Man in the Mirror Webinar Doing a Ministry to Men Audit · 2018. 6. 6. · Man in the Mirror...

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Man in the Mirror Webinar

Doing a Ministry to Men Audit

1. Why do an audit?

a. So you will know where you are starting from

b. So you can determine where you want to take your men

c. Advanced: So you can identify gaps in your discipleship process – a “Gap Analysis”

2. Step One: Where are we starting from

a. Understanding the Wide-Deep Continuum

b. Identifying the 5 Types of Men

c. Categorizing your activities for men

d. Having an All-Inclusive mindset

3. Step Two: Where do we want to take our men

a. Head-Heart-Hands

i. Head: What do we want men to know? (Knowledge)

ii. Heart: What do we want men to believe? (Love/Passion)

iii. Hands: What do we want men to do? (Actions/Habits)

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b. Relational Spheres—A man and his relationship to:

i. God

ii. Family

iii. Church

iv. World

v. Self

c. Identifying your discipleship priorities

i. 3-4 priorities in each box

ii. Why not more?

4. Step Three: Identifying the gaps in our process

a. For every priority, determine if and where we help men in that area – check it off

b. For every activity, determine if it serves men in a priority area – check it off

c. For activities that don’t/can’t meet our discipleship priorities:

i. Should we keep doing this?

ii. Can we re-allocate those resources to a different activity/need?

d. For unmet needs (unchecked items):

i. Can we tweak what we’re already doing to meet unmet needs?

ii. Only create a new activity if you absolutely have to!

Questions during Live Webinar (or even after): [email protected]

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If you knew that you were only going to have a man for five years, what are the ideas and experiences that you would want him to get in order for you to consider the relationship a “success”?

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Aspect: God Family Church World Self

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Roles of Husbands and Fathers Family as covenant / significance in God’s plan

Vision, Mission, Values Spiritual Gifts Ecclesiology

Missions Worldview

Talents/weaknesses Life mission/ priorities

Heart (Passion)

Love God above self and all / no idols

Love family before self

Love church family before self

Love those who are desperate without Christ Love those who are suffering devastation from sin

Identity in Christ Sinner/saint Assurance of salvation

Hands (Behavior)

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Communication Discipline Leadership Sacrifice

Ministry Stewardship Leadership Accountability

Vocation Missions Evangelism Social Justice Community

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KNOWLEDGE AFFECTS BELIEF. BELIEF DETERMINES BEHAVIOR.

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If you knew that you were only going to have a man for five years, what are the ideas and experiences that you would want him to get in order for you to consider the relationship a “success”?

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Head (Intellect)

Heart (Passion)

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KNOWLEDGE AFFECTS BELIEF. BELIEF DETERMINES BEHAVIOR.

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