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Mohd. Asif Khan

Presenting your nice collection of blogs

Kush

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My Arrival in Japan 2

Language Problem anyone? 5

My office number! 8

A slight earthquake!! 9

My first Salary from NIMS! 10

First Experiment : BOOM!!! 11

An evening with Indians! :) 13

I found this quote quite humorous! :D 16

Things I hated in my school 17

Pillar 18

Gulaal 19

Testimonials on iitky5.ning 21

Testimonials received by me on iitky5.ning 27

IITK: First Year 32

IITK: Second Year 47

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My Arrival in Japan

2007/5/28

Hi everyone, I thought about just penning down my experiences of my internship in Japan. I am Mohd Asif Khan. I have just completed second year of my Bachelors in Technology degree in the Department of Materials and Metallurgical Engineering from Indian Institute of Technology, Kanpur. I am on an internship at National Institute for Materials (NIMS), Japan. NIMS is located in the beautiful city of Tsukuba, some 70 kms from Tokyo, the capital of Japan. I am working under Dr. Alok Singh and Dr. Toshiji Mukai. I have yet to meet Dr. Mukai. Tomorrow is my meeting with the group, then I will get a better idea about what I am supposed to do. It is definitely linked to Aluminium powders atleast! I reached Japan at Narita Airport from flight number AI306. What an experience!! Just packed there for eight hours, flying thousands of meters above the ground with no familiar faces! It was my first international flight and the second flight. In the first one from Mumbai to Delhi, atleast I has Shadab, so it was a pretty enjoyable one. NARITA AIRPORT The flight reached Narita airport at about 9 AM on 24th May,2007. Here I was alone in a new country. Yet it was not frightful, as I thought it might me. The pretty smiling face of the lady who gave gave me bus tickets for 2540 yens and the sparsely populated airport gave me great relief. While waiting for the Bus No 10, I

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happened to meet Arif, an Indonesian student of University of Tsukuba. He was doing Masters in Agriculture. We just went on talking with each other and so the two hours of journey from Narita to Tsukuba center went fine. Besides, the rural areas of the region were also giving me a sense of pleasure and the temperature was providing a soothing feeling after I faced the harsh weather of Northern India! NIMS SENGEN SITE: My workplace Hey ... btw... a good news.. Arif became a father and he was just returning from Indonesia after seeing his son! :) My bus reached Tsukuba Bus terminal at 12:15PM. I called Dr. Alok Singh from the public phone inside the Bus Station and had to pay 100 yens for that!! i still think there was some problem with the machine. A single local call of less than half minute duration can't cost 100 yens! Hearing Dr. Alok's voice was a balm for me. I had been communicating with this person for so past 2 months over the mail and still I wasn't able to guess about the personality of him. After hearing his voice, I got a feeling that he is atleast not a harsh person. Sir told me to wait at the tower which I was told later, was actually a lift for the underground railway station! He took me to lunch at a restaurant. It was there I saw for the first time, the Japanese hospitality. The waiter and waitress were always smiling and they remembered your preferences. I was a bit surprised over

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the bill of about 800 yens per person, when Sir told me that it wasnormal for one meal! Ninomiya House: My hostel After the meal of sea food and veg pizzas, Sir took me to Ninomiyahostel which was ready to give me biggest shock! I had really neverimagined the quality of room would be so good. There was ac,fridge, tv, washing machine, vacuum cleaner, iron and completekitchen! But everything with cost of electricity to be paid by me!! So Ibetter be careful while using all such facilities. I really don't need acas the weather is itself like an ac to me after coming from the 40degree furnace. I would operate washing machine once a week ....several of this type of thoughts went in my mind as how to lower thebills! It was good that NIMS left only the utility charges (electricity,water, etc) to me! There is a library also in the hostel and the best part of that is freeInternet access :D . I am writing this piece from that place. Thesetimes would really go down as sparkling moments in the memorylane of my life. :)

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Language Problem anyone?

2007/5/29

To me everything looks great in Japan ... everything looks perfect and ordered ... expect the language! Its completely pictographic and difficult. Thankfully most people in the academics know English, so hopefully I wouldn`t face any language problem in NIMS. But the locals in Tsukuba really don`t know English. They are completely ignorant about this language. I wonder how can English be called Global Language when Japanese aren`t using it. It would be more proper to call it the Global Business Language! Well, about my experiences in Language Problem! The first incident took place just after I landed at Narita Airport. I was searching for the bus ticket counter. I asked the passport officer who told me some direction in his broken english which I couldn`t grasp. Then I did the mistake of asking a airport worker! I asked him two times and then he just laughed and moved his hand in peculiar gesture. I understood that I asked the wrong person. He was completely devoid of the gyan of English Language. I caught sight of an Indian and asked him about it. He directed me to a place which he said was Information Center of Airport. I thanked him and went to the information center. Three cute ladies were sitting there. They understood me but I wasn`t able to understand their Jepenglish! But through her hand gestures, she succeeded in telling me that it was the first counter after gate. Congrats on your success lady! I finally reached the bus ticket counter and instead of getting in more confusion, just said "Tsukuba". She got it! On a display, it showed 2540 yens. I gave 10000 yen note (the highest

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denomination in Japanese currency) and got the ticket and change. On the ticket, just the time and the bus terminal were comprehensible to me. But it was enough! The counter lady directed me to the terminal through her hand gestures and I got to the right place. Finally! Kasumi Supermarket The other incident took place in Kasumi Supermarket. By the term supermarket connected with Japan, please don`t get an impression that it was a mall much bigger than the biggest in India. It was just a simple single-storey shop where we could everyday things at good price. I knew beforehand that I would just buy breads but it would not look good in such a beautiful market if I just took just two packets of breads on the cash counter. What would the beautiful lady on the cash counter think? So I took a pack of bananas too (five bananas for 198■) along with 2 packets of bread (252 ■ each). I went to the cash counter with these. Stood in line and kept admiring the beautiful market and a more beautiful girl standing in the next line ;) My turn came and I handed over my basket. The counter lady started blabbering something in Japanese. She was definitely speaking something meaningful in her language but to me it was just blabbering! She was trying to explain me something. She took

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out the bread packets and kept them aside and was pointingsomewhere. I just couldn`t understand her! Then I heard a familiar language.... ahhh... English! The personbehind me in the line knew English and Japanese both. He said thatthe money for the bread are to be paid at other counter. I was sothankful to him! I just paid the money for bananas at the counter andfor the bread at the counter directed by the gentleman. So those are the situations in which I have faced language problemtill now. Now I don`t want to get in any other such situation so tryingto learn some basic Japanese. Wish me Best of Luck!

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My office number!

2007/5/29

Hmm... Japan is throwing up quite a few shocks to me. Just look atthe office number which NIMS gave me. Its 302!!In Hindi movies, this number has been used so many times for thecapital punishment that it sounded quite awkward when I got thatroom.Well the room is pretty big and has the best facility which anyinstitutes gives: FREE NET ACCESS!!I am just hooked to the net all day long in office till looking for someresearch papers, specifications of cameras and studying. You allknow that I am not online all day on gmail and orkut :DWell, the infrastructure of my office is quite good. There arecomfortable rotating chairs, metallic luster drawers, table lamp anda phone. I use the phone mostly to call my guide. The window of myoffice opens towards the entrance of NIMS. It really presents abeautiful view of Tsukuba City!Soon after getting a camera, I would put pics of my office too... sostay tuned!!

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A slight earthquake!!

2007/6/2

Goodness.. just now I felt the earth shaking!!It was a minor earthquake... my first one in Japan. Earlier I had feltan earthquake more than six years ago at my home in VishwasKhand, Gomti Nagar, Lucknow, India.I was sitting in the library of Ninomiya House and chatting on gmail.Just as I said bye to one of my friends, I felt the earth shaking andthe sounds of door bangings!! I became a bit nervous.There was another person sitting just beside me. We just lookedinto each other's eyes. But he wasn't looking afraid. By face helooked Japanese, so earthquakes may not be new to him!Well it all lasted just 3-4 seconds... and then everything became allright...phew!!

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My first Salary from NIMS!

2007/6/2

I think I am among a few lucky ones as I got my salary even beforestarting the work!I got my first salary on Tuesday, 29th May,2007. It was an amountof 79360 yens (about 26000 Indian rupees) for a month! I was veryexcited on having my first salary.Dr. Alok Singh, my guide came in my room at about 3pm that daywith a lady from International Affairs Office of NIMS that day. Thelady asked for my passport for the salary. I didn't had it that time,but to get the salary as soon as possible... anyone would doanything :DI asked them to wait for half an hour. I rushed to my hostel andbrought the passport even before half an hour. Then she paid mysalary all in cash and also made me sign a "Statement of Attorney"that NIMS is authorized to pay my Ninomiya House bills.Well, after getting salary, I started to wonder what are the things Iam going to do with the money.. how will I try to spend less and stillenjoy Japan !!

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First Experiment : BOOM!!!

2007/6/2

Ah... my first experiment at NIMS was a disaster. We tried to get powder of 7XXX series of Aluminium on Friday,1st June, 2007 in 'Materials Preparation Laboratory' of NIMS. All the elements had been cut by me from Hack Saw Machine and then cleaned with Ultrasonic Vibrator Machine and then weighed out properly in correct proportions. i had been constantly working for one and a half days for the experiment. At about 1 pm, all the elements, viz. Aluminium, Zinc, Magnesium and Copper were put in the furnace of 'Centrifugal Powder Preparation Machine', which is a huge monster, atleast one storey high! The furnace was started and and Dr. Minagawa, the owner of the facility told me that it would take about an hour for the materials to melt and atomization to begin! So for an hour, I just worked in the laboratory preparing samples for another experiment. At about 2pm, I returned back to the facility. My guides Dr. Alok Singh and Dr. Mukai were also present there. Soon the melting process got over. We all were excited to see, through a glass window, the melted material flowing a tube. Everything was ok by this time. The centrifuge was started and slowly the hole was opened to let the powder come out. We were all seeing this on a telivision screen as everything was transmitted to the screen via a camcorder. But then it happened. The zinc in the melt vapourized as soon as the hole was opened and the contents started to fall on a disc. Everything inside the machine became dark .. all was smoky. Even the telivision screen became dark! So finally the experiment was a failure! Dr. Minagawa confirmed that the experiment was a failure

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due to vapourization of zinc. It was really bad to see the all yourhard work of a day being turned into smoke (literally)!! Well, now I am still thinking what would be next step of my guides! But after all that, I am still happy and excited to actually see andwork on a facility like 'Centrifugal Powder Preparation Machine',which even IITs don't have!!

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An evening with Indians! :)

2007/6/3

Its feels so comforting when in a land thousand of miles away from your own land, you meet the people from your own place. I had this exciting opportunity due to Gautam Sheet, a researcher in NIMS. It was on the eve of 22nd june,2007 (Saturday). I found Gautam on orkut before coming over to Japan. I contacted him via scrapbook. He was more than happy to hear from me and told me to bring an umbrella. This advice was really of great value as it rained just the next day of my arrival. Well, on Friday Gautam scrapped me to come to room no 5801 at about 8pm which he later shifted to 9pm. I went to the room but it was locked. I waited there for about 5 minutes when Gautam came. he was also surprised to see that the people living in the room had not come till then. We decided to wait for them outside. But cold wind was blowing at that time of night. I was feeling very cold. Seeing me like this, Gautam took me in another room, where I met those wonderful people. There was Gautam's wife, Mr Mrs Kalol with their daughter (8 months old cutie :) ) and one more pair with their daughter. I forgot the name of the family. There was more person whose name I am forgetting, thanks to my excellent memory, but he became a quite good friend of mine. I would soon know his name. I have to be more careful to remember people's name !!! All of them were Bangla speaking people, so many times just shifted to that language. Then someone would say that we should talk in Hindi (as I was sitting there!). Well, still I was able to understand some of their conversation. They talked about reservations, films, Japanese and many other things. Mr Kallol gave a good solution for

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our reservation policy. He suggested that Indian Government should make a policy that whosoever is born in India would be an SC! :D Well, they also talked about the Japanese women ... that they are so slim but their babies are so healthy! They also said that Japanese would like to tame any animal! Then came the best of all ... FOOD.. INDIAN FOOD!! I wasn't feeling comfortable being there because I thought that may be I was an uninvited guest! But the warmth of all the people gave me some confidence. I still ate very less because to avoid food earlier (when I was feeling really uninvited guest!!) I had already said that I had taken my dinner. But they insisted so much that I couldn't resist them. But the dinner was really delicious. There was daal, mixed Veg, chicken and rice. Daal was the dish I was missing for so long, so was grateful to have it there! After that we took leave from there and then along with my friend, came to my room as I was having some problem operating the washing machine for the first time. He started the washing machine for me and then also took back me to his room to give me more washing powder. He gave enough for next 6-7 washes. Some people are really selfless! I also learned from the people that having such informal meetings was their way to recreate themselves. After a week of working and being in such formal atmospheres of offices in a land where people don't speak your language nor understand your culture, it is really relaxing for them to meet on Saturdays and have dinner together and have chatting over a wide diaspora of things. This made me realized that these people are finding the meanings of their lives by bonding with each other, with the people who share common culture with them and understand their feelings. So meeting with such beautiful people on that eve, especially

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Indians was a wonderful experience for me. :)

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I found this quote quite humorous! :D

2007/6/7

When my time on earth is gone, and my activities here are passed, Iwant they bury me upside down, and my critics can kiss my ass!Bobby Knight(http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/b/bobbyknigh359550.html)

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Things I hated in my school

2007/6/9

I have posted this in one of forums of community of my class.Re-posting it on blog..

Things I hated in my school are:1) All periods except Zero period (and it sucked big time .. whenthey took Zero priod for completing their course!)2) All the teachers who tried hard to make us cram the things wewill never have to use. First of all, it took a long time to UNcramthose 'faltoo' things ... an secondly..... I missed many opportunitiesto engage in personality developing pursuits.3) The ever too vigilent Shobha Maam.... sometimes she couldn'teven stand me talking to girls of our class!!!! ... what a narrowmindedness!4) Our own Yoginder Sir (Swimming coach) ... for his gender biasedapproaches and for his 'trying to look cool' attitude.5) The biasedness of some teachers (even if it was pro-ME ) ... Manya times ... we were not even informed about various competitions ...and just a selected few were sent to represent school.6) The ever decreasing playground since I joined. The interiorlooked so jam packed. I wonder how it looks now when they havetried to cover all the alphabets of English to make the sections.

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Pillar

2009/3/5

A pillar is much more than just the supporting structure forbuildings. It is the silent person who supports others while at thesame time taking pressure on himself. When others are insecure,feel that something is missing or just can't keep their spirits up, theyneed a pillar... a human pillar. A person who can support them inthe times when they are down, a person who absorbs their painwithout them even knowing and tries in his own way to lightentheir life.But pillars are silent, they don't speak what is hidden their heartand the burden of others which they are carrying. They are alwaysthere to support you .. to support me.

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Gulaal

2009/3/28

Recently I saw the movie Gulaal. It is a story of power struggle both at macro and micro level. At the macro level, the Rajputs are trying to grab their independence from the Indian state and at a micro level, the illegitimate son and daughter of a former king are trying to gain their own power and share of family name. I really liked the movie. Anurag Kashyap has once again showcased the darker side of humans after his DevD. He does it nearly perfectly. He has a mastery of development of his characters to their full, whether the character rises to glory or falls in the abyss of darkness. What impressed me most about the movie was Piyush Mishra- the lyricist, actor, singer and what not of the movie. HIs lyrics are a breath of fresh air in the stagnant industry which mainly uses the imageries being used for generations, or those newly imported from western world. Piyush's creation - Aarambh hai prachand, is more a poem than a song - its a Veer Ras poem. The author has put lot of energy in the song. The song challenges you to fight with all the strength you have got because their is glory in victory. The other songs like Duniya and Sarfaroshi ki tamanna are also great. They hit the society under the belt. I particularly liked the lines: "आज का लौंडा ये कहता की हम तो बिस्मिल थक गए, अपनी आजादी तो भइया लौंडिया के दिल में है |" These lines hit at the present generation for whom getting the attention of opposite sex is all that it needs in life, instead of setting

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some hisgher goal for itself. The song Ranaji has also created a lot of stir because of its lyricsdirected at the attack on WTC towers and US's attack onAfghanistan and Iraq. I congratulate Anurag and Piyush for such a contrarian movie.

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Testimonials on iitky5.ning

2009/4/10

Aman Bhatia: The only person in the wing who loves "chinkis" as much as me (may be more than me)! It was a dream come true for him when we visited Sikkim ;) There are many weird things about this guy: he proudly proclaims himself as geek, can sleep only while listening to hard metal, attacks vulnerable parts of others, publicly displays assets of others, sleeps during lectures still knows more than you... On other side, consideration for others, taking initiatives ,extreme intelligence, helpfulness, cheerfulness and "sexy" style are innate nature of Aman. He has a wonderfully charming personality. Whenever you are in any kind of problem, Bhatia has the solution for it. You can always count on Aman as he is one of the few people who are ready to help others. I am lucky to have met him and wish him best of luck for his future. Kush Sharma: This person's room has been a constant source of research and discussion in our wing. Sometimes his jokes also leave the same taste (or rather smell :P). Well .. a great blogger and an avid reader. He has (read) many series of fantasies. He leverages his intellectual depth and one-liners to make himself a lady magnet. ;) I am just surprised at his skills to

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engage so many girls into his talks! Kush has also been the Techie of the wing, apna local dabba wallah. His knowledge of programming is astonishing. He is a very helpful and friendly person. He has been instrumental in writing countless mails for internship replies for the wing. His services deserve Wing Ratna. One of his dreams is to write a novel someday. He also wants to do MBA in HR due to some obvious reasons. I wish him success in his journey and goals. Ankur Saxena: Meet the ever cheerful and smiling Ankur aka Anks aka Guruji. In the wing, he known for his (lack of) sense of humour as he can tear apart your most jokes by counting logical fallacies in them. He is also "the victim" of our wing. Besides that, he is self proclaimed "magnet" and attracts all humans ;) On serious note, Ankur's determination and hard work are praiseworthy. I remember that he did not got expected result in first year even after hard work. But instead of giving up, he kept on his hard work and managed to get good results from next year. He is also a very helpful guy. You just need to him for his advice on resume and he will sit down with you and help you from scratch to final. Ankur - a great friend and a complete package for girls ;)

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Shadab Anwer: Shadab- the person "jisne duniya dekhi hai", as he himself has proclaimed many times. This guy has been a great friend of mine in IITK. Our friendship has its highs and lows but I guess since we have stopped judging each other, a much better relationship has emerged. Shadab has a knack for critical analysis of situations. Though this testimonial isn't supposed to be a resume, still I would say that I admire the leadership qualities and initiative drive of Shadab. He is a very straightforward person. it is onto people how to take his criticisms. I got to know some of my weaknesses from his criticisms. Shadab has quite often not been properly understood by others, but who cares, I believe that he is always ready to help others. Shadab is a visionary and I wish him best of luck in all his endeavors. Susheel Kumar Suman: Susheel is known by some such names in the wing which might be called insanely outrageous by civilized junta, hence i omit them. As Susheel puts it: *Beep*. He is a fun loving guy and also entertains the wing with his witty

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sentences. He is proud of his "bonular" body and makes me envious as he eats much more than me and is still a third of me. This is sheer injustice! I will always remember the time when Susheel and me were the only people from our wing remaining in summers in IITK. We had some great time together and also faced the most rough storm we have seen! Susheel is quite secretive about his girlfriends. Yes, it seems he has more than one!! Susheel is a humble and soft spoken boy, the qualities which make him stand out of the crowd. I wish him best of luck! Kritika Kashyap: Can't comprehend what to write about Kritika. Sometimes you want to say so many things that you lose words. Even if I meet her after 2-3 months, we just continue our chat as if that we talked yesterday. She is one of very few persons with whom I can go on talking without getting bored and without fear of being judged. I still cherish the days of our batti lab partnership. We complemented each other well, me doing theory part and she doing the circuit assembly (which I always messed up!). We have shared a lot with each other. I don't know if I can understand her fully, but from what I know, she is extremely intelligent and practical girl. She tries to understand herself and others. The best thing about her is that she don't judge people too early and instead takes time to know them.

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Well, on other side, she thinks more than is required in some circumstances. And she needs to better her gtalk status message posting skills. I can't understand them! I am lucky to have known Kritika and wish her best of luck for her future. Amit Chandra: The Bihari of our wing.... he is all that we can think of Bihar. When we went to Sikkim, we asked him to keep his mouth shut lest someone discovers we are "Hindi-bhashi" :P and that too Bihari. This guy is famous in our wing for the cruelty he shows in GPLs. Once he gave Alok aka Tommy such a beating that he couldn't take anymore and got verbally violent. And what did Chandra do? He just skipped from scene leaving the chappal in the hands of Kush. Typical Bihari :P Chandra first came to limelight in the wing with his brilliant experiments. Those are the sort of experiments we expect from a "in the making" Noble Prize winner. It is not for nothing that he is called the Scientist of our wing. Maybe he told KVPY committee of his experiments which forced them to confer scholarship to him. Chandra's love life is also marred in controversies. He doesn't like to talk about her and then inside campus, goes around with other girls from some other places. Kitni gfs banayega be!

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Besides mostly negative aspects, he has few positive traits too. (Abtestimonial likh raha hun to kuch to tareef karni padegi!) ... He is ...aaaaa .. He is .... ummmm... chhodo kuch positive yaad nahi aaraha. :P Well, he is a helpful person. He helps you to reduce your accountbalance. Give him money and forget it that you are gonna get itback. He is a very sharp and intelligent person too.... and smart tohai hi. :P

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Testimonials received by me on iitky5.ning

2009/4/12By Ankur Saxena:Asif is a born leader and one of the most eligible and optimisticbachelors. A close friend, a think-tank and my partner in a lot of ourcollege activities. He has been showing us the silver lining of thecloud a lot of times through his enthusiasm and cheerfulness. Acool and open-minded guy who has all things figured out. He isvery good at befriending people. He lives in the present and not inpast (which has been glorious) or the future (which I am sure willbe more glorious). He has introduced me to a lot of things- he isparticlulary the Godfather of my interest and career in finance.

I Would like to dedicate a song 'Ohne dich' (German) of hisfavourite rock band Ramstein to our friendship.

Vishwas karna hum dosti apni nibhayenge,Agar khuda bhi bulayega to kahe denge,Dost agar ijazat dega to hi aayenge.

By Shadab Anwer:Mentally balanced, physically misbalanced (that will be the first thing u will notice in him :) ), victim of most of our wing crimes, my

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roomy for one year--- Mohd. Asif Khan. He wants me to writesomething about him (though I have a quiz tomorrow), so here I go.

All right lets get serious now. Always intelligent, concise, clear,logical, shy, sensitive, gentle and patient that’s Mr. Asif for you. Ihave not seen guy more focused than him in my entire life. He hasclear vision for himself and I can never understand where he gets somuch energy from to fulfill his dreams. He is perfect example of“God helps who help themselves”. He's a group man, andteamwork comes naturally to him, understands the fair play rules ofsports as if he had invented them :) .

Recently, he has found his 28th true love :) but girls don’t worryapplications for the designation of GF will again be invited verysoon.Love you Asif, Always

By Ashank Mittal:The killing Pathani looks, the strength of a Samurai, the tipsy topsycurvy figure and the intellect comparable to Business Tycoons thatsMAK (Mohammed Asif Khan) wrapped for you. Honored by a title'JagatR____' he is really the playboy material for our wing. :)

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Asif has certainly been one of the most focussed person around me..Always conscious of the surrounding opportunities, he is a livingexample of idiom “Learn to listen. Opportunity could be knockingat your door very softly.”

Good people's skills, straightforward attitude and a patient butoptimistic outlook for life are few of the qualities which will makehim a success in his future endeavours. His finger actions, mimicryof certain cries and few regular occuring 'P--' words are nevergonna disappear from our memoirs. :)

Hope you get a lifestyle of your dreams and a promising futureahead.Best wishes

By Kritika Kashyap:I’ve promised Asif a controversial testimonial…so I’ll begin with aconfession…

In the 1st year batti lab, I was looking for someone smart (ie able to understand batti), sincere (ie would make all lab reports) and fun-loving (ie. who could laugh at my stupidity) to become lab partners with… when I saw this chubby guy trying to study circuit

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components as the ideal choice. Today, this guy has ended up beingone my longest lasting friends at IITK, who’s mature, sensitive andstraightforward nature makes it comfortable to discuss zindagi kefunde with him. I was amazed at how much he knew about theworkings of the complex female psyche…(ofcourse I wouldn’t havebeen surprised had I known about the 28... liar!)I’ve had some great times with him…destroying circuits, going onlong walks, but an incident that deserves mention is when I beggedhim to get sewaiyaan for me on Eid :D. I found out only recentlythat his wingies beat him black and blue when they realized that thesewaiyaan had gone somewhere else first. So, I want to tell youguys a little something..… he specially got me cake on his Birthday:P .

Asif is an inspiration, a guy with his head in the right place, he isclear about what he wants from life and is determined to get it.Humility personified, he never lets you congratulate him on hisachievements.. he’ll say it was simply God’s will and that he had norole to play in it. I wish him success in all his endeavors and in thepursuit of true love : )

 

By Alok Tomar: Assalam valekum Assif Bhai . we are owe to this guy who has been entertaining us for the first day of IIT . He is extremely friendly and talented guy especially his mimicry is very popular in our wing. Ever green nature with full of traits for a good human being

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belongs to him. He has been our teddy bear and we enjoyed verymuch during his b’day . He is goal oriented person who plansaccording to his goal and strictly follow it. Determination andsincerity to his work as well as his extracurricular activities areappreciable. Best of luck for ur bright future dear. We dual guyswill miss u very much. Always keep smiling.

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IITK: First Year

2009/5/10

 

Decision of joining IITKI was totally bent of taking whatever branch I would get in IITB. Atmy rank of 2257, it would have been possible to get Civil Enggthere. After that I preferred to go to Kharagpur. Kanpur wasnowhere in my thoughts, though my family insisted me to go for it.

The decision to fill IITK as preference was taken only afterdiscussion with Nishant Singh. He was in second year at IITK inMaterials and Metallurgical Engineering (MME). When I went IITKfor counselling, I stayed with Nishant in the night. He convincedme to prefer MME at IITK. He told about several things IITK had tooffer. I finally decided to fill that instead of Civil at IITK.

As Nishant lived in Hall 2, so I stayed in Hall 2 for one night,watching ‘Samay’, even before joining IITK. At that time, thecorridors seemed confusing in the night. Little did I realize that itwas going to be my home for next 3 years!

The first day I entered Hall 2 with my parents. They were asked to wait at Hall 2 Quad and I was asked to go inside Hall Office for receiving Room Keys. And it was there I had my first brush with ‘informal interaction’. There was Abhinav Jain, looking me with deceptively reassuring eyes. He asked where was I from. “Lucknow”, said I and

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smiled… and came the reply .. “Muski kyun maar rahe ho?”. I did nothad to wait longer to know what muski means!

I was allotted room number 119 of B-Bot, and as a free gift, a IITKBaap, Mayank Manik Pandey, a decent fellow with a charmingsmile. It was quite reassuring to see a person like him at a newplace. My parents also felt the same way. He allayed the fears of myparents about ragging and asked me to meet him in the evening.

After keeping luggage at my room, my family and me went to meetKhaleeq Bhai and his family. Well… I never again met his familywhich is disappointing me as I am writing this. They asked me tocome anytime when I had problems.

In the evening, I came back to hostel, and voila, IITK had not justgiven Baap, but also Bhais! That too 7 of them. Mayank took usoutside our rooms, and we had our introductions. Then Mayanktold us about IITK Fresher Dressing Code, about informalintroductions and bit others and asked us to be ready after dinner togo to Computer Centre for login ids.

As far as I remember, my parents left that evening itself. Well.. if IIThad its way, it wouldn’t have even allowed parents of freshersinside the campus. Me and the bhais had dinner at Hall 1 mess. Iwas happy to have good food, but as a river always flows downhill,so the mess also didn’t disappoint us.

Mayank took us and registered our email IDs in CC. I chose a simple ‘asif’. Little did we know the importance to iitk-id at that time. In the way to CC and inside CC, we encountered some seniors who were quite excited to see us. I wonder where was it all taking

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us!

The period of Informal Interaction:Nobody forgets their initial days at their college… neither did I. Asper as the freshers’ code, we were supposed to wear full-shirt,trousers (no jeans) and shoes in that hot summer. This torture wentfor 2 weeks. I was frustrated at this as I have never liked to wearshoes unless it absolutely necessary.

But the ‘informal interaction period’ of 2 weeks had certain joys ofits own. We had the first General Body Meeting (GBM) of our Hallwith warden and the hostel students representatives. It was therewe saw Satti, Saud, Makkar, Gupank and other seniors. TheWarden told us that we can always contact him if we had anyproblems. The ‘problems’ started the next day itself.

After spending the whole day at the boring orientations, we came toour rooms, only to be evacuated from our rooms for gathering atCentral Quad, where we had the official interaction sessions withseniors. In the next GBM itself, we were told that everybody shouldbe present at the central quad at dinner time till 10 pm, the timewhen the official interaction session was to end.

Initially, I was bit afraid and disgusted that why should we wear this stupid dress in hot summers and why should the seniors shout at us. They really howled and shouted sometimes. In the GBMs, everyone would remember two people distinctly: Makkar and Saud. Makkar was the one who tried to instil Hall feeling in us with his bold speeches and Saud was there with his witty comments, one of which was: “Agar saamne Hall 3 ka koi friend khada ho saath mein

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Hall 2 ka kutta khada ho, tab bhi tum Hall 2 ke kutte ke paas  hi jaaoge”.They told us about the glorious Galaxy days. Somehow, I never gotattached to this hall feeling. But I think, it is better to have divisionson the lines of halls, instead of the regional divisions that exist in somany campuses across India.

One myth about IITians broke very soon: They are not the gentlegeeks always. IITians do use abusive words a lot. But they havetheir own relations to abuse. You already know that what is Baap inIITK, so it is easy to guess the Maa: the girlfriend or just friend ofBaap. And the behens? Well.. your batchmates of fairer sex.(Hmmm.. that was some sexist crap!)

I enjoyed the interaction sessions most of the times. I was nearlyalways smiling, so I had to always do the “muski saaf karo” act. SoonI became master of it, and was teaching the other students how todo it! I also did several role-plays, interesting debates, abusing fanso that it switches off and so much absurd stuff. There was somefun in also those, and in the fun, sometimes fear, whichmaterialized soon.

One senior made me shed tears this only time during the 2 weekperiod before fresher party. I cried not because of what he said, butbecause of his character; his sadistic joy in tormenting others. Later Icame to know that he was famous as this kind of person in hisbatchmates and well, was even a 9-pointer. What has point to dowith character? Nothing at all.

Well.. most of the time, I enjoyed myself, even did a small play in front of Sumeet Kale and Sudhanshu. I was not selected finally for the dramatics team, but I was happy to perform above my

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expectations. I also came to know that Nishant was the DramaticsCoordinator.

During those days, Mayank would come to us, his bachhas, nearlyevery night to talk to us and to know nobody is feeling too stressed.Sometimes I had chats with him about the necessity of these‘informal interactions’. We would then sit and discuss about thefunny or serious incidents which might have happened to us. Thosewere good days! I think it were these kind of sessions whichbrought us bhais and the wing together. Soon we all blendedtogether as if we had known each other from many years.

Soon.. the Freshers’ Day came. It was wonderful to get our‘freedom’ from the seniors, as well as from stupid dress code. Wehad Freshers’ Night which was filled with shouts ‘Ek do teen chaar …band karo ye atyachaar’. IITK’s audience is brutally honest. You getthose shouts if you are ‘hagg-ing’ on the stage; and if you are‘chaap-ing’, you get bows.. like the Japanese!

From that day, seniors became friends and we got rid of the stupiddress code. I got no formal ‘intros’, but came to know many seniorsand also knew that if I ever need something from anyone, I couldapproach them. This belief always turned out to be true in all thesefour years. Just drop at any senior’s room, even if you have nevermet him, and you will always get help in whatever field the senioris good!

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them. Usually the presentations were held after the dinner, at thetime of interaction, hence it provided a good way to skip thesessions.

For me, I went just because I wanted to know some more things andsee where my interests lie. I am thankful to Mayank for stressingthe importance of clubs in IITK life. They provide us activity whichinterests us and sometimes help us to vent out our frustrations. Youcan feel that you are good at something. You can find atleast oneperson in IITK excellent in any field you name. Maybe this is themost important aspect of IITK life… people excelling in so manyvaried fields. It humbles you and also makes you work hard tostrive for excellence in the field of your choice.

I decided to try various clubs. I tried Dramatics Club, but failed toget into the team. I had never danced, so Dance Club was ruled out.I attended the introductory lectures of Robotics Club, ElectronicsClub and Business Club. Strangely enough, I found Business Clubdearest to my heart.

The lectures by Avik Bhandari and Yashodhan Shevade aroused my interest in the area of Finance. Once I met them after lecture to ask some doubt. Seeing my enthusiasm, they asked me to visit meeting of FINEIIT (FINance Enthusiasts of IIT). I attended some meetings and got to learn some other things about macroeconomics, etc. I also made acquaintances with some MBA students of IITK. It was nice to interact with them. Due to this interaction with MBAs, I was also among the very few  B.Tech. guys to volunteer for Megabucks. At that time, it was an MBA event. It was quite small in scale, but that was just the beginning! I also met Nikhil in one of the FINEIIT meetings. I was amazed to see his energy level. I got to

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learn a lot from him. Avik even wanted Nikhil and me to be thecoordinators of Business Club for next two years, but it was not tobe. A person whom we had never seen in any of Business Clubmeetings was made the coordinator from B.Tech. side. Well… somuch so for our dreams of being coordinators. I kept on increasingmy knowledge in area of finance out of my love for the field.

Besides Business Club, I also got involved in the Hall 2 Web Team.We were to maintain the site of Hall 2. Cherian Verkey Mathew, abrilliant humble guy was our mentor for the same. I learned phpand html. By the second semester, I was making websites for someclubs like Astronomy Club and Photography Club. I had foundsome niche in IITK. But maybe that was not what I was meant to bedoing for all of my four years. I devoted more and more time toother activities after pursuing website designing for one year.

Wing Culture: Your family of IITK – your wing. There is no better way to describethe wing culture. They are the friends who have been chosen byfate. If they are good, you are lucky … and I really was. I have metsome of the best people of my life in my wing. I have written aboutsome of them in my earlier post about testimonials.

It started budding with GBMs during pre-freshers’ party period, itblossomed in mess and ripened with time.

Kush and Aman’s room was declared wing’s common room due tothe laptop which Kush brought very soon. Everyone checked theirmails and watched movies in their room. We had most of our bullasessions in that room or in front of it.

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Most incidents of my wing are confidential, hence I prefer todisclose them on another wing blog or orkut community.

Understanding the academic system: Initially, I was inclined to get a branch change from MME. It wasone of the reasons that I studied hard in first semester. Other reasonwas that well… your habit of studying a lot for JEE has its effect forsometime when you come to IIT!

The whole academic system of lectures and tutorials wascompletely new. The large lecture halls, punctual professors,independent note taking, understanding with help of others andbooks. The world of spoon-feeding was over.

It was said by seniors that there are two kinds of people in IITK:library people and CC people. Those who were maggus could befound in library while those who seek enjoyment were to be foundin CC. I was a library person for about a year and then shifted toCC!

We soon had our first quiz. There was so much excitement for it! Ido not remember how much I got in the first quiz. Maybe 5 or 6 outof 10. The first mid-sem of IITK was at doors without any warnings.People were preparing for it very hard. Library was always filled ofstudents. It was opened for all 24 hours! I liked to sleep between theracks of thick books.

The first mid-sem exam results came. We got a feel that what relative grading is. Everybody seemed to be concerned about whether he was above average or not. We discussed and debated of

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the necessity of a relative grading system. We still do.  

Antaragni- fire unleashed!Nobody from IITK can forget the charm of their first Antaragni.Seniors would talk about it in GBMs. As Antaragni approached,everything of students seem to be directed towards Antaragni. Ialso couldn’t help but to go with the flow. I don’t remember how,but I was working in the Dramatics Events Organizing Team as avolunteer.

I liked my work as volunteer. There was so much to learn and do.As far as I remember, I had my first night-out of IITK life whilepreparing the Dramatics Registration Desk. We did everything:cutting cardboards, painting, cutting out alphabets! Our desk wascomplete, but it was the Ramzan (Month of fasting in Islam), so Iwas feeling weak. Still, I loved that time, working and working...playing a part, although small, to make Antaragni a success.

Once I even had to manage the stage lights in L-7. It was a newexperience, and a decent one. While in L-7, I found myself attractedto a girl from Miranda House. I told her that her college's play wasthe best. I just got a thanks in return and having nothing to talkabout, the chat ended. And Miranda House did get the first prize inthe play, they were fantastic.

We also got to hear KK. it was like a dream. The beautiful voiceinside IITK. Besides that, I also enjoyed disc for all three days!Worked during the day and went to disc in the night. It was justamazing time!

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Antaragni is not called ‘chaar din ki chandni’ of IITK without anyreason! The girls:boys ratio improves a lot! Unfortunately orfortunately, I was not able to benefit from that upswing. I am happyfor those who did.

First Endsems; First Suicide”Bye Antaragni, Hi End-sems”: This has been the worst part of IITKlife. Before we can forget the pleasures of Antaragni, End-sems arethere. We can do nothing but just study a lot (atleast that is what Idid in my first end-sem). My endsems were going fine, but then athing happened, nobody could have thought about.

A student of second year from my hall committed suicide becausehe could not perform well in some exam. I felt sad for him and hisparents and thought about the futility of giving one’s life for thesake of one exam. Well, everyone was aghast and sad on thisunfortunate incident.  Little did we know that we had to see onesuicide per semester for next 6 semesters.

SG InterviewsOne organization which has tried to help students is CounsellingService. It has not been successful in stopping 7 suicides in 4 years,but the cases in which it has been effective, will never come intopublic knowledge.

I was impressed by what our Baap, or technically, Student Guide (SG), Mayank had done for us. I thought of doing the same for the next batch of students. Hence I applied for the post of Student Guide. It was considered to be prestigious work too and many

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applied to get this prestige.

My interview did not went good. Infact I do not even remembernow what did they ask. But finally I was not selected, whichdisappointed me a lot. Soon my disappointment turned to disgracewhen I saw many much more suitable students like Aman beingturned down. One of my bhai, Aditya was selected as SG. We bhaiswere happy that there was someone to continue our khandaan. 

Well, there was still some suspense hidden from me! Aditya had tolet go the SG position due to academic reasons and the first personon the list of rejected candidates seem to be me. So I was called forthe job. Still our khandaan prospered!

We has a training session for SGs, in which I was the student to winmost number of chocolates during the session. It was pure fun!

The MME Connection: God works in mysterious ways. My meeting with Salil Bapat,department’s two year senior was also that kind of ‘way’. i wasstudying in the library and saw a copy with ‘MME’ written on it. Iwas curious to know about my department and just said “Excuseme”. I went on with my curious questions and probably Salil wasthe best person to answer those queries as he had genuine interestin the department. Moreover I found him to be a very helpful andmild mannered person. Finally he went to pursue his MS in USA.

Salil soon introduced me to Shivam Srivastava, the next MME Secretary. Salil and Shivam are among the best seniors I have met. Shivam showed his poster presentations and work he was doing

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under Anish Sir. I found that quite interesting and decided to mailAnish Sir asking him about some books which I could study insummer vacations to increase my knowledge in Materials Science.He suggested me some books, particularly Callister. I actuallystudied some chapters of the book.

When I became SG, I had to search for a faculty guide for mybachhas. The first person I approached was none other than AnishSir. He remembered me due to my email and said that me visitedmy website from the signature of my email. He asked me if I knewanyone from his lab. I told about Shivam. Thankfully he agreed tobe faculty guide of my bachhas. Later he was to be my BTP guidetoo!

A Search for Summer WorkAlumni Association (AA) organized a lecture by an Alumni. I donot exactly recall the content of the lecture, but at that time I liked itso much that I mailed the then AA secretary, Dr. VinayakEshwaran, thanking him for the lecture and asking if there wassomething I could do in AA. I got a reply that the AA organisesAlumni Reunions in which I could act as volunteer.

I was searching to do something in summer vacations, so that I may learn new things instead of wasting away my time. I am thankful to Rahul Singh, my friend from Lucknow Coaching for instilling this attitude in me. I thought of age old idea of project under prof. I already knew from Shivam that it was highly unlikely that Anish Sir would give project to a first year student. So I went to Sangal Sir requesting for project. He asked me my CPI. As soon as I said “”8.9”, he burst into laughter and replied, “Tum to department change

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kar loge!!”. Of all the answers, I wasn’t ready for this one. He furthertold that as I had just completed my first year and had not done anydepartmental courses, so I will not be of much use to his projects.maybe he was correct. I dropped the idea of asking professors forprojects.

I did not know what to do in summers. Again, God worked inmysterious way. I got an email from Dr. Eshwaran that the Dean ofResource Planning and Generation (DRPG), Dr. Sudhir Kumar Jainis interested in starting some new project and is looking forward forsome interested students. I should meet him. Having nothing else togo for, I went to meet Jain Sir, the person who has had the mostinfluence on me in IITK.

The Alumni Solicitation Programme (ASP)My first meeting with Jain Sir was very stimulating. I went to hisroom in Civil Department, there was a smiling chap with the mostbright eyes I had seen, eyes which were glittering with energy. Hetold me about the project: that he wants to reconnect the alumni ofIITK to their alma-mater with help of students. He explained that hehas tried from his side, but the alumni would be much moreresponsive if they hear from one of them, a student. The ideaseemed great. Jain Sir’s enthusiasm was contagious. The best partwas yet to come, I was to be paid for working in summers. Whatelse could a student want! I was all in.

Jain Sir told me about other people who would be working with me: Nidhi, an immediate pass-out, Saud and two others. The two others soon dropped out. Sir told me to meet Nidhi. After the meeting, I mailed Nidhi and went to Girls’ Hostel to meet her. That is the only time I have been inside a room in GH. Nidhi explained

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whatever she knew we were to do and put forward a date to beginwork: May 5th, 2006.

Well, we started the work on the date. Together we had a meetingto get a grasp of what we were going to do and how we were goingto do it. We had to contact the alumni over phone, update themabout the happenings in the institute and request them to donatefor institute, no matter how small the amount was. As per Sir, thiswas the strength of the program, to increase the number of donorsand search for the potential big donors. I loved the idea.

We were given the conference room next to Deputy-Director’sroom, equipped with phones with STD and ISD, with computersand air-conditions. It was my first office! We started calling. InitiallyI was bit afraid to talk on phone and stammered a lot. Also, I wasnew to blatantly asking for others’ money. But soon I gainedconfidence and was able to engage with the alumni. I also toldmyself that it was for the institute that I was seeking donations fromthe people who were made by this institute.

In early morning, we called people in USA, in the evening we calledpeople from India. In the morning shifts, sometimes we broughtpakodi and chai from MT. It was difficult to get up early in themorning, but I was incharge for the same. I woke up Saud and otherboys. Sometimes when we had worked night shift and also had amorning shift the next day, we would just sleep in the conferenceroom itself. It was also a relief from the cruel hot weather!

I had all kinds of experience talking with the alumni. Some were very friendly and other were quite hostile to calling. With few alumni, I talked for 40-45 mins at a stretch. They were quite eager to

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know what is going on in the institute. Others just said that weshould never call them back. Sometimes things became frustrating,but Jain Sir was always there to cheer us up.  Once while talking toSir, I also came to know that about 15-20% of IITK alumni havesettled in US. That is a significant number for any Indian institute. Itwas great to see the alumni doing well both outside and insideIndia. I could feel a connection between them and myself. I couldfeel being an IITK-ian!

We continued our calling work till end of summer vacations. JainSir was satisfied with our progress and so were we. He told us thatIITK was getting good response from the alumni and so he wantedto expand the team and extend the Alumni Calling Programmeduring the semester too. Also, till then we were working as a groupwithout any organization. Shadab Anwer had also joined us midway and Nidhi was leaving. But then Sir decided that we shouldhave an organization, which was perfectly reasonable. Sir choseSaud as the leader of DRPG student activities. If the work done byany single person during the summer vacations would have beenthe criteria for selection of student leader, then I believe, I shouldhave been the obvious choice after Nidhi. But I guess, senioritycame in my way. Saud was one year senior to me.

Besides the monthly stipend, the cause of working for the instituteand the experience of working with Jain Sir were the prime reasonsfor me to continue with the team for another year. Later if anytime Iwas asked that what is one thing which has made you proud? Myanswer was simple, working with DRPG to bring donations for myinstitute. I learned so much from the work and Jain Sir.

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IITK: Second Year

2009/5/30

DRPG WorkThe plan to extend the Alumni Solicitation Program beyondsummer vacation by expanding the team required selection of newstudents. Sir called for an interview for the same. Sitting on theother side of interview table was a totally different experience. Wewere basically judging whether people were sincere enough towork. Personally, I have never understood interviews even aftertaking many others for job now.

Well, finally our new team was about 40 students strong. Shadaband I were some sort of Assistant Coordinators. We trained thestudents on how to talk to the alumni. I even prepared a CallingManual for students inspired by CalTech’s calling manual. It helpedstudents to handle various situations when they called the alumni.

Things seemed fine at the beginning, but soon the real side emerged. We had increased the strength, but were faced with the problems of absenteeism and loss of morale. Sir tried to implement some things like keeping a fridge with drinks and chips for the students in the conference room. But the problem was not there. Actually the work itself sometimes became boring. During the summer vacation, we were to keep our morale up as we were a good team and blended together well. But as things become institutionalized, the personal touch vanished. We worked because it was our work. Now people worked because it provided money. Very few students actually liked the work of talking to alumni. This was the drawback of having a big team. Well… so people came and

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went, attrition rate remained high.

I was made the coordinator for Winter Term that year for a monthas Saud was not in campus and Shadab was busy with with hisOpportunity College. It was then Mr. Sutwala, a Kanpurbusinessman, came and talked with our team. His talk motivatedstudents to actually extract an amount of donation pledge fromalumni. Combined with that, I guess, my effort to give team leadersmore freedom gave good results in just one month. For me, I was asuccessful coordinator.

Fourth semester started and a fresh set of students also joined theprogram as attrition rate remained high. Besides other reasons forit, the methods of management of teams being followed by Jain Sirand Saud were also quite opposite. While Jain Sir tried to empowereveryone who worked with him, Saud on the other hand was moreinterested in centralizing everything under him. Both approacheshave their merit. But I believe that the approach of centralizationmight not be suited for people who can think independently. Itdefinitely didn’t suit me. In some months, my enthusiasm to workalso waned. Jain Sir perhaps sensed that and so asked me to headanother effort called Alumni Finder. I tinkered here and there inAlumni Finder program, but success rate was not satisfactory. Myenthusiasm level was very low but somehow I completed thesemester.

Well, besides the work, the people in the DRPG office became good acquaintances of mine. Shakeel Sir was very helpful to us in many ways. Sometimes he even invited us for a party at his house. Besides him, Ms. Sumedha Tagare, Sunita Ma’am, Sandhya Ma’am, Neha, Latha, Bapat ji, Bhola ji and Saini ji helped us a lot

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in our work.

PAN-IIT Mumbai ‘06: The feeling of belonging to one big IIT family cannot be cherishedanywhere more than the PAN-IIT meets. PAN-IIT is held every yearalternately in US and India. In December’06, it was India’s turn.And it was my turn to be a part of it.

Shadab and me were to represent IITK at IITK stall in PAN-IIT,where the alumni of IITK would be visiting in large numbers. Wehad to do all the preparations for the same. It was the same time Iwas the coordinator of Alumni Solicitation Program and Shadab leftfor some work in his home. I was under a heavy work load in thewinter vacations. I went to many departments asking for variousposters and display materials, coordinating with Sunita ma’am toget the posters made, roaming around the campus to meetprofessors to get the latest updates on their projects and what not!Shakeel Sir helped me a lot in this endeavour. After much of workdone at last minute, we left for Mumbai one institute’s expense.

In Mumbai, we set up the IITK stall with lot of help and ideas from Mainak, Riddhi and Ameya, all of them extremely cheeful fellows from M.Des. Program of IITK. Finally our stall looked beautiful and alumni started visiting it. Our work was also to be there at the stall explaining about the upcoming activities in campus to the alumni, ask them to update their contact details and then gift them some souvenirs from IITK. It was interesting to talk to a lot of alumni. Sometimes we even asked for donations. Jain Sir at his best even announced that IITK T-Shirts, which were originally priced around 150-300 rupees would be given free to any person who donates even a small amount of Rs. 100. It was a great marketing strategy.

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Only a very miserly would give Rs. 100 for a T-Shirt of more value,on the other hand, it also showed the seriousness on the part of IITKfor attracting alumni to donate. The plan worked well!

During the day, we used to work at the stall, attend seminars ofluminaries like the then President Dr. A. P. J. Abul Kalam andShashi Tharoor, talk to alumni about their experiences, have greatfood and watch other stalls. During the evening also, life was fun aswe roamed around Mumbai in our cab. We went to beaches andstrolled there. A beach is beautiful even at night time. You cannotsee the waves, but hear their roaring and splashing on the shores. 

Shadab is great with people… he has always been. He got to knowmany alumni. I on the other hand, am not very comfortablespeaking to people. It is an art, either you know it or you don’t. Itwas there that I took my this weakness rather too seriously. I startedthinking that if Shadab can do it, why can’t I. I forgot that everyonehas his own capabilities, his own charm and his own personality.

Well… in so much realizations and merry making, one incidentcertainly stands out: my first flight, that too totally unexpected! Mr.Rakesh Pandey, an IITK alumnus and now in BOSE Corporation,USA, came to IITK stall and Shadab and me had a good chat withhim. He asked us to attend his session in IITK on December 27th,2006. But there was no way we could attend that as we werereaching with train on December 28th. And what did he do? Hesaid to us to book flight tickets from Mumbai to Delhi! It was justtotally unexpected. We thanked him and booked tickets throughShakeel Sir’s credit card. We were to fly back.

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First flight is totally a different experience. You sit there anxiously,just then the engine starts in full speed. Before you can know whatshappening, you are in air! Sometimes the aeroplane vibrated due tothe passing clouds; that sent a chill down the spine. We thankedGod on reaching safely to Delhi. There Shadab and me stayed withBrahma Dutt Awasthi, a 2004 passout with his own company:Whirlybird. He took us to stay with his friends during the night andwe came back to Kanpur without tickets in Shatabdi Express!

And we did attend the lecture of Mr. Rakesh Pandey!

Standing for Senator: Nominations were called for the senate. I don’t know what struckme, but I thought that I should also see for myself how this politicsfunctions. I applied for the post of Senator of Y5 batch. 5 senatorsare chosen from each batch of undergraduate students.

Well, even before the polling, I got a taste of loads of politics. Threestudents stood from Hall 2 and we expected that 3 would alsocontest from Hall 3, thereby one will lose and 5 would becomesenators. Now to ensure win of all Hall 2 candidates, we three gottogether and started dividing the blocks and wings of Hall 2, as inwhich wing should vote in whose favour. It was blatantcompromise strategy. I guess that is what politics is all about.

Well, on the last day of filing the nominations, we came to knowthat no one had filed nomination from Hall 3, so 2 more studentsapplied for the post of Senator from Hall 2, and we wonuncontested. It would have been more exciting if actual voting hadtaken place, though it would have taken a lot of time forcampaigning.

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Business Club interview:After being far away from Business Club activities, I saw thenominations being called our for the coordinators of the club. Ithought that since I have been not involved in the activities now, somaybe my chances stood slim. But one day during a class, Nikhilsat with me and asked if I was interested in coordinatorship. Idefinitely was. It was the club which gave me my interest and alsohad great potential for improvement. I made up my mind to give ita shot.

Even for the application, I prepared hard, writing a document aboutwhat I propose to do if I became the coordinator. I remember giving5 hard hours to prepare the application. The application wassubmitted and the day of interview came.

While I was waiting outside the conference room of Students’Activity Centre (SAC) for my turn, I met Chirag Mittal, theconvenor-elect of students’ senate. He inquired the purpose ofpresence there, and wished me good luck on knowing it. I was a bitshocked to see Siddharth for the interview as Nikhil had told thatSiddharth would not be applying. Well, it was good to have somecompetition.

My interview went fine. I believe that I satisfied the interviewers.But still, with good competition ahead, I couldn’t be sure. Till lastyear, there had been a tradition of one UG coordinator and oneMBA coordinator in Business Club.

2-3 days after the interview, while returning from a class, I ran into Chirag. He asked me about the result. I told that it was still not out, but there could be stiff competition between Siddharth and me. But

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God worked in a mysterious way here too. Chirag said, that if bothare good, why shouldn’t both be made coordinators from UG side!After few days, I got an email declaring that we both had beenmade the coordinators.

The Chance of intern:Anish Sir called a group meeting of PM Lab students. A groupmeeting was called nearly twice every semester. Shobhit KrishnaMisra and I met Shivam before Sir came. Shivam told that there wassomething special for us. We might get a chance for internship inKorea or Japan. Soon Anish Sir came, and his question was verystraightforward, “”Asif, do you want to go to Korea or Japan forintern?. Hesitantly I chose Japan. Then Sir asked if I had a passport.Thankfully, I did had it from class 11th as I might have got a chanceto go for Singapore Airlines Scholarship, but did not. Before I knewit, Sir had sent an email to Dr. Alok Singh of National Institute forMaterials Science (NIMS), Japan. And Alok Sir applied for myinternship to NIMS on my behalf. Once again, God was working inmysterious way!

There was a long period of waiting and one day when I was inComputer Centre, I get a mail from Alok Sir that I had been selectedfor the internship. My happiness knew no bounds! Some of mywingmates were in CC itself, so I told them knowing little what theconsequences might be. Unexpectedly, I was GPLed in the CC itself!After a good bashing, I had to treat them in CC Canteen.

Japan: I reached Narita Airport on May 24th or 25th, 2007 and it just struck me. The place was so clean, the weather was so good. I had to walk and walk before I could come out of airport. Infact not so much

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walk, as there were horizontal escalators, which did the walking!Welcome to the land of technology, also know as the land of risingsun, Japan!

I approached two people to ask for bus to Tsukuba, both smilepleasantly, but made some signs, thereby conveying that they donot know English. I could see what I to undergo for next 2 months!Well, coming outside the airport, I saw some buses, so I aksed aperson who seemed to be bus conductor about the bus to Tsukuba.He also didn’t understand English, but knew Tsukuba and said“one hour” and took me to the bus stand from where the bus wouldbe departing. I sat there with my luggage. It was there I met Arif, anIndonesian citizen, doing postgraduate at Tsukuba University. Heknew bit of English, so we talked our way till Tsukuba Bus Stop.There we said good-bye, but we soon met once again at Tsukubamosque for Friday prayer.

From Bus Stop, I called Alok Sir and then waited at the tower hetold me to wait. He was there in his car. He then took me to arestaurant. I was really happy to see his considerate nature. We hadsome pizzas. I told sir regarding me eating only vegetarian pizzasas per the Halal/haram concept. After the lunch, we went to myhostel, Ninomiya House and did the formalities. Then later thatday, I had my dinner at Kallol’s place in the same hostel. It was niceto meet some Indians on the very first day of arrival.

During that trip, I wrote some blogs, their links are given below:http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/05/my-arrival-in-japan.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/05/my-arrival-in-japan.html)

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http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/05/language-problem-anyone.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/05/language-problem-anyone.html)

http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/05/my-office-number.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/05/my-office-number.html)

http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/slight-earthquake.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/slight-earthquake.html)

http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/my-first-salary-from-nims.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/my-first-salary-from-nims.html)

http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/first-experiment-boom.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/first-experiment-boom.html)

http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/evening-with-indians.html(http://itsmaklife.blogspot.com/2007/06/evening-with-indians.html)

During my internship, I met with many people. Dr. Rajakumar, afaculty from IIT-M and my companion to Tokyo, Shohael,Laxmidhar Besra, Raja, Anirban, Nikhil, _____ and Tanya. But fewpeople really became very close like Kallol, Ajay and Laurie. Kalloland Ajay stayed in the same hostel. We made food together manytimes. Kallol’s family was living with him. I found his smalldaughter very cute. Bhabhi was also very considerate. Ajay wasliving alone. One day Ajay and me went to Ushiku-Daibutsu, thetall statue of Buddha, with a lift inside it. It was there that we lostthe last return bus and then finally got a taxi to return back fromCanon office. I really had some of my best time with Kallol andAjay. Sometimes we also visited to some Indian restaurants. AnIndian Get-together

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Laurie was from USA. We met on the day of Orientation (June 19th,2007) for new people in NIMS. She seemed to be only intern ofaround my age to NIMS. Most people there were post-docs. SoLaurie and me soon became friends. We went hiking to MountTsukuba and later cycled to Tschuchira City and enjoyed boating.

On the work front, initially, I did not had any idea what was to bedone. Dr. Toshi-ji Mukai, my guide along with Alok Sir stumpedme in our first meeting. But I guess Japanese don’t shy away fromgiving people other chances. Later, with help of Zhang-san andSomekawa-san, I was able to do decent amount of work. Beforecoming back, I also had my presentation in front of LighweightAlloys Group, Structural Metal Centre, NIMS. (Well, that is thename of my research group!). Mukai-san asked me if I had anygoals from my project. With honestly, I replied in negative. I saidthat it was a very good learning experience. Mukai-san seemedsatisfied with me. He said that I could come to NIMS anytime, be itPhD or beyond. Alok Sir also said that he was happy with me. Mygroup gave me a farewell in a traditional Japanese restaurant. I doadmit I did not like all the Japanese food, still I had to say that Iliked it! But I really appreciate the affection and help of my group. Itwas really a trip of a lifetime!