Negotiating skills for financial planners Peter Belsey, Business Director Financial Services.

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Transcript of Negotiating skills for financial planners Peter Belsey, Business Director Financial Services.

Negotiating skills for financial plannersPeter Belsey, Business Director Financial Services

Agenda

Understanding the other side Thinking through the strategy Annihilation or win:win? Body language and approach

Skilled negotiatorsSkilled negotiators

Judges effective by both slides

Track record success

Low implementation failure

Average negotiatorsAverage negotiators

Experienced

Moderate track record

Huthwaite’s research into negotiation

Versus

Quiz: Question One

True or FalseSkilled negotiators spend more time (than average negotiators) preparing the negotiation, by gathering more information and setting their objectives, priorities and limits

Quiz: Question Two

True or FalseIt is important to present as many reasons as possible to support each of your proposals

Quiz: Question Three

True or FalseThe key to persuading someone is to present your argument logically

Quiz: Question Four

True or FalseWin-Win negotiating involves both parties stating their ideal outcomes and then splitting the difference

Strategies & tactics

Preparation & planning

Face-to-faceskills

EffectiveNegotiation

POWER

Negotiation – a complex skill set

Do you have opportunities to negotiate already?

With clients, when you’re advising/selling?When you’re buying, e.g. to outsource services?Will you have more negotiation opportunities in future?What makes these negotiations difficult?

Negotiation

ME YOU

What is negotiation?When:you can vary the termsthe resource is scarceagreement and conflict both exist

ME YOU

No common ground – so nothing to gain from

negotiation

ME &YOU

In total agreement

– so why negotiate?

YOU

ME

What is the difference between persuasion and negotiation?

Persuasion = unilateral moves towards accepting your position

Capitulation = unilateral moves towards accepting their position

ME

YOU

What is the difference between persuasion and negotiation?

Negotiation = a bilateral process, you and they make moves towards each others’ positions

YOUME YOUME

Why is the difference important?

Persuasion is successful when the other party says:“I would like to do a deal with you if ...”

Average persuaders give things away to achieve this position – skilled persuaders don’t

Effective negotiation involves movement by both parties, a creative agreement and a perception of Win-Win

The golden rule of negotiation

Persuade first and only negotiate later...... if you have to

So, do you have opportunities to negotiate or persuade?

With clients, when you’re advising/selling, may you give things away too soon?

When you’re buying, e.g. to outsource services, may they give things away too soon?

Preparing and planning to negotiate

Prepare and plan with great care, including identifying ‘negotiable issues’

Identify and use your ‘levers’

‘Trade concessions’ – don't give them away

Preparing and planning to negotiate

Negotiable issues:

a)With clients

b)With outsourced suppliers

What issues do you have?What issues may they have?Are there enough issues to negotiate with? Any others you can introduce, that may be negotiable? If no, plan to persuade; if yes, plan to negotiate.

Identify levers

Low High

High

Importance to us

Low

Lubricators Your levers

DifficultIssues

Their levers

Importance to them

Importance to them

Identifying your and their levers

a) With clientsb) With outsourced suppliers

What are your levers? What are their levers? Likely difficult issues? Any lubricators?

May you need to instigate the client negotiation? ‘I could re-consider my fee if you can offer me more of your portfolio and/or commit longer.’

A principle for persuasion

Being right is not persuasive

“I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the very best advice, and then going away and doing the exact opposite.”

G.K Chesterton

Traps in persuasion

What I Want

Logical Arguments

More Logical Arguments

Irritators

Logic is notpersuasive

Another trap: argument dilution

... as your weakest link

Your chain is as strong ...

Planning for effective persuasion 1 or 2 good reasons per issue A good reason = will help them

meet their needs

Check you’ve covered all their concerns

Summarise the Benefits Propose an appropriate fee

structure for the client

Note your key arguments on each issue

Concluding a new deal with a client

Persuading outsourced suppliers

Create doubt and movement about their position

Expose argument dilution– seek more reasons?

Ten steps for effective negotiation

1. Persuade 1st and only negotiate later…if you have to

2. Logic is not persuasive!

3. Beware argument dilution

4. Effective persuasion leads to ‘I’d like to deal with you if…’

5. Average persuaders give things away to achieve this

Ten steps for effective negotiation

6. Identify and use your levers

7. You may need to instigate the negotiating

8. Trade concessions, don’t give them away

9. Remember Win-Win is not 50:50

10.Never, ever forget that ‘no deal’ is better than a bad deal

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