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    United Synagogue looks to the futureTeaneck rabbi upbeat about the Conservative movement’s chances

    Phil Jacobs

    baltimore – Rabbi Jim Roozen o 

    Teaneck took a seat or a ew minutes and

    took in what was oin on around him.

    There were about 1,000 people. They

    all seemed to be in a hurry. And the rabbi

    knew exactly what their urgency was all

    about.

    They had athered at this city’s Marriott

    Waterront Hotel to celebrate the United

    Synaoue o Conservative Judaism’s

    100th year, callin the biennial convention

    “The Conversation o the Century.”

    In recent weeks, this nation’s Jewish

    community learned rom the Pew Forum’sstudy that o all the major Jewish streams,

    Conservative Judaism’s afiliation numbers

     were clearly decreasin most sharply.

    It also has had financial problems, as

    reported by the news service JTA. In its

    most recent fiscal year, which ended in

     June, United Synaoue raised $600,000.

    That was ar better than it had done in

    2011, when it raised $100,000, but still

    it was well below the budeted taret o 

    $1.7 million. United Synaoue also lost $3

    million in 2012 and $2.7 million in 2011.

    Roozen, thouh, is confident that the

    movement’s best days are ahead, and that

    this particular biennial conerence would

     be a positive turnin point.

    “I think we are havin a rand

    awakenin,” said Roozen, who is United

    Synaoue’s chie learnin oficer. “We

    must ask ourselves at this conversation

    how we approach chane. And then we

    must reconize that chane is ood, that

    it’s not antithetical to Jewish values.”Indeed, Roozen wasn’t alone as a

    chane aent.

    “Over the next two days, we’ll be

    questionin who we are, what we stand

    or, and what we contribute to the Jewish

    landscape,” Rabbi Steven Wernick,

    CEO o United Synaoue, said in his

    openin address. “We aspire to rewrite

    our narrative rom decline to renewal,

    energy, optimism, transcendence and

    transormation.”

    Wernick told the audience that the way

    to reverse the movement’s decline in

    numbers was by “afirmin three pillars

    o Conservative Jewish lie: tradition,

    kehillah, and renewal.”

    He ured his audience to reach out to

    other Jews, be they afiliated or not.

    “Let’s unite on issues that matter to

    all o us, whether it is the scoure o 

     un violence in the U.S. or social justice

    matters or the environment or access and

    acceptance or people with disabilities

    and special needs or supportin Israel,”

    Wernick said.

    He invoked the memories of the

    movement’s founder, Solomon Schechter,

    and the civil rights activist Abraham

     Joshu a Hesc hel when des cri bing the

    power of renewal.

    “Solomon Schechter put renewal at the

    center o his vision when he created theUnited Synaoue, makin Conservative

     Judaism alive to the 20th century. That

     was a century ao, and now the baton has

     been passed to us,” he said. “What was

    new 100 years ao needs to be renewed

    once aain.”

    Harold Kushner, the rabbi laureate o 

    Temple Israel o Natick, Mass., and the

    author o best-sellin works o popular

    theology includin “When Bad Thins

    Happen to Good People,” delivered the

    keynote address at the evenin ala on

    Sunday.

    He lamented the loss o many o the

    movement’s most promisin students, who have deec ted to other movements

    or started their own nondenominational

    communities.

    “I don’t berude my Orthodox

    colleaues the rowth o Orthodox

     Judaism,” Kushner said. “I don’t berude

    my Reorm colleaues the rowth o 

    Reorm Judaism, ueled in lare measure

     by intermarriae and conversion.

    “What does bother me is when the best

    and brihtest o our movement leave our

    synaoues. We can’t hold onto them

    — that more than anythin else is what

    concerns me.”

    United Synaoue historically has

    nurtured its teenaers throuh its popular

    United Synaoue Youth proram — the

    teenaers in evidence at the conerence were there or USY’s all board meetin,

    held concurrently with the biennial, in the

    same hotel.

    For 23 years, Conservative hih school

     raduates had the chance to stay in touch

     with United Synaoue throuh Koach,

    a proram that had a presence on man

    collee campuses. Over the last ew year

    thouh, undin to the proram w

    reduced, and last year it was shuttered.

    In its strateic plan, adopted in ear

    2011, United Synaoue declared po

    collee youn adults to be vital to

    mission, but since then undin to th

    demoraphic also has dried up.

    Ater hearin Kushner speak, Rooz

    elt emboldened and excited about th

    uture, he said.

    “The people who are here noticed

    difference, a positive difference,” he sai

    “Rabbi Kushner told the audience to sto

     with the negativity, and instead be paof a solution, a creative solution to he

    USCJ make the changes we know we nee

    to make.”

    Roozen said that the conerence serv

    as a “pivot point” or what has to happ

    not just within Conservative Judaism b

     within all o American Judaism or the ne

    100 years.

    “We talked here about creating a Jewi

    community we want,” he said. “A lot

    the focus is not just about Conservati

     Judaism, but how do we contribute

    the whole Jewish community of Americ

    What are we going to do during the ne

    100 years? How do we take our commun

    conversation to a much higher level. A l

    of those chains that have kept us boun

    up and kept us from thinking out of t box I think have been removed. We’

     granted ourselves permission to think

    different ways.”

     Phil Jacobs is a contributing editor to the

     Jewish Standard.

    What does bother me is when the best and brightest of our movement 

     leave our synagogues. We can’t hold onto them — that more than

    anything else is what concerns me.Hd KH

    In this iconic picture of a civil rights march in elma, abbi braham Joshua Hesche

    secon from right, marches with dr. Martin uther King, center, an other supporter

    Jim ozogen

    teve Wernick Harol Kushner

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    Rifka Rosenwein ‘kept learning’Day of learning to honor the memory of beloved Teaneck journalist

    AbgAl Kl lA

    Ten years have gone by since the death o 

     journalist Rika Rosenwein, a young Teaneck

    mother o three who shared her amily’s

     joys and challenges in popu-

    lar “Home Front” columns or

    The New York Jewish Week.

    Aside rom journalism,

    the Ivy League-educated

    Rosenwein loved Mishnah,

    the six-section, 63-tractate

    code o Jewish law that orms

    the basis o the Talmud.

    Once a week or 18 years, she

    studied Mishnah with her

    riend Judy Heicklen, who

    moved to Teaneck in 2000 —

    a year beore Rosenwein wasdiagnosed with cancer.

    In commemoration o Rosenwein’s 10th

    yahrzeit, the Drisha Institute or Jewish

    Education in Manhattan will host a day o 

    learning dedicated to the study o Mishnah.

    (For more inormation, see the box.)

    “Rika studied here and was activelyengaged here,” Drisha’s ounder and

    dean, Rabbi David Silber, said. “In her

    memory, we want to inspire people to

    take a second look at Mishnah, arguably

    the most important Jewish

    texts that we have in terms

    o our ongoing interpretive

    tradition. The study o how

    Torah is interpreted over

    time begins with this all-

    embracing oral tradition o 

    the Jewish people.”

    Speakers include Avraham

    Walfish on “Commandment

    and Control in Marriage: The

    Poetics o Mishnah Kiddushin

    Chapter 1,” Devora Steinmetz

    on “Mishnah and Memory:An Educational Exploration,” and Eliezer

    Diamond on “From Cases to Concepts: R.

     Jose’s Views on Property Rights as Relected

    in the Mishnah, Toseta, and Talmudim.”

    Walfish has done groundbreaking work

    in looking at Mishnah rom a literary

    standpoint, which Silber says “makes thetexts much more accessible to the general

    public. A literary approach shows it’s not

     just a bunc h o laws, but has a cert ain

    artistry to it. Many people think Mishnah

    is dry and don’t appreciate its complexity.”

    Rosenwein did appreciate it, long beore

    the literary analysis approach came into

     vogue. Her weekly stud ies with Heicklen

     bega n in 1985 when the two women —

    then casual riends living on the Upper

    West Side o Manhattan — discovered

    they had both bought the new vowelized

    Pinchas Kehati edition o the third-century

    compilation, an edition that has become

    popular worldwide.

    “We’d meet ater work, and it ju bloss omed,” Heick len said. “We oun

    Mishnah very accessible. It’s in Hebrew

    as opposed to Aramaic like the Gema

    [Talmud]. It really worked or us.”

    When Heicklen moved to Tokyo or thr

    years in 1993, and later when she lived

    London, she and Rosenwein continued the

    studies by phone. Marriage and childre

    careers and other obligations did not ke

    them rom their learning. Neither did canc

    “Even when she was diagnosed at the e

    o 2001, we kept learning,” Heicklen sai

    recalling that some 150 people attend

    their final siyyum — a celebration marking t

    What: ay of study at risa, focusig o t Misa

    Why: o mark ivka osi’s 10t yarzit

    When: uday, Octobr 27, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m.

    Where: risa stitut for Jis educatio, 37 wst 65t trt, 5t Floor,n York, nY 10023 | 212.595.0307

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    Health care and halachaYeshiva University

    conference to lookat intersectionof medicine and Jewish law in Israel

    MiM Z. WM science correspondent 

    From the beinnin o lie to its end,

    observant Jews are overned by Jew-

    ish law, or halacha. Thus the practice o 

    medicine in the Jewish state also is inlu-

    enced by halachic principles. A day-lon 

    conerence, “Prescribin or a Nation:

    Examinin the Interplay o Jewish Law

    and Israeli Health Care,” addresses majorissues on that topic. The conerence,

    hosted by the Yeshiva University Medical

    Ethics Society, a student-run oraniza-

    tion, is scheduled or Sunday.

    “What makes Israel so unique is that

    so many people workin in hospitals

    are practicin Jews,” Talia Felman o 

    Teaneck said. Felman, a junior at YU’s

    Stern Collee or Women, is institutional

    outreach coordinator or MES and

    serves on its board. “It’s a challene

    that the Israeli overnment has [strikin 

    a balance] between halacha and what

    needs to be done to keep the country

    runnin,” she said.

    Felman said that when she was a student

    at the Jerusalem-based seminary Michlala

    in the year ater hih school, she took amedical ethics class that stimulated her

    interest in the field. “Just havin a solid

     back round in halachot [ Jewish laws]

    in eneral and bein exposed to Israeli

     bureaucracy makes it easier to understand,

    and apply, and think about these issues,”

    she said.

    The Medical Ethics Society does not

    shy away rom controversial or complex

    issues. Past conerences and events have

     rappled with the interp lay o halacha

     with inert ility, oran donation, modern

     enetics, mental health issues, and medical

    dilemmas related to the Holocaust. This

    conerence, similarly, is boldly conrontin 

    dificult questions in health care.

    “Our hope is that this year’s MES

    conerence will help participants betterunderstand how halacha shapes every

    aspect o our lives and provides them

     with a newou nd appreciation or the

    dierences and similarities o the practice

    o medicine in Israel and America,”

    said conerence chair Rabbi Dr. Edward

    Reichman, who is associate proessoro emerency medicine at YU’s Albert

    Einstein Collee o Medicine and a

    mentor to the MES proram. “As Israel is

    comprised o a larely Jewish population,

    it presents unique challenes,” he said.

    “Issues such as the practice o medicine on

    Shabbat, sensitivity to the Kohen visitin a

    hospital, inertility treatments, end-o-lie

    decision-makin and oran donation are

     but a ew o the issues or which the Israeli

    medical landscape diers rom ours.”

    “With health care policy in the United

    States evolvin riht beore our eyes,

     we are all interested to learn how Israeli

    institutions tackle the same dificult

    questions,” said Stern Collee senior Chana

    Herzi, co-president o MES.

    Proessor Yonatan Halevy, director eneral o Shaare Zedek Medical Center

    in Jerusalem, will ive a keynote address,

    “Runnin a Modern Hospital Accordin to

    Halachah.” Shaare Zedek Medical Center

    is on the cuttin ede in many medical

    fields, includin inertility research and

    practice, an area that has many halachic

    implications. As approaches to inertility

    have been developed, rabbis and doctors

    have worked toether in creative ways

    to sanction hih-tech methods or

    conception, enablin observant Jewish

    couples to overcome obstacles to ertility.

    Shaare Zedek’s in vitro ertilization clinic

     boasts a hih success rate or challenin 

    cases, enablin observant Jewish couples

    to conceive within reliious parameters.

    Two o the speakers, Rabbi Zvi Gluck andattorney Mark J. Kurzmann, are involved

     with the oranization ZAKA (the Hebrew

    acronym or Zihuy Korbanot Ason, or

    Disaster Victim Identification). In Israel,

    ZAKA volunteers are amon the first to

    arrive at the scene o an accident, a natural

    disaster, or a terrorist attack. They careully

    and respectully collect remnants o victims

    rom the scene, includin blood and body

    tissue, in order to aord every part o the

    human body a dinified burial. Because

    they requently are first responders, ZAKA

     volunteers also have been trained in first

    aid, and some have become paramedics.

    One conerence session will ocus on “ZAKA

    International and the Leal Ethics Behind

     Jewish End-o-Lie Rescue.”

    Talia Felman, who is a biology maj

     with an interest in medicine, explain

     what the Medical Ethics Society has mea

    to her. The oranization represents a

    intersection o a number o fields, sh

    said. “Sometimes they contradict an

    sometimes they convere.”

    “It ives a more holistic experience

    she said. “I et to be exposed to issues

    science, sometimes throuh the lens

    philosophy, sometimes throuh the le

    o law, and sometimes throuh the le

    o halachah.”

    Wh: peakers incluing dr. Micell caber, irecor of e srael Minisry of

    heal aional Cener for nfecion Conrol; dr. Micael Frogel, presien-elecof merican Pysicians an Friens for Meicine in srael, an abbi Morecai

    willig an abbi Yosef Blau of YU’s abbi saac lcanan teological eminary.

    What: conference “Prescribing for a aion: xamining e nerplay of JeisLa an sraeli heal Care”

    Whr: Yesiva Universiy’s wilf Campus, 500 wes 185 ree, Manaan.

    Whn: unay, Ocober 20, 9 a.m. o 3 p.m.

    Why: to explore e inersecion of eal care an alaca in srael

    w: Pre-regisraion is require. egiser online a .yumeicaleics.com.egisraion fee ($36 per aul, $60 per couple, $10 for college suens, $5 for

    ig scool suens) inclues free parking an lunc.

    A ZAKA volunteer combs through the wrecked apartment in Kiryat Malachi, Is-

    rael. It had been the home of three people who were killed by a rocket terrorist

    fired from the nearby Gaza Strip on November 15, 2012.  ossi Zelige/Fls90/J

    Yeshiva College and Stern College for Women students make up the board of the Yeshiva University Medical

    Ethics Society.  esiv Uives

     Dr. Miryam Z. Wahrman, this newspaper’s science correspondent, is a proessor o biology at 

    William Paterson University and author o “Brave New Judaism: When Science and Scripture

    Collide.” At Mount Sinai Medical Center, she was on the team that produced the first test tube baby 

    in New York State. At William Paterson, she developed pioneerin underraduate and raduate

     prorams in biotechnology, and more recently she developed and teaches interdisciplinary 

    honors classes and raduate courses and workshops in bioethics and research methods.

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    Two families, one concertMusical bridge to connect generations in Emerson

    Joanne Palmer

    Cantor Shira Lissek, who will perorm in

    concert with Arbie Orenstein at Conrea-

    tion B’nai Israel in Emerson on October

    28, said that her ather’s old riends can

    hear his voice in hers.

    That’s a neat trick. Her ather, Cantor

    Leon Lissek o Teaneck, who or more

    than 30 years san rom the bimah o 

    Conreation B’nai Amoona in St. Louis,

    Mo., was one o the paradimatic voices

    o his eneration, but his is a man’s voice.

    Hers, clearly, is not.

    The way his voice still is part o hers, just

    as hers has become ever more her own —

    the voice o a Jewish woman — traces the

    mystery o the transmission o talent and

    passion and belonin and commitmentand chane rom eneration to eneration.

    And the way the concert will be a two-

    amily celebration, eaturin braided

     enerat ions o Lisseks and Orensteins,

    shows the connections that underlie

     Jewish lie in America.

    Shira Lissek is a cantor at Park Avenue

    Synagogue in Manhattan; in a way, it

     would have been hard for her to choose

    another path. Her mother, Michal Lissek,

    is the daughter of Rabbi Pinchos Chazin,

     who was a prominent Conservative rabbi

    in Philadelphia, and the granddaughter

    of Hirsch Louis Chazin, an Orthodox

    cantor in Perth Amboy. And Lissek’s

    father “was one of the great cantors of 

    his time,” she said.

    Inevitably, Lissek rew up surrounded

     by Jewish music, but “I never set out to be

    a cantor.”

    She was born in 1974; the year o her bat

    mitzvah was the first year the Conservative

    movement invested women as chazzanim.

    “It’s a very dierent Jewish landscape

    now than it was then,” she said. “I never

    imained that I could be a cantor.”

    There was no Conservative day school

    in St. Louis durin her childhood, so she

     went to a modern Orthodox school; there

    she learned that a cantor’s

     voice and a woman’s wereseparated by an unbrideable

    chasm. Eventually, thouh,

    she brided that ap.

    “I set out to be a siner,”

    Lissek said. “I never realized

    that on this path, o opera

    and musical theater, I was

     buil din the resu me or a

    cantor. I loved it, but there

     was somethin in the opera

     world t hat I wa s missin. It

     wasn’t ulfillin me. I realized

    that I wanted a direct and

    elevated role in people’s

    lives.”

    A part-time job at a shul in

    Brooklyn led eventually to

    Park Avenue.The cantorate chaned as

     Jews adapted to Americ a,

    as well as to the sound o a

     woman’s voice, Lissek said.

    She, too, used to hear her

    ather’s voice in her head

    as she san. “People were

    hearin my voice comin out

    o my mouth, but I heard him.

    Over the years, I have become

    more comortable hearin 

    mine. The Conservative movement has worked to make room or women, and

     beco me more eal ita rian , and I have

     one throuh that chane as well, slowin 

    allowin more emininity.

    “It is a challene — I want to preserve

    the traditional sound o Judaism, but as a

     woman I can’t imitate it.

    “When I tauht a class about the Hih

    Holy Days at Park Avenue, I kept playin 

    amazin moments rom male cantors, and

    the class kept wantin to hear women.”

    She played some early recordins;

    the women “were sisters o cantors, or

    dauhters o cantors, and they were

    imitatin them. They sounded like men.”

    The class ound it hard to believe, in act,

    that those were women’s voices. “They

    said no, that’s not what we want. We wantto hear women.”

    But cantors today don’t sin only

    traditional chazzanaut, she continued.

    “We’re American Jews, and the sounds

    that open our hearts aren’t the same

    sounds that opened hearts in Europe. We

    as Jews always are inspired by the sounds

    around us.”

    When she sins in Emerson, the pianist

     will be Dr. Arbie Orenstein, who has his

    own amily connections both to the shul

    and to Lissek.

    Orenstein — who is, among many other

    things, a professor of music at Queens

    College, a specialist on the life and music

    of Maurice Ravel, a preconcert lecturer

    for the New York Philharmonic, the

    editor of the academic journal Musica Judaica, and an active and committed

    synagogue member on Long Island — is

    the uncle of Rabbi Debra Orenstein, who

    leads B’nai Israel.

    He ives concerts benefitin synaoues

    — usually his own, but now his niece’s

    as well — about our times a year. The

    proram at this concert will be accessible,

    he said; it will include Hebrew and Yiddish

    melodies; works by Puccini, Mozart,

    Debussy, and Schubert, as well as by

    Canadian Jewish songwriter Kenny Karen;

    and some Broadway and popular classics,

    includin Roers and Hart’s “Bewitched,

    Bothered, and Bewildered” and Irvin 

    Berlin’s “What’ll I Do?”

    Arbie Orenstein met Shira Lissek’s ather

     when the two men were on sta at CampRamah in Nyack. The acility, which or

    years has been a day camp, was sleepaway

    then; Orenstein, a raduate student, was

    a teacher that summer, and Leon Lissek,

    a cantorial student, was a waiter. The two

    remained riends, and their amilies are so

    close that they still travel toether.

    Althouh the concert will be heimische,

    relaxed, and inormal, Orenstein does not

    compromise his standards. The pianos he

    rents to play at such events must be ood

    enouh to produce exactly the sound hdemands. Such pianos are not easy

    find. They used to be available throu

    Steinway, the company that makes pian

    and sold them at its showroom on 57

    street in Manhattan, but that showroo

    is one now, Orenstein said. That was

     blow. “But one o my students said that

    knew a place in New Jersey,” he said. Th

     was Lindeblad Piano Restoration in Pin

    Brook. “As ate would have it, the ello

    dealin with us was wearin a yarmulk

    He was a reliious Jew. We were talkin

    Torah.” As it turned out, the compan

    lends pianos to reliious institution

     which must pay only transportation cos

    Orenstein tried all the pianos and oun

    two to be acceptable. Both, thouh, we

    sold beore the concert; he made anothtrip to Pine Brook, ound a third, and to

    the salesman, “I’m your ood luck charm

    I play them — you sell them.” The salesm

    areed that i he could sell the third pian

     beore the concert, he would not ship it

    its new owners until aterward.

    “The idea o this concert is to set Jewis

    music in the context o a classical concer

    Orenstein said. “It is a very nice aternoo

    it ives a nice, warm, mispachadic eelin

    “We’re all makin music toether.”

    We’re American Jews, and the

     sounds thaopen our heartsaren’t the same

     sounds thaopened heart

    in EuropeS LSS

    Cantor Shira Lissek

    Shira Lissek and her father, Cantor Leon Lissek

    An afternoon of music

    Who: Cantor hira Lissek will

    sing, an dr. bie Orenstein will

    accompany her on piano an

    explain the music

    What: concert featuring Jewish,

    Broaway, an classical music. (n

    a essert reception will follow.)

    Where: Congregation B’nai srael,

    53 Palisae venue, merson

    When: unay, October 27, at 2 p.m.

    How: eservations an information

    at the shul office, (201) 265-2272, or

    buy tickets at the oor.

    How much: $25 per ticket

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    Akiva Roth o Englewood, who had been hired this

    year to teach English at Yeshiva College, was fired last

     week, ater news o his 1997 conviction or lewdness.

    Because o the nature o the oense o which he

     was convicted, last week the Orthodox synagogues in

    Englewood decided that prudence dictated that he be

    asked not to show up or shul, and he agreed.

    Thereore, an email went out to the members o the

    shuls — Congregation Ahavath Torah, Congregation

    Shomrei Emunah, the East Hill Synagogue, and

    Kesher. That email soon made its way to the Internet,

     where it was posted on the Failed Messiah blog.

    “It is important that we respond appropriately,” the

    email said. “On the one hand, with an eye towards the

    protection o all; on the other hand, without jumping 

    to conclusions solely based upon media accounts.”

    Roth, now 42, was arrested in 1997, charged withexposing himsel to pre-bar mitzvah boys at private

    lessons, touching himsel and encouraging them to

    do as he did. He was then a teacher at what was the

    Solomon Schechter Day School o Union and Essex;

    that West Orange school has been renamed the Golda

    Och Academy.

    The original charges were or sexual contact and

    endangering the welare o a child, but Roth was

    convicted o our ar less serious charges o lewdness.

    He was sentenced to 10 years o probation, a sentence

    that ended six years ago.

    The judge who sentenced him, Barnett Homan,

    allowed him to plead guilty to lewdness rather than

    the more serious charges, but he is reported as having 

     been uncomortable with Roth. One the one hand,

    Homan said, Roth was “in the lowest category or

    risk o re-oense.” On the other hand, the judge said,

    Roth demonstrated “a lack o appreciation or the wrongulness o his conduct.”

    He went on: “Deendant is very arrogant and

    continues to blame the victims,” Homan said.

    Roth has worked in many Jewish institutions, mainly

    Orthodox or Conservative — the Jewish Theological

    Seminary, Camp Ramah, and YU. He also worked or

    Hillel and AIPAC.

    The rabbis who signed the email — Akiva Block

    o Kesher, Menachem Genack o Shomrei Emunah,

    Shmuel Goldin and Chaim Poupko o Ahavath Torah,

    and Zev Reichman o East Hill — are making ew public

    statements as they decide how to handle the issue,

     which is complicated by the age o the charges and the

    question o whether the behavior has ever recurred.

    As they consider their next steps, they are joined by

    Rabbi Fred Elias o Kol HaNeshamah, a Conservative

    shul in Englewood; Roth would sometimes go there as

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    determining the best path to take,” Goldin, who is

    also the immediate past president o the Rabbinical

    Council o America, said. “We are also researching 

     whether there are any current issues.

    “We have to be sensitive both to the community and

    to Akiba,” he said.

    In their email, the rabbis acknowledged the

    tightrope. “May Hashem grant us the wisdom to deal

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    When the three-session Taste o Judaism

    program was created in the early 1990s,leaders o the URJ — then the Union o 

    American Hebrew Congrega-

    tions — already had a learn-

    ing program in place, said

    Rabbi Elyse Frishman, reli-

     gious leader o Barnert Tem-

    ple in Franklin Lakes.

    Frishman, one o the

    original curriculum writers

    or Taste o Judaism,

    noted that the program

     was created “in the midst

    o our successul 16-week

    Introduction to Judaism

    course, designed or anyone

     who wou ld lik e to have

    a semester’s worth o engagement in

    understanding Judaism more clearly.”The course appealed to both Jews and

    non-Jews, she said, drawing in those

     who were interested in learning more

    about their own religion along with those

    exploring the possibility o conversion.

    Still, Frishman said, movement leaders

    ound that there were many people

    interested in learning more, “but not

    interested in a 16-week course.”

    As a result, URJ created the new, shorterprogram. According to the organization,

    since 1994 more than

    100,000 people have

    participated in this course.

    This year, the Reorm group

    has awarded grants to

    congregations in 17 cities to

    oer it. Barnert Temple is

    among them.

    “It’s an opportunity or

     Jews and non-Jews alike to

    explore the core principles

    o Judaism and discern how

    — i they’re Jewish — it could

     be more meaningul; and —

    i they’re not — then at the

     very least to gain a deeper understanding 

    o what Judaism is,” she said. And, sheadded, a non-Jew involved in a relationship

     with a Jew can learn “how to integrate

    comortably with that person’s heritage

    and amily.”

    Frishman has been teaching the course

    since its inception, both at Barnert and

     beo re that at the Reor m Templ e o 

    Suern, now part o Beth Haverim Shir

    Shalom in Mahwah. She has taught it three

    times at Barnert but “it’s been a whilesince we oered it here,” she said. Each

    session lasts about two hours and explores

    one o the three themes highlighted in the

    program: Jewish spirituality, ethics, and

    community values.

    Recalling the creation o the program,

    Frishman said that at the outset, the URJ

    invited a handul o rabbis in the area to

    create sample curricula. She was one o 

    those rabbis

    “It emerged that there were a lot o 

    dierent ways to approach these three

    topics,” she said. “It was clear that rabbis

    should have some leeway in designing the

    curriculum. Our samples were [sent out]

    to help others.”

    The rabbi said that over the years, the

    makeup o the classes has varied.“This time we have 15 people,” she

    said, pointing out that the classes, to be

    held throughout Oc tober, already have

     begu n. “O those, about one-t hird are

    members o the congregation, including 

    some new members.”

    “Each time, the balance has bee

    dierent,” she said. “Once it was almo

    exclusively composed o people ro

    outside the congregation who welooking into Judaism or personal reason

    Some three or our later converted.

    “This time we have our youn

    couples, three o whom are in interai

    relationships and looking to understan

     what role Judaism should play in the

    lives,” Frishman said. Another coupl

    older and already married, is exploring th

    possibility o conversion or the non-Jewi

    spouse. Still another couple, longstandin

    members o the congregation, are “ju

    interested in learning more.”

    The course, she said, already inspire

    one participant to go urther and enroll

    the synagogue’s adult confirmation clas

    “This is a gateway oering, a very low

     barrier class,” she said. “It’s very easy

     walk into, with no obligations. Just shoup.”

    Participants are given cards on which

     write down any questions they have abo

     Judaism, and Frishma n promises the

    that by the end o the third session, all

    Rabbi Elyse

    Frishman

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    course, is the sermon they will deliver on

    Shabbat, generally based on the weekly

    Bible reading.

    Rabbi Benjamin Yudin of Fair Lawn

    has double that responsibility. Not only

    does he speak from the bimah of the

    shul he has led since 1969, Congregation

    Shomrei Torah, every Shabbat morning,

     but every Friday morning at 8:15 he also

     gives another 15-minute d’var Torah from

    his electronic bimah, 91.9 FM, during the

    radio show called JM in the AM.

    And he’s been doing it for 35 years — he

    has missed only ive weeks during that

    time.Now, Mosaica Press has gathered 52

    of those broadcasts — a year’s worth of 

    parashiot —into a book, “Rabbi Yudin on

    the Parsha.”

    Although of course he talks about

    the same parashah in shul and on the

    air, Yudin does not give the same talk in

     both places. The text is the same, but the

    audience is not.

    “Over the years, the listening 

    audience has become very diverse,”

    Yudin said. “It’s not like going into a

    classroom, where more often than

    not your students are going to be

    homogenous. This audience is not.”

    He has some idea of who this

    audience is because listeners often

    approach him. “People stop me,and they’ll say thank you,” he said.

    The range of Jewish background

    and education spanned by Yudin’s

    listeners is both an intellectual

    challenge and a reward for him, he

    said. “I hate stereotypes, but the

    truth is that there are many Jews,

    listeners, in Pompton Lakes and

    Franklin Lakes who do not have a

    sophisticated Jewish education. At

    the same time, there is Lakewood.

    Many residents there do have a

    sophisticated Jewish education. And

    I also reach Brooklyn, and Monsey,

    and each has a completely different mix.

    “It’s an incredible challenge to ind

    something that will not be so basic that

    the more educated community will turn itoff, or too advanced that the others will.”

    There is also the question of vocabulary.

    “Sometimes I must translate words for

    those who don’t understand — but I can’t

    translate too much.”

    Another difference between his

    in-person d’var Torah and the on-air one,

    Yudin said, is its use of sources. In shul, he

    can ask congregants to read the words he

    quotes, so the learning can be text-based;

    he must assume that most radio listeners

    — who are driving, perhaps, or cleaning,

    or preparing Shabbat dinner — do not have

    either a text in front of them or their hands

    free to turn pages. “I see it” — the radiod’var Torah — “as an opportunity to create

     bonds, week in and week out, and also the

    opportunity for nourishment, not just of 

    the body or of the soul.”

    Ideally, he added, the d’var Torah can

    provide the seed for a Torah discussion

    at Shabbat dinner at tables where the

     will for such discussions are there but the

    conidence and knowledge to start them

    may not be.

    The book is subtitled “Tomorrow we

    have the privilege.” Those are the words

    Yudin used to begin his irst radio d’var

    Torah, and they are the words he still uses

    as an introduction every week. “Religion

    can become rote,” he said. “It can become

    stale. I hope and really believe that it is a

    privilege, that every week it is a new idea.

    A new privilege.”

    Although it might seem to be dificult

    to come up with two new approaches

    to a Torah parashah that comes around

    every year without fail, Yudin inds itexhilarating. He does not worry about

    repeating himself, because he has learned

    that if he is excited by an idea, the odds are

    that it’s new to him.

    This week’s Torah portion, Vayera,

    includes the Akedah, the binding of Isaac,

    the powerful story in which God at irst

    demands that Abraham sacriice his son,

    his “only son,” and then at the very last

    moment stays the patriarch’s hand. On

    Monday, Yudin was not sure how he would

    approach that story, either on Wednesda when he prerecords his radio talk,

    on Saturday. He already had two idea

    though.

    “The Rambam says that we don

    have prophecy today, but one of the

    principles of faith” — which Maimonid

    formulated — “is to believe that prophe

    existed.

    “These are my words for the Rambam

    thoughts,” Yudin continued. “The o

    commercial said that Ivory soap was 99

    percent pure. If Abraham’s prophe

     was 99.4 per cen t acc ura te, the n h

    never would have taken the knife and b

    prepared to offer Isaac as a sacriice. Yosee from Abraham’s ability to go throug

     with it that his prophecy was 100 perce

    accurate.” If Abraham had thought th

    God would allow him to slaughter Isaa

    he would have agonized over his decisio

    The other idea, also new to him th

    year, was “that the Torah goes out of

     way to tell us that the Akedah happen

    on the third day. The rabbis point out th

    had he done it immediately, he could ha

     been seen as acting out of a religious hig

    And had he more time to think about it,

     wouldn’t have done it.”

    On Sunday, Fair Lawn’s mayor, Joh

    Cosgrove, issued a proclamation honori

    Yudin’s book, and presented it to him

    a book signing and breakfast at the shu

    More than 150 people were there, listeninas Nachum Segal, JM in the AM’s ho

    and Shevi Yudin, the rabbi’s wife, talk

     with both respect and admiration abo

    Benjamin Yudin. Shevi Yudin told stori

    about her encounters with people wh

     wanted to know if she was married

    “Rabbi Yudin from the radio show.”

    And Rabbi Yudin from the rad

    show took a few minutes out from th

    celebration to think about the next week

    parashah.

    It’s an incredibl

    challenge to find something thawill not be so

     basic that themore educatedcommunity wi

    turn it off, or tooadvanced thathe others wil

    RABBI BENJAMIN YUD

    Rabbi Benjamin Yudin signs a copy of

    his book for Milton Frank.

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    Anat Cohen plays RocklandIsraeli clarinetist and her quartet headline Chazen Jazz Concert

    AbigAil Klein leichmAn

    “I always try to surround mysel with music

    and be part o as many projects as I can,”

    says award-winning Israeli jazz clarinet-

    ist and saxophonist Anat Cohen. She and

    her eponymous quartet will headline the

    annual Chazen Jazz Concert at Rockland

    Community College’s Cultural Arts Center

    on October 26 at 8 p.m.

    Pianist Bruce Barth, guitar player Howard

    Alden, Joe Martin on bass, and Daniel Free-

    man on drums will back her. “We’ll have

    un,” promises Cohen, whose appearance inRockland was arranged by special request o 

    sponsors Jerry and Simona Chazen.

    Cohen stole a ew minutes to speak by

    phone rom her Manhattan home during a

     week when she was jetting to perormances

    in several cities in Caliornia and Italy.

    She regularly plays such top music ven-

    ues as Jazz at Lincoln Center and the Vil-

    lage Vanguard, has been voted Clarinetist

    o the Year six years in a row by the Jazz

     Journalists Associati on, and was named

    2012’s and 2013’s Multi-Reeds Player o 

    the Year.

    It is not easy to pinpoint Cohen’s musi-

    cal style. Inluenced by the international

    musicians with whom she learned at

    Berklee College o Music in Boston, she

    plays a unique blend o Brazilian choro

    and samba, classic New Orleans jazz, and

    swing, tinged with a hint o klezmer.

    “Clarinet is oten associated with cer-

    tain genres, like swing or olk music,” she

    said. “I combine the old and new, using 

    the clarinet as an expressive tool and not

    in one genre. I’m just happy that peopleare drawn to what I do.

    “It’s a gradual process o adding things

    to my repertoire. Just collaborating with

    a new musician is enough to bring a new

    subtle lavor to my work.”

    Earlier this year, New York Times colum-

    nist Joe Nocera described Cohen as “a ter-

    rific musician, luid, ull-throated, with a

    knack or creating beautiully crated, even

    eloquent solos.”

    In addition to her quartet, Cohen oten

    makes appearances and recordings as a

    trio with her older brother, saxophonist

    Yuval Cohen, and her younger brother,

    trumpeter Avishai Cohen. The three sib-

    lings got their start in the Jaa Music Con-

    servatory in their native Israel, and each

    successully auditioned or Berklee’s trav-

    eling representative in Tel Aviv. Cohen also

    played tenor saxophone in the Israeli Air

    Force band or her military service.

    The Cohen siblings’ ourth collabora-

    tive album, “Tightrope,” was released this

     week. “We played at a sold-out concert

    at Carnegie Hall in February and we will be playing in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, in

    November,” Anat Cohen said. “When we

    play together, it augments the experience

    immensely.”

    Albums eaturing Cohen as a bandleader

    include “Place and Time,” named one o 

    All About Jazz-New York’s Best Debut

    Albums o 2005; “Noir” and “Poetica”

    (2007); “Notes From The Village” (2008);

    “Clarinetwork” (2010); and “Claroscuro”

    (2012), which takes its title rom the

    Spanish word describing the play o lig

    and shade.

    Following her Rockland gig, she

    scheduled to appear in Knoxville, Tenne

    see, and she plans to be at NJPAC in Ne

    ark on November 7.

    At the Chazen concert, the JCC’s awa

    or lietime achievement in the arts is

     be bestowed on jazz pianist George We

    ounder o the Newport Jazz Festival an

    the New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Fes

     val, among other outdoor music events

    “George Wein created unique, lasti

    estivals that have really let their mark the American popular music scene,” JC

    Rockland CEO David Kirschtel said. “He

    truly a visionary in the business. The JC

    is proud to honor him and that he will jo

    us or this exciting jazz concert.”

    Tickets to the concert, available ro

     www.jcc rockland.org, cost $25 apiec

    Patrons who pay $75 will receive pr

    erred reserved seating and are invit

    to a private dairy dessert reception o

    lowing the concert.

    Cohen’s musical style is a blend o infuences rom samba to jazz to klezmer.

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    Fair Trade backed in Teaneck Sabbath series

    AbigAil Klein leichmAn

    A trip to the lorist three years ago inspired

    Pro. Dennis Klein to ound the Fair TradeTeaneck Steering Committee, which has

    organized its third annual Fair Trade Sab-

     bath series o events to mark national Fair

    Trade Month in October.

    Among the five houses o 

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    Emeth. Fair Trade Sabbath

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    congregations in support

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    arming methods, and the

    abolition o child slave labor.

    With its origins dating 

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    encourages people to buy such products

    as coee, tea, sugar, and clothing only i 

    those particular items are socially and

    commercially sustainable products.

    Such products should be chosen in

    place o commodities that may harm the

    environment, the economy, communities,

    and disadvantaged people.“Fair Trade Teaneck’s decision to

    convene Fair Trade Sabbath observances

    during Fair Trade Month recalls the

    international movement’s

    origins in organized religion,”

    said Klein, a human rights

    activist who directs the

    master’s degree program

    in Holocaust and genocide

    studies at Kane University.

    “They remind us o our aith

    in dedicated hard work to

    achieve a measure o justice

    or the most vulnerable and

    marginalized among us.”

    His inspiration came when

    he walked into Tiger Lily,

    a Teaneck lorist shop, Klein said. Thestore’s owner, Tim Blunk, had a display

    about air-trade lowers on his counter. “I

    asked him about it, and he struck me as

    extremely knowledgeable and committed

    to the project,” Klein said. “He really

    tapped a nerve or me.”

    Blunk became a member o the steering committee that Klein put together.

    His goal was to leverage the Teaneck

    community’s long-time reputation or

    civic consciousness into practical support

    o air trade.

    At Beth Sholom, at 10 a.m. on October

    19, Rabbi Joel Pitkowski will speak ro

    the pulpit about air trade in the conte

    o environmental sustainability. Th

    service will be ollowed by a kiddush noon eaturing certified air-trade item

    On Sunday, October 20, Beth Sholom w

    sponsor a program on the environment

    “I have been involved in Fair Trad

    Teaneck since I got here two and a ha

    years ago,” Pitkowski said. “For me, it

    a wonderul way to express Jewish valu

    o caring or our ellow human beings an

    the environment, and having those valu

    expressed in how we live every day.”

    When Pitkowski came to Beth Sholo

    among his first actions was switching th

    “oficial” shul treat rom Hershey Kisses

    air-trade chocolate. It was “a simple w

    to illustrate the idea,” he said.

    “One o the beautiul notions o Judais

    is that it has something to say abo

    everything we do — including what we ea what we wear, and how we interact wi

    the people who make our ood and wi

    the environment that God created or us

    he added.

    Temple Emeth will observe Fair Tra

    Prof. Dennis Klein

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     JFNNJ young leaderssupport charity walk

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    ern New Jersey’s young lead

    ership group, eNgageNJ, will

     walk with Team Sharsheretin the Making Strides

    Against Breast Cancer Walk in Manhattan on Sunday,

    October 20.

    To walk with eNgageNJ, go to Sharsheret’s website,

     www.sharsheret.org, find the link on the homepage

    called Making Strides Against Breast Cancer NYC Walk,

    and register to walk with Team Sharsheret. All are wel

    come to join the group o young leaders, 22 to 30 years

    old, who plan to meet at 8 a.m. in Central Park at the

    69th Street and 5th Avenue entrance. Call Kim at (201)

    820-3936 or email [email protected].

    Fort Lee shul dedicationOn Sunday, October 20, at 9:45 a.m., the Young Israel

    o Fort Lee will dedicate its new building at 1610

    Parker Ave. Participants include Fort Lee Mayor Mark

    Sokolich; Rabbi Shmuel Goldin, honorary president o 

    the Rabbinical Council o America and leader o Con

     gregation Ahavat Torah in Englewood; Paul Glasser,

    senior director o Institutional Advancement o the

    Orthodox Union; and Rabbi Neil Winkler o the Young 

    Israel o Fort Lee; and shul leaderss.

    The new acility, the “Ulo and Ethel Barad Build

    ing,” is named ater its donors. Their son, Gerald, willspeak at the event in memory o his parents, who

     were longtime members and contributors. An open

    house will be held rom 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., ollowing 

    the dedication.

    The original building, erected in 1980, was demol

    ished nearly three years ago to make way or a much

    larger, twoloor acility to serve its 120 amilies. The

    new handicappedaccessibile structure includes

    an elevator that runs automatically on Shabbat, ull

    kitchen, reception hall, main sanctuary and smaller

     beit midrash or weekly services.

    Emunah honors leadersWomen in the community who head chessed com

    mittees in local shuls will be honored at Emunah’s

    Kallah Tea on this Shabbat, October 19, 435 WarwickAve., Teaneck. Nechama Price, on the aculty at Stern

    College in the Bible and Judaic studies departments

    since 2004 and a recent graduate o the first class o 

    the American branch o Nishmat’s Yoetzet Halacha

    program, will discuss “Strong or Weak? Women in

    the Tanach.”

    The honorees include rom Congregation Arzei

    Darom, Valerie Levin; Bais Medrash o Bergen County,

    Michelle Wasserlau; Beth Aaron, Toby Feder; Congre

     gation Beth Abraham, Tammy Greenberg and Tsipi

    Gurell; Congregation Bnai Yeshurun, Betty Kay and

    Ora Parmett; Congregation Ahavat Shalom, Lizzie

    Zimmer Farberwitz; Keter Torah, Estee Kirsch; Con

     gregation Ohr HaTorah, Elissa Hochbaum; Congre

     gation Rinat Yisrael, Yael Davidovics; Congregation

    Shaarei Orah, Malka Jachter; Congregation Shaaarei

    Tefillah, Audra Lichter and Terri Normand; Young 

    Israel o Teaneck, Marsha Friedman, Devorah Schatz,Robin Mendelson, and Hadassah Weinberger; and

    Zichron Mordechai, Rhonda Leibowitz.

    For inormation, email [email protected].

    AMIT dinnerat Chelsea PiersChana and Daniel Shields o Teaneck will be honored

    at AMIT’s annual dinner on Sunday, November 10, at

    Pier Sixty Chelsea Piers in New York City at 5:30 p.m.

    The evening will also pay tribute to the memory o 

    Esther Semmelman, Chana’s sister, who also lived in

    Teaneck. Rabbi Shai Piron, the minister o educationor the State o Israel, is the special guest.

    Hundreds o AMIT riends and supporters are

    expected to attend. All proceeds will benefit the AMIT

    Network o schools and programs throughout Israel,

     which in recent years has grown to encompass more

    than 26,000 students rom kindergarten through

     junior college.

    The dinner will also honor Ina and David Tropper

    o Riverdale, N.Y., and Jill and Yoni Ellman o New York

    City. Event chairs are ormer dinner honorees Stacey

    and David Kanbar o New York City. Among the dinner

    cochairs are Robin and Shukie Grossman o Teaneck,

     Jacques Semmelman o Teaneck, and Alex Thurm o 

    Englewood.

    Chana Shields and her amily have been deeply

    rooted in AMIT or generations. Her grandmother,

    Shirley Halpern, was an active member o her Miz

    rachi chapter in Brooklyn, while her mother, MarciaHolzer, was involved on both the national and local

    levels and is a past national board member, as was her

    late sister, Esther Semmelman. Chana’s aunt, Norma

    Holzer, was also a past national president. Chana was

    a member o the inaugural NewGen board, involved in

    the initiative to bring a younger generation into AMIT,

    served as recording secretary, and is the national vice

    president o marketing.

    Dan Shields is also dedicated to Jewish communal

    lie. Growing up in Toronto, his amily was involved

    in organizations ranging rom the local Jewish day

    schools, yeshivot, and synagogues to Bikur Cholim

    and Mizrachi. He served as treasurer o the Lower

    Merion Synagogue in Pennsylvania and as a trustee o 

    Yeshivat Noam, while also being active at Congrega

    tion Keter Torah.

    Esther Holzer Semmelman grew up in Monsey, N.Y.,

    and was a lawyer. She worked at the UJA Federationand was a member o the inaugural NewGen board,

    later serving on the national board. She and her hus

     band, Jacques, and their two children, were active in

    many communal organizations including their shul,

    Rinat Yisrael, Shalva, Keren Or, Moriah, and the Torah

    Academy o Bergen County.

    Esther died in 2012, ater a 10year battle with can

    cer. The Art Project at the AMIT Beatrice and Irving 

    Stone Meysharim School in Shoham, Israel, is dedi

    cated in her memory.

    For inormation on the dinner call (212) 477-4725.

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    A house dividedM

    uch has been said and

    written in the last two

    weeks about the new

    Pew Research Center

    survey, and its disturbin portrait o 

    the state o American Jewry.

    No stream has reason to crow.

    Attrition alicts all lavors o Juda-

    ism — even the so-called secular, espe-

    cially when we actor in the number

    o Jewish parents who say they are

    not raisin their children “as Jewish

    — either by reliion or aside rom reli-

     ion,” in the survey’s own words. In

    Orthodoxy’s case, where the picture

    appears to be less bleak, the num-

     bers m ay be unortunately skewed, because virtua lly all the Orthodox

    interviewed were rom Brooklyn,

    Monsey, and Lakewood — solid bas-

    tions o charedi Judaism, but not rep-

    resentative o more liberal Orthodox

    enclaves.

    Amon the comments, press

    releases, speeches, articles, and

    sound bites that inundated us in the

    wake o the Pew results, the words o 

    two Orthodox rabbis stand out. The

    first is Rabbi Shmuel Goldin o Con-

     reat ion Ahavath Torah in Enle-

    wood. “We are all in this toether,”

    he told our reporter Lois Goldrich

    (“Local rabbis talk about the Pew sur-

     vey,” Oct. 11, 2013). “We need to find a

    way to reach out to those beyond our

    ranks and boundaries, and do a bet-

    ter job within our ranks, to touch both

    minds and hearts.”

    I we are to reverse the trend lon 

    observed and yet aain confirmed by

    this new survey, we need to set aside

    our ractionalism and our actional-

    ism. We need to eschew triumpha-lism and embrace collaboration. We

    need to aree to disaree on matters

    o observance and ideology, and ocus

    instead on our common commitment

    to preservin the American Jewish

    uture. The best minds rom every

    corner o Jewish lie need to sit at the

    same table, and come up with ways to

    fix that which clearly is very broken.

    This brins us to the second voice

    that stands out — that o Eliyahu Fink,

    rabbi o the Pacific Jewish Center/The

    Shul on the Beach in Venice, Cali.

    In an article that appeared on

    the website o the Orthodox weekly

    the Jewish Press, Fink wrote “that

    Orthodox Jews should be concerned

    and make eorts to help revive non-

    Orthodox Judaism....Orthodox Juda-

    ism is not oin to maically become

    the Judaism or the 89 percent o non-

    Orthodox Jews. We can either wish

    them well and watch them disappear,

    or we can try to keep them connected

    to their Jewish heritae.... [S]trenth-

    enin the non-Orthodox denomina-tions is a worthy endeavor. They are

    also our brothers and sisters.”

    We are all in this toether. Only

    toether can we shore up the house

    so that it is stron enouh to remain

    standin lon into the distant uture.

    We lack only one thin: leaders in

    all streams with the courae to stand

    toether.

    TuTh gd of coquc

    People of the bagelversus peopleof the book

    A new Pew Research poll suests that Ame

    can Jewry is on its way to sleepin with d

    fishes.

    The surprisin part was not the nearly 6

    percent intermarriae rate, or the two-thirds o Jew

    who preer the dentist’s chair to attendin synaou

    No, it was Christmas that ot me.

    Really? One third out o all American Jews are li

    in a tree? Even the most secular Jews used to definthemselves as not bein Christian. Now, accordin

    the study more than a third say that belie in Jesus is n

    incompatible with bein Jewish.

    Basically, we’re screwed.

    So where do we o rom here? Some would say i

    time to book those El Al tickets, because Americ

     Jewry has no uture. B

    this is a sel-deeatin ar

    ment. Israel needs a stro

    American Jewish comm

    nity or its basic surviv

    All you have to do is look

    tiny diaspora communiti

    that were once robust, li

    the UK, where a tsunam

    o anti-Israel sentiment h

    exploded, to know the pri

    paid or overseas commuties that bein to disappea

    Others miss anti-Sem

    tism. America is simply t

    open a society or Jews not to blend in to the point

    oblivion. Both Spinoza and Sartre arued that wi

    out people to hate us we Jews will be no more. Wh

    we need is some ood old ashion poroms to keep

    committed.

    I find this the most oensive arument o all, not on

     because it arues that Nazis can be credited with Jewi

    identity but rather because it’s simply not worth payi

    Shmuley Boteach became the first non-Christian to

    ever win the London Times “Preacher o the Year” 

    competition and served as host o “The Shmuley Show

    on the Oprah and Friends Radio Network. Follow him

    on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.

     Rabbi

    Shmuley Boteach

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    The four Cs“Communication, conciliation, com-

    promise, and cooperation.” That, a

    sadly underrated Gerald R. Ford tolda joint session o Conress three days

    ater becomin the “accidental presi-

    dent” in Auust 1974, was his “motto

    or Conress.”

    A year earlier, at his conormation

    hearings to replace Spiro T. Agnew as

     vice president, Ford said that “com-

    promise is the oil that makes govern-

    ments go.”

    To newly elected leislators, he

     would oten quote Thomas Huxley,

    “who said a century ao: ‘Sit down

     beore acts as a little child, be pre -

    pared to ive up every preconceived

    notion — or you shall learn nothin.’”

    As o this writin, New Jersey

     voters had yet to choose their new

    senator. As o this readin, the win-

    ner likely has taken the oath o ofice

    and is beinnin his on-the-jobtrainin.

    While it is as yet unclear whether

    that person is Corey Booker or Steve

    Lonean, it is very clear what are the

    issues that our new senator must

    help address.

    Perhaps the biest issue is how

    he can help the Senate — and the

    Conress as a whole — end the divi-

    sive political bickerin that brouht

     overnment to a standstill over the

    last several years and inhibited the

    nation’s economic recovery and

     rowth, and bein the process o le-

    islatin or the public ood.

    In Wednesday’s race, the lines

     were clear ly drawn . A moder ate

    liberal Democrat aced a conserva-

    tive libertarian Republican. The two

    men were as distinuishable as noonis rom midniht. The business o 

     overnin, however, is not the same

    as the business o runnin or ofice.

    Our new senator now represents all

    the people o this state — those who

     voted or him, those who voted or

    his opponent, those who did not

     vote at all, and those who were not

    eliible to vote. He is not a candidate,

     but a senator, and that is how he

    must approach his new task.

    Our nation’s reatness has been

    diminished by the rain seas o ran-

    cor, discord, partisanship, and dis-

    trust. We pray that our new senator

    plunes himsel instead into the our

    Cs o Gerald Ford.

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    the price. I only dead Jews et to remain afiliated, what’s

    the point?

    Others find in this catastrophic study the ultimate vindi-

    cation o Orthodoxy, the only part o the community that

    is rowin rather than vanishin. But as an Orthodox Jew

    who has always lived amon the non-Orthodox, I take scant

    comort in the arument that only insularity and sel-het-toization can perpetuate our tradition.

    Rather, what’s needed, both or Orthodox and secu-

    lar Jews, is an immediate proram to make all Jewish day

    schools ree, just as Birthriht is. Jewish education is the

    only uarantor o Jewish identity. We are not the people

    o the bael. We are the people o the book. An extreme,

    draconian interpretation o separation o church and state

    in the United States makes it impossible or a dollar o our

    tax money to o to parochial schools, even or their secular

    departments. America is alone amon developed counties

    o the world in penalizin parents who want to ive their

    children a values-based reliious education. We have to

    fiht this politically tooth and nail. I AIPAC can et 12,000

     Jews toether to support Israel, then a similarly well-run

    political lobby can brin even reater numbers to pressure

    the overnment to pass leislation to und the secular cur-

    riculum o parochial schools.

    The rest o the money should be provided by creatin a iant superund that makes rants o approximately

    $10,000 per student per annum toward the cost o Jewish

    day schools, whatever the economic status o the parents.

    The money can and must be raised.

    Endorsin the centrality o Jewish education, Torah study,

    and mitzvah observance also means puttin an end to an

    emphasis on Jewish culture as a means o instillin identity.

    For a eneration American Jew