My Dad Freaks Me Out
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Question: • I am 16 and have just made a
shocking discovery • I was sick and alone at home • When I felt a bit better, I cleaned my
room and changed the sheets
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• I wanted to wash the sheets on my dad’s bed as well
• I discovered my dirty panties and a used sanitary napkin inside his pillowcase
• I put it all back
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• I don’t know what to do! • Dad and I have been on our
own since mom left with her boyfriend
• She sends me birthday cards but never phones
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• I hate her • I want my dad to meet a nice
lady • He never dates • I am worried about him getting
arrested
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Answer • You are very mature for your
age • Read through my answer and
then decide what to do
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• Let’s deal with your mother first • Your anger is understandable • Take a step back • What have you gained from her
leaving?
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• You have a sense of responsibility
• You have gained in many other ways
• Give yourself some credit
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• You could speak to your dad about your discovery
• It does not feel appropriate
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• Find a family counsellor near you
• Tell your dad you are not coping and he must go with you
• See the counsellor alone and explain about your dad
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• Your dad will not go to jail • Keep working on reasons for
thanking your mom for her actions
• That helps you both to heal
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• We all feel intimidated by life at times
• You are already leading a meaningful life