LOVE AND MARRIAGE 6

HUMAN LOVE

Marriage, is not the effect of chance -

or the result of the blind evolution of natural forces.

- The couple freely enter into this like a contract.

It is not, merely a question of natural instinct or emotional drive.

It is above all, an act of the free will, whose trust is such

that it is meant not only to survive the joys and sorrows of daily life,

but also to grow, so that husband and wife become in a way one heart

and one soul, and together attain their human fulfillment.

This love is destined to help the couple

realize themselves in life more completely

HUMAN LOVE - has certain characteristics

It is love for a PERSON in their uniqueness;

their temperament, character,

virtues and vices,

circumstances and background,

education and culture.

Both are unique and irrepetible

Their relationship and

union is also UNIQUE.

No two relationships

are the same –

Each couple will form

a unique family -

the childen with their own characters,

and order and sex, make infinite

possible combinations that give

a UNIQUE quality to all families.

It is a love which is TOTAL.

It is love for the totality of the other person,

in their completeness with the totality of my person

that very special form of personal friendship in which husband

and wife GENEROUSLY SHARE everything, allowing no unreasonable

exceptions and not thinking solely of their own convenience.

Whoever really loves his spouse

loves not only for what he receives,

but loves that partner for the partner's own sake,

content to be able to enrich the other with the gift of oneself

The acceptance of this commitment is FOREVER

Married love is also faithful and this until death.

It means committing yourself to this

individual in his/her entirety

which means as long

as they last in this life.

Therefore true love is FOREVER.

We cannot imagine marriage for a year or two,

putting limits on love as in the so called “trial marriage”

FAITHFUL AND EXCLUSIVE

It is not posible to give marital type love to more than one personBecause of it’s total and intímate nature (psychological, affective, passionate)

The love of a married couple is particular and special, just between them

And it cannot be duplicated or repeated with another

This is how husband and wife understand it on the day on which,

fully aware of what they are doing,

they freely vow themselves to one another in marriage.

Though this fidelity of husband and wife sometimes presents difficulties,

no one has the right to assert that it is impossible;

It is, on the contrary, always honorable and meritorious.

The example of countless married couples proves not only

that fidelity is in accord with the nature of marriage, but also

that it is the source of profound and enduring happiness.

Marriage is a natural institution, inscribed in the physical,

biological and psychological nature of man

Husband and wife, through that mutual gift of themselves,

which is specific and exclusive to them alone, develop that union

of two persons in which they perfect one another,

Fecund or fruitful

It is not confined

wholly to the loving

interchange of

husband and wife;

it also contrives

to go beyond this

to bring new life

into being.

and they participate in the natural laws of generation of new lives.

And in the social function of rearing these their children

This love is above all fully HUMAN,

a compound of SENSE and SPIRIT

•HUMAN LOVE - has certain characteristics

Marriage, then, is notthe effect of chance

or the result of the blind evolution of natural forces. The couple freely enter into this like a contract.

It is not, then, merely a question of natural instinct or emotional drive. It is also, and above all, an act of the free will, whose trust is such that it is meant not only to survive the joys and sorrows of daily life, but also to grow, so that husband and wife become in a way one heart and one soul, and together attain their human fulfillment.

This love is destined to help the couple realize themselves in life more completelyONE

It is love for a PERSON in their UNIQUENESS.

Their temperament, charácter, virtues and vices, circumstances and background, education and culture,

Both are unique and irrepetible

Their relationship and unión is also unique. No two are the same

each couple forms a unique family

the childen with their own characters, and order and sex, make infinite possible combinations that give a unique identity to

all families.

It is a love which is TOTALIt is love for the totality of the other person, in their completeness

With the totality of my person

that very special form of personal friendship in which husband and wife generously share everything, allowing no unreasonableexceptions and not thinking solely of their own convenience. Whoever really loves his partner loves not only for what he receives, but loves that partner for the partner's own sake, content to be ableto enrich the other with the gift of himselfSong by John Legend

'Cause all of me

Loves all of you

Love your curves and all your edges

All your perfect imperfections

Give your all to me

I'll give my all to you

You're my end and my beginning

Even when I lose I'm winning

'Cause I give you all of me

And you give me all of you,

FOREVER

The moment of acceptance of this commitment is forever

Married love is also faithful and this until deathand commiting yourself to this individual in his/her entirety,

which means as long as they last in this life. Therefore true love is forever.

We cannot imagine marriage for a year or two, putting limits on love as in the so called “trial marriage”FAITHFUL AND EXCLUSIVE

It is not posible to give marital type love to more than one person

Because of it’s total and intímate nature (psychological, affective, passionate)

The love of a married couple is particular and special, just between them

And it cannot be duplicated or repeated with another

This is how husband and wife understood it on the day on which, fully aware of what they were doing, they freely vowedthemselves to one another in marriage. Though this fidelity of husband and wife sometimes presents difficulties, no one has the right to assert that it is impossible; it is, on the contrary, always honorable and meritorious. The example of countless married couples proves not only that fidelity is in accord with the nature of marriage, but also thatit is the source of profound and enduring happiness.

Marriage is a NATURAL INSTITUTION, inscribed in the physical, biological and psychological nature of manhusband and wife, through that mutual gift of themselves, which is specific and exclusive to them alone, develop that unionof two persons in which they perfect one another,

FECUND OR FRUITFUL

It is not confined wholly to the loving interchange of husband and wife; it also contrives to go beyond this to bring new life into being. and they participate in the natural laws of generation of new lives. And in the social function of rearing these their children

This love is above all fully HUMAN, a compound of SENSE and SPIRIT.