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Life & Living
M.D.ChanderConsultant Chennai
Establish values in your life
• “Wealth without workPleasure without conscienceScience without humanityKnowledge without characterPolitics without principleCommerce without moralityWorship without sacrifice.”
- 7 sins, Gandhi
Care what you think
• “Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny” – Mahatma Gandhi
Discipline
• Self Discipline.• Think about why you
want to discipline yourself !
• This will empower you to overcome any addiction.
• Time Discipline• Time is precious; Waste it wisely. Some time it flies. Some time it crawls.
Simplicity• Living simply is a
voluntary practice of one’s own life style.
• In this materialistic world simple living takes us towards spirituality, health conscious and spending quality time with family and friends.
• Mahatma Gandhi believed in a life of simplicity and self sufficiency.
Generosity
• Giving is the opposite mental state of greed.
• Sometime when we are generous it can change someone else’s life forever.
• True giving is to those who can never repay you.
• Materialistic gifts may produce liability…
• Emotional gifts stimulate tranquility – a feeling of calm; absence of mental stress.
Responsibility• Responsibility is
accountability for a duty or obligation to complete a task.
• We all have to accept full and total responsibility for our actions, everything we have done, and have not done.
• Let us be a responsible person in family, among friends, in the society to have a positive impact on the communities we serve.
Health
• Health is wealth.• Health gives happiness.• Respect your body.• Eat well, sleep well.• Getting fit is all about
mind over matter.
• “Be careful about reading health books. You may die of a misprint.” – Mark Twain
Religion
• Religion relates humanity to spirituality and, sometimes, to moral values.
• Respect your own and the religious beliefs of others.
• Be a better follower of your own religion.
• “ God has no religion “ – Mahatma Gandhi.
• “ My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.” – Dalai lama XIV
Creativity
• It is the act of turning new and imaginative ideas into reality.
• Think and produce.• Be creative at
workplace.• Every individual is
creative; tap your own potential to be creative.
• Creativity is a core competency for managers and one of the best ways to set your company apart from the competitors
Ambition
• Love is a kind of mutual respect for one another.
• Respect gives a positive feeling of self- esteem.
• Respect ourselves guides our morals.
• “Respect yourselves and others will respect you.” – Confucius
• “I cannot conceive of a greater loss than the loss of one’s self-respect .” – Mahatma Gandhi
Respect
• Love is a kind of mutual respect for one another.
• Respect gives a positive feeling of self- esteem.
• Respect ourselves guides our morals.
• “Respect yourselves and others will respect you.” – Confucius
• “I cannot conceive of a greater loss than the loss of one’s self-respect .” – Mahatma Gandhi
Reading
• Reading reduces stress.• Books are very good
companion .• It improves creativity.• They show us how to
live .• You can learn at your
own place.
• Books are mirrors: you only see in them what you already have inside you.” –Carlos Ruiz Zafon
• “Today a reader, tomorrow a leader.” –Margaret Fuller
Listening
• Every good conversation starts with good listening.
• Listening creates a feeling of goodwill in intimate and professional relationships.
• “The less you talk, the more you are listened to .” –Buren, Abigail Van
• “Listening well is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.” – Marshall John
Speaking
• It encourages you to look inside yourself and explores what matters to you.
• Listen to great speaker’s speeches.
• You eyes too can speak.• Develop public speaking
to reach others mind.
• “That’s one small step for man, one great leap of mankind.” – Neil Armstrong. His speech were heard all over the world when he set foot on the Moon.
• “Almost nothing need be said when you have eyes.” – Tarjei Vesaas
Writing
• Writing is truly a creative art.
• … you can write your thoughts & such, for time to come & to stay past the time beyond you …. ( words of a person close to me )
• “You have to write the book that wants to be written…” - Madeleine L’Engle
Passion
• Have passion towards your work. It will certainly take you to reach the goal you aimed.
• Develop a passion of learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow.
• Nothing great in the world has ever been accomplished without passion.
Appreciate
• Make your appreciation sound more genuine and heartfelt .
• things like : thanks a ton, buddy ( buddy makes it more friendly)
• words like: extremely grateful, honestly, sincerely …
• “Everyone wants to be appreciated, so if you appreciate someone, don’t keep it secret.” – Mary Kay Ash
Socialize
• Establish deeper connections with people.
• It gives confidence that you are not alone.
• Encourages Team work.• Builds alliances and
knowledge sharing.
• “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Role model• Role models are those
who possess the qualities that we would like to have and those who have affected us in a way that makes us want to be a better person.
• A person has many role models in their lives.
• “I think role model is a mentor – someone you see on a daily basis, and you learn from them.” – Denzel Washington
Identity• It is the distinct
personality of an individual.
• It takes courage to stand alone in a crowd.
• Create an identity by appearance, habits, work hobbies, possessions, interest, creations, choices, values, beliefs, friends & family
• “Through others we become ourselves.”- Lev S.Vygotsky
• “We are not defined by the family into which we are born, but the one we choose and create. We are not born, we become.” – Tori Spelling
Be a winner in life. Thanks for the patient viewing.