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“Don’t Blame The Parents”
Macheo Payne & Afriye Quamina
Lincoln Child Center
2010
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Recap-
1st Training: “Working with Black Boys”
Summary- It’s about working with Adults
2nd Training: “Putting Racism Aside”
Summary- Racism exist, so face it & fight it
3rd Training: “Don’t Blame The Parents”
Summary- ???
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Alignment of Focus
Federal, District focus on Community & Family: “Community Schools”
County & Social Service goal of family preservation & connection
Conclusion: Parents are critical partners
Critical question: Are you invested in working w/parents?
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What is Blame?
“Blaming is the opposite of taking responsibility.”
In this work, blaming inherently implies guilt on the part of the accuser.
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What’s The Problem?
What do we blame them for?
How does that move us forward to hold us back from producing outcomes?
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Who/What Do We Blame?People Environment Influence
The kids Drugs The “system”
Their parents The neighborhood The government
Video gamesPoverty
TV, rappers, entertainers
Capitalism
Commercialism
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Who is Right?What are our excuses?
It’s the parents, the community violence, the Soda & Cheetos…
What are their excuses?
Bad schools, poor teachers, the other kids…
What’s our responsibility?
Ensure equitable learning
What’s their responsibility?
Learn
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What Can You Do?
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…Care about your job.
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What’s Important?
It’s not just about asking questions… but that’s important.
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What’s Important?
It’s not just about knowing how to listen… but that’s important.
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What’s Important?
It’s not just about being open to new information that can improve the situation… but that’s important.
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What’s Important
It’s not just about contact, it’s about care, dignity & respect. Do you VALUE them and their role?
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