very broken.
This brins us to the second voice
that stands out — that o Eliyahu Fink,
rabbi o the Pacific Jewish Center/The
Shul on the Beach in Venice, Cali.
In an article that appeared on
the website o the Orthodox weekly
the Jewish Press, Fink wrote “that
Orthodox Jews should be concerned
and make eorts to help revive non-
Orthodox Judaism....Orthodox Juda-
ism is not oin to maically become
the Judaism or the 89 percent o non-
Orthodox Jews. We can either wish
them well and watch them disappear,
or we can try to keep them connected
to their Jewish heritae.... [S]trenth-
enin the non-Orthodox denomina-tions is a worthy endeavor. They are
also our brothers and sisters.”
We are all in this toether. Only
toether can we shore up the house
so that it is stron enouh to remain
standin lon into the distant uture.
We lack only one thin: leaders in
all streams with the courae to stand
toether.
TuTh gd of coquc
People of the bagelversus peopleof the book
A new Pew Research poll suests that Ame
can Jewry is on its way to sleepin with d
fishes.
The surprisin part was not the nearly 6
percent intermarriae rate, or the two-thirds o Jew
who preer the dentist’s chair to attendin synaou
No, it was Christmas that ot me.
Really? One third out o all American Jews are li
in a tree? Even the most secular Jews used to definthemselves as not bein Christian. Now, accordin
the study more than a third say that belie in Jesus is n
incompatible with bein Jewish.
Basically, we’re screwed.
So where do we o rom here? Some would say i
time to book those El Al tickets, because Americ
Jewry has no uture. B
this is a sel-deeatin ar
ment. Israel needs a stro
American Jewish comm
nity or its basic surviv
All you have to do is look
tiny diaspora communiti
that were once robust, li
the UK, where a tsunam
o anti-Israel sentiment h
exploded, to know the pri
paid or overseas commuties that bein to disappea
Others miss anti-Sem
tism. America is simply t
open a society or Jews not to blend in to the point
oblivion. Both Spinoza and Sartre arued that wi
out people to hate us we Jews will be no more. Wh
we need is some ood old ashion poroms to keep
committed.
I find this the most oensive arument o all, not on
because it arues that Nazis can be credited with Jewi
identity but rather because it’s simply not worth payi
Shmuley Boteach became the first non-Christian to
ever win the London Times “Preacher o the Year”
competition and served as host o “The Shmuley Show
on the Oprah and Friends Radio Network. Follow him
on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.
Rabbi
Shmuley Boteach
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The four Cs“Communication, conciliation, com-
promise, and cooperation.” That, a
sadly underrated Gerald R. Ford tolda joint session o Conress three days
ater becomin the “accidental presi-
dent” in Auust 1974, was his “motto
or Conress.”
A year earlier, at his conormation
hearings to replace Spiro T. Agnew as
vice president, Ford said that “com-
promise is the oil that makes govern-
ments go.”
To newly elected leislators, he
would oten quote Thomas Huxley,
“who said a century ao: ‘Sit down
beore acts as a little child, be pre -
pared to ive up every preconceived
notion — or you shall learn nothin.’”
As o this writin, New Jersey
voters had yet to choose their new
senator. As o this readin, the win-
ner likely has taken the oath o ofice
and is beinnin his on-the-jobtrainin.
While it is as yet unclear whether
that person is Corey Booker or Steve
Lonean, it is very clear what are the
issues that our new senator must
help address.
Perhaps the biest issue is how
he can help the Senate — and the
Conress as a whole — end the divi-
sive political bickerin that brouht
overnment to a standstill over the
last several years and inhibited the
nation’s economic recovery and
rowth, and bein the process o le-
islatin or the public ood.
In Wednesday’s race, the lines
were clear ly drawn . A moder ate
liberal Democrat aced a conserva-
tive libertarian Republican. The two
men were as distinuishable as noonis rom midniht. The business o
overnin, however, is not the same
as the business o runnin or ofice.
Our new senator now represents all
the people o this state — those who
voted or him, those who voted or
his opponent, those who did not
vote at all, and those who were not
eliible to vote. He is not a candidate,
but a senator, and that is how he
must approach his new task.
Our nation’s reatness has been
diminished by the rain seas o ran-
cor, discord, partisanship, and dis-
trust. We pray that our new senator
plunes himsel instead into the our
Cs o Gerald Ford.
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the price. I only dead Jews et to remain afiliated, what’s
the point?
Others find in this catastrophic study the ultimate vindi-
cation o Orthodoxy, the only part o the community that
is rowin rather than vanishin. But as an Orthodox Jew
who has always lived amon the non-Orthodox, I take scant
comort in the arument that only insularity and sel-het-toization can perpetuate our tradition.
Rather, what’s needed, both or Orthodox and secu-
lar Jews, is an immediate proram to make all Jewish day
schools ree, just as Birthriht is. Jewish education is the
only uarantor o Jewish identity. We are not the people
o the bael. We are the people o the book. An extreme,
draconian interpretation o separation o church and state
in the United States makes it impossible or a dollar o our
tax money to o to parochial schools, even or their secular
departments. America is alone amon developed counties
o the world in penalizin parents who want to ive their
children a values-based reliious education. We have to
fiht this politically tooth and nail. I AIPAC can et 12,000
Jews toether to support Israel, then a similarly well-run
political lobby can brin even reater numbers to pressure
the overnment to pass leislation to und the secular cur-
riculum o parochial schools.
The rest o the money should be provided by creatin a iant superund that makes rants o approximately
$10,000 per student per annum toward the cost o Jewish
day schools, whatever the economic status o the parents.
The money can and must be raised.
Endorsin the centrality o Jewish education, Torah study,
and mitzvah observance also means puttin an end to an
emphasis on Jewish culture as a means o instillin identity.
For a eneration American Jew