Interpersonal skills & the Common sense handbook

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This covers the basics of interpersonal skills, & the common sense handbook training, with special content geared towards the training of Guest Relationship Officers at Expo Pakistan 2012.

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Hi!I’m Faizan Laghari

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I’m a tech-entrepreneur,designer & a consultant

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Whatare we here for?

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The Meet & GreetGestures

Body languageRepresenting Pakistan

The Do’s & Don’ts

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What’sat stake?

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The

Meet & Greet

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Be Punctual (duh!)Pronunciation of names,

translatorsNo 1st namesLook the part

Know what you need to do

The Meet & Greet

The Checklist

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Most Crucial Moment Introduce Yourself!

SMILE! A bow, a firm handshake

Ask them about their flight Guide them throughout

The Meet & Greet

The Airport Welcome

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Introductions Ask about their commute

Assist throughout Schedule & what’s nextLet them know you’re

there to assist

The Meet & Greet

The Hotel Welcome

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Touch base with them Guide / Assist at venue

Punctuality! Introductions at meetings

Don’t rush things!

The Meet & Greet

The Venue & Meetings

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GesturesTalking distance

& Body Language

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Hands & Handshakes Range of motion

Pointing/Getting attention Over emphasizing

Pay attention

Gestures, Talking distance & Body Language

Gestures

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Too close is TOO close! Tone of your voice

Personal space Touching / Reaching

Gestures, Talking distance & Body Language

Talking distance

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Posture: Hero to Villain Listening and hearing

Folding arms Fidgeting

The Face, not the screen!

Gestures, Talking distance & Body Language

Body Language

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ConversationalTopics &

Do’s & Don’ts

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Religion Politics

Personal Relationships Money

Conversational Topics & Do’s and Don’ts

Topics to Avoid

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Don’t linger on it Smile, “Why do you ask?”

Humor helps

Conversational Topics & Do’s and Don’ts

Handling a situation

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“How much money do you make?” “No children? Why?”

“How come you’re single?”

Conversational Topics & Do’s and Don’ts

Inappropriate questions

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Representing

Pakistan

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Be Positive! Don’t Criticize!

Share theGOOD side of things!Try not to compare

Representing Pakistan

Love your country!

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Terrorism Religious beliefsCurrent situationsReceiving criticism

Don’t argue

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Handling situations with Poise

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Demeanor& Poise

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Don’t stand with yourfeet wide apart

Where to put your handsStand tall & easy

Don’t lean against a wall

Demeanor & Poise

The basic stance

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Don’t sit with the sole ofyour foot towards someone

Avoid shaking your leg/footAvoid crossing your legs

Demeanor & Poise

When you’re sitting

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Don’t be impatient orat least avoid showing it! Don’t let your attention

wander.Be charming throughout

Demeanor & Poise

Generally

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The BasicDo’s & Don’ts

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Don’t chew gum! SMS can wait

Don’t Shout or CurseYawn / Sneeze / Cough

Avoid wolf-packsDon’t overcommit

Don’t give up!

The Basic Do’s & Don’ts

Don’ts

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Do be prepared Remain hydratedSleep is important

Enjoy the experience Give it your best!

The Basic Do’s & Don’ts

Do’s

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Thank you!and best of luck!

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