IS MADE OF MANY THINGS THAT ADD UP.. GOOD THINGS BAD THINGS BAD THINGS and.
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ATTITUDEIS MADE OF MANY THINGS THAT ADD
UP.
GOOD THINGS
BAD THINGS and
WHICH INFLUENCES US MORE?
MORE BAD THINGS =
A BAD ATTITUDE
THE WORLD OWES ME A LIVING
I HAVE TO FIGHT YOU TO KEEP YOU FROM HURTING ME.
AND, MORE GOOD THINGS =
A GOOD ATTITUDE
PLEASANT
PEACEMAKER
HELPER OF OTHERS
KIND TO OTHERS
I WILL SUCCEED
SERVANT OF OTHERS
SECURE
WHAT LIES BENEATH OUR AWARENESS TO CREATE
LIKE…
THINGS WE CARRY AROUND WITH US
ANGER
POOR ME
SADNESS
HATEFULNESS
WORRY
SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS
BUT WHERE DID ALL
OF THOSE TRAITS
COME FROM?
HOW CAN I KEEP
THE GOOD ONES
AND GET RID OF
THE BAD ONES?
LET’S GO BACK AND SEE
WHERE THEY CAME FROM.
WHERE DOES ANGER COME FROM?
IT MIGHT COME FROM: FRUSTRATION
BEING TOLD YOU WERE STUPID, OR THINKING IT
BEING AFRAID
OR PERHAPS BEING ATTACKED
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH FRUSTRATION?
ASK FOR HELP.
REDEFINE WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DO. FOR EXAMPLE:
FIX UP OLD HOUSE, RATHER THAN BUY A NEW
HOUSE.
TRY TO FIGURE OUT A NEW APPROACH TO THE OLD PROBLEM
HOW DO I DEAL WITH BEING TOLD I AM STUPID?
BELIEVE IT
CHOOSE TO NOT BELIEVE IT.
OR
YOUR CHOICE.
NOTE TO SELF:PERHAPS I SHOULD
NEVER TELL ANYONE ELSE THEY ARE STUPID.
DID YOU KNOW THAT
ALBERT EINSTIEN’S TEACHERS
SAID HE WAS STUPID?
HOW DO I DEAL WITH FEAR?
ASK, “WHY AM I AFRAID?”
“THEY LAUGHED AT ME WHEN I MADE A MISTAKE IN FRONT OF THE CLASS .”
“I SAW A SCARY MOVIE ABOUT SPIDERS.”
TALK ABOUT IT WITH OTHERS WHO HAVE OVERCOME SIMILAR
FEARS .
FACE IT HEAD-ON.
AND THEN THERE IS THE
FEELING YOU HAVE BEEN ATTACKED
HOW TO HANDLE IT?
REALIZE THAT MOST PEOPLE WHO ATTACK OTHERS
ARE DOING SO OUT OF THEIR OWN WEAKNESSES
AS FOR ALL OF THE OTHER UNDERLYING EMOTIONS WE CARRY AROUND WITH US:
EVERYONE DEALS WITH ONE OR SOME OF THESE
FROM TIME TO TIME
BUT YOU CAN CHOOSE
HOW TO HANDLE IT
BY REACTING
(BE A VICTIM)
OR BY
USING THE SITUATION TO MAKE YOU A
STRONGER PERSON.
FACE IT
OVERCOME IT
CHOOSE TO
AND
NO KNEE-JERK REACTIONS, PLEASE.
AND REVENGE IS NOT THE ANSWER.
DO NOT HOLD A GRUDGE
NOR PLAY THE VICTIM
LEARN FROM YOUR BAD EXPERIENCES
HOW TO TREAT OTHERS BETTER
THAN YOU WERE TREATED
AND EXPECT THE BEST FROM THEM.
LOOK FOR THE WORTH IN OTHERS, ESPECIALLY YOUR
CHILDREN.
TEACH THEM BY YOUR EXAMPLE.
GIVE THEM GUIDELINES, VALUES, AND BOUNDRIES
TO GUIDE THEM ON THE ROAD OF LIFE.
YOU MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO FORGET PAST HURTS
BUT YOU CAN
CHOOSE TO CUT THEM LOOSE
SO YOU CAN BE FREE
TO ENJOY LIFE
AND HAVE CONFIDENCE
TO BE OUTGOING
TO TRY HARDER
TO BE LOVING
AND STRONG
TO PROTECT OTHERS
AND TO KEEP TRYING
FOR A GOOD ATTITUDE!