Love and Marriage

Created By : Raghunathan Janarthanan

Ways to make anyone fall in love• 1 First impression, last impression• Start working the eyes• Be open to making the first move• Let your body do the talking • Use the word ‘we’ prematurely• Confess a little secret• Don’t play hard to get• No first date dinners• Establish similarity• Try an ego massage

Make a Girl Fall in Love With You

• Make sure you have a good appearance, good hygiene, and some manners.

• A proper girl is going to be the one that will treat you right.

• Don't be scared because if the girl you like talks to people she will talk to you.

• If you see this girl walk somewhere and you haven't yet talked to her, then what you might want to do is introduce yourself.

• Look her in her eyes and ask her what her name is. • If that doesn't work then just stop trying and move

on because she probably isn't the one for you.• Never call her fat or ugly, even if its a joke.

Get a Good Looking Girl to Like You

• Make sure you actually want her before you attempt this.

• Throw a nice smile in her direction. If she doesn't smile back then she's not interested.

• If you have long hair, throw it back away from your eyes, so she can see them.

• Don't stare, look away from her and continue with what you were doing.

• Ask her if she's okay 10 minutes later. If she asks you how you are, say "I'm fine thanks", and smile again.

• Laugh at everything she laughs at. If she says "that's not funny", you better not laugh.

• Ask her out.

Win Over a Shy Girl's Heart

• Get to know her.

• Introduce yourself to her

• Talk to her.

• Get closer to her.

• Try to figure out if she is beginning to be interested in you.

Makes Men Fall in Love

• To ProtectGive him a job., Ask his Opinion, Wear Soft Materials,

Don his Clothes FreedomBlow him off, Share You own fears, Reinvent Yourself,

Respect his privacy To shineMake him happier, Be a Social Butterfly, Play mind

games, Act like the grand prize ComfortLet him see you primp, Cook together, stock your pad What Yanks Him Back from the Brink1) They Get a New Opportunity2) You Never Fight3) Pure Panic

Drive your man wild in bed

Give some subtle suggestions For men a woman's libidinous longings are not always

easy to decipher . If you drop some hints about what all you want and guide him along, he will love you for it.

Bowl him over with a wild move Offer the spice of variety Turn it on yourself Spring a surprise Don't be scared to be naughty Give him an eyeful Get rough Take over Wear his fav lingerie

Things girls look for in a great guy to fall for him• #1 Good grooming• #2 Be assertive in

your behavior• #3 Charming

personality.• #4 A good

physique.• #5 Have a good

sense of humor• #6 A man who’s

not a pushover.• #7 A good job and

a nice salary.• #8 A man who’s

respected by others.

• #9 A confident man.

• #10 A man who looks good

• #11 A good conversationalist

• #12 Respectful behavior.

• #13 An alpha male.

• #14 Make her feel comfortable in her skin

• #15 A compatible personality.

Make him fall in love in 90 minutes

• 0-5 mins First impressions• 5-10 mins The approach first • 10-30 mins The set-up• 30-60 mins Make chemistry• 60-70 Mins get flirty • 70-90 mins Create intimacy

Low-risk disclosure includes your likes and dislikes, and facts like where you’re from. Medium-risk—where you should aim— involves sharing opinions and dreams. And high-risk sharing is telling him your deepest feeling, insecurities and fears. Going this far can lead to getting super-close super-quickly, but there is such a thing as too much information. Avoid talking about past relationships and don’t spill all your secrets at once—confide in him, then wait for him to give something back.

Get Girls to Notice and Like You

• Pay attention to them. Make sure the girl knows that you are there for her and

not just randomly talking to her. Most girls hate it when a guy avoids them!

• Flirt mildlyHowever, do not try to go overboard. It will make you

seem like a player.

• Make sure you just touch her every once in a while!Read Touch a Girl for more details.

• Try not to flirt with other girls.This will make you seem like a player.

Know if a Girl Likes You• Be bold and initiate a short chat• Watch for signs of flirting.• Check for random hugs, reserved mostly for you• Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you

more often than what you'd consider the usual. • Observe the way in which she looks at you.• Look at her friends.• Look out for moments where you can play "rescuing

the damsel in distress".• Smile at her.• Watch her body language• Notice the little things she does for you.• If you decide that she does appear to like you,

confirm it by having the courage to go and talk to her.

• Finally, but importantly, avoid over-analyzing her behavior.

Be Romantic with Your Girlfriend

• Make it a surprise.It is important for a girl to relate your face and name to

a smile - it's positive reinforcement. • Get to know her. Know your girlfriend's favorite color, flower, animal or

any other information. If you give her flowers in her favorite color, or you get her favorite flowers, she will be ecstatic!

• Take her out on creative dates. • Tell her she's beautiful. • Kiss her and show affection.• Have fun! Most likely, if you are having fun with her

she's having fun too! • Let her be in charge. Remember, you're a man and a

gentlemen• Be there for her. When she needs love, care or

protection

Romantic Needs of a WomanA great lover must be committed to satisfying his

wife’s unique needs. • #1: To be spiritually ministered to by her man• #2: To feel safe and secure with her husband• #3: To share intimate conversation• #4: To receive a tender touch and hear gentle words• #5: To be pursued and set apart by her man

A great loverTo build a strong marriage where you and your wife are experiencing oneness, you must be committed to satisfying her physical, emotional, and spiritual needs.  I hope you both enjoy a lifetime of satisfaction!

How to Make Your Marriage Stronger• Research has long shown that married people are

generally healthier and live longer than unmarried people. Married people are less likely to get cancer and heart attacks, and have even been shown to be at lower risk for dementia. One study found married people to be much less likely to suffer from headaches, back pain, and psychological distress. They are also more active and less likely to smoke.

• But while marriage is distinctively connected to health and wellbeing on paper, recent research has shown that this doesn’t extend to troubled couples. In fact, unhealthy relationships can have negative effects that far outweigh those faced by unmarried people. A 2005 study published in “The Archives of General Psychiatry” found that couples who experienced high levels of hostility were more susceptible to illness than happier couples. It has also been shown that unhappily married couples are more likely to experience chronic illness, heart attacks and high cholesterol.

Ways to strengthen your marriage.

• While it’s normal to experience some tension and emotional distress within a marriage, you don’t want to let the scale tip too far the wrong way, or you’re at risk for more than just stress – psychologically as well as physically. Here are seven ways to strengthen your marriage:

• Reintroduce Dating• Show Your Appreciation• Do Small Things for Each Other• Learn to Edit Yourself• Respect Each Other• Be Positive• Seek Help

Things no one tells you about marriage Love Secrets RevealedTake a look at the surprising, enlightening, and

sometimes hard truths we all face after we walk down the aisle - and how they teach us about what love really means.

• Marriage truth #1You will look at the person lying next to you and

wonder, Is this it? Forever?Your relationship mettle is, in fact, most tested on a

daily basis, when the utter sameness of day-in/day-out togetherness can sometimes make you want to run for the hills.

• Marriage truth #2You'll work harder than you ever imagined,As two people grow and evolve, the real work of

marriage is finding a way to relate to and nurture each other in the process.

• Marriage truth #3You will sometimes go to bed mad (and maybe even

wake up madder)• Marriage truth #4You will go without sex — sometimes for a long time —

and that's okay

• Marriage truth #5Getting your way is usually not as important as finding

a way to work togetherAfter I sincerely acknowledge his view, it seems to

become easier for him to hear mine. • Marriage truth #6A great marriage doesn't mean no conflict; it simply

means a couple keeps trying to get it right• Marriage truth #7You'll realize that you can only change yourselfWhatever our motives, the effort is exhausting.

Transforming a full-grown man — stripping him of decades-old habits, beliefs, and idiosyncrasies — is truly an impossible task.

• Marriage truth #8As you face your fears and insecurities, you will find

out what you're really made ofMany of the deepest frustrations in your relationship

are an opportunity for you to confront yourself.

Romance On The Road• I owe much thanks to Montauk, New York, where my

boyfriend and I had our first long weekend away. We spent our days at the beach, ordered in chocolate chip pancakes for breakfast, and drove around town on a rented, cherry-red, motorized scooter, having more fun than either of us had expected. Below are three tips that helped make our holiday à deux a smash success.

• Planning your first vacation as a couple 1. Keep Your Plans Simple2. Discuss Your Expectations Before You Go3. Be Spontaneous!

Newlywed Stress• The first year of marriage is when the haze of

romance and lust lifts, and reality begins to set in. Instead of spending time together doing fun things, couples start facing the reality of life. Newlyweds are often confronted with differences that seemed unimportant or non-existent when they were dating, but become front and center after marriage. Scott Haltzman, MD, author of The Secrets of Happily Married Women: How to get more out of your relationship by doing less, gives long-term fixes for some of the most common problems newlyweds face.

• DEFINING ROLES• MONEY MATTERS • IN-LAWS• RECREATION TIME

Marriage Problems• Just as we all know, life is not a bed of

roses. Things do not work as smoothly as we expect them to. In such circumstances, we often change ways, make compromises, negotiate with the proceedings or sometimes, just stand stubbornly and let things fall apart. Marriage is the most beautiful relationship that happens to everyone at some point of time. However, because of our immature attitude and impatience, most of us fail to keep the sparkle of married life alive. Remember, life is the way we make it to be. Though things might be very rosy and glowing in the initial stages, you would soon realize that there is an undercurrent of negativity, which needs to be adhered to.

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• You need to realize that problems in marriage are bound to come, because two individuals having different personalities meet. In such conditions, clashes are bound to take place. Keep in mind; times are not the same always. When a person gets married, there are lots of added responsibilities that one has to bear. Amidst the day-to-day tensions, sometimes the person is not able to keep up the expectations of his/her partner. However, this does not mean that he/she does not love his/her partner. Communication problems, in laws tantrums, financial issues or sexual problems are some of the most popular troubles that couples go through. In case you are facing one of the above mentioned fixes and are looking for ways to cope with it, this section would be of utmost help. - See more at: http://weddings.iloveindia.com/features/marriage-problems/#sthash.8SHswUcs.dpuf

• Communication Problem In MarriageWedding marks a blissful union of two individuals into oneness. However, this idyllic union is also susceptible to stumble upon tints of dilemma and difficulty. There are a number of problems that a couple might face, right from sexual problem to in-law to even financial troubles. However, the most common and general problem that couples face is communication gap.In Laws Marriage ProblemJust like a coin, marriage also has two sides. While it may seem extremely blissful and ecstatic on one end, in the other end, it might turn out be extremely challenging and problematic. Talking about the not-so-good side of marriage, conflict with in-laws is one of the major problems that the couple faces. In laws can either be extremely supportive and close or turn out to be just the opposite. - See more at: http://weddings.iloveindia.com/features/marriage-problems/#sthash.8SHswUcs.dpuf

• Financial Problems In MarriageFinancial problems in marriage are becoming one of the apparent causes for strained relationship of married couples. After tying the wedding knot, many couples in the present time are facing problems related to money. They then start the blame game for the lack of financial stability. In fact, the financial problems in marriage need to be tackled wisely, rather than aggressively.Sexual Problem In MarriageAlthough many experts say, marital relationships reach the dead end largely due to financial problems, infidelity and lack of trust, problems with sex and sexuality also rank high. Sexual problem in a marriage can even lead to unfavorable consequences like divorce, if not paid attention to it at the right time. - See more at: http://weddings.iloveindia.com/features/marriage-problems/#sthash.8SHswUcs.dpuf

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