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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2010VOLUME 2, NUMBER 1

Contents3 Folk Tales on Canvas Artist Colleen Sgroi paints a story into every work of art, especially in her

most recent creation, “Love is All Th ere is.”

6 Love Letters from The Heart Two couples married 50 years share what works–and what doesn’t–

in keeping their marriages strong and vital

14 Robert Calabrese Remembered Billerica’s Renaissance Man Hero, Soulmate, Master, Friend. Although missed, he left a legacy of

laughter and generosity behind for which he will never be forgotten

22 Moving Hearts Toward Hope Christian Singer/Songwriter Julie Kinscheck shares her journey through grace

24 Tackling the Great Imitator: Lyme Disease 2009 was a pivotal year in the treatment of this chronic illness

• By Jenn Gervais

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In this edition:The Sunny Side of The StreetFamily MattersDave SaysCourt’s In SessionGreen HandymanNotes from General SoundVoice of the ArtistIt’s Better Than You Think

Will AchievePet PeevesPower from WithinTeacher’s CornerThe Body EliteMaking CentsOut on the TownThe PlaygroundBusiness to Business

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Liana [email protected]

Well, actually, a few weeks ago. We have been a third-week-of-the-month

publication but we are moving up to a second week. We threw EVERYONE

off this month (so don’t feel bad). But that’s how we do things here at Th e

Green. We like to keep people on their toes.

Well, looking back, Family First Night was a big success. I was so excited

to drive into Town Hall’s parking lot and NOT be able to fi nd a parking

space! Th e crafts were fun. Th e hot dogs were yummy. And the Cat in Th e

Hat looked great. Everyone looked like they were having a great time. I

know we were.

So, WHY are we talking about Valentine’s Day so early? Well, it will be

here before you know it. We decided to theme this edition about-yup, you

guessed it: L-O-V-E. Loving your kids. Loving your partner. Loving your

spouse. Loving your dog. Loving your self. We talked to two couples who

have made it work for more than 50 years. Our columnists shared their

tips on how to incorporate love into your daily life. We paid tribute to a

BMOC-Big Man on Campus- who left a void for many in June. Dr. Robert

J. Calabrese was remembered as generous and thoughtful and is due to be

honored at the upcoming Team Trivia Challenge. Read what those closest to

him had to say. We previewed some upcoming events you’ll want to mark on

your calendar--Team Trivia Challenge, Th e Sweetheart Dance, Th e Billerica

Spelling Bee. Plus, the Out on Th e Town section is overfl owing this month

with lots of other things to do-check it out!

As usual, thanks to our team. Tony

had his Art Gallery Opening Reception. It

was a roaring success and his art will be at

BATV until the end of the month in case

you couldn’t make it. Our columnists

were still recovering from the holiday and

getting back in gear so a few of them are missing this month. But not

to worry! Th ey will be back in the groove for the next edition. Media News

continues to be helpful which we so appreciate.

Remember to follow us on Facebook. We post good news on a regular

basis. Join the Billerica Green group and get the scoop before anyone else.

As usual, please share your feedback with us-good or bad. We want to make

Th e Billerica Green the best it can be. If you want or need news or event

coverage, contact us at 978-808-2361 or at [email protected]. We

are still looking for senior writers and kid contributors.

Be well, Billerica...And stay warm!

Your Editor,

LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

DIDN’T WE JUST GET OUR BILLERICA GREEN?

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By Liana Measmer

It was March 6 at 3:30 pm. Artist Colleen

Sgroi of Colleen Sgroi Art Gallery and

Classes made the fi nal stroke on her ‘Orchard

House’ painting. Th is painting depicted the

historical home of famed author Louisa May

Alcott. Alcott was best remembered for her

book, ‘Little Women’.

Sgroi had glanced at her watch, which

was very unlike her and noted the time. Being

pleased with her work, she put down the

brush. Later that evening she was gathering

all the information she had downloaded off

the web about Alcott when she came across

one sheet describing the author’s life. On it

was listed Alcott’s day and time of death:

March 6 at 3:30 pm.

“I was amazed to fi nd that 113 years

later, to the exact time, I had fi nished this

painting of her home,” said Sgroi.

Th is is only one of the many stories that

Sgroi can tie to her art work. Sgroi, a Billerica

native, has been drawing since she was a child.

As an adolescent, she studied Graphic and

Commercial Arts at Shawsheen Vocational

Technical High School and graduated with

honors. She became a graphic artist until she

had her family. Th en in 1988, she returned

full time to painting professionally, which

was around the time she learned about folk

art. Sgroi has painted folk art as well as

taught it in her gallery, which she opened

eight years ago.

“I like teaching folk art because it leaves

a wide range for people to discover their own

style and talent,” said Sgroi.

Another favorite tale happened seven

years ago when a Bostonian purchased a

piece of her art and had no idea how it

would change her child’s life. Th is woman

had an autistic son who refused to eat.

Every day was a struggle and the mother

grew more and more concerned. Th en one

day, she happened to purchase one of Sgroi’s

paintings, of a bowl of fruit. She brought it

home and hung it in her kitchen. At the next

meal, her son looked at the art work and

began to eat. Every meal afterward, he ate

with no problem. If the mother took the art

work away, he would not eat. It became such

an important tool at meal time that the mom

began to take the painting with her wherever

they went so her son would eat his meals.

She never knew who Sgroi was until Sgroi’s

brother, a Boston building inspector, came

to the door and noticed the painting. Th e

mother begged him to tell Sgroi how grateful

she was for the positive impact her art had

on her family.

“We never know as artists how we will

touch lives,” said Sgroi.

Although she paints realism too, many

of Sgroi’s popular pieces are folk art styled

and include town and village scenes or

depictions. She did a special piece a few

years ago commemorating Billerica’s 350th

anniversary which was a popular sell. At the

end of 2009, Sgroi completed her newest

folk art piece titled “Love is all there is”.

In it, Sgroi hides numerous little hearts

in the various scenes of people on a beach

or walking over a bridge. Th ere is even a

bandstand remarkably similar to the one in

our town common.

Th e inspiration for this piece interestingly

came from watching her children open

Christmas gifts. Her daughter opened a pair

of sunglasses with lenses shaped like hearts.

Sgroi thought it was interesting and made

the connection of looking at life through the

eyes of love.

“Th e message in the painting is if we look

around us, we’ll see love,” said Sgroi. “We

need to decide what we want to see.”

Sgroi’s art has gone all over the world

as well as stayed local. Some of her fans

include Congressman Martin Meehan,

Representative Bill Greene, and Marc

LeBlanc from the sitcom, “Friends”. Th is

year, four of her pieces depicting hope and

inspiration will be hung in a cancer center

in a large Boston hospital. Th ese particular

pieces art exhibits hope, peace, and serenity

and for Sgroi, she’s thankful, which is a

sentiment she is no stranger to.

“Gratitude is the memory of the heart,”

wrote Sgroi as she described one of her

paintings, Th ankful Memories.

In preparation for Valentine’s Day, Sgroi

will be holding an art class for making heart

felt cards. She is calling it Create Love Day

and it will be held on Feb. 4, from 7 - 8:30

pm. For more information, call Sgroi at

978-667-1009 or visit her website at www.

colleensgroi.com.

FOLK TALES ON CANVAS: SGROI PAINTS A STORY INTO EVERY WORK OF ART


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I am made in the image of God. Th erefore,

I am a creator like Him. How exciting is that!

As an artist it gives me freedom to create my

own style of painting. But, what about how

I create love?

One day, my sweetheart, Rob and I were

driving around having fun, as we usually

do. Th roughout the day he almost always

opened the door for me fi rst before getting

into the car himself. When I told him that I

loved that he did that, he smiled and gave me

some creative love insights. “Tell a guy what

he does that you really love and he will do

it more”. “Guys like to win.” I began to tell

him the little things he does that I love. I got

very specifi c because I fi gured, if this is true,

then I want to massively increase my chances

that he will continue to do these things I love

about him.

I said to Rob: “I like when you open the

door for me and then say, ‘after you darling’.

I love how you say what you want to do and

then stop and look at me and say - ‘want to?’

I like when we are someplace, anyplace, and

you always introduce me. I like that you ask

good questions like, ‘What did you enjoy

today?’ or, when I’m upset you say: ‘Did I do

or say something that lead to that feeling?’ I

love when you randomly reach over, without

even looking at me and gently and lovingly

touch my cheek with the back of your hand.

I enjoy fi nding little notes you left for me. I

smile when I come home to fi nd you have

made the bed.”

Get the picture? He does! He feels loved

and appreciated when I tell him what I like

about how he shows me his love. Th en he

wants to do more of the same and I enjoy

more of his love. It’s wonderful!

Do you ever get stuck on what another

person is not doing and wonder how love

is possible in that moment of frustration?

You may be saying, “He should know what I

want!” Or, “I tell him what I like and I never

get it!” Th is is diff erent, however, than seeing

something your sweetheart does that you like

and telling him how you enjoy it. Do you see

the diff erence? Affi rm what you DO want,

not what you don’t want.

Want to be ready for Valentine’s Day?

Make a card with a list of the little things he

or she does that you love and you will create

love. Come by the gallery and we will make

one together on Create Love Day, Th ursday,

Feb. 4 @ 7 to 8:30 pm (call for more info)

Colleen is a teaching artist at Colleen Sgroi Gallery and Art Classes on 12 Andover Road, Billerica, MA www.ColleenSgroi.com (978) 667-1009 email [email protected]

CREATE LOVE

The Voice of the Artist•By Colleen Sgroi


Kinds of insurance Dave recommends?

Dear Dave,I’ve got auto insurance, but can you tell

me what other kinds of insurance are good to have?– Chris

Dear Chris,

Th e purpose of insurance is to transfer

risk. Specifi cally, I’m talking about risk

that you can’t aff ord to take. Most people

can’t aff ord to have a heart attack and triple

bypass surgery. Having to pay for something

like that completely out of pocket would

bankrupt just about anyone. Th at’s why

health insurance is a vital part of any good

fi nancial plan.

It’s also important to have auto and

homeowner’s insurance. If you don’t own a

home, make sure you have renter’s insurance

instead. Don’t forget about life insurance,

either. If you’re married or have kids, you

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income in a good, 15- or 20-year level term

life insurance policy. Th is means if you make

$40,000, you should have about $400,000

wrapped up in life insurance.

Long-term disability insurance is vital.

Th e cheapest way to get this is in a group. If

you buy it yourself, out on the open market,

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your occupation than your age or health. So,

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And don’t forget long-term care insurance.

You need “nursing home insurance” if you’re

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your own home. Th e statistical probability of

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No credit score, no mortgage?

Dear Dave,I’ve never had a credit card or a bank loan,

so I really don’t have any established credit. What should I do when it comes to a cell phone contract or establishing utility service? Also, what will happen if I try to get a mortgage loan at some point?– Matthew

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Th ere’s usually no exception on cell

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you’ll probably get it back in six months or

maybe a year from now. I still run into this

kind of thing from time to time. It’s almost

like you don’t exist if you don’t have debt and

a credit rating.

Th e mortgage lending rules are changing

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making loans. Th ey take a look to see if you

have a stable job and a decent income. Th ey’ll

probably want some kind of proof that you

pay your bills on time, and this could be as

simple as showing them a few electric bills

and other receipts to show that you honor

your fi nancial commitments.

– Dave

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PUTTING THE OTHER PERSON FIRST. BEING THE BEST OF

FRIENDS. NEVER GIVING UP TOO QUICKLY. COMMUNICATING,

COMMUNICATING, COMMUNICATING. SAVING MONEY. JOINING

CAUSES YOU BELIEVE IN TOGETHER. When these couples who have stayed strong meet newlyweds,

they are all too happy to share the tricks of the trade for a solid

relationship. Married for over 50 years, the Windhams and the

Clements never allowed time and distance to tear down the

bonded lives they worked so hard to build. How did they do it? By

remembering that no matter what, love is always the answer.

a love that’s bigger than usGrowing up in Columbus, Mississippi, Nathaniel Windham was

an only child. He described himself as a kid who needed to entertain

himself and thus, had to learn how to socialize. Little did he know

that he would go on to meet the only person on the planet who

would be able to get him out of his shell.

Joan (Kennedy) Windham was growing up in Billerica with her

four siblings and her mother after her parents divorced, something

unheard of in the 1950’s. But this did not phase her since everyone

in the home was so close.

“We had each other” said Joan.

When Nathaniel and Joan met, Nathaniel was stationed in

Fort Devens, Massachusetts. He was a Marine in a corps that was

heading to Europe for a secret mission. One chilly evening over the

holidays, Nathaniel was invited by a military instructor to join him,

his girlfriend and her best friend to dinner. Nathaniel didn’t argue.

“He told me to just get into the car,” Nathaniel chuckled.

Th at best friend was Joan. Th e couple had a nice time and made

arrangements to see each other again. Soon after, Nathaniel had to

break the news to Joan that he was being sent oversees to Europe.

Although it was hard, they agreed to keep in touch. Many love

letters were exchanged over those next two years when Nathaniel

was away and their love blossomed. Th ey spoke of getting engaged

and someday getting married. Th ey talked about all the things that

were going on in their families, especially the fact that Nathaniel’s

mother was dying of cancer.

Th e couple’s families each accepted them both lovingly. It was

because of this that Joan got the call from Nathaniel’s father letting

her know a visit was in order since Nathaniel’s mother probably

would not make it past the holiday season that following year. Joan

visited, met Nathaniel’s parents and reported back to her future

husband what she saw.

It was four months later in April 1959 that his mother’s doctor

called overseas and Nathaniel was on a plane home two hours later.

He made it back to Mississippi in record time after meeting a bus

driver who knew his mother and whisked him to the hospital. When

he saw her, he knew it wasn’t good. He called Joan and asked her to

come and marry him, as it was the one wish of his dying mother.

Joan scrambled. Th e couple had no money and her family helped

her. She found a holiday dress to wear and got an airplane ticket. Her

mother provided the consent since, although legal age to marry in

Massachusetts, she was too young in Mississippi.

It was at his mother’s bedside, with a Methodist minister

offi ciating, and Nathaniel’s friends Granville Watson and his

girlfriend, Anne standing up for them, that the young couple

exchanged their wedding vows. Joan was sure they were the only

ones in the room but she was pleasantly surprised.

“When I turned around, all the patients and hospital staff were

standing behind us,” Joan said teary-eyed.

After the ceremony, the couple had a gathering at Nathaniel’s

aunt’s home, where the couple

spent the next few days together.

A week later, Nathaniel was

shipped back out to fi nish his

line of duty in Europe with

his Marine corp unit. Joan

returned to Billerica to await

her man’s return.

Following an injury,

Nathaniel returned to the

states one year later, fi nishing

his tenure in the military

love letters from

the heartBy Liana Measmer


for good. Th e couple moved to Mississippi where they started

their family. Nathaniel worked in a dairy and Joan stayed home

to care for the couple’s three children. Sandra was born in 1961,

Regina was born in 1962, and Mark was born in 1964. Th e couple

reminisced that life moved a little slower in the south than here

in New England. It wasn’t until 1971 that the couple returned to

Billerica to put down their roots.

Even though they were busy with Nathaniel’s work schedule,

fi rst in building supplies and then as a crane operator, the couple

still managed to take time for their family. Th ey invested in a family

camper and would take camping trips to Hampton Beach and

Plum Island on the New Hampshire seacoast. Th eir home was the

house all the neighborhood children congregated at. Th eir church

life at St. Th eresa’s parish was active for all fi ve of them. Later on,

their son Mark went on to the Marine corp and was enlisted in the

same unit his father served decades before. Nathaniel clearly bursts

at the seams with pride every time he tells this story, knowing he

passed on his love of the military to his child. It’s these experiences

that have kept this couple madly in love with each other all these

years.

“Every time I look at her, that’s my celebration,” said

Nathaniel.

always there for each otherLiving in a small town has its perks as well as its downfalls. For

starters, everyone knows everyone. Th is can be a very good thing.

Bill and Karen Clement found this out growing up in Getzville,

New York, a rural suburb of Buff alo.

Th ree years her senior, Karen knew of Bill when she was in

elementary school. Th ey went to a three room school and saw each

other daily. As a teen, Karen was in a sorority when she asked Bill

to be her date to an annual formal. Bill, having grown up a self

described loner and a student of an all-boys vocational high school,

was too afraid to respond to the request.

“I did not have a lot of experience with girls,” smiled Bill.

It wasn’t until later during a group date arranged by Bill’s best

friend, Ted, that the couple were together, enjoying each other’s

company at a drive in movie. Bill was impressed by Karen and they

started dating each other.

“We really hit it off ,” said Karen.

Th ey dated while fi nishing school. Bill was in the naval reserves

and went into active duty in 1956. He was stationed in Niagara

Falls, NY and then went onto naval training in Oklahoma and

Tennessee. Th e couple maintained contact through

writing to each other almost daily. Karen remembers

letters arriving at least three times a week and

happily reports that she has saved every single one

all these years.

“It seemed like there were letters all the time,”

she said.

It was in 1957, on Christmas Eve, that Bill

asked Karen to marry him. She joyfully accepted.

Th ey made no plans to marry initially but two

weeks later when Bill got news he would be

stationed in New Orleans, he asked Karen to

have their ceremony immediately. He did not

want to leave without her.

Karen and her family made all the

arrangements. She borrowed a pink bridesmaid

dress and planned a dinner at a relatives

restaurant. On February 22, she walked down

the aisle with her dad at St. Paul’s Lutheran

Church in

Egger t sv i l l e ,

NY to

exchange vows

with Bill. Th e

next day, they

took all their

be long ings

p a c k e d

into Bill’s

1956 Ford

convertible

and headed

to New

Orleans.

Th e base in Louisiana

was new and still under

construction. Th ere were

no barracks for married

couples so Bill and Karen

stayed in a motel for a

week. After looking at

homes and apartments,

they opted to purchase a

trailer, where they stayed

six years and two girls,

Christine and Elaine,

later.

After eight years in

the service, the couple

returned to the Buff alo

area and purchased a summer cottage which they months

winterizing. Th ey were only there for a short time when Bill was

laid off and ultimately found work with Honeywell working

with computers in Wellesley, MA. He found a home for them

in Billerica. Karen joined him in 1965 and their third daughter,

Lynda, was born the following year.

When they were apart, they missed each other and made every

eff ort to be together. Creating family traditions were key. Th ey

loved to go camping and even made trips back to New Orleans.

Th anksgiving was always spent in Buff alo with extended relatives.

In the 1970’s, Karen got her Master’s degree and become a Certifi ed

Public Accountant. Bill decided that computers were not for him

and took an apprentice course in boat building. He went on to

have a successful boat building and repair business.

Th e couple attributes the success of their relationship to their fi rst

six years together. Th ey were on their own, away from the physical

support of their parents and developed their independence.

“Right from the beginning, it was sink or swim,” said Karen.

“We had to do it together.”

sage adviceTh e common theme the Clements and the Windhams shared

for marital bliss was mutual respect and unselfi shness. Th ey stressed

the need to communicate and share everything openly as well as

honestly. Th ey pointed out that commitment is hard but couples

should hang in there even through the tough times. Going to

church and volunteering together has kept them and their families

close. It was through their own early lessons about life that these

couples went on to build the solid foundations which made their

marriages stand the test of time.

Here’s what

THIS generation

is saying on Facebook...

“My parents just celebrated

their 50th this year. They are

not hi-tech as most people are

these days. Actually, my Dad

can’t go anywhere without my

Mom. My sister & brother-in-

law just celebrated their 30th

this year as well. My family is

very old-fashion and believe

in the whole until death due

us part”

– Steph Jodoin,

Burlington, VT

“Love is a verb not just a feel-

ing. It takes daily work work

and eff ort. Spending time

together. Romantic and plain

old just us time”

– Andrea Kleiner,

Hudson, NH

“I think it takes good face

to face communication to

deal with issues. I fi nd these

days with my dating experi-

ence that people rely too

much on email and texting

- it’s a sure fi re way to kill a

relationship - so much gets

taken out of context and

messages misconstrued.

That’s my take on how high

tech communication tools

can be improperly used”

– Sharon Dingle,

Reading, MA


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Marriage. In addition to determining

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It wasn’t supposed to be like this. For

Eileen Ralske, her husband Norman’s

advanced Dementia came on too rapidly at

a time of their lives when retirement dreams

included travel and relaxation. Instead, within

a short two year span, Eileen was staying up

all night because Norman would not sleep

four nights per week, and expended all her

energy attempting to keep him safe. Today,

he is a resident at Billerica Crossing Harbor

Memory Care Unit and Eileen knows he is

well cared for.

“I am so pleased,” said Eileen. “I feel that

he is going to thrive here.”

Opened in December, Harbor has 12

apartments available with the capability to

house up to 16 residents. What the staff

at Harbor have found is there tends to be

an immediacy to move residents in when

families come to tour.

“Sometimes the need happens quickly,”

said Linda Durkin, Executive Director of

Billerica Crossings.

It may be the assumption of most that

Alzheimer’s or Dementia are generally slow

and progressive. What can happen is the

person deteriorates at an accelerated pace. For

Norman Ralske, he had been an accomplished

physician who worked until he was 80 years

old. Upon examination, his doctors believe

that he suff ered from mini-strokes over his

later life time and this impacted his brain

function. At 82, post retirement, Norman

lost his sense of direction. He could not fi nish

sentences, or attend to personal hygiene. He

even struggled with getting dressed. Eileen

spent every waking moment at his side,

ensuring his safety and getting him to all his

various appointments.

“It was exhausting,” she said.

What drew Eileen to Harbor was the

caring staff . She had met Community

Relations Director, Charles Sterling, and

was struck by how genuinely concerned he

was for Norman’s well being. When Norman

was hospitalized prior to moving in, Sterling

would call Eileen periodically to check in on

Norman’s condition. Eileen felt that if the

staff were so concerned for him before he

stepped foot in the building, Norman would

be well cared for once he arrived.

In addition to a secure, safe space,

Harbor off ers activities which are aimed at

maintaining a sense of routine and normalcy

for residents. Harbor Program Director,

Jane Guertin, reads through lengthy

questionnaires provided by families that help

her to determine what were the things the

residents did in their everyday life. Th en she

seeks to replicate those experiences to bring

a sense of familiarity to them. If a resident

is good with numbers, a cooking class using

measurements may be off ered. If they enjoyed

the outdoors, then they will get the chance

to take in some gardening this spring.

“We provide opportunities for them to

feel successful,” said Guertin.

One aspect which is new is staffi ng based

on need not just numbers. In the past, there

were a set number of aides available but

now, based on the acuteness of the residents’

conditions, it will be determined how many

staff will be present to care for them. Th is is

reviewed weekly and adjusted as necessary.

“We are now able to fl uctuate our number

of aides based on need,” said Durkin.

To educate any potential resident or

their families about Alzheimer’s, Billerica

Crossings will be hosting “Th e Heart of Th e

Caregiver”. Th is workshop will be held on

Wednesday, Jan. 20 at Billerica Crossings

on 20 Chanstaff e Lane and will feature

presenter and author Beverly Moore. Moore

is a registered nurse and has written the book,

“Matters of the Mind...and Heart “. She

also owns “StilMee”, a Alzheimer coaching

agency. Refreshments will be served at 5:30

pm and the presentation will commence at

6 pm. Tours of the Harbor Unit will also

be available. For more information or to

RSVP, contact Billerica Crossings at 978-

667-0898 or visit their website at www.

benchmarkquality.com.

JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE: HARBOR UNIT OFFERS DIGNITY TO RESIDENTS


L is for the way you Look at me…

I looked online for an acceptable list of

the top 10 love songs of all time. What I

found was the usual vanilla, played to death,

classic stuff . Sure, “Wonderful Tonight” and

“Always and Forever” have their place in

American hearts but as a 20 year veteran DJ,

I decided to make my own list.

O is for the Only one I see…

It is diffi cult for me to be impartial

when picking a great love song. Many of

my personal favorites are forever connected

to special occasions in my past. Th at’s why

music is so awesome. It has a way of creating

a soundtrack to our memories whether

intentional or not. Putting all that aside,

why not check out the following “Top 10”

love songs (in random order) provided by

yours truly, DJ Todd from General Sound

Entertainment. Th ese songs are slightly

more obscure ballads that will have you

instinctively reaching for your partners hand

and asking the DJ, “Who does this song?”

(You can visit the ITunes store and

preview them for free).

V is Very very extraordinary…

“My Valentine” by Martina McBride, “I

Never saw a Miracle” by Curtis Stigers, “Can

I take you out Tonight?” by Luther Vandross,

“I Love You” by Climaxx Blues Band, “At

Last” by Etta James, “Ribbon in the Sky”

by Stevie Wonder, “Don’t Want to Miss a

Th ing” by Aerosmith, “I Cross my Heart”

by George Strait, “Colour my World” by

Chicago, and “It’s Your Love” by Faith Hill

and Tim McGraw.

E is Even more than anyone that you adore…

Some other easy listening this Valentine’s

Day can be found on the recent CDs from

two songbirds with local ties. “Take Love

Easy” is a release from Cathy Nardone. Th e

tracks are smooth and well done representing

several diff erent styles of music from the

bouncy latin-styled “Long Ago and Far

Away” to the soulful title track.

A regular at Joseph’s Winter St. Café

in Newburyport, Nardone sang in a show

called “Lunch with Lily and the Ladies”, a

fundraiser for the Boston women’s shelter

Rosie’s Place. Another local artist, Kimberly

Keating, whose musical talent centers around

the swinging jazz tunes of Frank Sinatra and

more contemporary rhythm and blues, has

released an album entitled “Overjoyed”.

I love her “jazz voice” and found her

interpretations to be a very similar style to

that of Cathy Nardone. For a real treat check

out her version of the Billy Joel classic, “New

York State of Mind”.

Before I go, I’d like to wish my best friend

a Happy 22nd Valentines Anniversary and

let her know…”You’re all I need my love, my

Valentine!”

General Sound Entertainment has been providing clean, upbeat entertainment for the people of Billerica for almost two decades! To inquire about quality entertainment, Videography or Photography for your next event he can be reached at 508-572-6880, on the web at www.generalsound.com, or by email at info@generalsound,com

L-O-V-E AND MUSIC

Notes from General Sound•By Todd Dellaporta

Th e Bodacious Ladies of Billerica

(Red Hat Chapter) ran their 5th annual

Christmas party. Several chapters of the

Red Hat Society from Billerica, Nashua,

Andover, Wakefi eld, Lexington, Tewksbury

and Burlington attended the event. Approx

90 Ladies attended and each brought a

gift to be donated to the House of Hope

in Lowell. Th e gifts were delivered to the

House of Hope by Virginia McGrath, queen

mother of the Bodacious ladies. Th e Red Hat

Society is made up

of ladies over 50

who enjoy going

out, dressing up,

having fun , as

well as always

ready to donate

to charity.

RED HAT LADIES HOUSE OF HOPE GIFTSGive your pup a safe space in his fi rst few

days at home

A crate gives your puppy a safe, comfy

place for resting and chewing on toys.

Introduce your puppy to his new crate by

making it a predictor of yummy surprises:

•When your pup isn’t watching, place one

of his favorite treats (the smellier the better)

right inside the crate. Let him discover it on

his own. After he eats it, repeat, placing each

new treat gradually closer to the back of the

crate.

•Sneak occasional treats or bits of kibble

into the crate to promote regular puppy

inspections.

By Sandra Brigham, Trainer and Behavior Consultant. Sandra is the owner of Train Up Th at Pup! You can reach her at 978-436-0318.

YOUR NEW PUPPY

Owner Wade Winters with Town

manager John Curran, Selectman

Bob Correnti, and Selectman Mike

Rosa on Jan. 8 following his ribbon

cutting ceremony.

Although not new, the 24 hour gym

concept is somewhat of a rarity in Billerica.

Residents have been accustomed to having

staff present while working out. Now,

they can be lifting weights or running on

the treadmill at 3 am, monitored only by

someone at the other end of a surveillance

camera. Can this be considered safe?

During their ribbon cutting celebration on

Jan. 8, Anytime Fitness Owner Wade Winters

said yes. Winters has ensured that the most

innovative and secure surveillance equipment

is installed in his bright, modern facility at

99 Chelmsford Road, right alongside his

new equipment. Anytime Fitness, with 1100

gyms nationwide, has been successful doing

business this way since 2002.

After hours, when a member wants to use

the gym, they enter using their key fob. Once

inside, they pass by a tailgate at the front

door which records how many people pass.

Th is lets the staff know if anyone without

membership tried to gain entry.

Th ere are eight cameras positioned

all around the gym, all monitored by Pro-

Vision, a surveillance company with offi ces

nationwide. For the older member, necklaces

with panic buttons are available, should

they need immediate assistance and a 911

telephone is easily accessible. If there is ever

a problem, Pro-Vision calls the local police

department immediately.

Every new member, before starting

their fi tness program, must complete an

orientation. Th is is another way to keep

people safe.

“Each member goes through orientation

to review our policies and equipment,” said

Winters.

Included in the orientation is a personal

training session with trainer Deb Grumbach.

At that time, Grumbach works with the

member to map out a fi tness program as well

as walks them through the proper use of the

equipment.

Winters noted that there are no weights

heavier than 110 pounds and no Olympic

benches. Th is ensures that members don’t get

hurt when they are exercising on their own.

With Star Trac and Max Rack equipment

available, members can also maximize their

workout in a short amount of time, especially

on such machines as the chest, lift, and arm

curl.

“Th ey can get a full body workout just

from these three machines,” Winters pointed

out during a recent tour.

When fi nished, members can use the

individual, private one person locked

bathrooms with shower stalls available.

Anytime Fitness opened for business offi cially

on Jan. 10 and has membership packages

available. For additional information, visit

their web site at www.anytimefi tness.com or

call 978-667-0300. You can also email your

questions to BillericaMA@anytimefi tness.com.

WORK OUT SAFELY ANYTIME: 24 HOUR GYM OFFERS STATE-OF-THE-ART SECURITY

Town Manager John Curran, Lowell

Chamber of Commerce CEO Jeanne

Osborn, Selectman Bob Correnti,

Selectman Mike Rosa, Community

Alliance Executive Director Pat

Zapert, and Economic Development

Coordinator Stephanie Cronin join

Owner Wade Winters and his staff at his

ribbon cutting celebration on Jan. 8.

KIM WILLMOTT PHOTO

CHANGES THAT PAY: MAKE YOUR HOME ECO-FRIENDLYSubmitted By Carol Woods, Woods Real Estate

Edited By Liana Measmer

Households use about a fi fth of the total

energy consumed in the United States each

year and generate 21 percent of the nation’s

carbon dioxide emissions, according to the

US Department of Energy. With growing

concerns about climate change, government

subsidies for renovating existing homes to

a higher standard are rolling out as never

before. Whether homeowners are looking

at extra insulation, new heating equipment,

or even solar panels, it’s easier -- and more

economical -- than ever to lower monthly

utility bills by a third or more. Here’s how

to get started:

1 GET AUDITED:Th e fi rst order of business in improving

energy effi ciency is to set up an energy audit.

Th is is typically a room-by-room inspection,

often with specifi c tests to assess airtightness

and insulation. An audit will “quickly

reveal the weakest link in the chain,” says

Mark Price, a sustainability specialist with

building systems consultants Steven Winter

Associates in Maynard. Often, the priority

is to stop leaking air. “If there’s air leakage,

extra insulation won’t work.”

MassSAVE, a partnership among the

state, energy effi ciency contractors, and utility

companies, off ers free basic energy audits for

homeowners in one- to four-family structures

(masssave.com or 866-527-7283). It will pay

up to $2,000 for weatherization and up to

$1,000 for effi cient gas heating upgrades.

Most state residents already contribute to the

MassSAVE program. “Every utility has what’s

called a conservation charge of $1.50 or $2

per month per customer,” explains program

manager Jerry Hanna. “All of that is thrown

into a pot for energy effi ciency programs.”

2 DITCH OLD APPLIANCES:When it comes to household appliances

that are 10 years old or older, replacing them

with today’s more energy-effi cient models is

money well spent -- and energy saved. (And

new appliances add to the resale value of

the home.) Under a proposal submitted for

federal approval by the state Department of

Energy Resources, Massachusetts residents

could be eligible for $6.2 million in federal

stimulus-funded rebates for exchanging

ineffi cient clothes washers, dishwashers,

refrigerators, and freezers for new Energy

Star versions. If approved, the state rebate

program would begin in late February or

early March.

Energy Star does not rate clothes dryers,

but newer models do come with moisture

sensors that shut off the dryer when clothes

are dry, saving energy and fabric wear and

tear. To really conserve, dry clothes on an

old-fashioned wooden rack or clothesline.

A new Energy Star-labeled dishwasher uses

less than half as much energy as washing by

hand and saves nearly 5,000 gallons of water

a year, according to the government’s Energy

Star website.

Savings can be had for bigger-ticket items

as well. For non-solar water heaters, biomass

stoves, and qualifi ed heating and cooling

equipment purchased this year or next, the

federal government off ers tax credits of 30

percent of the cost, up to $1,500 (energystar.

gov/taxcredits).

3 CONSIDER SOLAR PANELS:Th e federal government is now off ering

a 30 percent tax credit -- without a cap --

for solar panels installed by 2016, as well as

for other improvements such as solar water

heaters and small wind turbines (energystar.

gov/taxcredits).

But will solar work in chilly Massachusetts?

Th e experts say yes. Compared with an

average 5.5 or 6 peak hours of sunshine per

day in the Southwest, New England averages

about 4.5 peak hours per day over the course

of a year, says Robb Aldrich of Steven Winter

Associates, engineer for the solar village in

Greenfi eld. “It’s not as sunny here, but the

sun still shines.”

Source: Aubin Tyler is a freelance writer in Northampton. Send comments to [email protected]. © Copyright 2009 Globe

Newspaper Company.


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Th e home is the rock foundation, the cornerstone of civilization. Th e church, the school and even the nation stands helpless before a weak and degraded home. No nation will rise above its home. ~ Ezra Benson

What is the foundation on which you

base you life on? What is the cornerstone

you can always depend on when you are at

your worst or best? Th e answer for me is

simple and can be summed up in one word.

Family.

Life is chaotic. Between kid’s schedule,

work and responsibilities, do you ever feel

you can’t keep your head above water?

We all feel that way at some point. Don’t

be fooled by those who say they never

get overwhelmed, they are just fooling

themselves.

Th e impact of stress and burnout

on a family can be devastating, causing

resentment, anxiety and my favorite- “the

short fuse”. When any of these symptoms

start to creep into your family life, make

time together to step back and re-evaluate

your life style and commitment to one

another. Your children are watching and

imitating your actions.

Use positive reinforcement as to not

create more stress for your family. Point out

to each other the areas of your relationship

that are running smoothly. We have a rule

in our house “Never go to bed angry. We

can agree to disagree, but at least come to

some resolution.” We also have a plaque

in our house that reads “A kiss goodnight

is one of the sweetest expressions of love I

know in good times or mad.” And, to take

it one step further, this doesn’t just apply to

your spouse, but can apply to children as

well.

Th e next time you feel everything is

overwhelming you, don’t panic or get angry:

plan ahead. A long-range relief strategy

is to recognize what causes the buildup of

pressure. If you see by your calendar that

you are in for a few heavy weeks or too many

late nights, block out some relief time. Th is

might be a half-day, whole day or extended

weekend. Take yourself out of your normal

situation. Place yourself in a situation where

past experience will show that you can

forget what is going on. Th is may mean a

day alone. Or with special ones at the beach

or the mountains, or a weekend away with

just your spouse. It’s a big help if families

discuss their future schedules together to

identify where the overloads are going to

occur and schedule in down time.

A simple immediate solution is to pause,

take a breath and remember: “Families are

the compass that guide us. Th ey are the

inspiration to reach great heights, and our

comfort when we occasionally falter.” ~

Brad Henry

Be patient with yourself. Learning new

ways to cope and breaking old habits takes

time. Remember you are only as strong as

your cornerstone, your family. Th omas

Jeff erson said “Th e happiest moments of

my life have been with the few which I have

passes at home in the bosom of my family.”

HOME IS YOUR ROCK

Family Matters with Ed and Sandy•By Sandra Giroux

Since the topic of this issue is on

“LOVE”, I thought I’d show you how to get

fi t and get hit by Cupid’s arrow. I think there

is nothing better in the world then a couple

with similar health goals. Staying healthy

together is a strong common bond.

Don’t panic if you’re single. I’m not saying

you have to grow old and retire with this

person. But it’s a great idea to stay healthy

and fi t while going out on dates whether

single or married. Even families can go on

active dates!

Th ere are some local groups were singles

do meet to go on adventures such as hike,

skate and dance. Try looking up a local group

in your area. If singles groups are not your

thing, then how about scouting your local

gym? If you are a regular at a gym, you’ll

see the same people in there day after day.

I think it’s sad when people don’t take the

time to interact when they have something

in common. Th ese people are all in the gym

to get in shape so why not try to strike up a

conversation. Of course, don’t bother them

while they exercising with weights or doing

a routine. However, there is nothing better

than having a buddy to talk to while you are

on the Cardio equipment. Time fl ies when

you’re on a treadmill talking to someone who

can carry on an interesting conversation.

Th is activity stimulates your body and your

mind.

After your aerobic workout is fi nished,

ask that person to go on an active date.

By ACTIVE, I mean taking in something

other than a movie (just sitting on your

butt) or hitting the bars (eating snacks and

drinks that are taking you away from your

healthy goals). Let’s forget those standard

dates . . BORING! Why not go ice-skating

at the Hallenborg Arena? How about taking

in a swim at the Boys and Girls Club? Do

you know they open the Burlington Mall

early so people can walk around the inside

for exercise? Th ere are nature walkways

all around the surrounding communities.

Look them up on the web and fi nd the right

person to go with. Th ese active dates can be

done morning, noon or night.

After you’ve expended some calories

and feel good, hit up a local eatery for some

healthy food. Following exercise, it’s proper

to revitalize your body with nutrients.

A good combination would be a 50-50

protein-carb meal with some veggies and lots

of water. Skip the alcoholic beverages. Th ey

are just empty calories that will negate the

exercise you just performed. A good choice

would be a boneless breast of chicken with

a cup of rice or small baked potato. A salad

with light dressing will fi ll the void along

with a tall mug of ice water with fresh lemon

slices. Th is recipe will work wonders and put

a spark under ‘Ole Cupid. I hope you give

it a try for 2010 and may all your dates be

active ones.

Brian Panarese, B.S. owns Th e Body Elite Professional Fitness Training Company and has been a Professional Trainer for 33 years. If you have a fi tness related question please e-mail him at [email protected]

FINDING LOVE IN FITNESS

The Body Elite•By Brian Panarese, B.S. Professional Fitness Trainer

Billerica Cat Care Coalition

Recently, the Billerica Cat Care

Coalition (BCCC) was contacted, via

our website, about a situation even

our Animal Control Department did

not hear about. Upon investigation,

BCCC volunteers discovered more

than 20 Siamese, Himalayan and

other types of cats and kittens,

including 3 newborns, inside an attic

wall. Th ey were all left behind when

their owner was foreclosed on.

Th e cats were jumping in and

out of a basement window and were

being fed by some kind neighbors.

None of the cats were spayed or

neutered. Th ey were living in fi lthy

conditions. Some were sick but

have since received medication to

help them get better. One cat even

gave birth to 3 kittens after she was

trapped. Th ough BCCC’s main

mission is Trap/Neuter/Return

(TNR) of feral (wild) cats, we were

able to step in and help rescue the

felines, including getting them

spayed or neutered and placed in

foster care. Had BCCC not stepped

in, this growing cat situation would

have turned into a more disastrous

situation by allowing more kittens

to be born into this situation, all

of whom would have become feral,

leaving them with no place to go.

Th anks to the hard work of

BCCC volunteers, our fellow rescue

organizations and our donors who

help support BCCC’s eff orts, all of

the cats and kittens’ lives were saved.

Th ey were removed to healthy and

loving situations.

If you have a neighbor who is not

spaying or neutering their animals,

please contact Animal Control or

send an e-mail to BCCC’s website.

We can provide information on low-

cost spays or neuters for pets, as well

as provide services for TNR of feral

cats. Spaying or neutering prevents

overpopulation issues, such as the

situation described above. Th is

helps prevent an animal from facing

euthanasia, through no fault of its

own.

If you would like to contribute

to our Good Samaritan Fund,

please visit our website. You can pay

via Paypal or by sending a check

to: BCCC, P.O. Box 141, North

Billerica, MA 01862. If you would

like more information about how

you can help a feral cat, adopt or

volunteer to further BCCC’s no-kill

movement, please visit our website

at: www.billericacatcarecoalition.

org. Many thanks to those of you

who help those who cannot speak

for themselves. Happy New Year!

BILLERICA FORECLOSURE JEOPARDIZES CATS AND KITTENS

By Joan Parcewski

Th is year’s Health Fair will have a new location, new sponsoring

organizations, and some new vendors. Th e Billerica Lions Club

and the Billerica Lodge of Elks are partnering to host the “Billerica

Health and Wellness Fair”. By adding “wellness” to the theme, the

Lions and Elks are looking to add participation by more alternative

groups - i.e. reiki, acupuncture, nutritionists, wellness experts and

the like.

Th e date is Saturday, April 10 from 10am to 2pm at the

Billerica Lodge of Elks. Th e cost is $25 per table space (table and

table cover provided) and food will be provided at a nominal cost

on site for all vendors.

We will be using both the large and small halls at the Elks.

Th e smaller hall will be reserved for activities such as Reiki,

Acupuncture, and brief seminars (10 - 15 minutes).

If you are a business in the health or wellness fi eld (no

insurance companies please) and are interested in participating,

please contact Annette Presseau at [email protected]

or contact us through our new Facebook group “Billerica Health

and Wellness Fair”. Joining the group allows for receiving updated

new information and the list of vendors as they sign on.

HEALTH FAIR IS SEEKING VENDORS


It seems that each year, some men are at

a loss when it comes to just the right gift to

give their respective loved one on Valentines

Day. Truth be told, some are at so much of

a loss that they keep putting it off until they

have completely forgotten about Valentines

Day. It’s only that they hear someone at work

talking about it that they suddenly realize

Valentines Day is TODAY! It’s too late to get

to a fl orist and there aren’t that many candy

shops around.

So, they hit the grocery store around

5pm. Only then do they realize that all of

the Valentines candy is long gone and the

only fl owers left look as if they were left over

from last year. Th e cards are at a premium

too. Th e ones left have a picture of a duck

swimming among the cat-o-nine tails and says

something like “Have A Ducky Valentines

Day”. Figuring they are in trouble, they

stand in the card aisle staring off into space

trying to come up with an excuse they think

their wives will buy into when suddenly hey

hear an announcement suggesting a unique

Valentines gift. A lobster! Th is is when they

end up coming to me and I love it.

Now you have to understand that the

marketing genius who came up with the

idea that a lobster would be an excellent

Valentines gift were “guyz”. Th ey never took

into consideration that the only ones who

would buy into this notion, other “guyz”,

would not understand the follow through

necessary when giving a living crustacean as

a gift. Th ey never thought that dopey would

go home and say “Honey, look what I got

you for Valentines Day. Now let me tell you

how I want mine cooked.” Th is man will

very shortly welcome death.

Now it just so happened that last year, I

had a gentleman who had sense enough to

ask if we steamed the lobsters for people. I

told him that we did and told him that it

would take about 30 minutes. He said that

would be too long and asked me why I

couldn’t just microwave them. Apparently, he

hadn’t graduated Cum Laude from Johnson

and Wales. I told him that micro waving

was not an option and that it would be like

putting a cat in a microwave. I am not sure

he understood.

So, before Valentines Day sneaks up on

you, consider this. If you are waiting for one

particular day to let someone know that you

love and appreciate them, you don’t get it. If

you have to empty out fl ower stores, candy

shops and card stores just to show what you

should be proving every day, you don’t get it.

And, if you are standing in line in front of

my case at 5:00 in the evening on February

14th, looking for that something special, you

are not going to get “it”!

V-DAY LOBSTERS OF LOVE

The Sunny Side of the Street•By Dave Gagliardi

WINTER GUIDELINES FOR TRASH CARTS AND RECYCLE BINS

Now that there is snow on the ground,

residents should take special care to ensure

trash carts are accessible to the arm of the

automated trash trucks, with 3’ clearance

around the cart to all obstacles such as tall

snow banks, recycle bins, overfl ow bags,

mailboxes, trees and parked cars.

Please avoid placing trash carts or

recycling into the plowed roadway by

clearing a small area just off the edge of road

for trash and recycle containers. If possible,

please continue to place recycling on the

opposite side of the driveway or walkway

from the trash cart, and be sure it is clearly

visible from the road and not blocked by

snow banks.

In the event of an active snowstorm on

trash day, please be aware that trash or recycle

containers placed too close to the edge of

road may be tipped over during plowing,

especially with wet heavy snow or slush. Trash

collection may be delayed due to inclement

weather on trash day, and will continue until

complete. In the event that trash collection

must be postponed due to weather, such

notice will be posted on www.billericadpw.

org and BATV with information on when

collection will resume.

2/28/10

Th e annual all-night parking ban will be

in full force on all Billerica roadways. Vehicles

found parked in the roadway longer than

two (2) hours between Midnight and 6:00

AM during the above dates will be tagged

and subject to a fi ne. If a vehicle is parked

as to interfere with snow removal, a fi ne will

be assessed and will be subject to towing.

Upon declaration of a snow emergency by

the Town Manager, parking on all public

ways will be prohibited. Vehicles found

parked on public ways will be subject to a

$50.00 fi ne and towing. Th e Chief of Police

requests the cooperation of all residents to

comply with this public safety ordinance to

insure that snow plowing operations will not

be hampered by illegally parked vehicles.

John Curran, Town Manager

ALL NIGHT WINTER PARKING BAN RUNS UNTIL MAR. 15


UnforgettableSuperintendent Robert CalabreseRemembered as Billerica’s Renaissance Man By Liana Measmer

Outstandingly versatile. Well-rounded. A brilliant performer. Knowledgeable and educated. Dr. Robert J. Calabrese was every bit the defi nition of the

Renaissance Man. The retired superintendent served for 22 years in the Billerica Public Schools. He retired in 2006, and continued his passion for education as Program Director of Merrimack Education Center (MEC) in Billerica. Bob passed away last June from a heart attack, but his legacy lives on in his accomplishments and the thoughtful way he treated people. Bob was actively involved with the Billerica Scholarship Foundation Team Trivia Challenge, and as the event draws near, it is a fi tting time to recall the man behind the beaming smile who touched so many lives.

HEROTh e defi nition of a hero is someone who sees what needs to be done

and just does it. Th is was Calabrese’s code as a father. A transplant from

Ohio decades ago when he became the Superintendent in Billerica,

he soon found himself the single father to two boys, Christopher

and Peter. Th e boys went through the school system while their

father attended meetings and functions, juggling fatherhood with

demanding work. Today, Peter and Christopher are in their 30s and

are residing out of state with their families.

“Th ey’re both gentlemen and very successful,” said Linda

Calabrese, Bob’s widow.

SOULMATELinda Calabrese met Bob more than 20 years ago, while they

both worked at the School Department. She is an administrative

assistant for fi nance and remembers how they teamed up during the

new Ditson School Building Project. Years later, love blossomed and

they grew very close.


“We loved each other a lot,” said Linda. “We never

fought.”

Linda smiled wistfully when she described her May

2008 wedding as a fairy tale. She recalled that all her guests

enjoyed themselves. She was tearful when she remembered

her husband’s passing, too soon after celebrating their fi rst

wedding anniversary. Bob always had the TV on, which

Linda called the “noise box.” Now, since the house is so

quiet, she makes sure the noise box stays on.

“I miss him so much,” she said.

As Linda looked back, she smiled every time she

recounted story after story about Bob’s life. As a public

fi gure, when he walked into a room, he knew everyone.

As a public speaker, Bob was talented and focused. He

would take days to re-write his speeches, but had no trouble

incorporating conversations into his them.

“He was down to earth and no one disliked him,” said

Linda.

Linda described him as just a regular guy who did not

need a fancy house or car. One thing he was most proud of

was all the home improvements the couple made together.

When he needed to spend money, his favorite thing to

do was to purchase gifts for others, especially his four

grandchildren and his staff . He made it a point to pick out

personalized gifts, since he did his best to be familiar with

those around him.

“He was kind and gentle and he thought about people

a lot,” said Linda.

Th e Calabrese’s enjoyed traveling or going to cultural

events. Th ey especially liked traveling to Florida. When the

couple joined 10 others on a retirement cruise to Bermuda,

the result was pure fun.

“It was a blast,” said Linda.

Bob was really into baseball and college basketball. One

of the few die-hard Yankees fans in the area, he was steadfast

in defending his favorite team when faced with Red Sox

Nation in his offi ce and home. He would plan out NCAA

travel trips with all his male friends, which were guy-only

weekends. Linda always encouraged him to go.

“He was boisterous and upbeat,” said Linda about his

excitement in being with his friends.

MASTERSince the inception of the Team Trivia Challenge

15 years ago, Bob has been the only Trivia Master of

Ceremonies. He will be forever remembered for quieting

the chatter in the room with his, “Shhhhh!”

He requested the questions the weekend prior to the event

so he could plan his attire. Some famous Calabrese fashions

included a sleek cowboy hat, a smart tuxedo or a fun kilt.

“He thoroughly enjoyed it,” said Linda.

Initially he wasn’t excited to be placed at the helm but

eventually grew to take his role very seriously. Because of

his role, crowds fl ocked to the event to enjoy his humor.

“Because he was well-known, he would be a draw,” said

Maureen Sullivan, Scholarship Foundation chairperson.

COLLEAGUEJim McCormick knew Bob for over 20 years. As

Deputy Executive Director of MEC, McCormick had the

opportunity to work closely with Bob when they sat on

boards together and when Bob was handling the professional

development for his staff . McCormick remembers Bob’s

demeanor with his staff as friendly and gregarious. Bob was

always there to greet people with a smile and at the end of

the day, his staff never questioned that he cared.

“He always made everyone feel important,” said

McCormick.

McCormick and Bob eventually became close

friends. McCormick has fond memories of the friendly

competitiveness the two men shared, no matter if they

were cheering on their favorite baseball teams or swapping

cooking ideas. McCormick loved the Red Sox while Bob

was sure the Yankees would always prove victorious.

McCormick always preferred his Irish Corned Beef while

Bob had a few savory Italian recipes up his sleeve.

After Bob asked for Linda’s hand in marriage, his next

stop was McCormick’s offi ce, where he asked his friend

to be the Justice of Th e Peace and offi ciate his wedding.

McCormick did not hesitate in saying yes.

“I was very proud to do that,” said McCormick.

Upon his passing, the MEC building at 40 Linnell

Circle was dedicated in Bob’s name. McCormick recalled

that the ceremony was moving and there wasn’t a dry eye in

the group of faculty, friends and family who were present.

“He left such a lasting impact on all of us,” said

McCormick.

PREDECESSORWhen Bob retired in 2006, he was replaced by Anthony

Serio. Serio was no stranger to the position, coming to

Billerica with 13 years of superintendent and administrative

experience. However, Serio knew he had giant shoes to fi ll,

so he kept Bob’s legacy alive.

“He was a successful superintendent,” said Serio. “I

wasn’t going to rush in and make a lot of changes.”

Bob took his job seriously, especially when he handled

human resource issues. When he arrived on the scene, Serio

picked up teacher contract negotiations where Bob left off .

Serio described his management style as interdependent and

delegative while he described Bob’s as more independent,

often making decisions on his own. Regardless, Bob was

always available to off er counsel and advice to Serio, who

relied heavily on him to fi ll in the history gaps on his

projects and decisions.

“He was extremely welcoming,” said Serio

LEADERFor Alexander “Sandy” Infanger, retired Locke Middle

School Principal, and Fran O’Donnell, Bob’s administrative

assistant for 14 years, Bob was nothing short of a visionary.

Th e shining feather in his cap was the construction of the

new Ditson School which Bob oversaw until its completion.

Both Infanger and O’Donnell recalled how he shrewdly

managed funds, fi nancing the school within the school

budget.

“He was the building block for a modern Billerica,” said

Infanger.

In the 1980’s into the mid 1990’s, there was a serious

overcrowding problem at the old Ditson School. Bob

made it his mission to have a larger, more modern school

built. Bob was committed to the success of this project and

could often be found in his offi ce working until midnight,

ensuring timely completion of all needed documentation.

“He worked on it morning, noon, and night,” said

O’Donnell. “He was savvy.”

FRIENDBob had numerous friends and Selectman Bob Correnti

was proud to be one of them. Th e two men, along with

countless others, spent hours having fun. Th ey took in

sporting events, played in golf tournaments, and had lively

lunches and dinners. Th e group, sometimes with as many

as 20, shared a lot of laughs and good natured ribbing.

“It was a lot of fun,” said Correnti. “He took it in

stride.”

Correnti recalled how Bob regaled in the fact that he

was personally and privately generous while publicly and

professionally frugal. Correnti found him to be genuine

and he always gave solid advice. Correnti often sought out

Bob’s opinion and misses his friendship very much.

“I feel fortunate that he counted me as one of his many

friends,” said Correnti.

A TRIBUTETh e 2010 Team Trivia Anniversary Challenge is

scheduled for Friday, Feb. 5, at 7 p.m. at the Billerica

Lodge of Elks and will be a celebration honoring all of

Bob’s years of service. Teams interested in playing can visit

the Billerica Scholarship Foundation web site at www.

BillericaScholarship.org for more information. Registrations

must be returned by Jan. 29.


Billerica Spelling Beewww.billericaspellingbee.org

Feb. 6: 9:30 am-5:30 pm Buck Auditorium, Town Hall 80 Students from grades 3-8 will compete. Awards given at conclusion. Tickets allow

full day admission. Adults: $5; Students and seniors: $3; Under 5 is free

Sweetheart Dancewww.billerica-alliance.org

Feb. 11: 4 pmFor couples married 50 years or more. it down dinner, music and dancing. Transportation provided if needed.Sponsored by The Community Alliance 978-667-4174

Women in Controlwww.waggleforce.com

Feb 4: Informational meeting. Structured job clubs helping unemployed and underemployed in Billerica get back to work. Time and place to be announced Updates will be made on our Facebook page: “WIC - Women in Control” as well as through the local media and on Billerica Access Television Community Bulletin Board. More info [email protected]

Billerica Skatepark Committeewww.billericaskatepark.org

Jan. 19: 7 pm: Public Meeting, Buck Auditorium Town Hall. Support this committee’s efforts to get a skatepark. Open to the public.

Billerica Recreation Departmentwww.town.billerica.ma.us

Feb. 21: Summer Camp Expo. Billerica Lodge of Elks. Webb Brook Road. An free event for parents to begin planning for summer vacation. 978-671-0921. Their winter brochure is available online.

A Night of Hope Fund Raiserwww.julieksings.com or/and www.hopeww.org

HOPE Worldwide

Feb. 20: 7pm A Night of HOPE fund raiser. The Bennett Library. $10 suggested donation per person. Snacks will be provided. Julie Kinscheck will perform. Other local talents will also perform and the evening will include a presentation about the work HOPE is doing for children, orphans and the needy globally.

Middlesex Canal Museum and Associationwww.middlesexcanal.org/museum

Feb. 18: 10:00 am-12:00 pm The Middlesex Canal Museum, 71 Faulkner Street Educational program for children in grades 2 and 3 $15 enrollment fee includes membership to the MCA Contact Traci Jansen at [email protected]

Colleen Sgroi Gallery and Art ClassesFeb. 4: 7 pm: Create Love Day.Colleen Sgroi Gallery, 12 Andover Road, Billerica, MA

Make a card with a list of the little things your sweetheart does that you love and you will create love. Come by the gallery and we will make one together. Call for more info (978) 667-100. www.ColleenSgroi.com

Billerica Cat Care CoalitionJan. 16: 11 am to 2 pm: Petco, 51 Middlesex Turnpike, Burlington, MAFeb. 13: 11 am to 2 pm: Meet and Greets at Agway, 24 Maple St., ChelmsfordMar. 13: 11 am to 2 pm: Meet and Greets at Agway, 24 Maple St., Chelmsford

Council On AgingRespite Care Companion Program:

If you have been thinking about getting help caring for the one you love, don’t fret. Everybody needs a little help sometimes, especially caregivers. The respite companions are available to work morning, noon or night, seven days a week. For more information on the respite companion program, please contact Lauren Gray at: 978-671-0916 ext: 226 or [email protected] Van Service: The Van is helping seniors with transportation to do local errands, visit friends or go to lunch. The cost is now $1.00 each way and a 2-day notice is preferred. Call 671-0916, ext 229. NEW! Mah Jongg:Fridays at 12:30 p.m. A tile game that originated in China uses groups of four players who are given a collection of tiles divided into fi ve or six suits. Strategies are used to make tile matches. Men’s Group Meeting: Jan. 20 at 1:00 p.m. Sign up at the front desk.New Bi-Monthly Laughter Yoga Club:Jan. 22 at 10:00 a.m.: What has been happening to laughter? Why is it so important? What does laughter have to tell us about our happiness and well being? Come join us and Robert Herrick will give you the answers. Sign up at the front desk.Book Club: Jan. 26 at 12:30 p.m. The January book is Empire Falls by Richard Russo. Sign up at the front desk.History Lecture: Jan.28 at 10:00 a.m. Paul Hogman presents “Do You Really Know Your State?” Sign up at the front desk.

Pop WarnerJan. 31: The Banquet for players/cheerleaders for the A-E Teams is scheduled at the Billerica Elks. Times are as follows:E Teams: 11:00am-1:00pmD&C Teams: 1:30pm to 4:00pmB&A Teams: 4:30pm to 6:30pm2010 REGISTRATION: Website for details soon.

Sistacamp at The Bennett LibraryFeb. 15-16 only:

Only -$40 for 2 day session (1 girl)$50 for 2 day session (includes2 sisters)$75 for 2 day session (Includes3 or more sisters)3 Concord Road Billerica , MA 01821 Just a place to meet up & hang out with your friends for the day. Email Karla DiChiara at [email protected] for more information or your registration form

Greater Lowell Chamber of CommerceFeb. 16: 7:30: BILLERICA TOWN BUSINESS DAY

Town Hall Auditorium. Free! Open to all businesses, new or established, addressing business issues including State & Municipal (resources, topics, concerns), Financial Options, Procurement & Technical Assistance, Business Counseling & Training

GUEST SPEAKERS

Ms. Jeanne Osborn, President & CEO GLCCState Senator Kenneth DonnellyState Representative William Greene, Jr.Mr. George E. Noel, MA Director of LaborMr. John Curran, Billerica Town ManagerMs. Stephanie Cronin, Economic Development Coordinator Ms. Lisa Gonzalez-Welch SBA (US Small Business Administration)Ms. Terry Williams, Assistant Director, Lowell Small Business Assistance CenterMr. John F. Fioriti, SOMWBAMr. Peter McGarry, SCORE CounselorMs. Barbara O’Neil, Director, Gr. Lowell Workforce Investment BoardKen Goode, Vice President, MassDevelopmentMore info 978-459-8154

Red Hat SocietyAttention ladies! Come join the Red hat Society! The Bodacious Ladies of Billerica would like to invite you and your friends to join our group. We enjoy each others company and have fun, laugher, and parties. We go on day trips and weekend getaways. Some of us have attended the Red Hat conventions in Boston , Niagara Falls , and Savannah this year. Our Queen Mother Virginia went to the London England with the Red Hats and they were in the London New Year’s parade.

We even donate to charities such as ALS, American Cancer, American Diabetes and the House of Hope for Homeless women and children every year.

If you’re 50 or older, you can be a Red Hatter and wear purple and red. If you’re under fi fty, you can be a Pink Hatter and wear lavender and pink. Ladies, there is only one rule in the Red Hat Society:“There are no rules!”

So if you’re looking for some fun and lots of laughter and something to get you out of the house and off the couch come join our group.

Call Queen Mother Virginia McGrath @ 978-667-7487 or contact her at [email protected] and

OUT ON THE TOWN

YARNNEEDED

Th e Knitters Club

makes hats for

preemies and cancer

patients or slippers for

soldiers. Th ey need all

types of yarn.

Please drop off your

contribution at

Th e Council on Aging25 Concord Road, Billerica

Mon. – Fri.: 8:30 am – 4 pm

For more information,

call 978-671-0916.

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Safe Kids Behind The WheelInformation for Parents of Driving and Pre-Driving Teens and Their Young Drivers.

Feb. 3: 7 pm: Free Workshop! Limited to the FIRST 70 PEOPLE who sign up! The Bennett Library, 3 Concord Road, Billerica Center.

Co-Sponsored by The Billerica Driving School, MTM Brainerd Insurance, and The Billerica Green. Teens and Pre-teens are talking about getting behind the wheel younger and younger. Driving laws have changed since 2007 and parents are expected to become more involved in their teen’s driver education. An insurance agent will speak to the additional need for insurance for the younger driver. A traffi c offi cer will speak on how they handle new drivers and what the repercussions of unsafe driving. There will be discussion about safety concerns--alcohol use, cell phone use, and the importance of removing distractions. RSVP REQUIRED! Email [email protected] to reserve your space today!

Ye’ Olde Meeting House: Town Hall MeetingsJan. 20: 6 pm: Substance Abuse Prevention Committee, BPS Central Services Conference RoomJan. 20: 6:30 pm: Board of Appeals, AuditoriumJan. 20: 7 pm: Republican Town Com., Rm. 210Jan. 25: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway RoomJan. 27: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210Feb. 1: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway RoomFeb. 1: 7:30 pm: Board of Health, Rm. 210Feb. 3: 7 pm: Scholarship Foundation, Collins RoomFeb. 3: 7 pm: Historical Commission, Room AFeb. 3: 7 pm: Republican Town Committee, Rm. 210Feb. 8: 7 pm: Planning Board, Rm. 210Feb. 10: 6 pm: Substance Abuse Prevention Committee, BPS Central Services Conference RoomFeb. 10: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210Feb. 17: 7 pm: Republican Town Com., Rm. 210Feb. 22: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway RoomFeb. 24: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210

School NewsCalendarJan. 18: No School - Martin Luther King Jr. Day Jan. 19: No School - Special Election Day Jan. 25: Kindergarten ChangeoverFeb. 4: Early Release –Elementary OnlyFeb. 11: Elementary Progress Reports IssuedFeb. 15-19: School VacationFeb. 22: Schools Reopen

Billerica Memorial High School: School Skating Programs: Anyone interested in the skating program should contact Mrs.Cathy Jenkins at 978-528-7911. Her offi ce is located at BMHS, Data Processing Suite, Room 3262.

After School Tutoring: Tutors for math, science, and languages available Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays in the school library.

Locke Middle SchoolJan. 20: 7 pm: Adolescent Psychology: The Parent Version

A Evening with Parenting Expert Joani GeltmanLearn how to teen-proof your home and relationship, Set appropriate limits, Identify and deal with experimentation with sex, drugs and alcohol, Identify risk factors for depression and anxiety, Identify high expectation vs. unrealistic ones, Identify your teen or tween’s imaginary audience and personal fable.Tickets $5. To reserve, email [email protected]. For more information, locke.billerica.k12.ma.us

Ditson Elementary School:Jan. 16: 1:30 pm: Group Night. Lowell Devils vs. Portland Pirates. Tsongas Arena, Lowell, MAfor those who purchased ticketsFeb. 26: Adult Comedy Night at the Billerica Elks. Doors open at 7:00 pm. Show starts at 8:00 pmTickets are $15.00 until Feb.15th. $20.00 after that and at the door. Appetizers, cash bar & 50/50 raffl e.

John F. Kennedy Elementary School:Jan. 22: 6:30 pm: Ice Cream Social. sponsored by the PTO. Mark your calendars for a night of fun with your friends and family Your teacher may even be your server! We’ll be serving chocolate and vanilla ice cream sundaes with all the toppings and slush. If you are interested in being part of the Ice Cream Social Committee please contact Lori Aquavella.

Jan. 26: 5-8 pm: Kennedy Night at Fuddruckers. Enjoy a night out with your family and support your school at the same time! Fuddruckers is in Reading (located at Jordans Furniture). Bring your voucher and 20% of of the cost of the meal will go to the Kennedy Elementary PTO. Make copies of the voucher and give them to your family and friends. Everyone who turns in a voucher helps the Kennedy.

Substance Abuse Prevention CommitteeJan. 26: 7 pm: Public Forum. Buck AuditoriumTown Hall. Free Event. Open to the PublicSpeaker, Informational handouts and SurveyFor more information, email rsafi [email protected]

Billerica Scholarship Foundationwww.billericascholarship.org

Feb. 5: 7 pm: Team Trivia Challenge15th Anniversary Celebration. Billerica Lodge of the Elks. $125 for team of 4. Bring your own snacksDr. Robert J. Calabrese will be honored

Police Athletic League (PAL)Fall Programmingwww.billericapal.org

Floor Hockey

Join your friends for an exciting game of fl oor hockey. Sign ups through the Rec. Department. Co-ed teams will be formed the fi rst week. Equipment provided. Please note that these are tentative game times. Specifi c times will be adjusted according to the registrations received. Register early to ensure your place! On-Site Evaluation and Team Assignment will be Saturday, January 9 9:00 AM -12 Noon. Instructor: Artie RoachLocation: Old Ditson School (Sheriff’s Training Ctr.)Jan. 9 to March 13Fee: $59.00 pp, Grade 2 & 3

Session: 33612-A Saturday: 8:30 amWho: Grade 4 & 5Session: 33612-B Saturday: 9:30 amWho: Grade 6-8Session: 33612-C Saturday: 10:30 amWho: Grade 9-12Session 33612-D Saturday: 11:30 am Winter Open Gym UpdateOld Ditson School / Middlesex Training DepartmentRegistration will be held 7-9PM on Wednesday, 1/6/2010. Cost is $20 per child / $30 per family / $0 for Annual MembersAnnual members can register by emailing [email protected] Open Gyms - Wednesdays 1/13 - 3/3Grades 3-5: 6:00 - 7:30Grades 6-8: 7:30 - 9:00Girls Open Gyms - Thursdays 1/14 - 3/4Grades 2-8: 6:30 - 8:00High School Hoops - Fridays 1/15 - 3/5Grades 9-12 7:00-9:00

Buttercup is very

much a “princess” who

enjoys quiet time and

is not particularly fond

of other cats, although

she puts up with McGraw, her housemate,

because she has to and has even learned to

love him. She is a calico and seems to have

the temperament of one as she likes to be the

boss and rule the roost! She is very aff ection

with her primary caregiver and is great with

children but would be best placed in a house

that will give her a lot of attention when she

wants it and would be the only cat. She has

the loudest purr and loves to sit on laps and

be petted. She is so soft and beautiful you

can’t help but want to pet her! She was born

in 2006, is spayed, FIV/FELV negative and

up to date on her shots.

McGraw, oh what a

sweetie! Everyone loves this

cat. He is called the puppy

of the house because he

loves to roll over on his

tummy and will jump up on your lap to be

petted. He is VERY social and always wants

to know what is going on around him and

who is in the house. He is amazing with

children and absolutely spectacular to look at.

He is so beautiful with his classic gray tabby

stripes. He even smiles at you! McGraw loves

to play and be loved and would be great in a

family with other cats and children that want

to love him tons! He LOVES catnip toys. He

was born in 2006, is neutered, FIV/FELV

negative and up to date on his shots

Please note: All cats and kittens require an

on-line adoption application be completed

and sent BEFORE consideration for adoption

can take place. On-line applications at www.

billericacatcarecoalition.org.

BILLERICA CATCARE COALITION


One BookOne BillericaPass it On!

The Billerica Public Library Presents

One Book, One Billerica, Pass It On is a community-wide reading program. It centers on onebook, encouraging people to come together in the library, coffee shop, dentist office waiting

room, schools, homes and offices to read and discuss the same book at the same time.

FEATURED READING!

January 1 - March 31, 2010!Read it and

Pass it On!

Pick up a copy of the book at the library or one of the many distribution points in town (listed below)

Read it, discuss it and then log on to our webpage www.billericalibrary.org and give us your feedback.

Pass it on to a friend, a family member or an acquaintance to enjoy or return it to a distribution spot forsomeone else to discover.

You can pick up a copy of the featured book at the Library, O’Connor Hardware, theCoffee Emporium, Curves, Billerica Chiropractic, Dr. Feuerstein, DMD, CollinsBowladrome, Java’s Brewin’, Colleen Sgroi’s Art Gallery, Billerica Senior Center,Billerica Boys and Girls Club, and the Town Hall.

1.2.3.

US State Senate Election Day

Tuesday, Jan. 19Precinct Polls Open 8 am-8 pm

DemocratAttorney GeneralMartha Coakley

vs

Republican SenatorScott Brown

Your Vote Counts!

Get Out and Vote!

Questions?

Call Town Clerk at

978-671-0924

Th e Sixth Annual Sweetheart Dinner

Dance, sponsored each year by the Billerica

Community Alliance, will be held on

Th ursday, Feb. 11 starting at 4pm at the

Billerica Lodge of Elks on Webb Brook

Road. Th is event is intended for Billerica

couples who have been married for 50 years

or more and is free to those who attend. We

continue to look for local couples who would

be eligible to attend the event. If you know

of a Billerica couple who have been married

since 1960 or longer, contact our offi ce for

more information.

Th is is a truly special event which includes

a full sit-down dinner, music, dancing,

corsages, commemorative photographs and

transportation for those who need it. All of

this is provided at no cost to those who attend

and in 2009, over 55 couples participated.

In addition to the dinner and dancing,

couples will be blessed by local clergy and

proclamations celebrating the occasion will

be read by both the Massachusetts State

Representative and the Board of Selectmen.

Couples also sweetly renew their vows as a

group during the course of the evening.

Th e Billerica Community Alliance is still

seeking sponsors for this event. Sponsorship

options range from sponsoring a single

couple to a table for four couples and are

very aff ordable. If your business has a focus

on senior life, this may well be an event

you wish to sponsor. Recognition will be

given to all sponsors at the event as well as

in the programs for the event. If you are

interested in being a sponsor, please contact

the Community Alliance offi ce at 978-667-

4174 or via email at info@billerica-alliance.

org.

Th e Alliance is also pleased to announce

that we were a recipient of one of the

Community Fund Grants for this event

which were announced at the Jan. 4

Selectmen’s meeting. Th is grant, along

with the sponsorship support we have

received from local businesses, will ensure

that we have suffi cient funds for this year’s

event as well as provide a base for the

event going forward. Now in its twelfth

year, the funds for the Community Fund

Grants program are contributed by local

businesses, many of whom are members of

the Billerica Community Alliance, including

FLIR Systems, Nortel Networks, Bruker

Corporation and Parexel.

Th e Billerica Community Alliance is

interested in expanding our membership

which includes businesses, local organizations

and individuals. If you are interested in

joining us, please contact the offi ce via

phone at 978-667-4174 or via email at

[email protected].

Pat Zapert is the Executive Director of Th e Billerica Community Alliance.

SWEETHEART DANCE STILL A DRAW FOR SENIORS

Business to Business•By Pat Zapert

Rich Mackay from the Historical Society

received funding to continue repairs on the Clara

Sexton House chimney and gutters.

Town employees and elected offi cials welcomed new Town Manager

John Curran at a coff ee in Buck Auditorium on Jan. 4 held in his honor.

Th is was Curran’s fi rst day in the corner offi ce.

Mike Moore from Th e Billerica

Spelling Bee will use his award to pay

for trophies and medals.

Wayne Smith from the

Community Garden was so

happy to receive his award

he forgot to take the check

from Selectman Mike Rosa.

Th e Boys and Girls Club

received $4,000 from Flir which

they will use toward educational

programs for members.


In the middle of the challenging real

estate market, Billerica has a success story

at Clocktower Place on Bridge Street. After

securing six tenants, just one small offi ce

space remains.

“Th e quality and design issues were easy,”

says owner Robert MacCormack. “We knew

from day one that since the building would

house our business, it would be fi rst-class.”

MacCormack is referring to the offi ces of

MacCormack Plumbing and the mechanical

engineering fi rm operated by his son. “We

also used our technical know-how to use

energy saving features, which will save money

for tenants.”

Th e quality and appearance

of the building drew several

technology tenants, consistent

with a development trend seen

in Billerica. Th is includes

software, security, staffi ng and

industrial photography tenancies.

MacCormack also secured a

long-term professional tenant in

Dr. Scott Goldberg of Billerica,

who operates Flex Your Smile

cosmetic dentistry.

What type of tenant will

complete the occupancy at 17

Bridge Street? Th e remaining

offi ce is fully design and constructed,

featuring two offi ces and a staff area at

approximately 900 square feet. According

to MacCormack, “We would like to have a

professional tenant that complements our

building and businesses we’ve drawn to

Billerica. I think if they stop in and see the

space and see what we’ve done, it will be an

easy decision.”

Th e Edge Group, Inc. of Lowell, which

specializes in commercial real estate, is the

broker for the Clocktower Place property.

Th ey can be reached at 978-458-8822 or the

space can be viewed at www.edgegroupinc.

com.

Owner and developer, Robert MacCormack,

reviews construction progress.

CLOCKTOWER PLACESEEKING FINAL OFFICE TENANT

Whether new or established, business

owners alike will be able to address any issues

they may have within their companies and

businesses on Feb. 16 at Town Hall. Th e

Lowell Chamber of Commerce is hosting

their Billerica Town Business Day, which is

a free event featuring speakers, networking,

and information.

“A lot of businesses don’t know what

is out there,” said Karon Bergeron, Vice

President of Th e Lowell Chamber.

Th e event will run from 7:30 to 9:30

am and guest speakers will include George

Noel, the Mass. Director of Labor; Lisa

Gonzalez-Welch from the Small Business

Administration; and Peter McGarry, a

SCORE Counselor. Billerica’s own town

manager, John Curran, and Stephanie

Cronin, our Economic Development

Coordinator will be on hand to answer local

questions. State Senator Ken Donnelly and

State Representative William Greene are also

scheduled to attend, barring any necessary

engagements in Boston.

Th e mission of the Chamber is to

provide a vehicle through which the area’s

business climate and quality of life van be

improved. Th e Greater Lowell Chamber of

Commerce is a regional organization serving

Billerica, Dracut, Lowell, Chelmsford,

Tewksbury, Tyngsboro, Westford and other

communities.

“We host Town Business Day in the six

surrounding towns too,” said Bergeron.

Th e speakers will be presenting such

topics as importing and exporting or helping

owners develop business plans. Services like

technical assistance and counseling will

also be discussed. Brochures and fl yers will

be available and light refreshments will be

served.

In addition to Town Business Day in

Billerica, Bergeron also visits Billerica Town

Hall every other month and hosts Small

Business Day from 9 to 10 am. Th is time is

open to all businesses and is for promoting

all the available resources.

“We really want to help grow and promote

business in Billerica,” said Bergeron.

For additional information, call Th e

Greater Lowell Chamber of Commerce

at 978-459-8154. or visit their web site at

www.greaterlowellchamber.org.

CHAMBER DAY BOOSTS BUSINESSES


candy canes

catching fl akes

hot cocoa

ice skating

no school

reindeer games

shovel

skiing

sledding

snow angels

snow shoes

snowballs

snowboarding

snowman

tubing

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Free coloring pages at

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Show Your Pride.

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What Martin Luther King Jr. Taught Us: Jarred, 12: “We should use our words and not our fists.” Julia, 7: “We should be kind.” Jacob, 6: “We are all the same.”

Slow DownCocoa

1/2 cup milk1/2 cup water

Chocolate syrupPeppermint candy

cane15 (or more) chocolate

chipsMarshmallow Fluff®

Heat milk and water for about 11/2 minutes in

microwave. (Be careful water may be

hot.)

Add chocolate chips and 2 squirts (or more)

of chocolate syrup.

Stir with candy cane and top with a scoop

of Marshmallow Fluff®.

Enjoy with your Sweet Valentine!


Julie Kinscheck always loved to sing and

planned to make it big some day. She was going

to have all those things well known performers

have-fame, fortune and prestige. However,

her life took her down a diff erent road than

she expected and instead, she became a soul

transformed who has gone on to bring hope

to thousands. Th rough her voice and drive as

a social activist, Kinscheck continues to dream

of making it big, but not in the way you might

expect.

Born Julie Gibbons in Ithaca, New York,

Kinscheck came to creative arts naturally

since she was part of a very musical family.

Her father sang in local operas and conducted

musicals at Cornell. Her mother wrote poetry.

Her brothers played in a rock and roll band.

“Music was all around me,” said

Kinscheck.

At nine, she began singing her own songs

for others. Kinscheck wanted to be discovered

so walking along the street, she would sing at

the top of her lungs, hoping to be heard. One

of her earliest infl uences was her childhood

music teacher, John Bailey, who taught her

about improvisation. Th is later became the

cornerstone in her song writing and arranging.

Known as “Scat”, it became a talent for

Kinscheck and she later donned the title,

“Queen of Scat”. Kinscheck still enjoys adding

saucy little harmonies to her favorite cover

tunes and confi dently belting them out.

Kinscheck became a Rotary Exchange

student after high school and went onto to

study in Munich, Germany for a year, traveling

to France, Italy and England. She played her

guitar on the streets and loved the reaction of

those who heard her.

“It helped me gain my confi dence,” said

Kinscheck.

Upon returning to the US, she attended

Oberland College, where she discovered Jazz

music and formed her own group. A band

member encouraged her to attend Berklee in

Boston, where she obtained a full scholarship

and learned all the ins and outs of the music

business.

“Berklee was just what I needed to learn

how to make a living as a musician,” said

Kinscheck.

Instead of returning to New York,

Kinscheck remained in Boston and worked

hard. She sang at weddings and taught voice

students privately. She went onto form a cover

band, Centerpiece, and started living the rock

star lifestyle. She performed with her group

at restaurants and bars and ultimately ran her

self to into the ground. She explained that she

became tenacious, never slept and grew to be

very bossy. She thought to make it she had to

be someone she wasn’t and would strut her

stuff seductively on stage because she thought

she had to. She had mistaken this for being a

tough, independent woman.

“I was proud of that,” shrugged

Kinscheck.

What happened next transformed her life

and her career forever. She developed ‘nodes’,

a condition where callouses form on the vocal

chords. Ultimately, she lost her voice and her

band fell apart. She found all the friends she

surrounded herself with, disappeared. It was at

this, her lowest point, where grace stepped in

to save her.

Kinscheck had met Jim Peterson, a

classmate, in college who was a Christian. He

talked about God and Kinscheck listened but

was uninterested. However, upon seeing her

then fi ancée transform under the power of

scriptures, Kinscheck wanted to know more.

She began to study the Bible and wrestle with

her own demons.

“Reading scripture brings a mirror up to

your face,” she said.

Kinscheck made the decision to become

a Christian and miraculously her voice

healed. She went from little venues and

bars to performing in concert halls in front

of thousands at Christian conferences. She

realized the possibilities were endless.

Kinscheck had met her future husband,

Ralph, through school but they never became

friends. Eight years after leaving Berklee,

through Peterson, they met again in church,

new people.

“God had changed us both so much we

were now ready to fall in love,” she said.

Th e couple was married and began making

music together. Ralph played keyboards but

was also a talented songwriter, engineer, and

and producer. He has been an important

factor in helping Kinscheck produce her

three Cd’s. In 2006, Kinscheck, produced

“Faith in Action Live” which was a gospel

jazz arrangement with her A’ Capella group.

Th e same year, she and her husband, through

working in Children’s ministries, put out “Th e

Force”. Th is was Christian rock for kids, aimed

especially at teens.

In 2008, Kinscheck produced her solo

debut album called “Grace with Jazz on Top”.

In it, she had her longings fulfi lled as she was

able to perform a variety of songs spanning

all types of topics. She wrote music which

addressed what women today face in this

society. Also on the CD, is “Precious”, the song

she wrote to her twins, Caleb and Hannah,

who she endured eight years of miscarriage

and medical intervention to fi nally have.

“I couldn’t believe how in love I was with

them and they were just a speck on the screen,”

she smiled.

Th e performing gene apparently runs

strong in this family, because her two children

love to sing and now, at fi ve years old, even

write their own songs.

It was at this time, that Kinscheck found

the organization Hope Worldwide and began

to follow their charity. She had been raised in

a family who had been active in social causes

and through Hope’s events, Kinscheck found a

calling. Here she was able to throw her support

behind something she believed in and use her

talent for the good of others. Hope Worldwide

is an international Christian charity that has

developed housing for lepers in India, built

AIDS clinics in Africa, and staff ed hospitals

in Cambodia. Kinscheck would perform at

benefi ts for them all over the country to raise

awareness and much needed funds.

As a result, Kinscheck will be hosting A

Night of HOPE fund raiser at Th e Bennett

Library. It will be on Saturday, Feb 20 at

7pm with a $10 suggested donation per

person. Snacks will be provided and Julie will

be the feature artist. Other local talents will

also perform and the evening will include a

presentation about the work HOPE is doing

for children, orphans and the needy around

the world. For more information about this

and her other upcoming performances, visit

Kinscheck’s web site at www.julieksings.com.

For more information on Hope Worldwide,

visit www.hopeww.org.

MOVING HEARTS TOWARD HOPE: CHRISTIAN PERFORMER SHARES HER GRACE

EXIT Homestead Realty“Real Estate Solutions”

5 Andover Rd., Billerica, MA 01821 Ph: 978-439-5566 Fax: 978-439-0583

EXIT Homestead Realty has expanded our Real Estate Solutions Center.

• David Morey – Greenpark Mortgage

• Christine Morgan – Real Estate Attorney

• Michael Longo – The Concord River Group

• Harris Real Estate School Andrew & Edna Chalmers

Broker Owners

Our Real Estate Solutions Team

Mission StatementIt is the goal of EXIT Homestead Realty to provide superior Real Estate Service and to lead the Real Estate Industry to a higher level of professional and ethical standards of practice.

CALLTODAY!

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www.ExitHomesteadRealty.com

Antoinette Sachetta EXIT Homestead Realty is pleased to welcome Antoinette Sachetta to our team. Antoinette is a real estate professional who believes in providing honest, expert advice and service to all of her clients.

Welcome our newest agent!

Preparation classes for the Mass Real Estate Salesperson’s Examination will be held at both morning and evening at 5 Andover Road in Billerica Center.

• Small classroom environment. • Free review before test• Free practice exam • Repeat as many times as needed

Broker Course and Continuing Education will also be available.Call Andrew of EXIT Homestead Realty on 978-439-5566 for schedule.

Harris Real Estate School

The Worker, Homeownership and Business Assistance Act of 2009, signed into law on Nov. 6, 2009, extends and expands the first-time homebuyer credit allowed by previous Acts. Under the new law, an eligible taxpayer must buy, or enter into a

binding contract to buy, a principal residence on or before April 30, 2010 and close on the home by June 30, 2010. For qualifying purchases in 2010, taxpayers have

the option of claiming the credit on either their 2009 or 2010 return.

The new law also: Authorizes the credit for long-time homeowners buyinga replacement principal residence.

Raises the income limitations for homeowners claiming the credit.

Homebuyer Credit Expanded and Extended

I fi nd the New Year to be a time for

resolutions. Each year I sit down and write

my New Year’s resolutions. I review my past

year’s resolutions and see how I did. Th en I

write my new resolutions and goals. Do you

write New Year’s resolutions too?

As a holistically-oriented nutrition

coach, I incorporate a holistic approach that

includes not only what a person eats, but

also how it fi ts into the person’s lifestyle.

Many people resolve to eat better in the New

Year. If that is what you want, I recommend

that eating better be part of your lifestyle

along with exercise, work, fun, relationships,

spirituality, rest and relaxation, and all the

other important parts of life.

Remember that you have the power to

make a diff erence in your life each year. Here

are four tips I think you will fi nd helpful

for creating a year that is wonderful and

balanced:

1. Slow down. Most of us are moving too

fast, doing too much, multitasking,

and stressing ourselves out! I suggest

you make a concerted eff ort to slow

down, calm down, take deep breaths,

meditate, and pray. Do what you need

to do to slow down.

2. Focus on gratitude. Have you ever

noticed a warm fuzzy feeling inside

when you feel grateful? It isn’t always

easy to focus on gratitude when things

are not going well but I fi nd it helps me

feel better when I do. I recommend that

you make an eff ort to thank everyone

who made/makes a positive diff erence

in your life – spread the warm fuzzy

feeling! If you can, try to be grateful

for the things in your life that do not

go the way you want or expect. Even

those things have meaning and lessons

within.

3. Learn to let go. Some things, thoughts,

behaviors, and activities in our lives

are not worth holding onto. Do you

have more things than you need?

Do you notice repetitive, destructive

thoughts? Do you get stuck in the

same frustrating situations over and

over? Consider changing the things,

thoughts, behaviors, and activities that

sabotage you.

4. Add in what counts. After letting go of

what no longer serves us, we then have

room for more of what we want. When

I let go of some unnecessary, unsavory

activity, I feel relieved and happy to be

able to add something more fun and

meaningful into my life. With extra

time, we can fi t in healthy activities

like making home-cooked meals,

exercising, taking a class on a topic we

like, and so on.

Working on these four tips is a process.

By slowing down, being grateful, letting go,

and adding in what counts in your life, you

will be closer to creating your ideal, balanced

lifestyle. Th e New Year is a great time to work

on this. You will be setting the groundwork

for making your New Year’s resolutions a

reality.

Kathy Lynch is founder of WellSkills.com and the WellSkillsTM System, a proven step-by-step program to help busy Moms and their families reach life-long health, energy, and weight. If you want to learn more about local cooking classes, events, and resources, visit www.WellSkills.com. © 2009 Kathy Lynch, WellSkills.

CREATE YOUR IDEAL, BALANCED LIFE

Nourishment for Optimal Health•By Kathy Lynch, CHHC


Beautiful Bennett Library. Right before the season

ended, Th e Billerica Green got the opportunity to take

these images of one of our classic historical buildings all

decorated for the holidays. Stay tuned for a feature in the spring

showcasing Eleanor Bennett and the library the town turned down.


Lyme Disease is caused by a spirochete called Borrelia burgdorferi, named

after the scientist who fi rst identifi ed it in 1982 in Lyme, Connecticut. It’s

the number one tick-born disease, has been confi rmed in every state in the

U.S., and is believed to incur 400,000 new cases of Lyme Disease every year.

Borrelia burgdorferi (Bb for short), lives in the stomachs of deer ticks, and gets

transmitted into the blood when the deer tick, in it’s “nymph” phase, bites a

human or animal. When in its nymph stage, the deer tick is about the size of

the period at the end of this sentence. Th ey’re very diffi cult to detect, and Lyme

patients often don’t recall ever having been bitten.

Bb, the Lyme Disease bacteria, is called a spirochete because its body is

spiral shaped. Th is allows the bacteria to bore its way around the body. Infection

begins in the blood, but because of the spiral shape, the bacteria can cross into

other parts of the body, including organs, tissue, joints, and even inside cells

where it rests, protected from antibiotics.

Since chronic Lyme can occur anywhere in the body, symptoms vary

greatly and are often quite numerous. Symptoms seem to trend toward being

either primarily neurological or primarily physical, often attacking the legs.

Most chronic Lyme patients have both types of symptoms, with one type more

prominent.

A diagnosis of chronic Lyme is diffi cult to arrive at, and is also surrounded

by controversy. Lyme Disease has been referred to as “Th e Great Imitator”,

because it often mimics the symptoms of other diseases. Th at list is long, but

includes diseases such as: Multiple Sclerosis, Depression/Anxiety,Parkinson’s

disease, Gout, Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, Ménière’s disease, Hepatitis, TMJ

(jaw pain), Fibromyalgia, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Lupus, Chronic Fatigue

Syndrome, ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease), Crohn’s disease, ADHD (Attention

Defi cit Hyperactivity Disorder, Epstein-Barr virus infection, Alzheimer’s

disease.

Th is complicates the diagnosis, since each of those diseases need to be

eliminated as the source of the patient’s symptoms before a chronic Lyme

diagnosis can be made. Th ere are blood tests for Lyme, of course; however, if

not done early in the infection, these blood tests result are unreliable. Chronic

Lyme Disease requires a clinical diagnosis. Th is means the patient history,

symptoms, and elimination of other potential diseases is more reliable than

blood test results and clinical diagnosis is what’s used by Lyme savvy doctors,

referred to as “Lyme-literate” doctors, or LLMDs.

Treatment is also controversial. LLMD’s treat chronic Lyme patients

with long-term antibiotics, often cycling between diff erent drugs to ensure

the bacteria is completely eradicated. Opponents maintain that a 4-8 week

course of antibiotics is suffi cient; any lingering symptoms are psychosomatic,

or coincidental of some other, non-Lyme disease. Both camps are fi rmly

entrenched in their beliefs, and the debate between them is heated, political,

and ongoing.

In 2009, two key Lyme Disease events took place. Th e fi rst was the release

of a documentary called “Under Our Skin”. Directed by Andy Abrahams

Wilson, this fi lm has brought insight into the topic of chronic Lyme Disease,

along with presenting both sides of the controversy. It takes the viewer through

the history of Lyme Disease, fromthe 1970’s to now. It gives staggering statistics

which are higher than AIDS and West Nile yet shines the light on the manner

in which doctors and insurance companies treat this as a “psychosomatic

condition”. It also brings to the surface the issue of resistant microbes and

ineff ective antibiotics.

Released on June 13, 2009, it has already won numerous awards, including:

Best in Infectious Disease, Best in Health and Science, Best Documentary, and

Audience Favorite. In December, “Under Our Skin” became a semi-fi nalist to

win the 2009 Tribeca Oscar.

Th e second key event occurred on July 30, 2009, when the Infectious

Disease Society of America (IDSA) assembled a panel in Washington D.C. to

hear testimony from doctors and researchers on each side of the debate. Th e

panel was assembled to review whether the current guidelines for Lyme Disease

diagnosis and treatment are fl awed or were driven by confl icts of interest. Th e

guideline review was mandated under an antitrust settlement initiated by the

Connecticut Attorney General. For details of the suit, go to http://www.ct.gov/

AG/.

Th e outcome of the review could be any of the following: a complete rewrite

of the guidelines, modifi cation of the existing guidelines, or keeping them as is.

Th e settlement called for a fi nal decision to be made by the end of 2009.

As of the writing of this article, that decision is pending. When the decision

is announced, Th e Billerica Green will provide an update to the community.

References

1. Fearn, Douglas W. Lyme Disease and

associated diseases - A plain-language

introduction to tick-borne diseases, Th e

Basics. Th e Lyme Disease Association of

Southeastern Pennsylvania, Inc. www.

LymePa.org

2. Burrascano Joseph, M.D. Advanced

Topics In Lyme Disease - Diagnostic

Hints And Treatment Guidelines For

Lyme And Other Tick Borne Illnesses

Board Member, International Lyme and

Associated Diseases Society

www.ilads.org

3. Kenneth B Singleton M.D., M.P.H. Th e

Lyme Disease Solution,

www.lymedoctor.com

4. “Attorney General Press Release: IDSA

Lyme Disease Guidelines Flawed and

Driven by Confl icts of Interests”,

May 1, 2008. CALDA – California

Lyme Disease Association Web

Site, Accessed December 30, 2009,

http://www.lymedisease.org/news/

lymepolicywonk/15.html

5. Blumenthal, Richard. “Attorney

General’s Investigation Reveals Flawed

Lyme Disease Guideline Process,

IDSA Agrees To Reassess Guidelines,

Install Independent Arbiter”, State of

Connecticut Web Site, www.ct.gov;

Accessed December 30, 2009. Offi ce of

Attorney General Richard Blumenthal’s

page: www.ct.gov/AG/cwp/view.

asp?a=2795&q=414284

6. “Under Our Skin, Th ere’s No

Medicine for Someone Like You: Film

Background”, www.underourskin.

com/index.html. Accessed December 29,

2009. http://www.underourskin.com/

fi lm_background.html

Looking back over 2009, it’s been a

pivotal year in the fi ght against

chronic Lyme Disease. Chronic

Lyme is when the Lyme infection is left un-

or under-treated, and the infection spreads

throughout the entire body. Worst case, the

bacteria crosses the blood/brain barrier, and

infects the brain.

Lyme Disease

By Jenn Gervais, Staff Writer

Tackling Th e Great Imitator:Lyme

DiseaseLyme Disease


Even in Sports Town USA, there are certain adolescents for whom traditional athletics don’t hold appeal. Skaterboarders. Perhaps you have seen some. Th ey aren’t hard to miss. Often donning hats and piercings, through their appearance and behavior, negative public opinion has been generated. In Billerica, this population, which is now split, has given many skateboarders in Billerica a bad reputation.

Much of the public judgment at times has been understandable. Th ere have been complaints that groups of teens on skateboards have harassed shoppers in O’Connor’s Plaza or skated on church property that has been damaged, resulting in a call to the police.

Skateboarder Alex Patterson is frustrated by this. She and her friends, who aren’t into sports, feel “secluded” to town center to skate. She admits they have been outside Walgreens and KMart, getting spoken to by police. She explained that for many, the worst “crimes” they commit is loitering or looking like “trouble’’ because they are diff erent.

“In a town where the center is the only haven for teenagers who can not drive, where else is there to go but parking lots and side walks?” Patterson asked.

Now a group of more than 20 skating teens, who spoke out at a recent public meeting on Dec. 22, are working closely with town offi cials, community leaders and organizations to change this.

“Contrary to popular belief, skateboarding is done by some of the friendliest and nicest people you’ll ever meet,” said Joey Salem, Co-Chairperson of the Billerica Skatepark Committee.

Th e Billerica Skatepark Committee (BSC) wants to dispel preconceived ideas about skateboarders. In the US, 10 million skateboarders fall into the category of street skateboarders which is defi ned as skating on stair sets, hand rails, ledges, and other obstacles due to lack of anywhere else to go.

Th e BSC has a pro-active goal in mind. Th ey would like to see a skate park re-installed at the Lampson Recreation Complex following the removal of damaged ramps in 2008. Th e teens at the meeting explained they were not the vandals.

“We don’t associate with them,” said BSC member Maria Salem.

Th e issue lies in obtaining community acceptance for this growing sport and support for this project. A 2002 report by American Sports Data found that there were 12.5 million skateboarders in the world, while it is currently the third most popular sport in America. According to www.skatboardinformation.com, there is ongoing

discussion of including skateboarding in the 2012 Olympic Games in London, England.

“Skateboarding is an athletic activity,” said Joey.

Th e BSC has recently been under the guidance of the Recreation Department Director, Peggy Hannon-Rizza and the Playground Coordinator, Sandy Libby. Offi cer Dale Sarno, Bernie Hoar, Chairman of the Partners for Education, and Selectman Mike

Rosa have also taken an interest in helping the BSC have an approved, safe place to skate. At the meeting held on Dec. 22, the community leaders and the teens in attendance discussed how to make this skate park a reality.

“As of now, there’s no place for kids to go,” said Sarno.

Th e fi rst thing necessary is fencing for which Sarno and Rosa presented a quote. With a price tag in the thousands, BSC chair, Joey Salem presented ideas like skate-off s and t-shirt sales as possible fund raisers. Currently, the town owns four ramps which are in need of repair. Rosa agreed to repair them and place them on the paved area across from the Boys and Girls Club. Upon the close of the meeting, the teens attending began planning how to proceed with the support of the adults in the room behind them.

“Once you get something, enthusiasm goes up,” said Hannon-Rizza.

Th e BSC has scheduled a second public meeting on Tuesday, Jan. 19 at Buck Auditorium in Town Hall. Th ey plan to further discuss progress and welcome other skaters to attend.

REGAINING THE PIPELINE:SKATEBOARDERS COMBAT STEREOTYPES TO EARN SKATEPARK

Stage 1Purchasing Fencing

-Estimated Cost:$6,000

-Date of Completion: 2010

Stage 2Repair, Place Currently Owned Ramps

-Estimated Cost: Free

-Date of Completion: Shortly after fence

is installed

-Repair Labor and Ramp Placement

being donated by selectman Mike Rosa

Stage 3Purchase and install New Equipment

-Estimated Cost: $25,000+

-Date of Completion: Ongoing

-New Street and Park Elements added

and chosen by skaters

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Maureen Sullivan and Dale Hoar knew

the Team Trivia Challenge would be a big hit

in Billerica when they heard about it 15 years

ago. Th ey had gone to a workshop on fund

raising, representing the Billerica Scholarship

Foundation (BSF). Th ese types of events were

popular so they decided to give it a try.

Th eir gut feeling was

right.

“It really took off ,”

said Sullivan, BSF

Chairperson.

What started as

25 teams is now more

than 50, spanning from

families to organizations

to corporations. For $125,

a team of four can register for this event, which

is scheduled this year for Friday, Feb. 5 at 7

pm at the Lodge of Th e Elks on Webb Brook

Road. Th e funds go toward scholarships which

help a Billerica student fulfi ll their dream of

furthering their education after high school.

Bring your own snacks and plan to dress

up in costume. Since this is an anniversary

celebration, there is not only one theme but all

15 to choose from.

“Part of the fun is coming up with the

costumes,” said Sullivan.

Past themes included Disney, sports, wild

west, tropical paradise, the Super 70’s, and

Space Odyssey. Some of the teams taking home

Best Costume honors in past years included

teachers from the Locke Middle School and

the Library’s “Made for Minutiae”.

Th is year’s celebration will be bittersweet as

Dr. Bob Calabrese will be honored. Calabrese

has been the only Master of Ceremonies for

Team Trivia since it’s inception and has left

big shoes to fi ll. Calabrese was well known for

quieting the crowd with his, “Shhhh!” as well

as his costumes. It was always a secret what he

would wear and while at the podium, he reveled

in light hearted ‘roasting’ of certain friends and

colleagues in the crowd.

“He really enjoyed it,” said Sullivan.

Th e committee began to consider a likely

candidate to take the stage. Initially, one of

Calabrese’s sons off ered but lived out of state,

so it did not work out. Th e

committee then chose Kim

Conway, former School

Committee Chairperson, who

happily accepted the title of

Trivia Master. She was chosen

because she had expressed an

interest in helping the BSF

and because of her link to

the school community.

“Kim was our local pick,” said Christine

Dunleavey, Team Trivia Committee Co-Chair.

“We’re happy to have her.”

To make this a banner year, the committee

has decided to try some new ideas. In past years,

teams could buy an answer later in the game

when they arrived to the advanced play stage.

Now they will have the opportunity to do this

within the fi rst three rounds. Something else

that’s new is teams can purchase a ‘Th is or Th at’.

In doing so, they can put down two answers for

one question in the fi rst three rounds as well.

“We’re increasing the chances of winning,”

said Dunleavey.

Lastly, the BSF is also looking to draw in the

community more so by asking families, schools,

local businesses, town departments, and local

offi cials to participate by giving in diff erent

ways. Th ey can participate in a team, contribute

an item for the raffl e, or make a donation toward

a scholarship in Calabrese’s name.

“We’re trying to make it more interesting,”

said Dunleavey.

To register your team, visit www.

billericascholarship.org. You will receive a

confi rmation letter once your registration is

received and all registrations are due by Feb. 1.

TRIVIAL MATTERS: 15TH ANNIVERSARY OF MEMORABILIA AND MINUTIAE

Billerica Substance Abuse Prevention Committee

On Tuesday, Jan. 26, Th e Billerica

Substance Abuse Prevention Committee

(BSAPC) will host a public forum in the

Buck Auditorium at 7 pm in Town Hall. Th e

general public is welcome to attend this free

event. Parents are especially encouraged to

bring their teens and pre-teens. Th e evening

will feature a speaker recovering from

substance abuse as well informational hand

outs and a survey.

Th e BSAPC’s mission is to increase

awareness, promote education, and provide

resources to the Billerica community in

order to reduce substance abuse using proven

prevention and intervention approaches.

Th ese community events and projects

include:

• Town Hall Forums presenting speakers

discussing a variety of topics including

the physical, psychological, and social

eff ects of substance abuse.

• Th e Sticker Shock program where

students, accompanied by Billerica Police

offi cers, go to a number of package stores

in Billerica for the purpose of placing

stickers on purchases which exhort

buyers not to provide alcohol to underage

minors.

• Th e committee has conducted the

Communities Th at Cares survey of

students in the Billerica Public Schools

to determine the extent of use of alcohol,

marijuana, cigarettes and other drugs

as compared with national norms. Th is

survey also identifi es how our community

measures in relation to state and national

standards.

• Th e committee participates in Yankee

Doodle Weekend and in the Billerica

Health Fair each year providing

information to the community about

substance use and abuse, and where to fi nd

help if needed. Th e committee has also

set up tables for information distribution

at school events such as Back-to-School

Night.

• Th e committee is seeking to establish a

prescription “take back” program where

residents can safely dispose of their

unused and outdated prescription drugs

through a regular, periodic program.

• In the near future, BSAPC hopes to

facilitate a coming together of social

groups throughout the community for

the purpose of coordinating further

education for the young people of

Billerica about making safe choices and

avoiding substance use and abuse.

• Developing a wallet-sized card listing

the phone numbers, website addresses,

etc. of agencies that can assist individuals

and families where substance abuse is a

problem. Th is is referred to as the “Power

of Know”.

For more information about the BSAPC

or the upcoming forum, email the committee

Chairperson, Assistant Superintendent

of Curriculum Richard Safi er at rsafi er@

billerica.k12.ma.us.

HEALTHY CHOICES, HEALTHY LIFESTYLES:PUBLIC FORUM SET TO PROMOTE AWARENESS

As we approach February, people’s minds

turn to love. Th is has left me pondering:

how do you explain love exactly? I mean,

there are so many diff erent kinds of love.

Th ere’s the love of friends and pets.

Which is diff erent than the love of family.

Although I have friends that I love and

consider family. And I have pets that I love

(more than some of my family).

So, what is love? Is it a feeling? An

action? A chemical response? Maybe it’s

a combination of all of these things. It’s a

feeling you get when you hold your baby

for the fi rst time. Like you would move

mountains for this child or throw yourself

in front of speeding bus to protect them.

Sometimes love can be inaction like

letting your loved ones make their own

mistakes so they can learn and grow. I have

more than once refrained from choking

the life out of an obnoxious loved one.

Especially when they’ve said or done the

stupidest thing at the worst time. I think

I have shown oh- so- much love to those

people in my life at that time.

I did read an article once about how we

fall in love with a persons scent. I think there

may be some truth to it. However, I’ve met

some pretty good smelling jerks in my day so

I have my doubts.

With Valentine’s Day soon upon us, some

people go berserk looking for the right gift to

“prove” their love. If the person receiving the

gift doesn’t already know they are loved, one

of you is doing something wrong.

Love should be given freely everyday

to the people in your life. Th ere are so

many diff erent was to show love, it’s mind

boggling. Bake cookies, write a little note

and stick it in a lunch, give out a hug.

Bring home a fl ower for no reason other

than you love them.

Listen to your children when they talk

to you. No, I mean really listen. Put down

what you’re doing for fi ve minutes and pay

attention. Life comes at us so fast but the

little things are important too. Finish a

chore for some one that you know they hate.

Touch an arm as you walk by (please only do

this one to people that you know or you’ll

feel the love of the justice system). Smile at

a stranger. Th ey could be having the worst

day ever and you could help them ever so

slightly with a random act of kindness.

Volunteer at a school, a food pantry, a

shelter, or the humane society. No time or

inclination to volunteer? Th en donate. No

money? No problem. Clean out your clutter

and donate that. Feed the birds, the stray cats,

or adopt a dog. If none of the above works

for you, tell a friend about someone in need.

Maybe they can help. We are all connected;

one act of love has a ripple eff ect.

I know this is idealistic but it does

work. Showing your love on Valentine’s

day is nice but let’s spread it around. Show

love to everyone you meet. See how you

feel at the end of the day. You’ll be happy at

just how much of that love will come back

to you.

GIVE A LITTLE BIT

Pet Peeves•By Nora Fiore


When I set the theme for this edition as

love, I had to take a long hard look. A look at

all the places where I love and where I don’t.

It’s not an easy place to venture. Th e road

is rocky and sharp, and if you’re not well

protected, you are certain to get cut up. It’s

like walking on chards of glass in bare feet.

I guess the fi rst question to ask is “WHO

am I? Do you know WHO you are? No. Not

WHAT you are. We all know you are moms

and wives and husbands and fathers. We all

know you are volunteers and teachers and

workers and friends. WHO is the stuff inside

that eventually shows itself on the outside.

It shows itself in how you treat others and

yourself. If your WHO is scared or hurt

or invisible or joyful or positively charged,

then what the world sees will refl ect that.

Sometimes, we are so in touch with our WHO

but living in situations outside our control,

we will squash our reality and put on a facade

for the whole world’s benefi t. But we can’t

stay that way for long. Oh sure, some people

live decades that way. It’s all they know. But

eventually, it all comes back tenfold. Either

in poor physical health. Or emotional health.

Or mental health. Sometimes, it causes pain

so great that people self soothe or medicate.

Alcohol. Food. Drugs. Gambling. Aff airs.

Rage. Jealousy. Depression

Getting to know WHO you are sets

the stage for living well. Are you a helper?

A healer? A listener? A lover? A fi ghter? Our

WHO was determined before we were born,

down in our DNA. We were wired that way.

Our WHO never goes away. It just evolves

as we evolve.

Our WHO does not have to own us. You

can take hold of your WHO and channel

that predetermined energy productively and

put it toward the WHAT you were meant to

be. Some people never fi nd out WHAT they

were meant to be. Th ey walk through life

searching or settling. It’s a lonely existence.

Th e lucky ones fi nd their calling. How

do you KNOW you’ve found your calling?

You can’t wait to wake up in the morning

and start the day. You have hope. You dare

to dream. You believe in the goodness that

surrounds you. You see that what you do is

helping others. You know that you are good

at it. Th e world is your oyster.

My advice? Get to know your WHO.

Become well acquainted and get close.

Be comfortable in WHO you are. Find

peace and serenity for they are valuable

commodities we take for granted. Love and

respect your WHO. Identify those things

that knock your WHO down and avoid

them. Your WHO can be so strong and can

lead to greatness in you. When you realize it,

only then can you ever achieve the WHAT

that is waiting for you.

Beside being Editor of Th e Billerica Green, Liana Measmer is a Licensed Social Worker,

Billerica resident and Mom to three great kids.

TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE

The Power from Within•By Liana Measmer

There are many reasons. I would like to

talk about the most basic one.

Self-Defense.

If we own a home, we have fi re insurance.

Very few homes ever burn down. Very few

people will ever get into a life and death

situation. But homes do burn and people are

attacked. If we protect property against a

possible loss, shouldn’t we do whatever we

can to protect ourselves and those we love

from danger?

Think of the martial arts as life insurance

that pays off while you’re alive and reduces the

chances of injury and death.

Violence or the threat of it is more probable

than losing a house to fi re. A few years ago, in

Maynard, a man put his hand over the mouth

of a nine year old girl and tried dragging her

into his van.

She was playing outside her home.

I’m sure the house had fi re insurance.

The girl yelled, resisted, and got away.

Sometimes a child is not so lucky.

We have an obligation to protect ourselves

and our children. The martial arts is not a youth

sport. It is an education for children and adults

that lasts a lifetime.

I have four children of my own. All black

belts. When she was fi ve, my daughter used to

hide under the bed so she wouldn’t have to go

to karate class. But she persevered, as did my

sons. I’m glad they didn’t quit. I can’t always

be with them.

We are lucky in Billerica to have excellent

martial arts schools. It might be a good way to

start off the New Year by checking one out.

All my best, Alan Kessler

7 Marshall Street | Billerica, MA 01821

978-667-7774

508 Groton Road | Westford, MA 01886

978-692-0479

www.kesslerkarate.com

“Why take the martial arts?”

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United Nations Celebrates Lion’s Club Humanitarianism

Each year, Lions Day is celebrated with

the United Nations as a reminder of how

the Lions leaders helped write the non-

governmental charter of what would become

known as the UN today. Since 1945, the

Lions have remained affi liated with the UN

humanitarian agencies as consultants to its

Economic and Social Council.

Th is year, Vienna Austria is the venue

for the 32nd Annual Lions Day which will

be held on March 26 at the UN Vienna

International Center. For over 30 years,

the Vienna Lions have organized an annual

event to coincide with the UN event. Th e

Vienna International Center, located north

of the Danube River, houses numerous UN

offi ces like the International Atomic Energy

Agency and the UN Offi ce on Drug and

Crime. Th ere are two UN sites throughout

the world: New York and Geneva.

Each year, the Lions International

President appoints a member to represent

the Lions at all three UN offi ces. In 2010,

Past President Joseph Wroblewski will be in

New York, Past International President and

Professor Dr. Giuseppe Grimaldi will be

in Geneva, and Past International Director

Ernst Musil will be in Vienna.

At exactly 2pm on March 26, event

chairperson Wroblewski will offi cially begin

the ceremonies with speakers talking about

humanitarian service Lions throughout the

world are known for. Th ere will also be a

presentation to the grand prize winners of the

Lions International Peace Poster contest and

the Austrian contest followed by a musical

performance.

Th e relationship between these

international organizations truly represents

a journey of bringing peace throughout the

world. Th e Billerica Lions Club is proud to

have played a part in this journey by annually

hosting a contest at the middle school level

at the beginning of each school year. Th e

Club eagerly looks forward to the entries in

the 2010/2011 contest, themed a “Vision of

Peace”, for it is through our youth that peace

can truly become a reality.

THE LIONS ROAR


In a town with multiple banks to choose

from, StonehamBank shines brightly through

their services both inside their branch and

out. In 2009 alone, on more than 40 diff erent

occasions, StonehamBank gave back to Billerica.

With branches in Stoneham and Billerica,

the staff strives to let residents know they care.

Th ey have supported the town both by making

monetary contributions as well as volunteering

their time. In both branches and throughout

surrounding towns, StonehamBank has

volunteered over 2000 employee hours and

donated $150,000 this year. However, for

them, this is the fun part of being on staff .

“Our community participation isn’t

work,” said Joshua Mahoney from Stoneham’s

Marketing Department.

Stoneham receives requests for donations

from the community which they review

regularly. It varies as to how the request will

be fulfi lled. In addition to being sponsors

for dinners and fund raising events,

StonehamBank takes caring for our senior

citizens very seriously. In partnership with the

Council on Aging, StonehamBank’s Security

Manager, Mike McGrath co-leads workshops

with Billerica Police Offi cer Tara Connors

on identity theft and scam recognition. Th e

next identity theft program is scheduled at the

COA for March.

“We tell people if it seems too good to be

true, it probably is,” said Mahoney.

In the spring each year, StonehamBank

partners with the Shawsheen Vocational

High School for Job Shadow Day. About 30

students are bussed to Stoneham from the

business tech shop to learn all about bank

operations. Th e staff makes it fun by having

give aways and prizes for the students. One

year, a female student won Red Sox tickets

and went wild calling everyone she knew to

tell them the news.

When it comes to helping children,

StonehamBank never hesitates to give back.

Between scholarships to the Scholarship

Foundation or sponsorship for Pop Warner

Football to participating in fund raising

volleyball tournaments for Easter Seals,

StonehamBank staff and volunteers can be

found all over town.

“When it comes to kids, it comes to yes,”

said Ed Allan, Vice President of Commercial

Lending.

For Billerica Branch Manager Rebecca

Scott and Assistant Branch Manager Katie

Fudge, seeing their customers outside the

branch is a treat. Th ey have greeted customers

at Yankee Doodle Homecoming or handed

out donuts and coff ee to seniors waiting at the

COA Flu Clinic. Th ey’ve even served hot dogs

at the Snack Shack at Pop Warner games.

“It’s good to see the smiles on their faces,”

said Fudge.

Looking to make a bigger impact,

StonehamBank off ers educational events

that discuss sound money management.

Th ey have supported the Billerica High

DECA Program’s fi nancial literacy project

where students are educating peers basic

budgeting and saving. Th ey host fi rst time

buyer seminars, with the next one scheduled

in April, where attendees get the opportunity

to talk with housing inspectors, appraisers,

attorneys, realtors, and loan offi cers. Th is year

following Tax day on April 17, the general

public is invited to participate in Shred-it Day

at the Billerica branch. People can bring in all

their old documents and have them shredded

for security’s sake.

“We’re a community bank,” said Katie

Gatcomb, Senior Vice President of Risk

Management. “We want to give back to the

community.”

For more information on products and

services, visit the StonehamBank web site at

www.stonehambank.com.

STONEHAMBANK REDEFINES COMMUNITY

For the fi rst time, Billerica will join the ranks of many

US towns across the country when more than 80 students

take the stage at the Buck Auditorium to start spelling.

Th e Billerica Spelling Bee, as part of the Partners for

Education, will run it’s town wide competition on Feb. 6

from 9:30 am to 5:30 pm. Th e list of participants consists

of students from third through eighth grade who are now

hitting the books and studying their 300 word list for the

big day.

“Th e words are consistent with grade level but

are challenging,” said Michael Moore, Spelling Bee

Committee Co-Chairperson.

More than 350 students town wide in grades three

through eight took the written test to qualify for the

Spelling Bee. Each grade will compete in the traditional

spelling bee contest to determine the best speller for their

grade. A fi nal round of competition will pit the winners

from grades fi ve through eight in a championship round

to crown the grand champion speller.

“Th e enthusiasm is there,” said Moore.

Th e earliest evidence of the phrase spelling bee in

print dates back to 1825. Th e United States National

Spelling Bee was started in 1925 by Th e Courier-Journal,

the newspaper of Louisville, Kentucky. In 1941, the

Scripps Howard News Service acquired sponsorship of the

program, and the name changed to the Scripps Howard

National Spelling Bee (later simply “Scripps National

Spelling Bee”).

“Th ere’s a lot of tradition in Spelling Bee,” said Moore.

Moore and his wife Denise were watching the Scripps

National Spelling Bee in May and were impressed with the

students’ determination. Th ey wondered why there wasn’t

a spelling bee event in Billerica since there are programs

for performing arts, visual arts, and sports. Th e couple

decided to meet with the Billerica Partners for Education

and the Public Schools Department to pitch the idea. Th e

response was positive and all parties approved it.

“Th e spelling bee reinforces educational principles,”

said Moore.

Starting at 9 am on Feb. 6, the contestants will arrive

at Town Hall. Th e event will be recorded for broadcast

on BATV. Sponsors have contributed funding as well

as in-kind donations to make this event possible. Cash

donations were made by Billerica Rotary Club, Th e

Billerica

Green, O’Connor’s Hardware, Enterprise Bank, Ma’s

Dry Cleaning and Flir

Systems through the Community Grants programs.

In-kind donations have been made by Microsoft

Corporation (mice), Simon & Schuster (books),

Macmillan (books), Kingfi sher (books), and St. Martin’s

Press (books). Enterprise Bank will also award a $100

savings bond to a student

whose name suggestion is accepted for the bee logo.

Th e committee wants to extend it’s thanks to the sponsors

which are making this possible.

“Because of the sponsors, we’re going to be able to

off er trophies, medals and prize packs,” said Moore.

Tickets will be sold at the door and grant all day

admission. Th ey are $5 for adults, $3 for students

and seniors and children under 5 are free. Visit the

spelling bee web site for additional information at

www.billericaspellingbee.org.

SPELLING PHENOMS HIT THE STAGE: BILLERICA PART OF NATIONAL TRADITION

StonehamBank donates

to Billerica Pop Warner

Frank Geary, Helping Our

Troops and Rebecca Scott, Billerica

Branch Manager.

Why walk in the cold and snow if you don’t

have to? Jennifer Chubb, owner of Peace of

Mind Personalized Pet Care Solutions, stands

by her clients no matter what the weather. She

is happy to take your best friend out! Her furry

friends-- Sedona, Ike, and Stuey donned their

coats and romped in the snow right along side

her. Stay warm!


HERE’S WHAT WE ARE WORKING FOR NEXT MONTH AT THE BILLERICA GREEN

Real Estate Spring Market Is ComingTh e snow starts to melt and it’s a perfect time to head to open houses. Th e Real

Estate community speaks out on what was 2009 like and what 2010 holds for

buyers and sellers.

Billerican Olympic PrideWith the Olympics about to begin in Vancouver, it’s a fi tting time to recall our

local athletes who went onto to athletic greatness and made us proud.

Vacation DestinationsSchool Vacation Week always leaves parents with time on their hands. Take your

kids around town and have fun while you save gas and money.

Indian Traditions Through TimeTh ree generations of Indian women share their wedding stories and how they

managed to hang onto their culture in modern American society

Q. I was at a party recently and overheard someone saying they

put a Homestead on their property. What exactly is a Homestead and should I have one on my property?

A. A Declaration of Homestead is

something that Massachusetts law

allows a homeowner to fi le in order to protect

the equity of their family home. It is a one-

page form that upon completing, recording,

and paying a $35 fee to the Registry of

Deeds, becomes eff ective immediately. By

fi ling this simple document, a homeowner

may exclude up to $500,000 in equity of

his personal residence from creditors. While

creditors may still go after other assets, such

as bank accounts or retirement homes, they

will be barred from seizing the fi rst $500,000

of a home owner’s residence. As such, if

a home owner’s residence has a value less

than $500,000, his entire home will be free

from creditors. One important aspect of a

Declaration of Homestead, however, is that

it only protects from debts that are incurred

after it is recorded. If a homeowner incurs

a debt in 2005 and records a Homestead in

2010, the home will not be protected from

the 2005 debt.

Some people think it is not necessary to fi le

a Homestead because their credit is good

and they see no occasion where a creditor

would seize their assets. I remind them that

they need not be in fi nancial trouble in order

to benefi t from a Homestead. For example,

say “Bill” isn’t paying attention while driving

and makes a terrible mistake at the wheel

that causes someone to be seriously injured.

Bill’s automobile insurance company informs

him that his policy will pay out $50,000 to

the injured party. Unfortunately the injured

party’s injuries warrant more compensation.

If Bill’s only major asset is his home, but

there is no Homestead fi led, he could lose

his home, as it could be taken to satisfy a

judgment against him. With a Homestead,

Bill, and others like him, are protected in

the event of an unforeseen and catastrophic

accident.

Some other things to know about a

Homestead are that it only applies to a home

owner’s primary residence, rather than his

vacation home. Additionally, if two people

are married and reside in the same home,

only one spouse may fi le a Homestead but

that Homestead still protects the home from

the creditors of both parties. Finally, there is

additional protection for those 62 or older, as

each person is protected for up to $500,000.

Th us if our friend Bill is 63 and is married,

both he and his wife can fi le their own

Homesteads thus protecting their primary

residence from up to $1,000,000. Of course

if Bill’s house is only worth $400,000 to

begin with, the fi ling of one Homestead is

enough. If Bill’s primary residence is worth

$650,000, the extra protection is invaluable.

In short, there is really no downside to fi ling a

Homestead since having one does not prevent

a homeowner from selling or refi nancing. It

also does not aff ect a home owner’s credit or

harm his credit report. While most attorneys

off er to draft a Homestead at the same time

as other estate documents for their clients, a

homeowner can certainly record one himself

by obtaining the form online at www.

lowelldeeds.com or by simply going to the

Registry of Deeds personally. Whether a

homeowner chooses to retain the assistance

of an attorney or record a Homestead by

himself, it is certainly worthwhile.

Jennifer H. O’Brien is the owner of O’Brien Law Offi ces, a general practice located at 630 Boston Road, Billerica, MA 01821. She can be reached at (978) 262-9880 or at www.obrienlawoffi ces.org. Th is information should not be construed as legal advice nor is it intended as a substitute for obtaining legal advice from an attorney. No person should act or rely on any information in this article without seeking the advice of an attorney.

SIMPLE HOMESTEAD PROTECTION

Court's In Session•By Attorney Jennifer O'Brien

For many homeowners, the attic is a

place to store clothes that don’t fi t, the baby’s

crib, Christmas decorations, and stacks of

boxes full of stuff long forgotten. However,

your attic provides a very important function

in your house, and if it does not do its job

properly, it could lead to problems.

Your attic serves as a buff er between the

warm (or cool) air in your house and the cold

(or hot) air outside. Th e important elements

for your attic are insulation and ventilation.

Most people know about good insulation.

Th e fl oor of your attic should be completely

covered in thick insulation. Th is will keep

most of the heat produced by your HVAC

system from escaping upward and away from

the building. If you aren’t sure if you have

enough insulation, there are multiple web

sites that can help you check.

Aside from the attic fl oor, an area that

many homeowners miss is the folding access

stairs. Th is is a huge, uninsulated hole in

your attic where the heated air – which you

paid for – can easily pass through. To cover

this gap, you can build your own box out

of fl at insulation panels or you can buy one

off the shelf at a home center. Just lower it

down over the opening before folding up the

stairs.

Th e second component of a good

working attic is ventilation. Air must be able

to move freely through the attic to exhaust

very hot summer air and warm air from the

main building in the winter.

Ideally, your attic in the winter should be

very cold – nearly as cold as the outside air.

A warm attic can lead to ice dams. Ice dams

can form if warm attic air melts roof snow,

which then rolls down and freezes near the

gutter line, which is always a cold section

of the roof. Th e dam can trap water, which

then has nowhere to drain and can work its

way backwards under shingles and inside the

house.

No matter how well your attic is insulated,

some warm air from the main building will

seep into the attic and try to warm the roof.

To keep the entire roof cold enough to

prevent melting, cold outside air enters the

attic via eave vents. Th e slightly warmer attic

air escapes by way of a ridge vent, which runs

along the peak of the roof.

If your attic is not functioning well in

the winter, one way to tell is by looking at

your roof several days after a snowstorm. If

snow is melting faster from yours compared

to your neighbors, you may have a problem.

A high number of long icicles or water stains

on or near the ceiling of your top-fl oor room

walls might indicate ice dams.

So, when you stow that box full of

sweaters for the season, pay extra attention to

your attic. Take a fl ashlight and have a look

around. It may need a little maintenance.

Jeff rey R. Parenti, P.E. is a registered

professional civil engineer living in Billerica.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR ATTIC

The Green Handyman•By Jeff rey R. Parenti, P.E.

Want to send your sweetie a

message for Valentine’s Day that

they will enjoy all month long?

Are you a secret admirer? Do you

want the whole town to know how

much you love your spouse? Your

boyfriend or girlfriend? Your kids?

In our next edition-due in mailboxes

right before the BIG day, we will run

Th e Billerica Green RED HEART

Classifi eds. For $15 a message of

50 words or less, we will print your

message of love. You can add a photo

for an additional

$10 or an icon for

an additional $5.

Put in their cutesy

nickname only you

two know about. Or

tell your children

how proud you are

all year long. Love

your family and

friends.

My Bobola, My Jujubee, and My Baba, I want you to know how much I love you. On the day you were born, I looked at you and you took my breath away. All these years later, it still happens. Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day! Love You Lots, Your Mama.

For My Darling, We’ve been through a lot and you’ve stuck by my side. We’ve faced struggles and shared many joys. On this Valentine’s Day and every day forward, I know that I can’t live without you. I Love You! Your Soul Mate.

My Bobola, My Jujubee, and My Baba, I want you to know how much I love you. On the day you were born, I looked at you and you took my breath away. All these years later, it still happens. Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day! Love You Lots, Your Mama.

Dear Mom, You have been there for me and we’ve had so much fun! You gave me advice and drove me places. You brushed my hair and painted my nails. Thank You, Mom for giving me your time and your love. I’m so lucky to have you. You’re the best!

For My Darling, We’ve been through a lot and you’ve stuck by my side. We’ve faced struggles and shared many joys. On this Valentine’s Day and every day forward, I know that I can’t live without you. I Love You! Your Soul Mate.

Dear Mom, You have been there for me and we’ve had so much fun! You gave me advice and drove me places. You brushed my hair and painted my nails. Thank You, Mom for giving me your time and your love. I’m so lucky to have you. You’re the best!

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You Say

the Sweetest Things

Here’s How:

1. Send us an email at [email protected] with your message of 50

words or less. Put RED HEART CLASSIFIEDS in the subject line. We

reserve the right to shorten the message for space considerations. No vulgarity

please. If we have a question, we will email you back. *We reserve the right to

refuse any message or photo.

2. Drop a check (made out to Th e Billerica Green) in the mail to Th e Billerica

Green, P.O. Box 492, Billerica MA 01821. All payments must be received

prior to print. Payment deadline is February 4th. We will confi rm receipt of

payment via email. If payment is received past print, your check will be returned.

Th at’s it...SIMPLE! Tell Your Sweetheart How Much You Care Th is

Valentine’s Day IN YOUR OWN WORDS!!

Choose from 5 diff erent Icons

or submit your own photo.

1- Loves Grows

2- Rings

3- Hearts

4- Love Birds

5- I Love You

January 2010 designed and illustrated by Tony Luongo

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