Keep Him Hooked

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Thousands of books are written every year on the subject of howto keep a man hooked and devoted to you. But almost none ofthose books teach you the exact step by step formula that works.What you usually learn from such books are a bunch of rules ortricks that work in the short term.

ventually the results fi!!le out and your man starts ne"lectin"you a"ain. #ou find yourself back to s$uare one. What you want islon"%term results. To do that means you have to focus on the mainprinciples behind how to keep a "uy hooked& instead of tryin"overni"ht tricks.

'nce you "et the basic principles down& you(ll be able to keep any

man hooked for as lon" as you please.

Before we "et to the step%by%step process& )(d like to tell you whyit(s important for you to properly understand these main principlesbehind what works and what doesn(t.

*sually one of + thin"s happens when a woman is tryin" to fi"ureout how to keep a "uy hooked. ,irst thin" is - She doesn(t know

what to do and stru""les to fi"ure it out.

Secondly& she knows a few tricks here and there& but can(t seem to"et lon"%term results& and thirdly& she does thin"s that sheassumes will work& but surprise of surprises they push the manaway instead. So in a way she makes her own situation "o frombad to worse.

This is the reason why it(s utterly important that you understandthe ri"ht way to do it. )t will save you a lot of heartache and adisastrous endin" to your relationship.

So here(s the bi" secret/The bi" principle on how to keep him

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hooked to you.

Men are genetically wired to pursue or chase.

#our job is to tri""er this pursuit "ene 0 make him come for you.1ot just once or for a short while& but keep comin" and comin"and comin" - like that ner"i!er bunny on commercials.

)f you(re in a relationship this point is still very important2 #ou cantri""er this same "ene no matter whether you are sin"le or in arelationship& so pay close attention. 3et me "ive you some reasonswhy it(s important for you to tri""er this pursuit "ene.

Men have been "enetically wired to pursue women. They havealways chased women from the early caveman history and on.There(s a reason for those caveman cartoons that show a mandra""in" a woman by the hair& or those ancient 4reek myths tellin"about women bein" stolen away.

5emember 6elen of Troy7 She not only had 8aris wantin" her sobadly he stole her from her husband& but her husband "athered his

whole army to "o and "et her back2

Women always "et pursued and men pursue. )t(s within a man(snatural make up to do all the work necessary to pursue a woman.6e naturally feels inspired to do all the work necessary in order topursue you. )t(s not somethin" which can be taken out of him. 6ecan(t help but act on this pursuit instinct whenever you tri""er it.

6e will act overly interested& be infatuated and intri"uedwhenever this pursuit "ene is tri""ered. )n order to further "iveyou more examples of how this really works )(d like to tell youabout my friend Samara.



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6er boyfriend of 9 years was actin" distant. 6e even told her thathe wasn(t interested in bein" with her anymore. She came to mefor help and ) "ave her a few action steps 0 asked her to reportback.

Within a week of practicin" these steps her boyfriend ma"icallystarted actin" more interested and even told her that he was outof his mind for tellin" her that he didn(t want to be with her. 6etold her that he was stupid and couldn(t ima"ine a life withouther. So now& without further ado& let me "ive you the exact step%by%step formula you can use to keep a man hooked/

Step 1 Get him to pursue you y making him in!est more inyou

There is a ri"ht way to do it and then there is the wron" way. )(dlike to first point out the wron" way since this is the most commonroute women take. The wron" way is when you do thin"s orpretend to do thin"s to earn his attention. Most men can seethrou"h that and will know within seconds that you(re tryin" totrick him into somethin". 6e won(t fall for it. #ou don(t have to befake in order to "et his attention.

3et me now point out the ri"ht way. The ri"ht way is to "et thepower or balance back. Which is this - His in!estment in youshould e e"ual to or more than your in!estment in him. 'k& )can just see you scratchin" your head and "oin"& 6uh7 What doesthat mean7(

)n other words& where is the balance in your daily dealin"s withhim7 ;re you the one "ivin" more and "ettin" less7 )f you invest alot in a "uy and he doesn(t invest with an e$ual amount - or more -in return& there is bound to be an imbalance.


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few examples which illustrate that you are "ivin" more 0 "ettin"less/

% #ou pick up after him all the time.

% #ou always call but he rarely calls.

% #ou do lovin" thin"s all the time but he acts indifferent.

% #ou keep him on top of your list of priorities while he "ives youthe avera"e treatment.

So the bi" secret is % take a few steps back when you know he isn(tas invested in you as you are in him. #ou must have seen this exactsame process work time after time between men and women.When one partner "ives a lot to the other& the other one naturallytakes the "iver for "ranted. )n reaction& the "iver ends up tryin"harder to earn more of the attention of the taker because he=sheexpects somethin" in return for what he=she "ave.

>ust "ettin" this one thin" ri"ht will "ive you unparalleled amountsof power in your daily dealin"s with your man. So before ) "ofurther& ) hope you are clear on this concept. )n order to hook him&you have to invest less in comparison to his investment in you.That way he will always keep workin" for your attention.

1ow let me tell you how you can successfully use this in your life.8ull back a little when you feel that you are investin" more and heisn(t returnin" the favor. ,or example: let(s say that he hasn(tcalled you for a few days when he used to call you every sin"leday. )nstead of callin" him or textin" him askin" why he hasn(tcontacted you& take two steps back and "ive him some space.?on(t call him& don(t text him. >ust wait.

?on(t "o to him for attention anymore& let him come to you. )nfact2 ?o not answer his calls or texts for the next few days. Thiswill instantly tri""er his pursuit "ene and he will think - Where isshe nowadays7 Why isn(t she answerin" my calls when she used to



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instantly answer them in the past7 )s somethin" wron"7

#ou see when you stop doin" all the "ivin". )t will naturally hook a"uy. 6e will do the work necessary to "ive you more. 1ow that youunderstand the concept of "ive 0 take/) feel we should "et to the

9nd important step/

Step # Make him see you as a !alua le asset$

?o you know why diamonds are so expensive in comparison toother rocks commonly found7 )t(s not because they(re shiny andnice lookin". )t(s because they(re a rare commodity and not easilyfound. ;s a result people place a hi"her value on them.

Similarly you have to position yourself as a hi"hly valuable asset inhis eyes if you want to keep him hooked for lon". ; "uy will onlywork hard to keep your attention and interest as lon" as he knowsthat you are valuable and he isn(t "oin" to easily find another onelike you.

)n order to achieve this you have to start by treatin" yourself like

the precious commodity you were always meant to be. Theproblem with our present day society is that women don(t valuethemselves enou"h and don(t believe they have anythin" of valueto offer.

; "ood example of this is a conversation ) was havin" with a "roupof female friends recently. ) asked them to write @A ama!in" thin"sabout themselves or positive traits they felt they possessed. Sadlymost of them stru""led to come up with . )n the same experiment) asked them to mention @A ne"ative thin"s about themselves&thin"s they felt they were lackin". Surprisin"ly women easily cameup with @A and some listed so many that they filled up sheet aftersheet.



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)t(s no wonder that so many women stru""le in their relationships2When they can(t see any value in themselves& how can they expecta man to see any value in them7 )t all starts with acceptin"yourself& flaws and all& knowin" that you are still valuable

re"ardless of what others think of you or what you think of you.

That attitude will translate in your body lan"ua"e and you will seeyourself doin" thin"s that make you naturally attractive in a man(seyes. #ou won(t do special thin"s to earn his love or over%compensate to earn his love. #ou will be your best self most of thetime and will display your best attitude in a way which will makehim value you as well.

;lri"ht& so now let(s do a $uick review on what we(ve learned sofar. #ou understand that in order to keep a "uy hooked you have tolet him pursue you and in order to achieve that you have to follow9 simple steps which are - 3et him invest more in you and positionyourself as a valuable asset in his eyes.

1ow when you put these steps into action there are a few thin"swhich will take place that ) need to tell you about.

1 He will act weird %or a while.

This will happen because he isn(t used to you behavin" this wayand as a result will feel a little out of his comfort !one.


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hook him a"ain. Better to stick to the plan& no matter what.

'( &ou might !ary etween your old sel% ) your new sel%.

This is the most common thin" that happens. Women start takin"action on the plan then return to their old behavior momentarily&then try to put the plan into action a"ain& then a"ain "o back totheir old behavior. What a see%saw2

)t(s not only confusin" to you& but to him as well2 This will make a"uy irritated and he will definitely know that you(re puttin" on anact to intri"ue him. ventually it will ruin everythin".

;lri"ht& now that you know what to do and what to avoid& let metell you what will happen when you put this plan into action theri"ht way/

When you practice these two steps consistently& you(ll see almostinstant chan"e in your man(s attitude towards you. 6e(ll starttreatin" you like the princess you were always meant to be. 6ewon(t act hot and cold anymore& he will keep your needs in mind&

he won(t take you for "ranted and will naturally "ive you the loveand respect you truly deserve. #ou(ll feel better about yourself&and so will he.


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