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    MC-030ATTORNEY' OR PARTY WTHOUr ATTORNEY (Name, SlIt.. 8M number, am i_ss): FOR COURTUSE ONLYAngelica G. Hale, In Pro Per- 3175 S. SepulvedaBlvd. #303Los Angeles. CA 90034

    TELEPHONE NO.: (310) 503-7717 FAX NO. (OpIlonaq. FILED-MAil ADORESS (Optional):ATTORNEY FOR (Name): In Pro Per

    SUPERIOR COURT OF CALIFORNIA, COUNTYOF NAPA SEP 3 0 2011STREETADDRESS 825 Brown Street, First floorMArUI>ADORESS: same Clerk of thejapfttJ;iorJ2 rtCITYAND ZIP CODE Napa, CA 94559 Sy: \ , : : J : : ~ : : : j 1 .i.RANCH NAME:

    PLAINTIFF/PETITIONER: Lloyd 1. VassellDEFENDANT/RESPONDENT: Christian Angelo Vassell

    CASE NUMBER:DECLARAl iON 2657190

    Please see attached 83 pages ofmy declaration to contest the petition for conservatorship filedby Lloyd 1. Vassell

    HEARING: Petition for Conservatorship ofChristian Angelo VassellHearing Date: OCTOBER 11, 2011Time: 8:30 amLocation: ROOM AProbate Court

    I dedare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the State of Ca lifomia that the foregoing is true and correct.Date: 9/27/11

    Angelica G. Hale(TYPE OR PRINT NAME)

    Form ApprOVed for OIlConaJ UseJudicial Counci al Galtomla veDMC030 {Rev. January " ~ C E \

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    SHORT TITLE:- Petition for Limited Conservatorsip - Christian A. Vassell

    CASE f'.lJMBERMC-02

    ATTACHMENT (Number): - ' - _(This Attachment may be used with any Judicial Council form.)

    CONFIDENTIAL SUPPLEMENTAL INFORMAnON

    Christian Vassell needs to be removed from his Napa residence due to isolation, violence in the household andundue influence by his father (Lloyd Vassell) and stepmother (Lauren Vassell). I am his mother and instead ohaving my Los Angeles residence as his residence of visitation, I am asking for Christian to live herepermanently or rule on an alternative suitable safe residence out of the Napa home. Christian's brother TaylorVassel! (20 yrs old with Aspergers) had an incident in theNapa home onMay 21,2011 was beaten up by hisfather after trying to defend Christian from threats and intimidation by his father. The policewere called to thincorrect address as the father would not disclose his new residence to me, resulting in a delayed emergencypolice response and pu t both my sons at risk. As a result of the fight, his father came back to the bedroom andthreatened Taylorwith a hammer in his hand and told him that if Taylor ever confronted him again (Taylorwas trying to protect Christian), that he would kill him with the hammer and bury him in the back yard. Taylois still suffering from believing that his father would indeed kill him. This is irreparable damage to Taylor andChristian is not able to speak. up for himself or protect himself from intimidation and abuse by Lloyd Vassellalthough Lloyd was ordered not to touch his sons after a May 2001 incident.Although I have a court order allowingme access and information to anything relating to my 2 sons and theirwelfare, I have not been afforded this due to my ex-husband continuing to lie about meand my relationship tomy children to friends, family, schools, doctors, agencies and selVice providers. This concern also includesLloyd Vassell's attempts to withhold my sons access to me, and me to them, due to a number of factors, butmost notably his inability to forget that I had a citizen's arrest against him in 1993 for kicking me when I wasmonths pregnant with Christian. This is one of the incidents that fuels his continued abusive behavior towardsme. He has only let up on his abusive behavior when it is in his best interests, such aswhen he had amassedmore than $25,000 in arrears in child support and I agreed to waive or exchange part of the balance. In 2005,worked with him to allow his support case to be closed. I did not have to do this, I could have chosen otheroptions if ] wanted to torment him.With this said, he has come after me using Placer County ness for child support arrears and filed a contemptcase against me, although he knows that I have been injured and not making money due to a driver hitting mein an auto accident in March 2009. In 2008, we lost our business in Palm Springs, and relocated in 2009 toLos Angeles due to my husband Melvin Hale receiving a PhD fellowship to UCLA.All these years Lloyd has statedto everyone that I abandoned my sons and put them into foster care, and that Imoved away in a cavalier manner with my new husband to Virginia. The reality is that my husband lost hislucrative job in Silicon Valley in January 1999, resulting in losing our home in Hercules, CA. TheREGIONAL CENTER offered to assist by offering us emergency respite whilewe secure a new home. Thiswas AFTER] asked Lloyd Vassell ifhe would assist with the children. He toldme no. He was focused onstarting a new business.

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    SHORT TITLE:- Petition for Limited Conservatorsip - Christian A. Vassell

    CASE NUMIlER:MC-025

    ATTACHMENT (Numberj: - ' - _(This Attachmentmay be used with any Judicial CotmciJ form.)

    CONFIDENTIAL SUPPLEMENTAL INFORMATION

    After exhausting my communication with Lloyd, that is when the Regional Center offered the respite. Wewere already getting in-home respite, so this would be Qut-of-horne respite and my sons would be able tomaintain their school placements. It took a lot of work and visits to transition to this situation without snags.When Lloyd saw that there was money to care for the children, he immediately got substitution of payee forthe boys' SSI and waited until they were fmished with school, and he gal paid before taking them fromemergency respite to live with him in July 1999. Lloyd was involved in the affairs of my children, where theywent and when he would get them. Mae Alderson, owner ofAlderson's Family Home in Pinole CA was theircaregiver and could tell you the truth. She did not like Lloyd's behavior towards me nor the children.My husband was offered a job in Virginia. and after negotiations were completed., we found out that thedivision (and the job) was being eliminated. We were left without a home (still) on the east coast, and receivedassistance from the Salvation Army (SA). We Lived in SA Transitional Housing in Alexandria, VA for severalmonths in 1999. We eventually got back on our feet and as a result, ] was given an award by the SA for myefforts, but Lloyd was not happy because he had the children, but he needed their SSI money to help himsurvive as his business failed. He then sought to take custody of the children and open a support case againstme.He immediately began a campaign to use the respite care situation against me, to defame me, and to get powerand control overme when I was in a weak position, just as he did in 1993 when he kicked me .and in 1996,when I had to get a restraining order against him and I left the marriage permanently. He was abusing ourfinances, and forged a credit card using his father's name to get additional credit. He was spending large sumsofmoney on custom made monogrammed clothing for himself from a tailor (with orwithout the card). whileme and the boys languished in near poverty. For example he bought a $300+ pair ofBostonian shoeswith theforged credit card. I have documents showing where would secure health coverage for himself, while the boysand I would have none. I would show up at the hospital because Christian would get sick with his sickle celldisease and then would be told that we had no coverage.The stress and abuse was unbearable. When the marriage ended in 1996, I was a homemaker in charge of2early intervention programs for both ofmy sons, who were both diagnosed as autistic at the time, one withsickle cell disease. ] was left without reliable transportation nor any spousal support. Lloyd was removedfrom the home and took the reliable car to the Bay Area. I also had to bring Christian to Oakland's Children'sHospital every 3 weeks for blood transfusions for his sickle cell condition and made dozens ofmeetings,doctors' appointments without reliable transportation. All of this and my ex-husband still continues to tonnentme and his sons. He would not cooperate many times with the health professionals in giving Christian hismedications, or he would leave it behind instead of bringing it a long for trips or visits. I always felt that hewas trying to sabotage Christian.

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    MC-02$HORTTlTLE:- Petition for Limited Conservatorsip - Christian A. Vassell

    ATTACHMENT (Number): -'--- _(This Attachment may be used with any Judidal Council form.)

    CONFIDENTIAL SUPPLEMENTAL INFORMAnON

    I am just now hearing that Christian has not been followed regularly by ANY of his physicians!! His currentdoctor would not release records to me because Lloyd did not include me as a party to have access (he has alsodone this with all other care providers). The last time Dr. Quirolo ofChildren's Hospital Oakland sawChristian was 5 years ago and his current physician at Harvest Pediatrics would only tell me that they have notseen much ofChristian, the last time being in November 2010 when he was in for a sick child visit. Christianreceived a bone marrow transplant from his brother Taylor at Oakland's Children Hospital in 2002, andalthough the procedure was successful, Christian STILL NEEDS TO HAVE FOLLOW UP FOR HIS IRONLEVELS AND OTHER ISSUES UNLESS THE HOSPITAL SAYS ITS OK NOT TO BE FOLLOWED UPANY FURTHER. I attached the letter and chart info that Dr. Quirolo sent to me a couple ofweeks ago whenasked him ifhe would fill out the capacity declaration. He said he hadn't seen Christian in a long time and thcharts show that he was concerned about lack of follow up on Lloyd's part. This startled me. I believe that thibehavior on Lloyd's part should be counted as neglect. I believe that there are other areas of neglect that I amstill not privy to due to the fact that Lloyd has unilaterally shut me out ofthe infonnation contained in medicaland Regional Center files, even to the point that the Regional Center has participated in not disclosing recordsto me and conveying confidential disclosures that I discuss with them regarding my concerns to the other partyI have contacted DDS regarding my confidentiality and missing records concerns with my experiences with thRegional Center, and DDS has told me that they are currently investigating this issue. Most recently, I wasallowed to attend Christian's IEP by phone on September 7, 2011, and Lloyd chose not to even bring Christiato his own IEP, which is Christian's right to do because he has reached 18, the age ofmajority. DespiteChristian's absence, the IEP team was going ahead with the meeting until my husband and I asked about whythe meeting was being held without Christian. The IEP meeting was promptly adjourned. Lloyd said that he"asked" Christian ifhe wanted to go to his IEP or to schooL My belief is that he withheld Christian because hwas continuing to isolate him from me. The professionals that Lloyd has surrounded himselfwith have failedto critically assess Lloyd's actions, giving him cart blanche. The school district notified me that they wouldreschedule the IEP without me because Christian stated that my "presence" was "not warranted." Christiandoes not know the meaning of the word "presence" and 'lnot warranted." I am advocating for my son whennobody else is doing so. I have always loved my children despite what anybody says. And now that my sonsare adults, Lloyd cannot control their lives any more.I have filed a Contempt ofCourt case against Lloyd in Alameda County where the visitation order is filed.Lloyd effectively refused to provide a point-by-point response to the 21 counts of contempt against him.Instead, Lloyd responded with a declaration defaming my character, in which I have counted over 30 outrightlies. As an example, Lloyd stated to the Court that when he moved earlier this year from his house inAmerican Canyon that was foreclosed on, into a million dollar plus home in the Napa Valley SilveradoCountry Club, that he provided me with his address and contact infonnation. This is patently untrue.

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    MC-Jl25SHORT TITLE:

    r- Petition for Limited ConselVatorsip - Christian A. Vassell

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    ATTACHMENT (Number): -'1 _(This Attachment may be used with any Judicial Council form.)

    CONFIDENTIAL SUPPLEMENTAL INFORMATIONA letter I wrote to Christian in March 2011 was returned, and the Post Office sticker placed on the lettershowing the new forwarding address was illegible, and I took it to read 350 81. Andrews Drive instead of 358St. Andrews Drive. When I received a series of texts from Taylor onMay 21, 2011, stating that his father hadalmost killed him, I sent the Sheriff to the wrong address, as referenced in the Incident Report. Instead, in anemail Lloyd wrote to my husband onMay 28, 201 I, Lloyd stated the following: "I DO NOT HAVE TO TELLYOU ANYTHING REGARDING OUR LIVES. I CAN MOVE ANYWHERE WITHOUT YOURKNOWLEDGE AND PERMlSSION." That is NOT what Lloyd wrote to the Court in his ResponsiveDeclaration. To the Court Lloyd wrote: "I FULLY BELIEVE THATMS. HALE KNEW WHY WE HADMOVED, TO WHERE, AND WHEN." If so, who told ME? Taylor did not. Neither did Lloyd, or anyoneelse. Under oath, LLoyd is embellishing a boldfaced lie. The Sheriff lost precious time locating Lloyd's correctaddress during an emergency for Christian and Taylor. They ended up having to call Taylor on his cell phoneto obtain it. Lloyd boasted that he didn't have to communicate with us, and he hasn't.lfl had been unconcernedI would not even have had an address close by. I have done, and am doing, all in my power to look after thewell-being ofmy children. Lloyd's haughty and arrogant attitude, and his propensity to lie, are on full displayin his comments, noted above in CAPS. For this reason, Lloyd is unfit to be the sale guardian ofChristian.Lloyd recently (Sept. 11.2001) sent an email tome stating that Taylor is depressed and suicidal, and thatTaylor needs emergency care. The email did not contain a SUBJECT, and was sent to an obsolete emailaddress that I rarely check! For emergencies I have repeated told Lloyd to either call her or text her. Theattempt by Lloyd to document his concern for Taylor was facetious, self-serving and potentially dangerous.Lloyd stubbornly refuses to call in an emergency. or to return calls placed to him or Christian. He has NEVERreturned a phone call left for Christian.Lloyd's sordid history of physical and emotional abuse has driven Taylor from his home, and is operative inisolating Christian from me, his mom. Last year (2010) Taylor sent an email in which he stated that bothChristian and he were being instructed by Lloyd and Lauren to caU me Angelica, and not mom anymore.Taylor refused to go along with this, and as a result by standing by me, has had to endure a physical beat downand expulsion from the Vassell home and the brother that he loves. In over three months, Taylor has only seenChristian two times. This is abusive! I want Lloyd held accountable.Angelica Hale

    32 EXHIBITSExhibit # I - 1999, Salvation Army Transitional HousingExhibit # 2 - 2011, Lloyd's Contempt ofCourt Response, with notations by Melvin Hale for Taylor VassellExhibit # 3 - 201 I, Letter from Dr. Quirolo, Children's Hospital, OaklandExhibit # 4 - 1994, Lloyd's credit card obtained by fraudulently using his father's nameExhibit # 5 - 2 0 I I, Court filing in Alameda against Lloyd Vassen for Contempt ofCourtExhibit # 6 - 2011, Letter mailed to Christian Vassell from me returned with illegible addressExhibit # 7 - 2 0II, Last known address for Lloyd VassenExhibit # 8 - 201 I, Napa Sheriff Incident report, May 21, 201 I. Sent to wrong address bymeExhibit # 9 - 201 I, Statement by Taylor Vassen regarding the nature of the fight with his dad, Lloyd Vassen(If the item that this Attachment concerns is made under penalty of perjury, all statements in this Page 4 of 5Attachment are made underpenalty of perjury.)

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    SHORT TITLE:- Petition for Limited Conservatorsip - Christian A. Vassell

    CASE NUMBER:MC-Q25

    ATTACHMENT (Number): - '-- _(This Attachment may be IJsed with any Judicial Council form.)

    CONFIDENTIAL SUPPLEMENTAL INFORMATION

    Exhibit # 10 - 2011, Screen shots ofTaylor's text messages on May 21, 2011 begging for my helpExhibit # 11 - 2011, My email to Taylor explaining why I was no longer speaking to my parentsExhibit # 12 - 2011, Taylor's text messages to me regarding concern for Christian BEFORE the fightExhibit # 13 - 1993,Me with ChristianExhibit # 14 - 2004, Picking up Christian and Taylor from my parent's home in FairfieldExhibit # 15 - 2005, Email to Lloyd VasseLl from Angelica regarding him dropping off the boys on timeExhibit # 16 - 2005, Me with Christian and Taylor at the State Fair in SacramentoExhibit # 17 - 2008, Pictures I took ofChristian and Taylor on our trip to Six Flags in VallejoExhibit # 18 - 2008, Picture ofme, Melvin, Christian and Taylor at the State Fair in SacramentoExhibit # 19 - 2009, Me at Taylor's High School GraduationExhibit # 20 - 2010, Me visiting Christian at Taylor's birthday at Nora Jensen's house in Fair OaksExhibit # 21 - 2011, Taylor visiting me and Melvin in Los AngelesExhibit # 22 - 2011, Taylor visiting me and Melvin in Los AngelesExhibit # 23 - 2011, Taylor visiting me and Melvin in Los AngelesExhibit # 24 - 2011, Lanternman Regional Center Training, Service Coordination Advocacy TrainingExhibit # 25 - 1999, Medical record ofTaylor in which Lloyd Vassell tells doctor that I placed our sons infoster care, and he took them out. Same lie, 12 years ago.Exhibit # 26 - 2011, Previous home lost to foreclosure in 2011, and current home lived in by Lloyd VassellExhibit # 27 - 2011, Email sent to Melvin Hale by Lloyd Vassell in which he boasts that he need not give ushis new address or contact infonnation.Exhibit # 28 - 2004, Clear evidence that Lloyd Vassell owed more than $25,000 in back child support to

    meExhibit # 29 - 1993, Lloyd Vassell arrested for kicking me when] was 6 months pregnant withChristianExhibit # 30 - 2001, Detention Report from Alameda County CPS, documenting that Lloyd was Ordered bythe Court to refrain from hitting the boys. The boys were placed in Children's Hospital forprotection. Lloyd violated this order when he beat up Taylor on May 21, 2011Exhibit # 31 - 2011, The Nortb Bay Regional Center Report provided to the LA Superior Court in theConservatorship case which I filed. Viewed in the context of the preceding exhibits,allegations made relative to my fitness to be a limited conservator ofmy son Christian,are predicated upon falsehoods and lies, and not upon sound factual information,beginning with the baseless allegation that I left my children in foster care and left thestate unbeknownst to Lloyd or anyone. The Regional Center paints me with a broad andunflattering brush by claiming that "Angelica G. Hale is not actively involved in the life

    of her son Christian Angelo VasseU, and has not seen him since the summer of2008."The preceding exhibits clearly show otherwise, thus the Regional Center, unfortunately,is NOT a credible resource in this case, as they have perjured themselves under oath.Exhibit # 32 - 2011, Message left on my voice mail from Taylor on Friday, September 23, 2011 at 11:42 am.Taylor was reacting to havingjust read Exhibit # 31 that he received at his grandparentshome in Fairfield where he is staying.

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    ..n...tmwTransitionalHousing

    The Salvation Army Transitional Housing units where we stayed in the summer of 1999when the jo b promised to Melvin in Reston, Va was canceled due to the departmentbeing eliminated before he could even start the job. Lloyd was ful ly aware of our direfinancial circumstances, yet he has told the public from the onset that I had abandonedthe children and placed them in foster care. This is patently false. A lie. We could notprovide a stable home. Period. That is no t a cr ime, and i t certainly does not makesomeone a bad uncar ing parent. Millions of American families are suffering similarf inancial instabi li ty today. For Uoyd to try to f ind personal satisfaction in lying on meunder the circumstances is reprehensible. The fact of the matter is that we werehomeless. Thank God fo r the Salvation Army. They are the best that humans canbe.We placed the chi ldren in Emergency Respite Care because Uoyd would not take themwhen we left California. We were being eVicted in Hercules as a result of Melvin losinghis job as a Senior Product Manager in Milpi tas. By the time we were back on our feetfinancially, Christian was due to receive a bone marrow transplant from his brotherTaylor, after which, Christian was required to remain at home, away from crowds fo r ayear, unt il h is immune system had recovered f rom this delicate surgery.While we were in Transi tional Housing, we lived downstairs in the building on the left.The Salvation Army main address, across the street from these bui ld ings is 1804Mt. Vernon Avenue, Alexandria, VA. The SA case worker was named Susan Watson.

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    FL320ATTORNIOY OIl PARTY WITHOUT ATTOIII41_. _ Taylor,Lloyd VasseJl This is your father's response to your mother's Motion for358 St. Andrews DriveNapa, CA 94558 VISitation & Contempt. These are separate.1 filings. but lloyd

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    In re Hale v. Vassel!Alameda County Superior Court Case No. 845298-8Attachment 9. to Responsive Declaration

    I, Lloyd J. Vassell, declare:1. I am the respondent/father in the above-entitled matter. If called as a witness, Icould competently testify to the following:2. Petitioner/Mother has filed two motions against me in this court. One is a motionfor contempt and one is a motion for modification of custody of our soon-to-be 18 yearold son, Christian. This responsive declaration will advise the court of events that haveoccurred. No statements made in this declaration are admissions to any claimsmade byMother.3. Response to Petitioner'S ("Ms. Hale") claim re Visitation With Christian andMaternal Grandparents:

    Maternal grandparents will testify that, because of their age and health concerns,it is not feasible for them to manage visits with Christian unless Taylor visits at the sametime. Taylor has been away at college and unavailable to visit their Grandparents withChristian. When Taylor came home from college and visited his grandparents, Christianvisited during the same ~ i m e f r a m e .

    I I ]Ms. Hale would know this if she had contact with her parents. Due to the actionsofMs. Hale's husband, Christian's Maternal Grandparents (Ms. Hale's parents), have notspoken to their daughter in almost a year!4. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that I have not been providing Ms. Hale with thechildren's educational goals and progress:ILJ For the past twelve (12) years. Ms. Hale has nol tried to be involved with thechildren. She has no! asked me for information, has not sbown any interest in thechiidren's iives. []

    Whenever Ms. Hale asked to see Taylor and CIuistian during her infrequent visitsto the Bay Area, I adjusted all of our personal plans to make sure she could see them.

    [] The last request was after Taylor's high school graduation in June, 2010.5. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that I moved the children without her knowled2e:

    Our home was foreclosed and we were forced to move. We did not move out ofthe State ofCalifamia. The 2002 Court order did not contain any statements or ordersrelating to moving the children's residence. The 2000 Court order stated: "Neither shallrelocate the residency of the children out of California unless by written agreement."RESPONSIVE DECLARATION

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    EJ Ms. Hale has always had our telephone number and my cell phone number. . Infact, I have repeatedly given our contact infonnation to her husband, because she WIll notspeak with me or email with me, or call my cel l number. @]

    [] I believe fully that Ms. Hale knew why \..e had moved, to where and when.6. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that I am not initiating phone calls between her andChristian: @]

    Christian is autistic, and he is not very communicative. If Ms. Hale had beenmore interested in his life, and had spent more time with him, she would know that.When Ms. Hale calls on Sundays, the time Christian is on the phone with her is usuallyless than one (1) minute. When she calls and we are not home, she never cal ls back! I @]have emails asking her to call Christian on my cell phone or to call during another time orany other day of the week. She has NEVER done this, bUI continues to call on Sunday at7:30pm.

    The court order she cites advises that she is to call our home on Tuesdays andWednesdays. She does not cal l on those days.We have asked on many occasions \\ hy she doesn't call on Monday, Tuesday or

    any other day IF she really wanted to talk to him and not just detail that fact that shecalled!...,Slle does nol respond, but her husband sends us threatening emails.

    l!.!:J7. @] ReSpOnse to Ms. Hale's claim that we (mv wife and nhave forced Christian tocall Lauren Mom:

    l believe Christian started calling my wife, Lauren, "Mom" because of the loveand care he gets from her. I never told him to do that. Lauren did not tell h im to do that.

    !illEven though Ms. Hale is his biological mot.ber, she has shown very little concernfor him for more than 12 years. She moved to Florida and did not come back to visilChristian regularly. She moved back to California, but down to the Los Angeles area. butstill did not come up to see Christian regularly. She has not acted like Christian's mother.[ill .

    I truly wish Ms. Hale had acted like Christian"s mother all these years. However.when he is sick. ti red, needs help with homework, needs new under\.vear, or during timeshe is presenting his work at school, Ms. Hale is not present, Lauren is and has been formany years. Christian made the decision to call Lauren ;Mom". Ms. Hale encouragedthat by being absent.

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    8. Response tQ Ms. Hale's claim that I onlv \I,'3.nt money. having filed for childsupport \\-irn the Department of Child SuPPOrt Services:

    ~ believe that Ms. Hale's mmion for contempt and her motion for custodymodif icat ion are based solely on her desire to a\'oid paying chi ld support . Ms. Haleknows that Christian will not be self-supporting and will be a speciaJ needs adult in lessthan a couple months. He will continue to need therapy, schooling, therapeutic camps.and as much help as we can give him. I believe that she filed the contempt ac[ion againstme to prevent me from seeking ongoing support from her now that Christian is reachingadulthood.

    lEJ Ms. Hale owes tIS more than $8.000 in child support arrears. When Placer CountyDepartment ofChild Support Services ("Placer DeSS") cal led me to check on the boys, Iwas asked about on-going child support - or adult special needs support. I advised themthat I had not requested or wanted ongoing current support. PlacerDCSS reminded methat i t was not about me, however , it was about Taylor and Christian and said if I did not\\'3.nt to go after her. they would. The)' subsequently filed a contempt action against her.

    EiKl@] [care only about our children's welfare. Ms. HaJe cares only about the financialbot tom line. Every t ime Ms. Hale asked me to lower her chi ld support amount, [agreedand called Placer ncss to make it happen. She never once called me to thank me.Instead, she continued to blame me for her choices.9. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that I am a terrible and abusive falher and shouldnot have custodY ofChristian:

    In March 2005. I was awarded "Parent of the Year" by Children's Hospital. Theannual Lillian R. Weil Award to a Parent \Vho Makes a Difference was presented to meon March 29, 2005 at the 91st Annual Children's Hospital & Research Center OaklandBoard of Directors meeting.

    Ekua Hackney-Stephens, RN, PNP, who nominated me for the honor, said:"Lloyd is the personification ofa remarkable parent." She introduced me saying: "Hislove and devotion have helped his sons grow far beyond what is llsually expected ofchildren with special needs."@!J

    The only admission I make herein is that I have been with Taylor and Christianthroughout t h ~ i r lives, p r o v i ~ i n g for ~ helping them. loving them. working withthem, and canng for them \\lrnout f a i ~ s . Hale has not been there at all. What lin levisitat ion she asked for and was granted, she did not exercise. Years have gone by whereshe barely laid eyes on Christian. Further, neither ofm) children h:l\-e been abused.lID

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    10. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that she wants to address Christian's transition intoadulthood:!illI am absolutely astounded by her statements. It only took her twelve (12) years

    to think about this transition.As noted in all of Christian's Independent Education Plans ("IEP"), his transitioninto adulthood has been a primary concern for me, Lauren, and the Napa Valley UnifiedSchool District. It was not until the end of Christian's junior year that anyone from theschool district had ever heard from Ms. Hale. She never called them, contacted them orrequested any infonnation from them. This is why they did not give her any information.

    !il l Ms. Hale did not attend any school functions, parent-teacher conferences, call meor the school requesting progress reports, attend any IEP meetings, or take any action atall until the last six months ofChristian's minority. I strongly question her motives.Christian will likely receive some form of disability/551 payment due 10 his

    [2J disabilities. I am concerned that Ms. Hale is simply trying to lay the foundation forgetting Christian into her borne so she can take advantage of him.11. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that I put undo pressure on Tavlor:

    I admit that Lauren and I encourage Taylor to be all that he can be. According tothe experts, Taylor would not be able to live on a college campus, and yct, he did it fortwo years. We took our children to Spain and Italy to visit their family and experienceother cultures. What has she exposed them to?!illWe encourage Taylor to do his best in school and 10 advocate for himself, we try

    to get him to stop waiting for us to do things for him, and work towards his beingindependent. When he needed bills paid, be did not call Ms. Hale - he called Lauren andme for support. I l l]

    [RJMs. Hales claims are untnle and are solely intended to manipulate this Court intotaking actions tbat would hann Christian emotionally. physically and financially.12.@Il Response to Ms. Hales claim that lowe her $25.000 m past due support:

    I do not owe Ms. Hale any money. I have a formal accounting of all monies owed~ n paid. However, from the first day she was required to provide SUPP0l1, she has beenII I arrears.

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    13. Response to Ms. Hale's claim that [ never wanted her to have joint custodv:Ms. Hale did not show up to the Placer COUnlY Superior Court hearing regarding

    custody and support. The presiding Commissioner/Judge told me that I did not have togive her any visitation because she did not show up for the court date, but I decided [0give her 10% visitation in calculation of support.

    @QJ I had no idea whether Ms. Hale would ever come back to the Bay Area fromFlorida. When Ms. Hale did move back to California, she mo\'ed to southern California.Christian and Taylor needed a present parent. Ms. Hale barely showed up over the pastlEI 12 years, but now claims her act ions are my fault and I should be sent to iail for herfailures.14. Ms. Hale has asked this court to modify custody of a child who is only a fewmonths shy of turning 18. She is asking thal the court consider placing Christian in hercustody even though she has bad linle to no contact with him THROUGH HER OWNCHOICE for years. 1m

    This court must deny her request for modification of cuslody in its entirelY. If shewanted to have custody ofChristian, she should not have waited until now to request it.!ill Christian does nol really kno\v his mother and her husband. To move him and uprootIlim at this point would cause catastrophic hann.15. Requesl to change venue to Los An(!:eles or Napa County:

    I agree that no one Jives in Alameda County. Christian, the only minor child inthis matter, resides in Napa County with me. If this court wishes to move-venue to NapaCounty. I will not fight that. All ofChristian's teachers, friends. me, Lauren, his healthcare providers all reside or do business in Napa County.

    However, this matter must not and should no t be moved to Los Angeles County.That would be a hardship on everyone concerned.IE] I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the Slate ofCalitornia that theforegoing is {me and correct.

    SIGNATURE APPEARS ON JUDICIAL COUNCIL FOIUA

    Sorry if I missed some lies. I was just skimming. MH

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    1. TO CITEE (nama of person you a/legehas via/al9d Ihe orders): 1.I.OYD J. VI\S$I:,[.L2. YOU ARE ORDERED TO APPEAR IN THIS COURT AS FOlLOWS. TO GIVE ANY LEGAL REASON WHY THIS COllAT

    SHOut.D NOT FINO YOU GUILTY OF CONTEMPT, PUNISH YOU FOR WIUFULLY DISOBEYING ITS ORDERS AS SETFORTH IN THE AFFIDAVIT BELOW AND ANY ATTACHED AFFIDAVITOF FACTS CONSTITUTING CONTEMPT: ANDREQUIRE YOU TO PAY, FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE ~ 1 O V l N G PARTY, THE ATTORNEY FEES ANDCOSTS OF THISPROCEEDING.

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    . u. " A L tRESPONOENTIOEFENDANT: LLOYD J. VASSELL

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    e. 0 I am requesting that attomey tees and costs be awarded to me fO f the costs of pursuing lhis COl'lIeft'lPl action. (Acopy of my fnoome and Expense DedaratkJfJ (form FL-l50) is attad1ed.)

    WARNING: IF YOU PURSUETHIS CONTEMPTACTtON, IT MAY AFFECT THE ABILITY OF THE DISTRICTATIOANEY TO PROSECUTETHE ClTEE CRIMINAllY FOR THE SAME VIOLAnONS.- _t declare under peoaI1y of perjury under the Iaw$ of the Slate 01 CaNlornia thalltle foregoing is II'1J8 and cormct.Dale:

    ANGELICA G. HALE

    OADERTO SHOW CAUSE AND AFFIOAVTT FOR CONTEMPT

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    FL'IIOATTACHMENT 8d :1am including below a status and overview on how my access to the children has been. r a m now livingin California; however the order is based on my l iving in Florida. A modification is also being filed toaddress my concerns as well as updating the parenting plan. My main concern IS access to mv sons.The current order states:-"The minor children of the parties, Christian and Toylor sholl be in the custody ofPetitioner AngelicaLewis Hote in the Boy area or i/ she is not available, thematernol grandparents Charles lewis and AdellLewis on the third w e d ~ n d of /!och month. ..My son's last visit with their maternal grandparents was in March 2011, and previous to that in January2011. They did not see me or their matemalsrandparents in February 2011 and April 2011.- "Respondent shoJI consult with the Petitioner by email or other means on ony non-emergency decisionshaving to do With the children's healrh, educotlon and welfore...He sholl also notify Petirioneran onongoing basis os to the welfare of the children. Respondent shall also authorize all of the children'sd o c t o r . ~ , teachers, medical professionals, social workers, therapists and ather service providers to provideinformation to petitioner at her request_"-The defendant is not allowing agencies to release records as stated in the court order. On March 2,2011, ) contacted Cristina Bautista of the North Bay Regional Center, a case worker for Christian Vassellto have access to his records. The Mr . Vassel! told her not to release records to me. To dat e, I have no treceived a c c e s ~ to C h r i ~ t i a n ' $ records.The defendant is not communicating in any way regarding any non-emergency decisions haVing to doWith the children's health, education and welfare ...He shall also notify Petitioner on an ongoIng basis asto the welfare of the chi ldren. In March 2011, the Mr. Vassell relocated my son to a new addresswithout informing me of his whereabouts nor has he given me any information on the wel fare of mychi ldren. I cal led and his phone was disconnected. On April 20, 20111 sent a letter tomy son Christianand it was returned to me as Mr. Vassel! has moved from his last known address.

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    ORDER AFTER HEARING(5/])/02 Hearin8)

    No. 845298-8

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    andANGELICA LEWIS HALE

    Per,.J\nd based upon the partial stipUlation "y the parties and offers of proof, and good

    Tilis matter having come on for heanl1 on May i3 , 2002 in Deparnnem 14 oflhis

    Petitioner Angelica Lewis Hale being personally present in Court wilh her anomey Ira H.

    J. The minor chddren of the parties. C ~ i s l i a n and Taylor shall be in the custody ofPetitioner /\.ngelica Lewis Hale In ! ~ ; ; ' Bay area or i f she is not available, the

    Petitioner:

    IT IS ORDERED. ADJUDGED. AND ;)ECREED AS FOLLOWS:

    Application for Orders filed by Petitioner Angelica Lewis Hale on October 31, 2002, andCourt, the Honorable Judge Stephen Dombrink, on the Order to Show Cause and

    SuPERiOR COCRT Ot CALlFOkNiA, COliN i Y OF AL

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    maternal grandparents Charies LeWIS and Adell LeWIS on the thIrd weekend ofeach month. In 2002. this shall be Ihe weekends ofMay 24, 2002. June 14.2002.July 19, 2002, September 20, 2002, October 18, 2002, November 14, 2002, andDecember 20. 2002. Weekends shall begin at 7 PM on Friday and end at 6 P.M. onSuuJay. As in previous years. the panies wiii remain flexible about ..he: Christmasholidays. Respondent shall provide all transportation.The children shall have two telephone calls with Petitioner each week. One callshall take place on Tuesday everung at 7:30 PM (pST). The second call will alsohe Ilt 7:30 PM (Psn each Wednesday e v e n i n ~ _ Peritioner shall iniriMe bothweekly calls and Respondent shall make the children available at those times.

    3. Both children suffer from autism, and maintaining consistency in differentcn ... i r o n m c n ~ is critical t.... c:lJecti.ei) manage their behavior. To ensure !.ala. tilesame rules apply at the grandparents' home or when the children are with Petitionas at Respondent's home. Respondent shall give Petitioner or Charles and AdellLewis a note detailing any special circumstances, such as puruslunents or

    weekend. Petitioner or the grandparenrs should give Mr. Vassell a note detailingany special events or circumstances that occurred during the weekend.

    4. On tnose w e e K e n a ~ woeo the chllQren are WIth Peulioner or Charles and AdellLewis, the' materna; grandparents. i: wiil be necessary for Taylor to miss hisSaturday morning karate class . On that week, he will make up the class onTuesday evening. Petitioner and Respondent agree that on that week, there will be

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    no Tuesday night call from Petition on the week the children are with her orC h a r l ~ a"ld Adell Lev-is.

    5. Only Taylor shall be with Petitioner or with Charles and Adell Lewis untilChristian's doctors approve his VIsits.

    6. Responaent shall continue to have sole legal custody of the minor children as thePetitioner resides in Florida. Respondent sb&l1 consult with the Petitioner by e-mail or other means on any non-emergency decisions having to do with thechildren's health. education, and welfan:. (It is not sufficient that he give thegmn.dparents notice) He , ; ~ I alsC' "(lrify Petitioner cn an ongoing basis as ,0 thewelfare of the children. Respondent shall also authorize all of the children'sdoctors, teacher's, medical professIOnals, social workers, therapists, and other,;c,nice providers to provide ~ H l t l O n to PetJuoner at her request.

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    F PETmONERlPLAINTIFF:ANGELlCA G. HALE[

    Ht:.SIJONOENWEfENOANT; LLOYD J. VASSELL, OTHER PARENT:

    l I & ~ 5 : : ' 9 8 - 8AFADAYIT OF FACTS CONSTITUTING CONTEMPT

    Domestic VlolencelCustody and VisitationAttachment to Order to Show ~ u s e and Alffdavit for Contempt (form Fl-41 0)

    1. 0 The Cilee ha s violated the restraining ord8f issued on (date): by con1achng. molesting,harassing. anecking, striking. threatening. sexually assaulting. banering. telephoning. sendingany messages to, lollowing,stalking. destroying the pefSO/lal property or, disturt:ling the peace 01. keeping IJflder surveillance. Of blOCking movements inpublIC places ana tnofOI.Jghlares at me Of any 0UleI' person protecteG by:he restrairnng oroer. i$peafy"ollt-.ich order wasvioIa/ed. how the 018f was vfoIated, and whet11h& violatiOn OCCU"ed):

    o Continued on Altachmenl1.2. 0 The Cilee has violated the restraining order issued on (dale): by not moving from and

    staying away l rom lhe lesideoce as ordered by the court . (Specity how /he 0tT:1er was vioiated and when the viOlation0CCtJn8dj: o Continued on Anachmenl 2.

    3, L_J The Ci!ee has YioIaI:ed the restrainir>g ord

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    VISITATION CALLS & OTHER ACTIONSRELATING TO CASEEACH HIGHLIGHTED ENTRY IN BOLD IS A CONTEMPTCOUNT - VISITATION OR ACCESS TO RECORDS- - - ~ ~ - - ~ , - -- - -DAY DATE DETAILSSUNDAY 812912010 "HI ANGELICA". 1CORRECTED HIMSUNI)AY 9/5/Z01U LLOY I) ANSWERED - "CALL BACK

    TOMORROW" (MONDAY 91612010)MONDAY 91612010 NO ANSWER AND NO RETURN CALLSUNDAY 911212010 NO A>'1SWERILEFT MSG TO CALU WE

    WANT TO KNOW IF HE LIKED illSBIRTHDA\ ' GIFTI NO RETURN CALL

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    SUNDAY 101312010 LAUREN ANSWERED - ASKED US TO CALLI HACK SHORTLY - TALKEDTO CHRISTIANSUNDAY 1011012010 NO ANSWER/LEFT MSG TO CALL US BACK!NO RETURN CALL

    SUNDAY 10/1712010 NO ANSWER/LEFT MSG TO CALL US BACK!NO RETURN CALL

    SUNDAY 1 1 0 1 2 ~ 1 2 0 1 0 +- NO ANSWER/LEn- MSG TO CALL US BACK'"ISUNDAY NO RETURN CALLTALKED TO CHRISTIAN -HE WAS RUSHED1/7/2010 UH I 'HONE TU STAY UNOER 2 MINUTES.SUNDAY 11/1412010 MY BlRTHDAY WEEKEND - LAUREN

    ANSWERED - ASKED US TO CALL BACKI SHORTLY - TALKED TO CHRISTIANSUNDAY 1112112010 r- NO ANSWERILEFT MSG TO CALL US BACK!NO R ~ T l J R N CALLTHURSDAY 11/25/20 I0 TAYLOR CALLS ME ON THANKSGIVING ANDLETS ME TALK TO CHRISTlANfTAYLORUPSET

    !SUNDAY 11215/2010 ,- LAUREN ANSWERED - TALKED TOCHRISTIAN BRIEFLY - I CALLED AGAIN-IHI-.N'LAURENCALLSME lUHAVEACONVERSATION - WE DISCUSS MY NOTHAVING VISITATION ACCESS AND THEMISUNDAY

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    SUNDAY . 1212012010 1CALL 3ACK iLEA VE MSGSATURDAY 1212512010 CHRISTMAS - CHRISTIAN CALLS MESUNDAY 11212612010 NO ANSWERILEFT MSG TO CALL US 3ACKIISUNDAY NO RETURN CALLTA YLOR TALKED TO CHRISTIAN - DIDN'T1212011 TALK TO ME BECAUSE HE WA S "BUSY"

    EATING DINNERSUNDAY 11'112011 CHRISTIAN WAS EATING DINNER-DISTRACTED - li E SAID "II I ANGELICA"AND I CORRECTED 111M, RUSHED OFFPIIONE TO EA T-- --SUNDAY 1/1612011 NO ANSWER/LEFT MSG TO CALL US BACKICHRISTIAN CALLS BACK

    1THURSDAY 11!1OI2OII I TAYLOR RETURNS BACK TO LLOYD'S HOMETAYLOR HAS ARGUMENT WITH LAURENUNDAY 112312011 ON WA Y BACKTOCAMPUSIWE CALLED FO R CHRISTIAN - NO ANSWERIASKED LAUREN TO CALL US BACKBECAUSE WE HAD SOMETHING TODISCUSSI NO RETURN CALL

    MONDAY 112412011 LLOYD & PLACER COUNTY FILE CS- -- CONTEMPT CASE AGAINST ME- - - - - - - -- '--. 'CALLED CHRISTIAN - HE WAS RUSHED-OFF-UNDAY 113012011 PHONESUNDAY ?J6.'2011 LAUREN ANSWERS, TELLS US TO CALL BACKAT 8PM AND HANGS UP ON US

    SUNDAY 2/1312011 NO ANSWERILEFT MSG TO CALL US BACKINO RETURN CALLSUNDAY 212012011 NO ANSWERILEFT MSG TO CALL US BACKINO RETURN CALLSUNDAY 212712011 NO ANSWER/LEFT MSG TO CALL US BACKINO RETURN CALLTA YLOR TELLS ME THEY ARE MOVING TO

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    , '. , , , ,WEEKS..SUNDAY )/19/2011 TAYLOR IS AT NEW HOUSE FOR SPRINGBREAK AND LETS ME TALK TO CHRIS1IA'"-WEDNESDAY )12312011 FIRST APPEARANCE ON CS CONTEMPTFRIDAY )12512011 CONTEMPT CASE DIMISSED WITHOUT

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    hey sweetie - Yahoo! Mail

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    On May 21, 2011, Christian and I were just putting the dishes awaywhile dad was with us. lauren was somewhere else while we (the males)remained at home. During our chore, dad (Lloyd) wanted Christian toput an extra cleaned dish away in a different area in the house. As Imind my own business, I hear dad telling Christian to put away thedish in the direction he wanted Christian to put in. Christian wasmaking some mistaes and dad soon became intense as Christian wastrying so hard to remember which is right and left.This scared me and Christian. I was holding a cleaned lid which coversa pot as I watched. I was thinking Christian would be able to rememberhow to tell which was right and left v ia hands t help him. Dad becameto hard on Christian as he was afraid as always. I knew this wouldhappen again to Christian while Christian was screaming in fear anddad being hard on him again. I heard and seen enough from that monsterand I told him to leave Christian alone so he can try to keep calm.Dad said the f-word and telling me to stay out of his business whilecoming closer to me. We both attacked each other. I used the lid toattack my dad after he made the first move. I ripped his shirt whilestanding as along as I could to defend myself from the tyrant who Iuse to trust. We both hurt each other and Christian was frightened. Iwas telling dad, while fighting him and defending my frightenedbrother, , wanted to help him. He did not care and think at air. I hadto think about Christian because I knew all along my dad and laurenwere raising him in the wrong way the whole time.I was soon pinned on the ground and I was bashed on the head. I wasstill strong while on the ground, keeping my fater from hurtingmemore too easily. Then we stopped fighting and he told me to packmyf- ing bags and go to you.I wil l never forgive him for what he has done to me and Christian andall others he harmed mentally/physically.After recovering from the fight and getting some bags ready, dad camein with a hammer. He told me i f I touch him again, he will bash myhead with the hammer many t imes and kill me. Hewas going to kill me.No one was there for me. No one. I saw a person who I wanted toforgive and help become the most nightmarish thing in my existence. Hemade me feel weak and stupid and defensless. After threatening me andtelling me he doe notneed my help to raise Christian, he left me 10pack up and send you text messages behind his back.Outside my room, where I pack, I hear him say he wilt burry me outside

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    : hey sweetie Yahoo! Mail

    in the pack porch after murdering me.

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    :'( If he killed me to defend himself and continue to be his way, hewould have destroyed Natalie Portman's new film I am working on, hewould continue to behave in his own fashion while hiding my dead body,and he would have ruined my future and cause all of my friends towonder about my disappearance. He would lie about how I wantedChristian to be safe and not have to be afraid of the horrors of thisfamily. I HATE HIM! HATE HIM!I was glad to get your attention to help bring the police to Napa tocomfort me. I was frightened about my dad. I was crying so hard afterI was telling the police about what was happeing to me for years. Inever wanted to hatemy family. I never wanted to hate Lauren orLloyd. It was terrible Jiving with them. You have no idea of thehorrors I still have inmy mind and how my dad continues to be thesame person with not changin lifestyle in 20 years of my natural/ife.He must payl He must PAY! One day! Not this year. Not next year. Hemust pay for mentally harming you, me, Christian, and others. Notthrough physical force, but something to make him truly understand howsomeone like him must learn from his own actions and what would happenif he pushes thigs too far.I am sorry for trying to help him and everyone try to stay well. Hewas horr ible and I was always weak headed because of his presence. Nowonder I was not told the truth about him. No wonder I was afraid oftelling him about how I feel about some things. He almost destroyed meand I almost lost my happiness for good. I almost died in vain andChristian was very scared about Lloyd's parenting. I still feel thesame head bump on my head today. Dad has made one of my dar1c:estpredictions and nightmares come true and I could not prevent it. :,(Taylor V

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    your story - YahOO! Mail

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    Lauren was never back to see me and I never said good-bye toChristian. Iwanted Christian to feel better. Dad sent me a textmessage, but I rejected it and deleted i t s ince I lost him completely.I did not read it at all. I still continue to feel mental pain today.I don't think Lauren truly cares about my feelings at all. I trustedher and she almost left me to d ie because her husband could never betrusted. She married a deadly menace.The person who picked me up was Mr. Booker (a friend of family). Icannot explain anymore. I need to relax still because I need to finishthat orientation for school.On 5/22111, Angelica Hale wrote:> Hey Sweetie,>> I want to know more about what Christian was doing before, during and after> the incident and how he was feeling. Also, was he crying at any time?>> Also I want to knOW' more about what Lauren was doing before, during and> after the incident and how she was feelinglwhat she was saying to Lloyd, you> or Christian. Did she try to intervene at any> t ime or help you or him? Also, have you heard from them since you left?>> And the guywho drove you to Fairfield...how long after the f ight did he> show up and what did he see. What was saki when he was there. VVl'lat did> Lloyd tell him? Did you notice if anyone else saw you leave with him (ie:> neighbors, security guard)?>> Hang in there and rest up sweetie. His actions are NOT ok for you or> Christian. .>> Love,> Mom>>>> On Sun, 5/22/11, Angelica Hale wrote:>> From: Angelica Hale > Subject: Re: your story> To: "Taylor Vassell" > Date: Sunday, May 22,2011,8:31 PM>> Sweetie,>> thank you for tel ling me the truth and we are all praying for your rest and

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    -May 21, 2011 . The day of the v""-'ent incident, when lloyd beat Taylor dowrr"-- suggesting that lloyd was being -, mean and abusive to Christian. .gelica was the one person Taylor called fOI l1elp. In the end. he thanked her for calthe Police to intervene. Taylor was angry thaI Lloyd had blamed him for the incident When Lloyd and Taylor were done fighting lloyd had a tom shirt. lloyd brought out a hammer, and told Taylor, in front of Christian. that . in the future, he would kill him, and bUry him in the backyard if he was ever violent again. ;

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    Thanks for tell ing me the truth about Lloyd and Lauren tell ing you guys to cal l me by my f irst name. This is justone of the reasons why I dont talk to Grandma and Pepa, besides them deciding not to send me any money togo see a doctorwhen I was injured in my car accident, because they won't stand up for me when i t came toyour dad and Lauren's behavior towards me.Your grandparents act like they do care, but they allowed this type of behavior to go on without speaking theirmind and standing up for me to Lloyd/Lauren when Melvin and I asked them to do so. You should always try tohonor and respect your parents, but that doesn't mean that you have to be around them forever if they are notdoing the right thing. I am not advising you to not l ike your grandparents, I am explaining why I have not beenin touch with them. Lloyd's mother has not helped the situation either. I have never said any negative things toyou about your dad nor asked you to cal l your dad "Lloyd" while you were growing up like your dad and hismother and family has done to me.Soon, you will be able to be on your own, and won't have to worry about this any more. Enjoy your t ime andindependence in school. Studying hard and getting good grades ensuresmore independence for you! Keepstudying hard. give yourself breaks, and keep the television to a minimum for study time.Christian deserves the same access to me as you do, too. And now he doesn't say that he loves me any morelike he used to. I always tell you guys kisses and I love you on the phone. In addition, I think they moni tor hisconversation with me and they rush him off of the phone, IF they answer the phone at all. They never al lowChristian to return my calls. I think the only reason I got through lastweek and tonight is because you broughtit up to them that I can't get through on the phone. It is selfish of them, and because I have had hard times, it isnot fair. Don't think that all Christians are l ike this. Focus on success andwe will keep trying to get you whereyou want to be! Fight against the negat ive and stay positive. It's hard not to hate, but it is not impossible to bevictorious. Keep up posit ivity by deep breathing, positive prayerful thoughts and trying to think of funny orposit ive things (or even a funny movie). Know that Jesus always wins in the end!I love you sweetie, and .remember that even jf you dont like what they do, don' t let them make you blow up.Take a deep breath, keep your eyes on the prize that soon we will get you to a better space, and that'sachieved by focusing on your education. t know it's hard, but not impossible.I am working on a way to try to get you ou t here or with me somewhere quickly, so try to stay calm asyou can, so take a deep breath and relax . You can call me at ANY TIME.

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    In these photos we are picking up Christian and Taylor frommy parents house ;n Fairfield ;n May 2004. We brought themhome to Elk Grove at least once a month fo r three years!The email to Lloyd that follows this exhibit documents thesevis its. Uoyd cla imed in his declaration to the court inAlameda that we never l ived in northern California! Thatwe moved from Florida to Los Angeles. A bizarre l ie indeed.

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    Hale family outing to the California State Fair, Sacramento, August 24, 2005.Christian Vassell, Taylor Vassell and Angelica Hale (Melvin away on business).

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    Angelica takes Christian and Taylor to 6 Flags MarineWorld in Vallejo for a familyouting, June 29, 2008.

    The professional photo above was purchased by Angelica for Taylor, and for the familyscrapbook. The photos below came from Angelica's cell phone.

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    Hale family outing to the California State Fair, Sacramento, August 15, 2008.Melvin, Angelica, Taylor and Christian.

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    Taylor and Mom

    Angelica at Taylor's High SchoolGraduationVintage High SchoolNapa, CaliforniaJune 2009

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    North Bay Regional Center CaseManagement Supervisor, DeannaKirkpatrick stated in her Report to theLA Probate Court, dated 9-19-2011that "Angelica G. Hale is not activelyinvolved in the life of her son ChristianAngelo Vassell, and has not seen himsince the summer of 2008." Thesephotographs tell an entirely differentstory, and make it crystal dear that theNorth Bay Regional Center IS NOTCREDIBLE. PERIOO.The North Bay Regional Center has joinedwith Lloyd Vassell in his relentless vendettaagainst me, conducting a visciouscampaign of slander and libel to anyonewho would listen. The words andrecommendations of the North BayR ~ i o n a l Center CANNOT BE TRUSTED.This is why I have filed a gr ievanceaganst them with DDS.

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