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like a tree a moving conversation about roots & resilience

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like a tree

a moving conversation about roots & resilience

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Director of Talent DevelopmentAmerican Senior Communities

Registered Yoga Teacher

Tree Hugger

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American Senior Communities87 communities• 78 Skilled Nursing Facilities• 13 Assisted Living/Personal Care

Communities• 12 Communities with Garden Homes• ASC Therapies & Wellness • Anew Home Care and Hospice

53 Cities

44 Counties

Nearly 11,000 employees

7th largest employer in the state

Our Mission: To compassionately serve each customer with quality service and excellence.

Our Values:

Compassion

Accountability

Relationships

Excellence

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What can a tree teach us about resilience?

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“When you are up

against a wall…grow.”

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What it is• deteriorating quality of decisions over time

or after a long session of decision making

• not consciously aware of being tired, yet low on mental energy.

• the more choices throughout the day, the harder each one becomes

• the brain either

• looks for shortcuts

• does nothing, decides nothing

What to do about it

• Stop being the decider of everything

• Make big decisions in the morning

• Use a process

• Limit options

• Simplify

• Develop routines

Decision Fatigue“Solid or stripes? Flats or heels? Tall or grande? Latte or drip? Soy milk? Almond milk? Rice milk?”

(J Sollisch, Wall Street Journal 2016 & D Patel, Entrepreneur Magazine 2018)

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COMPASSION (Miriam-Webster)

Sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it

(Cowen & Keltner, 2017)

COMPASSION FATIGUE (Boyle, 2011)

a state where the compassion energy that is expended [by nurses (and others)] surpasses their ability to recover from this energy expenditure

also called secondary traumatic stress

Compassion Fatigue

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“When you are up

against a wall, put

down roots like a

tree…… until clarity

comes from deeper

sources to see over that

wall… and grow.”

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“When you are up

against a wall, put

down roots like a

tree, until clarity

comes from deeper

sources…to see

over that wall and

grow.”

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Physical Body Anamaya Kosha

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Energy BodyPranamaya Kosha

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Mental/ Cognitive BodyManamaya Kosha

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Wisdom/ Personality BodyVijnanamaya Kosha

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Bliss BodyAnandamaya Kosha

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“When you are up

against a wall, put

down roots like a tree,

until clarity comes from

deeper sources to see

over that wall… and

grow.”

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“When you are up

against a wall, put

down roots like a

tree, until clarity

comes from deeper

sources to see over

that wall and grow.”

Carl Jung

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So, what’s YOUR “spirit tree?”

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prickly but productive

• born pioneers who tend to lead the way, their way

• fast, independent and determined, they ensure that nobody stagnates

The roses are proof of their achievements while their thorns represent their painful honesty.

MBTI | DiSC | PI | CliftonStrengths

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playful & positive

• jovial individuals with a love for people and the exciting opportunities life offers

• usually extroverted & the life of the party

• out-of-the-box entrepreneurs

Like palm trees, they are attention grabbing and a picture of good times

MBTI | DiSC | PI | CliftonStrengths

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peace-loving & patient

• usually introverted and all about team and family harmony.

• content to let others go first and take the risks.

Like the evergreen nature of a pine tree, they provide psychological safety and a steady listening ear.

MBTI | DiSC | PI | CliftonStrengths

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planned & punctual

• quality controllers that believe there is one right way to do everything

• thoughtful and sensitive

• prefers advance notice of changes.

Like pruned boxwood trees, they can be molded to perfection.

MBTI | DiSC | PI | CliftonStrengths

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let’s yoga!

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Yoga styles for each tree type

Fertilize: Hot, Ashtanga, Power yoga Prune: Yin/Restorative yoga, Meditation

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Yoga styles for each tree type

Fertilize: Vinyasa yoga, themed yoga, group classes Prune: Meditation, solo practice, Iyengar yoga

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Yoga styles for each tree type

Fertilize: Meditation, Yin/Restorative yogaPrune: Hot, Ashtanga, Power yoga

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Yoga styles for each tree type

Fertilize: Iyengar yoga, solo practicePrune: Vinyasa yoga, themed yoga, group classes

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Box Breathing

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Sun Salutations

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Mountain Pose

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Breath of Fire

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Tree Pose

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4-7-8 BreathingDr. Andrew Weil

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Examen: the remix

think | thank | feel | focus | look ahead

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Dear Friend,

Stand Tall and Proud

Sink your roots deeply into the Earth

Reflect the light of a greater source

Think long term

Go out on a limb

Remember your place among all living beings

Embrace with joy the changing seasons

For each yields its own abundance

The Energy and Birth of Spring

The Growth and Contentment of Summer

The Wisdom to let go of leaves in the Fall

The Rest and Quiet Renewal of Winter

Advice From a TreeIlan Shamir

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Feel the wind and the sun

And delight in their presence

Look up at the moon that shines down upon you

And the mystery of the stars at night.

Seek nourishment from the good things in life

Simple pleasures

Earth, fresh air, light

Be content with your natural beauty

Drink plenty of water

Let your limbs sway and dance in the breeze

Be flexible

Remember your roots

Enjoy the view!Advice From a Tree - Ilan Shamir

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Monica Wearren

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317.528.0077

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