Mastering Exercise eBook
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Transcript of Mastering Exercise eBook
Introduction.....……………………….….…3
What is Willpower?.....………………….…5
How Willpower Relates To Exercise……10
How To Create the Habit of Exercise…..15
Overcoming the Hardest Days……….…30
How To Make the Habit Last…………….39
TABLE OF CONTENTS:
I would look at myself and
want to make a change. So I
would set a plan to start
exercising.
3 times per week…
5 times per week…
Every day before work…
Introduction:
This always lasted for a while.
Getting up early, exercising regularly and feeling great!
But then “the day” always came.
The day that I was tired, I was stressed, and I just could not bring
myself to lace up my running shoes. So I put the workout off until
tomorrow and enjoyed my rest.
That day always set the standard. Now it was okay to skip
workouts. So I skipped another, then another. And I was never able
to establish the habit.
It was an endless cycle.
Author: Colin Robertson
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I learned what I had been
doing wrong this whole time!
I had always been
approaching exercise with
the wrong perspective. I
was making the same
mistakes that millions of
people who struggle with
exercise make.
But after years of research and experimentation with exercise, I
have been able to help myself and others by using scientific
understanding to help create a regular exercise habit.
This book will show you in practical terms everything you need to
know about creating an exercise habit. It will help you avoid the
endless cycle that millions of people struggle with every day.
I’m confident you will get real value out of this book. If nothing
else, it will give you a fresh perspective on exercise that will help
you learn why you may have struggled in the past.
Good luck Mastering Exercise!
That is, until I devoted my life to studying the science of willpower.
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CHAPTER 1:What is Willpower?
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The students entered the laboratory and each one of them could
only think about one thing.
“The cookies smell delicious!”
They had all been instructed to skip their previous meal so that they
were assured of being hungry. So when they sat down at an empty
table in the lab, their stomachs started growling.
Then the researchers entered the room to deliver the news.
One of the plates contained the warm, freshly baked, cookies that
they had been smelling since entering the laboratory. The other
contained cold, raw, radishes.
The students assigned to the radishes were in obvious agony.
They looked on with desperation as they saw the others enjoy the
cookies. But, like the researcher ordered, they kept to eating their
radishes.
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“I know you are all hungry. So we are going to offer you all a little
snack. But there’s a catch.
I am going to set two plates of food down on the table. You are
only allowed to eat the food off of the plate on your side of the
table.
You are not allowed to eat any of the other side’s food.”
After 15 minutes, the students were led into another room to work on
a geometry puzzle. They thought that the puzzle was testing their
math skills, but it was actually impossible.
The real test was to see how long the students would keep
working before giving up.
This is a classic test of someone’s willpower. The more willpower
they have, the longer they will continue to try to solve the puzzle
before giving up.
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“How long can the students will themselves to persevere on the impossible puzzle?”
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The cookie eaters lasted about 20 minutes on average – trying
to tackle the puzzle from multiple angles before finally
succumbing to defeat.
The radish eaters, on the other hand, didn’t even last half as
long! After just 8 minutes, they lost the energy to keep trying
and gave up.
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20 minutes 8 minutes
So what happened here? Why did the radish eaters give up
so much faster than the cookie eaters?
Well, the radish eater had expended all of their willpower in the
previous room trying to resist the cookies. So once they had to
take on the puzzle, they had less willpower left to persevere.
The cookie eaters, on the other hand, didn’t expend any
willpower in the previous room. So they had plenty left to tackle
the puzzle from every angle they could think of.
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It’s actually more like a muscle!
The more it gets used throughout the course of a day, the more it
gets worn out.
This explains why you can feel too exhausted after a long day of
work to hit the gym! Even though your body hasn’t moved from
your desk, your willpower has been used up by a stressful day of
work.
By expending your willpower on one task, you have less left to
take on the next one.
This experiment – and many that have followed it – have proven
that willpower is not what we have thought it was for years. It’s not
a virtue, it’s not a skill, it’s not a genetic trait…
CHAPTER 2:How Willpower Relates to Exercise
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One of the biggest things that people use their willpower for
across the world is putting on their running shoes. The trip to the
gym is one that many plan to make, yet can’t find the willpower to
carry through with.
Yet, in general, people who are able to exercise on a regular
basis seem to have a huge advantage when it comes to
willpower! They eat healthier, are more productive at work and
report more happiness and fulfillment in their lives.
This phenomenon led researchers to a question. Do people
who have stronger willpower naturally exercise more? Or is
there something special about exercise that makes your
willpower stronger?
To find out, these researchers found 24 non-exercisers
between 18 and 50 to partake in a 2-month study. They were
given free gym memberships and asked to exercise just
1x/week for the first month and 3x/week for the second month.
Throughout the study they would test the participants on
various self-control activities. This included resisting
temptations and persevering through challenging tasks.
The results were nothing short of remarkable. After just 2
months of exercise every participant had indeed increased his
or her ability to resist temptations and persevere.
But the benefits didn’t end there….
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Without any instruction from the researchers, the participants
also:
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Procrastinated less
Felt more in control of their emotions
Reduced smoking, alcohol and caffeine intake
Saved more money
Ate less junk food
Ate a healthier diet
Watched less TV
Spent more time studying
Splurged on impulse purchases less
Were more likely to be on time to appointments
All of these took place naturally from the regular exercise!
How much exercise is necessary?
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Upon learning this information, many people decide that it is finally
time to buckle down and hit the gym on a regular basis. However,
most people set themselves up for failure by over-extending
themselves with their exercise plan.
Take a look back at the study participants. For the first month, they
were only exercising 1 time per week! That means that they only
went 4 times total in the entire first month!
Then they made a gradual jump from 1 time per week to 2 times
per week. Yet, despite the fact that they did not exercise very
often, they still saw all of those willpower benefits!
Clearly it is not necessary for you to overload yourself with
exercise if you are just getting started. The most important factor in
mastering exercise is frequency, not intensity.
“Frequency > Intensity”
What type of exercise is best?
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The next question on most people’s minds when they are setting
their exercise program is “what type of exercise is best for your
willpower?”
Should you do cardio?
Strength training?
Crossfit?
These are all valid questions.
After all, the physical benefits that
come from various types of exercise are all very different.
However, when it comes to willpower, it doesn’t seem to matter
very much.
You could run, you could lift weights, you could go hiking or simply
ride your bike to work. Regardless of what type of exercise you
choose, as long as you do it consistently, you will begin to
strengthen your willpower.
To master exercise, do not focus on which exercise you
should do focus on which exercise you are willing to do.
CHAPTER 3:How To Scientifically Create a Habit of Exercise
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“I don’t need this!”
That’s what I told myself in 2011 when I decided that I was going to
officially end my relationship with exercise. I was beginning to learn
more about what I was really passionate about like willpower,
writing and entrepreneurship.
So why spend time exercising?
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Now, that didn’t mean I was
giving up being healthy. After
all, I knew the importance of
diet on your willpower and
how eating healthy can help
improve your productivity,
energy and confidence. But
the time spent exercising
seemed like a total waste.
Then I came across the
study from the previous
chapter that proved just how
important exercise was.
Given that I had devoted my
life to the science of
willpower, I knew it was
time to get back to
habitually exercising.
My story….
I lost weight, I gained muscle and my willpower shot through the
roof. Here is the 6-step process I used to scientifically create a
habit of exercise - and you can too!
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I had tried and failed to set up a regular exercise routine more
times than I would care to admit in the past. So this time I
approached it completely differently. I did not rely solely on my
willpower to put on my running shoes. Instead, I turned to science.
And the results were remarkable!
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Step 1: DO NOT FAIL
Almost every person who comes up with a new exercise routine
tries to go from zero exercise, to exercising almost every day. I was
no exception.
Every time I tried to establish an exercise habit, I would plan to
wake up early every day and hit the gym before work. Then I’d do it
for a couple days – maybe even a week – and I would feel great.
Then came “the day”. The day where I was tired, the day where it
was cold, the day where I came up with an excuse to hit the
snooze alarm and sleep past my workout. That day always set
the precedent that skipping a workout was okay, so I would skip
another one. Then, before you know it, my exercise habit was
doomed.
But this time I had science on my side. I knew that the right
behaviors are developed through frequency, not intensity. So I set a
plan to workout just 1 day per week. Then I set my entire schedule
up to ensure that no matter what I would not skip that day.
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Step 1: DO NOT FAIL
Once I got used to 1 day per week, I added another day. Then after
a month, I added another day. The key was that I would never allow
myself to add a workout day until I knew I would not fail.
When setting up your exercise habit, ensure that you will achieve it
no matter what. It does not matter if it is 1 day per week or 7 days
per week. The important thing is that you will never skip it. You
cannot create a habit if you are not consistent.
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Step 2: Do it in the Morning
There are many reasons to work out in the evenings. It helps you
unwind from a stressful day at work, your body is much more
awake and you are more prepared to exert yourself.
You may even be craving the endorphin rush of physical activity. Or
you may simply not be a morning person and the thought of waking
up that early makes you want to vomit.
But in order to create the habit, here are 3 key reasons that you
must go in the morning:
1. LIFE HAPPENS AT NIGHT, NOT IN THE MORNING
How many times have you been invited to a breakfast party at
6am? How many times have you had to attend your kid's soccer
game before school?
Life happens. You will have to stay late to work, you will have to go
to PTA meetings after school, and your coworkers will invite you to
a happy hour.
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Step 2: Do it in the Morning
Luckily, life happens far less in the morning. You simply will not
have the same temptations to skip your workout in the morning as
you will in the evening. You won’t need to turn down other
commitments; you just need to force your way out of bed and
through the gym doors.
2. YOU CAN CREATE THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT
In the evening, you really have no idea what your circumstances
will be. You may be tired, you may be stressed, you may want to
chuck your gym bag out the window and pretend you lost it
(“ooops…guess I can’t go to the gym today!”)
In the morning, however, you can create an environment that will
help you get to the gym. You know that you will be tired and groggy,
so what can you do to make waking up to go to the gym easier?
You can set a coffee timer, make yourself your favorite breakfast, or
simply have your gym bag packed and your running shoes ready.
Cues like these will automatically trigger your body to begin your
morning routine of going to the gym. This will make it easier to
establish the habit.
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Step 2: Do it in the Morning
3. YOUR WILLPOWER IS THE HIGHEST IN THE MORNING
You have probably been there. You have those especially hard
days where you just cannot summon the energy you need to
make it to the gym. You have these days because your willpower
is like a muscle. If you use it to get through a stressful workday,
you will have less energy left to make it to the gym.
This is why your willpower is the highest in the morning. It hasn’t
had to go through all of the draining tasks of the day, so there is
more of it available to force yourself out of your bed and make it
through the gym doors.
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Step 3: Have a Purpose
Why do you want to set up an exercise habit?
Is it because you genuinely want to make a change? Is it because
you want to become healthier, stronger or faster? Is it because you
are training for a goal like a 10K or a spot on a sports team?
The thing that changed my perspective from “getting through” my
exercise routine, to genuinely enjoying it, was when I decided to
train for the Spartan Race. In my first race I finished 334th and I
wanted to do better. So day-by-day, workout-by-workout I
improved. I got faster, stronger and got to a point where I
consistently finish in the Top 10. When I found this purpose,
workouts were no longer a chore; they became an opportunity.
By having a genuine purpose for why you want to exercise, you will
make creating the habit easier. Thinking about your purpose
causes the area of your brain that is responsible for your long-term
goals to activate. This gives you a rush of willpower as you begin to
picture yourself achieving what you setting out to do.
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Step 3: Have a Purpose
This is the same rush of energy that you get when you read an
inspiring story or hear a motivational speech. It becomes less of a
drag for you to get out of bed and struggle through your workout.
So remember your purpose for getting out of bed and putting your
running shoes on. This will not only help you make it to the gym,
but help you enjoy it as well.
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Step 4: Track Your Progress
We have a natural desire for self-improvement. This stems from the
days that our ancestors were living in tribes. Tribes were safe, so
we wanted to ensure that we had a secure spot within it.
So we began to check our own behavior and compare it against the
best members of the tribe. This gave us motivation to set higher
standards for ourselves and try to live up to them.
I tapped into this natural motivation by monitoring my progress.
When I saw how many miles I ran this week, I naturally wanted to
run more next week. When I saw how much weight I was able to lift
in the gym this week, I naturally wanted to lift heavier weights next
week.
Take advantage of your inner drive to improve by tracking your
progress. Create a workout journal and write down all of your
exercises.
This may seem tedious, but by tracking this progress, you will find a
desire within yourself to constantly improve.
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Step 5: Focus on the Process, Not
the Result
Every time I had tried to set up an exercise routine before I was
always focused on a result.
I wanted to run a marathon.
I wanted to get ready for beach season.
I wanted a “six-pack”.
So I would train for a little while. Then I would either reach my goal,
or give up because it was hopeless. Regardless of the result, I
would slip right back to my old routine of not exercising at all.
This time, though, I focused on the process. Rather than having an
end goal, I simply wanted to establish the process of exercising on
a regular basis. Because of this, there was no end. I simply
continued to improve on my process, which I am still doing today.
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Step 5: Focus on the Process, Not
the Result
I no longer suffered the pain of having an unrealistic goal like
getting a six-pack in 8 weeks, or training for a marathon when I
could barely run a 5K.
Now I was just trying to go to the gym 1 time per week. Then 2
times per week, then 3 times per week, then I was trying to run this
5K faster than the last 5K, etc.
Because I was focused on the process, I was realistic. I only added
what I could manage. This helped me turn a goal into a habit and
now a habit into a lifestyle.
So do not set an unrealistic, results-based goal for your exercise
routine. Focus on establishing a process that you can handle.
Then, when you have accomplished that, add a little bit more, then
a little bit more, etc. Pretty soon you will have established a habit.
Then that habit will become a lifestyle!
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Step 6: One Habit at a Time
You know what it is like trying to set up a workout routine – it is not
fun. It is a grueling and painful process; especially at the beginning.
Most people make this even worse on themselves by also trying to
deny themselves tempting foods, cut back on drinking, or quit
smoking.
To help myself establish the workout habit, I focused all of my
willpower on waking up early to exercise. This meant that I didn’t
worry about eating healthy, I didn’t worry about cutting back on
coffee, and if I got invited to a happy hour, I obliged.
Willpower is a limited resource. I knew I could tackle those other
goals later, but first I just wanted to establish the habit of regular
exercise. Because I indulged, I did not get much healthier. In fact, I
may have actually gained fat in the process of setting up the
regular exercise routine.
But the point is that I was able to set up the exercise routine. Once
I established that habit, I moved on to the next habit of eating
healthy.
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Step 6: One Habit at a Time
Focus on establishing 1 new habit at a time. If you try to completely
overhaul your lifestyle you are doomed to fail. The whole process
will be overwhelming and you will never be able to establish the
new exercise routine.
So allow yourself to indulge in other vices as long as you remain
disciplined and consistent in setting up your habit of exercise.
CHAPTER 4:Overcoming the Hardest Days
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It’s no secret. You are going to wake up some days and have little
to no willpower to make it to the gym. It doesn’t matter if you follow
every single one of the previous steps to create your exercise habit
– you will not be perfect.
These days are natural, but they are also dangerous.
As you probably know from experience, sometimes it takes just one
day of skipping your workout to completely disrupt the habit. Once
you skip one workout, you set the precedent that it is okay to skip
the next workout as well.
The following pages will give you a list of steps to help you overcome
these tough days and stick to your habit.
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So how do you avoid this trap and ensure that you workout even on
the hardest days?
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Avoid this trap!
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Bring Your Mind to the Present
When your alarm wakes you up after a poor night’s sleep, the first
thing you think about is pain.
The pain of getting out of bed.
The pain of facing the harsh weather outside.
The pain of exerting yourself through physical exercise.
When you begin to think about this pain, your brain begins to send
messages throughout your body. It begins to make you feel more
tired, it begins to make your muscles feel more fatigued and it
begins to make you dread the very idea of getting out of bed. Then
you begin to think about pleasure.
The pleasure of rest.
The pleasure of staying in your warm bed.
The pleasure of a day off and another hour of sleep.
When you think about this pleasure, your brain begins to release a
chemical called dopamine. This activates your reward center and
makes you crave staying in your bed longer.
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Bring Your Mind to the Present
Then the internal debate begins.
Part of you wants to stay strong,
stick to your routine and get out of
bed.
While the other part of you wants to
skip your workout, reset your alarm,
and go back to sleep.
So not only will your brain make you feel more tired and fatigued,
while also making you crave more sleep, but it will also burn
through the willpower that you need to get out of bed and make it
through your morning workout.
The longer you debate yourself over this, the more your willpower
becomes drained. Just like resisting a cookie, your brain uses
willpower to simply make a decision.
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Bring Your Mind to the Present
This is no easy task to overcome – but it can be done by bringing
your mind to the present. Rather than hearing your alarm and
instantly thinking about your dreaded workout, simply think about
what you need to do next.
You may not be able to fathom
running a 5K, but can you
manage to simply put your feet
on the floor?
You may not be able to fathom
enduring the cold weather
outside, but can you manage
to simply eat your breakfast?
The simpler you can make your next steps, the more likely you will
be to beat procrastination and accomplish your workout.
Get out of bed
Put on clothes
Eat breakfast
Get into car
Drive to the gym
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Practice 10 Minutes of Meditation
Bringing your mind to the present is easier said than done, of
course. It takes a lot of training to ignore the urge to focus on the
pleasure or pain that the future may bring.
It can be done, however, through a practice of 10 minutes of
meditation per day. Meditation trains the mind to let go of the
thoughts of the future that make you tempted to procrastinate your
workout routines.
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Practice 10 Minutes of Meditation
There are a lot of myths surrounding meditation. Burning incense,
chanting, wearing robes, etc. So let's start by explaining what
meditation really is.
Meditation is simply the practice of bringing your thoughts to the
present moment. 47% of our lives are spent either reminiscing on
the past or thinking about what we are going to do in the future.
We spend very little time with a clear, focused mind on what we
are doing right now.
Meditation attempts to do just that. This is usually done by sitting
upright in a room that is clear of distractions and focusing solely on
your breathing. However, it can be achieved with any activity that
brings your full focus and attention.
If your mind is clear and you are focused completely on the
present task, you will see the benefits of meditation.
To begin practicing meditation, see the meditation exercise on the
next page.
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10 Minute Meditation Exercise
1. Go to a quiet room where you can sit upright and you will not be
disturbed.
2. Set a timer for 10 minutes, take a seat in a chair and make sure that you
are completely comfortable.
3. Find something in your direct line of vision to focus on and take 6 deep
breaths. With each exhalation, allow your body to soften as you become
more and more relaxed. On the 6th exhalation, gently close your eyes.
4. Begin by focusing your attention on the points of contact between your
body, the chair and the floor. Feel the sensation of your arms on the legs
and your feet on the floor.
5. Then begin to take in the senses of the space around you – any sounds
that you hear, any smells, etc. Simply become aware of your surroundings.
6. Then turn your attention to your breath. Feel your chest expand as you
inhale and contract as you exhale.
7. Once you are comfortable with the rhythm, begin to count – 1 on the
inhale, 2 on the exhale – all the way up to 10. This will help you to focus
your mind on the breathing and prevent it from wandering.
8. When you get to 10, repeat from the beginning at 1 – not to 11, 12, etc.
9. Throughout the exercise, allow thoughts to come and go. You cannot stop
yourself from thinking, but what you want to avoid is lingering on a thought.
The moment you realize that your mind has wandered, simply bring it back
to counting the breaths.
10. Continue this practice until the timer goes off.
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Just Start
The biggest thing that causes you to
skip workouts is your imagination.
Your brain will make you believe that
it is going to be much more painful,
arduous and boring than it really is.
If you can just get the process of
getting out of bed, putting on your
exercise clothes and eating breakfast
started; you will see that it is not
nearly as bad as you have set up I
n your mind.
In fact, the process of completing the workout is intrinsically
rewarding and will fill you with confidence. This feeling will always be
more rewarding than sleeping in or procrastinating the workout until
later in the day
But you cannot know that it is not as bad as you believe or get
this rewarding feeling unless you get started.
CHAPTER 5:Making the Habit Last
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At 21 years of age, Jonah Hill exploded onto the Hollywood scene.
His lead role in the comedy Superbad not only made audiences
laugh, but also turned him into one of the most beloved comedic
actors of his generation.
It landed him many follow-up roles in movies like Forgetting Sarah
Marshall, Funny People and Get Him to the Greek. In each of
these movies, Hill played the chubby, jovial, funny guy – a role that
he played with brilliance. But in 2011, Hill wanted to mature as an
actor and as a person.
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He took the second lead role in Moneyball with Brad Pitt – a
role in which he would play a statistics genius, rather than your
typical “bro”. With this new role, Hill wanted to get into better
shape.
With extra motivation from Pitt, he saw a nutritionist. Hill loves
Japanese food, so the nutritionist put him on a “sushi diet”. This
diet helped Hill famously lose 40lbs and look remarkably
slimmer. A look, Hill said, revealed his new level of maturity as
an actor and a person.
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“I met you guys — meaning everyone,
media, audiences, strangers — when I was
21 or 22 years old, with Superbad. And I
was a kid — if you had a public record of
yourself at 21, you’d sound like an
idiot…Now I’m almost 28, and I’m growing
up in front of strangers. So for me, who I
was then is a lot different than who I am
now. So being healthier came along with
maturity.”
After Moneyball, Hill continued to get both serious and comedic
roles. But as an audience, we slowly started to see him put the
weight back on. In 21 Jump Street, we saw a slim Hill next to
Channing Tatum. But by the time they started shooting 22 Jump
Street, Hill was noticeably thicker. Then in The Wolf of Wall Street,
we saw Hill back at the weight he was before he shed so many
pounds.
Hill continued to put weight on and hit a new all-time weight high of
270 lbs – a number that his friends were seriously worried about.
He was back to eating pizza, junk food and indulging in his favorite
beverage, beer. Clearly he still had many problems trying to control
his weight, despite his access to the best nutritionists and fitness
professionals that money could buy!
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Hill is not the only person, or even celebrity, to have major
problems maintaining their weight-loss.
It is not as if these two celebrities lack willpower either. Oprah is
renowned across the world for her prodigious work ethic that
helped her get to the top. Hill, too, had the discipline to get paid a
mere $60,000 for his role in The Wolf of Wall Street; showing that
he is able to put his long-term career goals before his short-term
wealth.
So if not due to a lack of willpower, why do these two – and millions
of others across the world – have such a hard time maintaining
their goals once they have reached them? And, more importantly,
what can we do to ensure that when we finally reach our goals, we
are able to make them stick for a lifetime?
Over her lifetime, Oprah Winfrey has famously fluctuated from as
low as 120lbs to as high as 240lbs – never seeming to be able to
get it off and keep it off.
120
240
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One would think that maintaining a goal – whether it be keeping
weight off, or sticking to a budget – would be the easy part. That
the struggle of adjusting your lifestyle and choices to achieve the
goal in the first place is the truly hard part. Simply maintaining it is
much easier.
However, there are many factors that become a problem for us only
once you’ve actually reached your goal.
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Loss of Self-Awareness
Perhaps the most important
factor that prevents you from
maintaining your goals is
simply a loss of self-
awareness. When you are on
the journey to achieving your
goal, you become mindful of
each of your decisions.
You see how the daily choices that you make are a part of a larger
picture. You see that the impulse purchase, or the craving for
cheesecake, are both threats to your long-term goals, so you do
your best to avoid them.
When you are trying to maintain your goals, however, you begin to
devalue these daily decisions. You no longer see them as threats
to your goals and think in terms of “what is one slice of
cheesecake going to hurt, really?”
The answer, of course, is nothing. But that mentality applied day-
after-day, decision-after-decision, eventually adds up and sends
you right back where you started.
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Moral Licensing
The natural extension to the
loss of self-awareness is a
trap that your brain plays on you
known as “Moral Licensing”.
your brain is incredibly good
at applying logic and reasoning
to the world around you. This has
given you the ability to see
problems, brainstorm, and come
up with innovative solutions.
However, this same logic has also given you the ability justify “bad”
behavior because you’ve been “good” in other areas of your lives.
When you accomplish your goal, you can feel as if you have
earned the right to allow yourself to indulge.
In this state of mind, when you come across a temptation, your
usual internal debate gets cued up. The primitive part of your brain
sees the temptation and immediately tells you “YESSSSS! Get it!
Now!!”
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Moral Licensing
But then in comes your logical, rational, pre-frontal cortex (the self-
control area of the brain) to calm things down and control your
emotions. It will then use logic to debate the emotional brain and
say “But if I give in, then I won’t reach my goal!”
Under normal circumstances, if the pre-frontal cortex doesn’t win,
it at least puts up a good fight. But if you have already reached
your goal, then what reasoning does your pre-frontal cortex have?
Instead it will use logic to agree with the primitive brain and
rationalize your right to indulge.
This is exactly what takes place with moral licensing. Instead of an
epic battle between temptation and self-control, we have the two
sides agreeing with each other, leaving you no defense against
temptation.
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The Zeignarik Effect
Whenever you attempt to remember something important, your
brain will set up an internal reminder system to help you out. You
use this to remember what to buy at the grocery store, what
tasks are on your to-do lists, and also what your long-term goals
are.
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The Zeignarik Effect
However, once you have completed the task, your brain will
essentially “check it off the list” and no longer store it in your
memory. This is known as the Zeignarik Effect – named after a
psychologist who was blown away by his waiter’s ability to
remember his order perfectly, then completely forget it once he
served it to him.
This same phenomenon happens when you are achieving your
goals. You set up an internal reminder in your brain to “stick to
your budget” “say ‘no’ to that cheesecake” and “get to the gym”.
But once you have completed your financial or weight-loss goals,
your mind naturally “checks it off” of your internal to-do list.
So you no longer receive those reminders when you come face-
to-face with the cheesecake, or the clock turns 5pm and you are
supposed to head to the gym. Because the reminders have been
essentially wiped from your mind, it is harder for you to find the
motivation to do the small things on a daily basis that will help
you maintain your goals.
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All of the traps listed
above stem from the fact
that you have “completed
your goal”. Because you
have completed your goal,
you no longer need to
worry about it as much
any more. You “deserve”
to indulge and you can
check it off of your internal
to-do list. All 3 of these
things can be overcome by simply switching the focus of your
goals to the process, rather than the result.
By focusing on the process, you will never lose your self-
awareness. Rather than thinking that you are “done” by losing 40
lbs, you begin to focus on the next step in the journey.
You continue to find healthy foods and experiment with healthy
recipes that you enjoy eating. You begin to get stronger, faster and
more fit in the gym. You start to enjoy the process of getting better.
Focus on the Process
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Focus on the Process
You will also avoid the trap of feeling that you “deserve” to indulge.
It is important to reward yourself, of course, but you should never
take your foot off of the gas pedal. Focusing on the process
ensures that you will always be thinking about how indulging will
affect your progress.
Finally, because you are focused on the process, your internal
reminder system will never stop helping you. It will constantly be
recognizing the things that will help you progress, or potentially
derail you from achieving your goals.
This will give you the ability to stick to your goals for the long
term.
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To be truly successful in establishing a habit of exercise for the
long term, you must embrace the fact that greatness is a journey
without an end. It is important to have deadlines, it is important to
have rewards, it is important to achieve small wins, but your habit
never truly be finished.
The minute you take your foot off of the gas pedal is when you
start to lose focus on what was once so hard to accomplish. Jonah
Hill and Oprah Winfrey went through a lot of pain and personal
torment to lose weight and become healthier. But as soon as they
accomplished their remarkable results, they began to slip right
back to where they started – and ended up even worse.
You can avoid this fate very simply by focusing on the process and
not the result. You must embrace the idea that no matter what you
have accomplished today, it is will always be merely good
compared to what you can accomplish next. Greatness is a
journey and not a destination.
Good luck establishing your habit of exercise!
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