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agile42 | The Agile Coaching Company www.agile42.com | All rights reserved. Copyright © 2007 - 2014. Structure of a Coaching Conversation and how to formulate Powerful Questions Lasse Ziegler - CST, Agile Coach

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Coaching a person is not just about having a small talk conversation on a topic, advising or telling them what to do. What is your approach to the conversation and how are you guiding it to help the person you are coaching? I this workshop I will give a brief overview how a coaching conversation is structured into different levels and phases. In addition I will introduce a good technique on how to formulate powerful questions to help guiding a coaching conversation.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation and how to formulate Powerful Questions

Lasse Ziegler - CST, Agile Coach

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Coaching Conversation?

Which responsibilities does a coach have to make a coaching conversation valuable and bring concrete results? What tactics can a coach use to accomplish those?

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

Contract Agree on

subject, goal and style.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

Contract Agree on

subject, goal and style.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

Contract Agree on

subject, goal and style.

Timeout Reflect on the conversation

so far, renegotiate the contract if necessary.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

Contract Agree on

subject, goal and style.

Timeout Reflect on the conversation

so far, renegotiate the contract if necessary.

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Structure of a Coaching Conversation

Meta level

Conversation level

Contact Show interest

and have a good small-talk.

Contract Agree on

subject, goal and style.

Timeout Reflect on the conversation

so far, renegotiate the contract if necessary.

Summary Summarize the outcome of the conversation and

plan actions.

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Powerful Questions?

What would be a powerful questions to you, as a coach and as a focus person?

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Simple (lineal assumptions)

Complex (circular assumptions)

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Simple (lineal assumptions)

Complex (circular assumptions)

Past (orienting intent)

Future (influencing intent)

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Simple (lineal assumptions)

Complex (circular assumptions)

Past (orienting intent)

Future (influencing intent)

• Clarification • Defining • Examine intentions Picture based on facts: • Who is involved? • What is the problem? • How did it start? • Where did it begin?

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Simple (lineal assumptions)

Complex (circular assumptions)

Past (orienting intent)

Future (influencing intent)

• Clarification • Defining • Examine intentions Picture based on facts: • Who is involved? • What is the problem? • How did it start? • Where did it begin?

• Behavior? • Different perspectives? • Explore intentions Position, relationship and context: • How do you think that X , Y and Z

are experiencing this situation? • In what context is the challenge

biggest? • Who is most/least satisfied?

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Simple (lineal assumptions)

Complex (circular assumptions)

Past (orienting intent)

Future (influencing intent)

• Clarification • Defining • Examine intentions Picture based on facts: • Who is involved? • What is the problem? • How did it start? • Where did it begin?

• Behavior? • Different perspectives? • Explore intentions Position, relationship and context: • How do you think that X , Y and Z

are experiencing this situation? • In what context is the challenge

biggest? • Who is most/least satisfied?

• Hypotheses questions • Possibility questions • Scenario questions • Miracle questions Perspectives, strategies, hypotheses and possible actions: • Imagine that the problem is solved. What

was done in order to achieve this? • If you could do anything to solve this

problem, what would do? • Which expectations about the future

would make sense for X, Y and Z?

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Simple (lineal assumptions)

Complex (circular assumptions)

Past (orienting intent)

Future (influencing intent)

• Clarification • Defining • Examine intentions Picture based on facts: • Who is involved? • What is the problem? • How did it start? • Where did it begin?

• Behavior? • Different perspectives? • Explore intentions Position, relationship and context: • How do you think that X , Y and Z

are experiencing this situation? • In what context is the challenge

biggest? • Who is most/least satisfied?

• Hypotheses questions • Possibility questions • Scenario questions • Miracle questions Perspectives, strategies, hypotheses and possible actions: • Imagine that the problem is solved. What

was done in order to achieve this? • If you could do anything to solve this

problem, what would do? • Which expectations about the future

would make sense for X, Y and Z?

• Indicative • Confronting • Instructing Setting the course: • What objectives? • Which goals? • Actions – who, what and when? • Tasks to do until next time?

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Learnings?

How did these structures help you in the conversation?

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