Module 5 - Amazon S3 · Module Lesson 13: Understanding Cat String Theory ‘Men are like tigers in...

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All Rights Reserved © 2015 Make Him A Monogamy Junkie: Trigger His Commitment Chemical And Make Him BEG To Be Yours Forever

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“Make Him A Monogamy Junkie”

Trigger His Commitment Chemical And Make Him BEG To Be Yours Forever

by By Gloria Lee

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Module 5: The Chemistry and Connection Chemical

Lesson 13: Understanding Cat String Theory . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4

The Commitment Chemicals You’ll Trigger In His Brain by Using the Rev and Kill Kiss: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6

Read on to the next lesson to find out how to DO it! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7

Lesson 14: Make him Chase You with the Rev and Kill Kiss Technique . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8

Welcome to the ‘Rev And Kill Kiss’ Technique . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8

Questions? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10

So now that you know what the Rev and Kill Kiss technique is, here’s what I want you to do: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13

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Lesson 13: Understanding Cat String Theory

‘Men are like tigers in the jungle, honey. You’ve gotta be the antelope. Just run, run, run – until he catches you.’

- Tyra Banks, entrepreneur and supermodel

In this lesson, you're going to learn the methodology behind the Rev and Kill Kiss technique – a sneaky superpower trick you can use any time, to trigger such a surge of addictively effective excitement and reward chemicals in his brain that he'll feel that you are the most devilishly charming and irresistibly sexy woman he's ever met (and ever will meet.)

(Bonus: it even works if you're wearing sweats, a baggy old tshirt and zero makeup – no ‘prepwork' with the makeup cabinet required. Boom!)

This is a fun one, so buckle yourself in and let's go!

At the core of every incredible relationship is a foundation of RESPECT and DESIRE built out of challenging the other person.

Discovering Cat String Theory

Have you ever heard of Cat String Theory?

It's basically the thrill of the chase.

See, for a man to feel desire for you, he also needs to feel some TENSION – like a cat playing with a string.

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If you just GIVE the cat the string, you get a bored cat (who gets up and walks snootily away.)

But if you dangle that string JUST out of reach, and allow the cat to try and reach it again and again …

… the cat gets so revved up that he can't even think straight. He'll do ANYTHING to get that string.

And then, when he finally does get it?

He can't stop playing with it.

He'll grab it in his mouth and roll around on the floor for the next hour, just gloating over what he was smart enough to get his hands on.

And men are no different.

Think of it this way:

As you know by now, men like to WIN.

And winning is one of the core drivers of the male mind.

To a man, the urge to WIN is behind EVERYTHING he does: work. Sports. Even hanging out with his friends, most men good-naturedly ‘one-up’ each other in order to be the winner. It’s just how the male dynamic WORKS.

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In other words, the way to get a guy to WANT to do something is by making it as similar to a video game as you can.

For instance, if you tell a man that something you want him to do has ‘levels', and that he can proceed through the levels gathering points, and eventually WIN over other ‘players' by getting better over time, he will be hooked.

Because he wants to WIN.

So it's time to learn how to include this basic core driver in your regular interactions with your guy, to create that tension that drives attraction drives respect drives desire drives COMMITMENT.

Introducing … the Rev and Kill Kiss.

Every time you use the Rev and Kill Kiss technique (which is pure cat-string theory in action), you'll trigger a powerful blast of adrenaline, oxytocin, and dopamine inside of his brain.

The Commitment Chemicals You’ll Trigger In His Brain by Using the Rev and Kill Kiss:

Adrenaline: the excitement, connection, and desire chemical, triggering a strong desire to win and commit

Oxytocin: the bonding and cuddling chemical

And dopamine: the reward chemical, urging him to try harder and harder to get closer to you as time goes on just so he can get his ‘fix’ of that addictive rush.

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And when you COMBINE the three (as you're about to do)?

You are giving him an incredible juicy hit from a POTENT attraction and commitment cocktail.

So now that you know about Cat-String theory, the male psychological underpinnings and the basic

neuroscience behind the Rev and Kill Kiss …

In other words, why it works so darn well …

… read on to the next lesson to find out how to DO it!

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Lesson 14: Make him Chase You with the Rev

and Kill Kiss Technique

Welcome to the ‘Rev And Kill Kiss’ Technique (how to make him CHASE you like you’re the last woman on earth)

There are five simple steps to this technique.

The best part: each step builds naturally to the next one instantly and immediately, so you can literally see the effects on him as you go.

Fun!

Step One: Setting the Scene.

Simply pick a time when kissing is the last thing on his mind – maybe he's strolling down the hall of your house on his way out to check the mailbox, maybe he's in his home office working on a document, maybe he's in the middle of cooking dinner, maybe he's just slopping around in the lounge with his hand down his pants (gotta make sure the boys are still there, after all) watching the news.

Step Two: Rev Him Up. (This is the ‘Rev’ part of the technique!)

After you've chosen your time and place, you POUNCE!

Grab him by the shoulders, push him up against the wall just hard enough to force him back, and kiss him.

Kiss him like it's your first and last kiss on earth.

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Tenderly, passionately, just the right amount of teasing, tantalizing tongue.

It's a nice touch to moan a little bit, softly, in the back of your throat.

Step Three: Intensifying the Rev.

Pull back just a little bit, look him in the eye, and say in a low, quiet voice, ‘You have no idea how much I want you right now.’

(When you combine this sentence with strong eye contact, you send a powerful blast of oxytocin and adrenaline racing through his veins, making his heart race and pound in his chest and his heart long to pull you closer. Strong stuff.)

Step Four: Move In for the ‘Kill’

Now … you execute perfect Cat String Theory and pull right back.

Literally.

You just pull right the hell back.

Bite your lip a little, look him in the eye, smile a little bit, and then WALK AWAY.

Don't say anything else. Just go about your business. The important thing is that you REMOVE YOURSELF from his immediate vicinity – you've gotta let the dopamine and adrenaline go to work in his brain.

(Trust me, he'll be internally screaming for more – and the sexy challenge you've just given him will spur him right on.)

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Go to the bedroom and read a book … get out of the house and go for a short drive … go do the dishes … go to the lounge and pick up the paper … get on your laptop and surf eBay … do anything as long as you WALK AWAY to do it.

This is a guaranteed way to turn up the heat with your man, by turning up the CHALLENGE you present – I absolutely promise you, the Rev and Kill Kiss technique will have him wondering … thinking … wanting more … and plotting how to get you into bed and take that kiss all the way to home base.

Step Five: Wait in anticipation for him to come hunt you down and finish the job : )

Fun stuff!

Questions?

“Isn’t this just playing games?”

Yup.

And you know what?

That’s okay!

Games can be super-fun. This is how adults play. When you're out to please him, and you're out to please yourself, games are a good thing.

It's only when one of you is trying to ‘fool' or ‘trick' the other that ‘gameplaying' becomes painful and dangerous.

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Look: you're doing this to add spice, fun, passion, and COMMITMENT to your relationship. Your intentions are good.

Nobody's going to get hurt as a result of the ‘rev and kill kiss'.

What WILL happen is that you'll fuel the fires of challenge, respect, tension, and DESIRE in your relationship. That can only be a good thing for everyone involved.

“What if I do this and he doesn’t do anything in response?”

That's okay too. Some guys take a little while to ‘warm up', especially if things have been cold or distant for awhile.

Most relationships start to build up layers of old resentments, arguments, disagreements, and ‘general crud' starting around the six month mark.

So if you've been together for longer than that, chances are, there are some layers of ‘crud' to get through.

And depending on how happy or unhappy you guys have been together lately, and how long those feelings have been going on for, he might not be ABLE to respond for a little while.

Or he might not know HOW to.

Or he might be afraid of ‘doing the wrong thing' and making it worse. (Surprisingly common.)

The bottom line is: with the Rev and Kill Kiss, you're not doing it to get an immediate reaction out of him.

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The point is to build the TENSION and DESIRE, by giving him just a hint of what's to come and to get him THINKING about you.

Thinking is a good thing. It leads to wondering. Which leads to hoping. Which leads to wanting. Which leads to … well, you know : )

So: if you do the rev and kill, and he kisses you back but then doesn't come after you that same day … DON'T WORRY. Just keep moving on with the program. It's designed to intensify over time, so just keep moving forward and I promise you things will start to happen.

“But he didn’t even kiss me back. In fact, he seemed kind of pissed off with the whole thing.”

Okay. Assuming that you didn't pick a REALLY terrible time (like after he's just stubbed his toe and there's blood everywhere), then a negative reaction is not a good sign.

If things have gotten to the stage where your man won't even return a kiss that you've initiated, then I'm not going to sugarcoat it: that's pretty bad.

My recommendation would be to get some counseling, see a therapist, see SOMEONE, because if your man reacts negatively to something as simple and loving as a kiss, then your relationship needs help that's probably beyond the scope of this program.

“How do I know when to approach him for the Rev and Kill?”

The best time is when he's not crazily busy and focusing on something super important (like a sports game, or an assignment from work) …

… but when he's just muddling around the house, going about his daily business. Preferably when he's upright and on the move, for ease of implementation.

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Personally, I like to pick a time when my man is cooking in the kitchen, or I'll lie in wait for him in the hall, because both those situations are ideal: he's upright, he's ambulatory, I can PIN him against the wall and then make my escape. Nice and simple.

The biggest key here is that you ‘pounce' out of NOWHERE. Don't lead up to it or give little hints of what you're about to do. Just walk up to him and POUNCE. Best results come when he's truly surprised and taken off guard.

So now that you know what the Rev and Kill Kiss technique is, here’s what I want you to do:

1. Go to the downloads section for Module Five, and access Worksheet 1 for that module.

2. Fill it out and do the work.

3. Then, move on to module 6, where I’ll teach you about the Desire chemical and how to use the Fire and Ice technique to make desire chemicals explode inside his brain!

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