Justin Paul - Focus on the Family Singapore · Justin Paul Assistant Manager / Social Worker...
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Justin Paul
Assistant Manager / Social WorkerProject Head, Project FAMILYFei Yue Community Services
Aspirations & Challenges ofTransnational Couples
Observations from Transnational Family Support Programmes
P R ES ENTAT I ONS 1 & 2 :
Eileen Su
Programme Head (Senior Social Worker)Family Journey Programme
Care Corner Singapore
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Outline of Presentation
• Introduction of Marriage Programmes for Transnational Couples
• Profile of Participants
• Aspirations of Transnational Couples
• Challenges of Transnational Couples
• Summary & Observations
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Programme Objectives
• Marriage programmes customized for transnational couples, since Dec 2014
• Objectives– Help Singaporean-foreigner couples address cross-
cultural issues
– Help the foreign spouse better adjust and integrate into society
– Link couples to available community resources
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Programme Structure
Marriage Preparation ProgrammeEnhanced Cinta Abadi
Marriage Support Programme
Marriage Preparation & Support Programme
Workshops & Support Groups
Social Outings
Volunteer-Couple Buddy Programme
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Role in the system
Low Medium High
Continuum of Complexity & Risk
Transnational Support Agencies FSCs, Specialized Agencies
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PROFILE OF TRANSNATIONAL COUPLES WHO ATTENDED PROGRAMME
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Statistics from the Programme
• Between Dec-2014 and Mar-2017
– 5,544 couples have participated in the programme
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Summary of Profile
• Need for intervention efforts for foreign husbands
• Language Challenge – Vietnamese
• Age of marriage and age difference may give rise to different set of challenges
• Education qualification does represent Singaporeans having a better understanding of policies
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ASPIRATIONS OFTRANSNATIONAL COUPLES LIVING IN SINGAPORE
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Aspirations of Transnational Couples
• Couples aspire to
– Establish a family in Singapore
– Support each other’s families
• Local Spouses aspire to
– Have a home of their own
– Fulfill the expectations of their Families
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Aspirations of Transnational Couples
• Foreign Spouses aspire to
– Call Singapore their home
– Be a good “member” of the family
– Raise their child in Singapore (from previous marriages)
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CHALLENGES FACED BY TRANSNATIONAL COUPLES LIVING IN SINGAPORE
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“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its
own way.”
From “Anna Karenina”, Leo Tolstoy
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Marriage Quiz
• Administered in Marriage Support Programme
• From June 16 to June 17
• Sample Size: 958 pax (479 couples) who participated
in Care Corner’s marriage programme
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Story of Mei Mei
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Foreign Spouses:
- Process of LTVP- Caregiving
responsibilities- Process of employment- Cultural Differences:
Different pace of life- Stereotypes
Common Challenge 1: Employment/LTVP
Couple:
- Lack of income- Long working hours
(ie: 10 hrs daily)- Different
expectations about employment
Local Spouses:
- Unemployment- Worried about
external influences if FS works
- More earning power than me
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Foreign Spouse:
- Interference of in laws in daily life issues
- Emotional Distress- No housing option,
back to country of origin.
Common Challenge 2: Housing Issues
Local Spouse:
- Stuck in between mother and wife
- Lose focus in work due to conflicts at home
Couple:
- Financial difficulty in getting BTO, Resale or Rental
- No personal space- Couple staying apart
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Foreign Spouses:
• Handicapped• Hard to get
employment• Difficulties in
accessing to community resources
Common Challenge 3: Language Issues
Couple:
- Communicate at only basic level
- Emotional needs not met
- Misunderstandings
Local Spouses:
- Helplessness
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Low self worth
Shameful
Stress
Frustrated and
perplexed
No control
Little acceptance at home & community
Lost in direction
Little/no time to build martial relationship
IntrapsychicRelationships
Strained relationships @ work & at home
Couples staying apart
Strained relationships with spouse due to conflicts with in laws
Spouses seeking refuge out of home
Excluded & Isolated
Oppressed &
suffocated
Regrets coming to Singapore
Inhibited & Trapped
Low confidence
Constant anxiety
Depressed
FearfulDivorce due to increase strained relationship
Homesickness
Loneliness
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Challenges faced by Transnational Couples living in Singapore
Aspirations Challenges
Money
Bully
IntrapsychicRelationships
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Observations
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