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When a life ends, it may be referred to as the final chapter of a book or perhaps a precious rose picked from the garden. I’d like to consider my life as the theme and chorus of a song that had been chosen to bear only my name, “Loys”. A one-of-a-kind song with its own “special” sound, because no two people can be the same. A song written in its own tone and key reflecting a note that formed a loving and lasting melody entitled “Family and Friends”.
— Loys Jean Moore
She Will be Called…One day a promise was made to the young Loys Jean (Parson) Tabb, during a revival
service that a little baby girl would be named after her. And so in the year of 1955
on the 23rd day of May, in Saint Louis, Missouri, a beautiful bouncing baby girl, Loys
Jean Moore, was born. She was the second child of three children born to the
happy marriage of Roxalana (McCoy) and Lemuel Nathaniel Moore, Sr.
Loys received her primary education at the Gundlock School in
the City of St. Louis and McKinley School of Normandy, Missouri.
She attended Normandy Jr. High and Normandy High School until
her senior year at which time she transferred to the North County
Technical School. There she graduated with honors specializing
in Business and Office Education. While receiving this training, she
gained experience working part-time as a Data Entry Operator with
major corporations such as Schnucks Supermarket General Office,
Emerson Electric, Ventures Stores, Central Medical Center, and
Comprehensive Hospital.
The Epitome of Motherhood…On July 24, 1973, to William J. Bayless and Loys, Monica LaVerne was born. This baby girl
became the pride and joy of this new mom’s life. Loys was very thoughtful in deciding the
perfect name for her daughter. In fact, Loys loved this child so much that she wanted her
daughter to have her same initials choosing “ML” to compliment her “LM.” Ultimately, she
chose the name Monica, which means a beacon of strength, stands tall with authority, offers
great advice to those in need, listens to the ideas of others, enjoys the fulfillment of a job
well done, and gives her opinion freely. Loys would soon discover that the name accurately
described her daughter.
Loys was a loving, devoted and caring mother who could often be found doubling as Monica’s
outstanding “mom-mager”. She wholeheartedly supported her daughter’s hopes and dreams.
She sacrificed and invested much of her life to ensure that Monica would become the person
God designed her to be. All who knew them witnessed an amazing bond shared between
the two. Their time together over the years created many special memories. One of
Loys’ fondest memories was traveling to Europe to accompany Monica
while she was on tour. She was peacock proud that her baby girl
grew up to become a beautiful woman, an outstanding Minister
of the Gospel, an amazingly
devoted wife and mom,
an anointed vocalist, and a
faithful loving daughter who
persevered to the very end
with her mother.
Reflections
Monica was not the only recipient of Loys’ outpouring of nurture and love. She
became “Mom” to many other young girls and boys. Her influence and role
modeling helped to shape each of them into women and men…they too are
forever grateful for God’s gift of “Mama” Loys.
In 1973, two additional blessings came into her life. While working at
Sverdrup Engineering and Architectural Firm, she met a charming,
handsome, widower and single father, Robert L. Thompson. His three-year
old daughter, Cheneé, would soon become her other child who was raised
as Monica’s sister.
On April 27, 2002, Loys’ family continued to grow. This time the addition
was a new son, Danté R. Quick. Of Danté she writes, “We’ve shared some
serious moments, but also a lot of laughs and crab legs. I truly believe
he loved me. He was my partner in crime when it came to
Monica. We both tried to have each other’s back when one
of us upset Monica.” Loys could often be heard telling others
how he treated her like she was his own mother. She was
proud and thankful to call him son!
Loys was also blessed significantly when she became a
grandmother. Chenee’s sons, Jalen and Little Phil of Nashville,
Tennessee, affectionately called her “Granny”. Even at a young
age Jalen enjoyed spending time with Granny, especially his
summers because of the adventures and fun.
To her other pride and joy, Alexander and Kennedy, she was known as
“Nana”. Of Alexander she writes, “Handsome and loving! He is a huge
fan of President Obama and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Alexander is
definitely smart enough to become another U.S. President of color.”
The two of them could often be found playing and hanging together.
Loys always loved the name Danielle (she was a lover of the
Danielle Steel movies) and when given the privilege of naming her
only granddaughter she named her, Kennedy Danielle. She says
of Kennedy, “Adorable!! She is an upcoming Queen of Soul, R/B, Pop and
Gospel. The girl loves music just like her mom and big brother.” Alexander
and Kennedy loved their “Nana” dearly.
Gifts Making Room…All who knew Loys could testify that she definitely was exceptional in
the home and on the job. In early 1978, Loys was offered a position at
Missouri Pacific Railroad. In August of that same year, she was hired at
Unilever (formerly known as Lever Brothers) where she remained until
the company relocated to Baltimore in 1999. At Unilever she worked
in many capacities including Maintenance Clerk, Computer Operator,
Engineering Secretary, Payroll Clerk, and Accounting Auditor. In
October 1993, she was hired part-time at the Edison AIRPARK to
handle their account billing. She also worked briefly with Triple
A Homecare. Loys had an excellent work
ethic. She was a highly valued, loyal,
dedicated professional, and an energetic
leader who was also a warm and “true”
friend to all of her co-workers. Loys was
blessed to become life-long friends with
many with whom she worked.
What happens to a man is less significant than what happens within him.
— Louis L. Mann
A Helping Hand…With a successful accounting career behind her, she recognized a
desire to no longer work for another corporation. However, hard
work was still ahead. In 2003, Loys’ entrepreneurial spirit and
passion for helping others resulted in her own home health care
agency, Choice Community Care, Inc. in East St. Louis, Illinois,
where she served as CEO. Loys was determined to care for the
underserved residents of the city by providing quality medical
services.
Because of her concern for the health and wellness of people
in her community, she became a part of the Witness Project,
Greater St. Louis team, which conducts Breast & Cervical
Cancer Education. Later, Loys partnered with and became an
Ambassador for the American Heart Association. As part of the Heart
Association, Loys had the distinct honor of accompanying Dr. Bobby
Jones (of BET) and other celebrities during the Power to End Stroke Health
Fairs and Gospel Tours. She was a dedicated member of the Greater East
St. Louis Consortium, which is an alliance of community health and social
services. They are dedicated to ensuring that the residents of the Greater
East St. Louis region have access to quality services and healthcare.
A Touch of Class…Loys was a true perfectionist and a wonderful organizer
with a keen attention to details. She had a gift for turning
the ordinary into the extraordinary. Her touch of class
brought about huge successes for many endeavors. She
was called upon (from far and near) to lend her expertise
in planning for numerous church functions, concerts,
recordings, workshops, weddings, parties, and events.
In addition to her event planning skills, Loys was known for her quick sense of
humor (a true comedian), fashionable style (she was the shoe lady), greeting cards (just call her
Ms. Hallmark), and oh yes, Ms. Paparazzi, let’s not forget her camera (photography was her real
passion). In 2010, she started a photography and event planning business called “Pictures and
Moore.” Her motto was “A great IMAGE for the rest of our life.” She was a collector of stamps
and, in her spare time, enjoyed shopping and creative writing.
Loys belonged to several social clubs. She was one of the three original members of the Love
Unlimited Social Club. This club took St. Louis by storm and was well known in the community
for hosting numerous fund-raisers and monthly birthday parties. She was also a member of the
St. Louis Dream Team Investment Club.
There is no legacy as rich as integrity.
— Unknown
Faith, Family & Friends…Loys was raised in and joined the Community
Mission Church of God in Christ in December
1966, where her father, the Late Bishop Lemuel
N. Moore, Sr., served as Pastor. While she
always had a solid spiritual foundation, it wasn’t
until December 1996, that Loys rededicated
her life to the Lord, confessed a hope in Christ,
and accepted Jesus as her “personal” Savior.
She developed and maintained a profound
faith, which sustained her throughout the
years, particularly during her illness. It was
her devotion to God and understanding of Christ’s mission while on earth that propelled her
“unofficial” call to ministry in the form of helping and serving others no matter what the cost.
Her first “unofficial” sermon was given in September 2006, at Community Mission’s Annual
Women’s Conference. The theme, “Fruit of the Spirit”, was an easy topic for her to speak on
because Loys had tried to exemplify them all in her everyday life.
After her father’s demise, she faithfully attended, served, and assisted The Church of East St.
Louis in numerous capacities under the pastorate of her brother, Bishop Lemuel N. Moore II.
Loys participated in the choir, chaired several annual day committees, was the originator of the
church bulletin and newsletter, worked on the office staff, and served as the church’s Executive
Secretary to the Pastor. She shared unselfishly of her numerous talents and skills, tirelessly
extending assistance whenever and wherever needed, fulfilling many noteworthy achievements.
As Ruth tended to Naomi, “Where you go, I will go; where you lodge, I will lodge; your people
shall be my people, and your God my God.” (Ruth 1:16b), so Loys loved and cared for her
dear mother, Mother Roxalana Moore. This union was unwavering, and Loys made an excellent
companion for her mother. She was a devoted daughter who whole-heartedly supported
Mother Moore as the Supervisor of Women of the Illinois Southeast Jurisdiction of the Churches
of God in Christ. Loys was a favorite among the Women’s Department, always providing fun
and games for their meetings and lending her expertise whenever and wherever possible. As
mutuality personified this relationship, Mother Moore supported Loys in her business venture
and during Loys’ illness Mother Moore made frequent trips to visit and tenderly cared for her
“baby girl”.
Faith and family were twin cousins in the life of Loys. This could be seen at
its best in her relationship with her siblings. Not only was she extremely
proud of her pastor/brother, but his ministry extended to her during her
illness in the Bay Area. During his time with her, they shared prayer and
reflection on God’s healing power. Loys enjoyed a special relationship
with her only sister, Jackie. Both had a deep and abiding love for
good preaching and could often be heard exchanging sermon titles.
This love found no limits in distance as Jackie traveled nearly bi-
weekly to care for her sister.
If a friend is worth more than gold, Loys was rich beyond imagination.
Her caring and gentle nature made befriending her easy. Loys
maintained friendships with people from every segment of her
life and she cherished them all. There are more people than
can be named, yet Loys found particular joy in them all. During
her illness, her friends, particularly Pastor Norma Brooks and
Michelle Walker, were human bridges between her life in
California and her life in St. Louis.
Life, like laughter and love, is best when shared.
— Unknown
Bishop Henry Phillips, Officiating Power of Change Christian Church – Cahokia, IL
The Prelude
†The Processional
†The Invocation ...............................................................................Pastor Charles Washington, M.D. Mount Calvary Church of God In Christ – Freeport, IL
†The Scripture
The Old Testament: Psalm 91:9-16 ............................................. Pastor William J. Bayless Tabernacle of Faith and Deliverance Church of God In Christ – Berkeley, MO
The New Testament: Philippians3:12-21 .......................................... Pastor Lonnie Pullum Moore’s Temple Church of God In Christ – East St. Louis, IL
†The Hymn of Celebration .............................................................................................Congregation “Hold To God’s Unchanging Hand”
(Jennie Wilson, Composer)
Acknowledgements
Condolences/Resolutions ................................................................Mother Lillian Brantley
Proclamation ..........................................................................................Elder Darius Chapman City of St. Louis
The Ministry of Music .................................................................................................The Tribute Choir “Hallelujah”
Precious Memories
Representing all Clergy .........................................................................Bishop William Scott Jurisdictional Prelate, Illinois Southeast Jurisdiction of the Church of God In Christ
Representing The Church of East of Saint Louis ................. Minister Carolyn Nichols
Representing Friendship Missionary Baptist Church .................Deacon Edison Kelly
Time is filled with swift transition,
Naught of earth unmoved can stand,
Build your hopes on things eternal,
Hold to God’s unchanging hand.
REFRAIN:
Hold to God’s unchanging hand,
Hold to God’s unchanging hand;
Build your hopes on things eternal,
Hold to God’s unchanging hand.
Trust in Him who will not leave you,
Whatsoever years may bring,
If by earthly friends forsaken
Still more closely to Him cling.
Covet not this world’s vain riches
That so rapidly decay,
Seek to gain the heav’nly treasures,
They will never pass away.
When your journey is completed,
If to God you have been true,
Fair and bright the home in glory
Your enraptured soul will view.
WorshipThe Order of
Precious Memories
Representing the Host of Friends ..................................................Sister Michelle Walker
Representing the Godchildren/Children ..................................... Sister Amber Rodgers
Representing the Family ............................................................Reverend Monica L. Quick
The Ministry of Music .................................................................................................The Tribute Choir “Safe in His Arms”
The Message of Comfort .......................................................................... Bishop Lemuel N. Moore II Senior Pastor, The Church of East Saint Louis – East St. Louis, IL
The Ministry of Music ........................................................ Elder Ron Bishop & The Tribute Choir “Praise Him in Advance”
The Message of Hope ................................................................................. Reverend Danté R. Quick Senior Pastor, Friendship Missionary Baptist Church – Vallejo, CA
Invitation to Discipleship and Benediction ..............................................Bishop Bruce V. Allen The Church Fellowship – Jacksonville, FL
†Recessional
†—ALL WHO ARE ABLE, PLEASE STAND
Interment Saint Peters Cemetery
2101 Lucas & Hunt Road Normandy, Missouri 63121
Repast Immediately Following Interment Northside Seventh-day Adventist Church
9001 Lucas & Hunt Road St. Louis, Missouri 63136-1500
Worship
Moore to Life…In March 2010, Loys was diagnosed with Breast Cancer and after
several months of chemotherapy in St. Louis, Monica and Danté
relocated Loys to live with their family in California’s Bay Area
to receive further treatment. It was there that she became a
member of and was welcomed with open arms into the family of the
Friendship Missionary Baptist Church (FMBC) in Vallejo, CA where
her son-in-law, Reverend Danté R. Quick, is pastor. There she
gained a newfound family and numerous amazing friends. One
of her proudest moments was watching her darling daughter
conduct her ministry as the first Minister of Music, Arts, and
Worship in the history of FMBC.
While at FMBC Loys personified the words of St. Francis
with vigor, “Preach the Gospel at all times and when
necessary use words.” Yes, preach she did! Through
her living sermon Loys inspired an entire community
as she personified faith in her battle. Whether co-chairing the
pastoral installation committee, singing a solo, or starting the praise wave from the third pew,
Loys impacted the FMBC community with her loving, open, and strong spirit. Ever the social
butterfly, Loys became the center of a community of faith-filled women, who often fought over
the pleasure of caring for her…and caring for her they did.
One to Remember…Loys’ personality was as unique as her name. The way she expressed her individuality is what
made her special. She was an amazing person who was always found inconveniencing herself
to accommodate the needs of others. Her unselfishness and radically generous heart touched
countless lives in ways big and small. Her compassion and giftedness as an encourager helped
to lift many who were discouraged, confused, or troubled by life’s challenges. Her mark of
excellence was demonstrated throughout her life. She will be remembered as a living testament
for her love for people…family, friends and strangers.
Throughout her illness, Loys refused to be defined by her illness in any other way than healed.
And healed she is! “I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the LORD” (Psalm 117:17)
could be found on her lips and in her writings up to the eve of her meeting the Lord. Her faith
and trust in God combined with an abundance of continuous love and prayers helped to sustain
her. On December 26, 2011, the Lord closed the earthly chronicle of Loys’ life and opened the
chapter that will live into eternity.
Loys was preceded in death by her father, Bishop Lemuel N. Moore, Sr.; grandparents, Elder
Andrew and Mother Clara McCoy and Elder Alexander and Lola Moore; aunt, Eunice Walker;
uncles, James Nesbitt, Lebron Moore, C. Adallos Moore, and Justice Moore; niece, Jujuana
“Nikki” Moore; cousin, Sherry Ingram; godmother, Loys Jean Tabb; and her special friend,
Robert L. Thompson.
Those family and friends who will rejoice in and cherish her memory are her daughter and
son-in-law, Monica L. and Danté R. Quick (San Leandro, CA); two grandchildren, Alexander
Danté and Kennedy Danielle Quick (San Leandro, CA); mother, Roxalana Moore; sister, Jacquin
L. Weatherspoon (Phoenix, AZ); brother, Lemuel (Joyce) N. Moore II; two nieces, Dawn
(Aaron) Chisholm (Phoenix, AZ) and Gjonise Meeks; three nephews, Timothy J. and Justin L.
Weatherspoon (Phoenix, AZ) and Andraé Blissett (Flagstaff, AZ); two great-nieces, Madilyn
and Bailee Chisholm; five great-nephews, Joshua Fischer, Andraé Blissett, Jr., Jerimiah Moore,
Austin Blissett, and Aidan Blissett; one daughter (in love), Cheneé Thompson-Beene (Nashville,
TN); two grandsons (in love), Jalen Bond and Philip Beene, Jr. (Nashville, TN); three nieces
Living well does not necessarily mean having an easy life, but rather appreciating what we have and meeting the challenges that come with
strength of character and grace of spirit.— Unknown
(in love), Saundreah (Demetrius) Dunum, DeNeya Brooks, and
Bristikah “Layah” Currie; one great-niece (in love), A’Dore Currie;
four great-nephews (in love), DeBonair and Demington Dunum and
DaBriel and Dior Moore; three aunts, Minnie Hutchinson (Alton, IL),
Hennie (Isadore) Major (Detroit, MI) and Mae Helen (Van) Covington
(Grand Rapids, MI); one uncle, Verlon (Mary) Moore; a host of cousins
including, Karen Hughes, Lisha Lumpkins, Kelly (John) Green, Barbara
Wallace, Charles Spearman, and Cary Ingram; five goddaughters,
Djuana King, Whitnee Whittaker, Feranda Smith, Amber Rodgers, and
Kayln Moore; one godson, Christian Avery; special daughters, T. Shanté
Buckley, Dionne Taylor, Raphaelle Darden, Lisa Garnette, Rhonnie
Gray, Joyce Smith, Juanita Bentley, Lisa Davis, and Ashley
Griffin; special sons, Demetrius Davis, Darius Chapman,
Joseph Anthony IV, Chris and Rob Woodie, and Bellande
St. Louis; other children, Catrina, Will and John Bayless;
special sisters, Eneazer (Austin) Layne, Michelle Walker,
Karen Jamerson, Alicia (Kevin) Rodgers, and Charlotte
Spencer; special mother, Ann Mack; godmother, Robbie
Harris; god sisters, Jacquin Randall, Sherri Randall,
Patricia Phillips, Jeanette Strong and Ruby Willis; god
brothers, Ralph Turner, Ron Bishop, Michael Slater,
Lonnie Randall, and Alfred Randall; special families,
Norma Brooks and Family, Aaron and Janet Slater and
Family, William and Christine Bayless and family, and
Charles and Minnie Washington and Family; special
friends, Lillie Allen, Kandyce Johnson, Naomi Henry,
Sandra Wright, Saundra Barnes, Sherrie Verhaeghe,
Sheila Lloyd, Velva Parker, Nina Jones, Eldrina Jones,
Peggy Smith, Sandy Glider, Linda Sanders, Sheila Slater,
Karen Appelbaum, Ann Vinson, Emma Tibbs, Vivian Moore,
Geri Phillips, Kathy Franklin, Rosalind Borough, Jeannette
Fisher-Kouadio, Gina Turner, Joe McAtee, Franklin Morrison,
Oscar Upchurch, Elcardo Moore, Michael Williams, Eugene
Connors, Kenneth Hawkins, Richard Henderson, Bobby
Williams, Craig Scott, Aaron Young, Irvin Burnett, Robert
Conley, Willie Epps, and Eric Gaston; The Church of East
St. Louis (formerly known as Community Mission Church),
Current and Former Members, Emily Costello, Girthia Payton,
Rosemary Sykes, Carolyn Nichols, Deborah Davis, Sharron
Duncan, Eva Wren, Vivian Cunningham, Cassandra Eason,
Levita Crumble, Christine Harper, Zenda Burns, Audrey
Walker, and Jacque Brown; Friendship Missionary
Baptist Church Family, Carolyn Dyson, Shirley and
Al Lee, Linda Bostic, Madie Lumpkins, Miwanda
Barnes, Mary Jean Ramsey, Alma and Art Upshaw,
Gwen White, Nichelle Miller, Sonia Warner and
the Friendship Health Ministry and Nurses; Choice
Community Care, Inc. Employees and Contractors,
Rhonda Bennett, Paula Nash, Mitchell Miller, Jane
Smith, Kimberly Hopkins, Melba Boyd, and Yvette
Thomas; Corliss Harlen, Wynetta Ledell and the
Staff and Residents of the New Salem Senior
Living Facility (East St. Louis, IL); co-workers at
the Uni-Lever Company and Airpark Corporation;
and a host of other relatives and friends.
LOYS, we will preserve the heritage of your faith, life and accomplishments! You are well loved and will be greatly missed!
Pallbearers:Charles Spearman
Ralph TurnerMichael Williams
Justin WeatherspoonChristian Avery
William Bayless II
Honorary Pallbearers:Alexander Danté Quick
Jalen Montrel Dealo BondPhillip Levon BeeneThe Men of Unilever
The Men of The Church of East St. LouisThe Strong Men’s Ministry of Friendship Missionary Baptist Church
Professional Services Entrusted to: AUSTIN A. LAYNE MORTUARY, INC.
7239 West Florissant Ave.St. Louis, MO 63136
314-381-6900
The Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation
Loys had an unfortunate battle with Triple Negative Breast Cancer (TNBC). For more information or to help find a cure for TNBC, please make a
donation in the name of Loys Jean Moore to the Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation (www.tnbcfoundation.org, TNBC Foundation, P.O. Box 204, Norwood, NJ 07648, 646.942.0242) so that
no more lives are lost to this horrible disease.
FROM THE PEN OF LOYS JEAN MOORE...To My Family and Friends:
This is a poem written by Abraham Lincoln. It is my message to each and every one of you.
Sorrow comes to all…Perfect relief is not possible, except with time. You cannot now realize
that you will ever feel better…and yet…you are sure to be happy again.
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU ALL!LoysFROM THE FAMILY OF LOYS JEAN MOORE...
We, the family of Loys Jean Moore, greatly appreciate your acts of love, kindness and support
during our loved ones illness and during this time of bereavement. Indeed, we do not mourn as
those who have no hope but we rest in the eschatological hope that we will one day see Loys
again. Our sincere gratitude is extended to all of the service participants, Elder Edgar “Petey”
Madison and the Tribute Choir, the Ushers and Nurses of Illinois Southeast Jurisdiction, C.P.
Bannon Mortuary (Oakland, CA), Austin A. Layne Mortuary, Inc., Bishop Luther Blackwell and
the San Francisco Temple Christian Assembly Complex, Pastor Bryan Mann and the Northside
Seventh-day Adventist Church, Joseph Anthony IV for this beautiful keepsake program, and
Pastor Norma Brooks and Triple A Homecare for preparing the hall and food for the repast.
“Thank You” to Dr. Michael Naughton and the staff of the Siteman Cancer Center at Barnes-
Jewish Hospital and Washington University Medical Center, as well as Rev. Carolyn Dyson of
the African American Breast Health Program, Dr. Kathleen Grant, and Dr. Roy Abendroth all of
the California Pacific Medical Center (San Francisco, CA) for the care they gave to our loved
one. A very special note of gratitude is extended to Dr. Hope Rugo, Dr. Jiali Li and the staff
of the University of California, San Francisco Carol Franc Buck Breast Care Center and the
Ida Friend Infusion Center. There is no doubt that their exceptional medical insight and care
gave us more time here on earth with Loys. Finally, a very special “thank you” to the many
friends and family who have graciously made donations to the Triple Negative Breast Cancer
Foundation. Let’s help find a cure!
May God Bless All of You,
THE FAMILY OF LOYS JEAN MOORE